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Ex-rugby player Tom Garratt shrugs off video of him jerking off friend: ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’


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by Anonymousreply 89February 10, 2024 3:15 PM


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by Anonymousreply 1February 8, 2024 11:58 PM

Anyone have link to video?

by Anonymousreply 2February 8, 2024 11:59 PM

R2, see r1.

by Anonymousreply 3February 9, 2024 12:01 AM

I laughed. It's all so hot and funny. I guess if he regularly sleeps with women, it "doesn't make him gay" - as in a "full time" gay man. But still, it's not something a large percentage of avowed straight guys do. I like the "whatever" reaction.

by Anonymousreply 4February 9, 2024 12:03 AM

Meh the video isn't that exciting. But kudos to him.

by Anonymousreply 5February 9, 2024 12:04 AM

Wish it were more lustful. It was pretty jokey. I guess that's why he shrugs it off.

by Anonymousreply 6February 9, 2024 12:05 AM

Gosh, why can't gay media outlets stop endorsing this "I kiss guys/I touch other guy's dick/I fuck other guys... but I'm not gay" assholes? Sick of them. JUST COME OUT!!

by Anonymousreply 7February 9, 2024 12:07 AM

[quote] ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’

Doesn't mean you're not, either.

by Anonymousreply 8February 9, 2024 12:08 AM


Two straight men having a laugh

by Anonymousreply 9February 9, 2024 12:11 AM

He’s one small step from coming out to himself. That step sure can take a long time, though, and it leaves a whole lotta denial in its wake.

by Anonymousreply 10February 9, 2024 12:12 AM

Tom is NOT GAY but I am.

by Anonymousreply 11February 9, 2024 12:12 AM

It doesn't make him Madonna, either.

by Anonymousreply 12February 9, 2024 12:12 AM

It's a silly video of horseplay, not sex. I suspect he was fine with doing it in front of a whole bunch of bros, but wouldn't care to do it in private, where it could only be sexual and not playing around. I'm sick of the whole gay-bi-straight-but-has-sex-with-guys thing. He was 21 or 22 at the time, probably had more than few beers in him, and it looked like the whole thing was in response to a dare. Everyone should grow the fuck up. His present-day response is fine by me. As he says, it doesn't matter who he sleeps with.

by Anonymousreply 13February 9, 2024 12:13 AM

All the usual Fraus will jump to this closet case's defense but he still won't fuck you.😂

by Anonymousreply 14February 9, 2024 12:14 AM

I feel worse for the other guy. I mean, now everyone's seen him naked, and he can't even get hard!

by Anonymousreply 15February 9, 2024 12:17 AM

R3 I wrote my comment before R1 was posted. I read the article and was disappointed it wasn't in there.

by Anonymousreply 16February 9, 2024 12:20 AM

Love his attitude about it. That is a well-adjusted dude, having a well-adjusted reaction.

More men should be like him. He's a fucking RUGBY player. They ALL seem to engage in this kind of horseplay. It's not even sexual. It's fun and funny. No hang-ups.

by Anonymousreply 17February 9, 2024 12:21 AM

Gateway to homosexuality

by Anonymousreply 18February 9, 2024 12:22 AM

I masturbate my female friends all the time. I just stick my fingers right up in there and plow away. It doesn’t mean I’m straight. It’s just horseplay!

by Anonymousreply 19February 9, 2024 12:26 AM

I liked his response. The full response in the article, not the highlighted excerpt. I know more than a few straight men and not so straight men the same and much more and it doesn't always mean what outward appearances suggest to some. .

by Anonymousreply 20February 9, 2024 12:35 AM

That's it?


by Anonymousreply 21February 9, 2024 12:36 AM

Cutting down one tree doesn’t make you a lumberjack.

On the other hand, you either suck dick or you DON’T suck dick.

by Anonymousreply 22February 9, 2024 12:36 AM

Horseplay? Hardly. Hamsterplay.

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by Anonymousreply 23February 9, 2024 12:38 AM

They ain't kissing they ain't queers!

by Anonymousreply 24February 9, 2024 12:39 AM

Datalounge would have zero interest if he was fat

by Anonymousreply 25February 9, 2024 12:41 AM

It’s not gay if the balks don’t touch.

by Anonymousreply 26February 9, 2024 12:52 AM


by Anonymousreply 27February 9, 2024 12:52 AM

[quote]I mean, now everyone's seen him naked, and he can't even get hard!

They would say if he got hard, he would be gay. Now, it'd just horseplay.

by Anonymousreply 28February 9, 2024 1:10 AM

Is this next level gay chicken? I'm gonna jerk you off but if you get hard then *you're* gay haha

by Anonymousreply 29February 9, 2024 1:12 AM

That's it


by Anonymousreply 30February 9, 2024 1:14 AM

Takes balls to shrug it off.

by Anonymousreply 31February 9, 2024 1:17 AM

R7, you’re retarded.

by Anonymousreply 32February 9, 2024 1:33 AM

This is typical English, laddish behavior. They have a few beers, drop trou, and act in homoerotic fashion. It's common in rugby (union and league).

They're two guys "performing" before the lads.

Garratt would be gay if a video emerges of him, as another poster wrote, jerking off another guy in the privacy of a bedroom.

Not gay.

by Anonymousreply 33February 9, 2024 1:42 AM

So many musical theatre fairies on here, who never hung out with straight men growing up or in college. This is just drunken joking around..

by Anonymousreply 34February 9, 2024 1:53 AM

[quote]This is typical English, laddish behavior.

Like the soggy biscuit game?

by Anonymousreply 35February 9, 2024 1:56 AM

Englishmen and homosexuals. Difference without distinction.

by Anonymousreply 36February 9, 2024 1:59 AM

He’s a good looking guy

by Anonymousreply 37February 9, 2024 2:07 AM

His closet must be deep and dark.

by Anonymousreply 38February 9, 2024 2:08 AM

Hetero? I dent think so!

by Anonymousreply 39February 9, 2024 2:13 AM

I'm sorry, you can't "No Homo" your way out of having given a handjob, maybe if he'd been one getting a handjob there'd be plausible deniability.

by Anonymousreply 40February 9, 2024 2:14 AM

It's okay so long as you don't swallow.

by Anonymousreply 41February 9, 2024 2:19 AM

Harvey Dent.

by Anonymousreply 42February 9, 2024 2:20 AM

We laughing it don't be gay.

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by Anonymousreply 43February 9, 2024 2:23 AM

Fun video! They’re both cute.

by Anonymousreply 44February 9, 2024 2:34 AM

Yeah, okay. He's a little bit gay. Or a lot.

by Anonymousreply 45February 9, 2024 3:09 AM

It's like a Dick Dorm video.

by Anonymousreply 46February 9, 2024 3:12 AM

Who the hell wants a HAND JOB?. Blow me or get the hell outta my house.

by Anonymousreply 47February 9, 2024 3:18 AM

Brit guys are always doing something gay for a laugh. They’ll out a dick in their mouth or get pissed on for the lols.

by Anonymousreply 48February 9, 2024 3:40 AM

The guy he was jerking off is cute. He's lucky and he dont even know it

by Anonymousreply 49February 9, 2024 3:49 AM

[quote]Like the soggy biscuit game?

Is that the same as an ookie cookie R35?

by Anonymousreply 50February 9, 2024 5:07 AM

It ws a brojob.

by Anonymousreply 51February 9, 2024 5:13 AM

All of these big dick deviants is all catching hell in 2024!

by Anonymousreply 52February 9, 2024 8:13 AM

The guy looks uncut, unfortunately.

by Anonymousreply 53February 9, 2024 8:17 AM

Kill yourself r53

by Anonymousreply 54February 9, 2024 8:24 AM

[quote] ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’

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by Anonymousreply 55February 9, 2024 8:26 AM

The poor guy he’s jerking off looks so unhappy and like he’s being molested.

by Anonymousreply 56February 9, 2024 8:54 AM

So many "straight" guys are so often gayish

by Anonymousreply 57February 9, 2024 8:56 AM

Bah, much ado about NOTHING. In the video @R1 he's clearly joking around and trying to shock his friends. This is clearly something irrelevant and a case of drunk lads being drunk - I mean, what he was doing is the least erotic thing ever. Let's ignore it.

by Anonymousreply 58February 9, 2024 8:57 AM

R56 - I think you're projecting because the guy doesn't look the least bit unhappy and doesn't even pull away from the guy jerking him off.

by Anonymousreply 59February 9, 2024 9:01 AM

The full quote from the article at OP's link is:

“I stand by the fact it’s funny. It doesn’t mean I’m bi, it doesn’t mean I’m gay… Well, maybe it does. And if I am, I am! All right?”

by Anonymousreply 60February 9, 2024 9:30 AM

All straight men masturbate each other all of the time!

I don't know what you all are on about?

by Anonymousreply 61February 9, 2024 11:20 AM

He's cute. The video was boring though.

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by Anonymousreply 63February 9, 2024 12:27 PM

R35 and R50...

No, it's a McVitie's protein-packed digestive!

by Anonymousreply 64February 9, 2024 12:28 PM

That's gayer than getting your dick sucked.

by Anonymousreply 65February 9, 2024 12:39 PM

Ruggers love doing things like this

by Anonymousreply 66February 9, 2024 12:45 PM

The recipient is not terribly impressive. And clearly not all that excited by the prospect of this hot young stud giving him a handjob. To me it looks like one of those latent pranks frat boys do to explore sexuality from a safe place of deniability. Meh. You do you.

by Anonymousreply 67February 9, 2024 12:52 PM

It’s only gay if butts are involved.

by Anonymousreply 68February 9, 2024 12:59 PM

His reaction addressing reactions is giving me so much life right now!

This is the best thing I've seen!

by Anonymousreply 69February 9, 2024 1:05 PM

Agree with R33.

by Anonymousreply 70February 9, 2024 1:08 PM

I've never wanked off a friend in this way and I'm gay.

I feel left out now. Do all the straight guys do this, then?

by Anonymousreply 71February 9, 2024 1:26 PM


by Anonymousreply 72February 9, 2024 1:39 PM

[quote] I've never wanked off a friend in this way and I'm gay.

Straight guys only want to wank each other off so that it’s not gay.

by Anonymousreply 73February 9, 2024 2:00 PM

Does this dick in my mouth make me look gay?

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by Anonymousreply 74February 9, 2024 6:29 PM

This can be the "str8" guys doing "gay" things thread

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by Anonymousreply 75February 9, 2024 6:43 PM

R40, the other guy isn't even hard... it barely counts as a handjob.

by Anonymousreply 76February 9, 2024 6:51 PM

Men are the biggest bullshiters on Earth.

by Anonymousreply 77February 9, 2024 6:51 PM

[quote] ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’

No, but your Instagram posts scream CLOSETED GAY all over.

by Anonymousreply 78February 9, 2024 6:54 PM


by Anonymousreply 79February 9, 2024 7:52 PM

The guy in the background looks a little bit ... turgid.

by Anonymousreply 80February 9, 2024 8:03 PM

Just bros being bros. #nohomo

by Anonymousreply 81February 9, 2024 10:42 PM

My daughter told me it’s not gay if the other guy isn’t hard.

by Anonymousreply 82February 9, 2024 10:44 PM

Also, it's not gay if YOU'RE not hard!

by Anonymousreply 83February 10, 2024 2:09 AM

R75 - The weird thing is that they're all biological brothers, but don't know it.

by Anonymousreply 84February 10, 2024 2:23 PM

That was a very half-hearted tug. Should have got down and sucked. He has beautiful eyes

by Anonymousreply 85February 10, 2024 2:35 PM

He'd rather tongue-punch his fartbox.

by Anonymousreply 86February 10, 2024 2:51 PM

Jokey horseplay but should not be discouraged.

by Anonymousreply 87February 10, 2024 3:09 PM

Pity Tom didn't get his out too

by Anonymousreply 88February 10, 2024 3:10 PM

Great response! Good for him.

by Anonymousreply 89February 10, 2024 3:15 PM
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