Ex-rugby player Tom Garratt shrugs off video of him jerking off friend: ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’

Video.

Anyone have link to video?

R2, see r1.

I laughed. It's all so hot and funny. I guess if he regularly sleeps with women, it "doesn't make him gay" - as in a "full time" gay man. But still, it's not something a large percentage of avowed straight guys do. I like the "whatever" reaction.

Meh the video isn't that exciting. But kudos to him.

Wish it were more lustful. It was pretty jokey. I guess that's why he shrugs it off.

Gosh, why can't gay media outlets stop endorsing this "I kiss guys/I touch other guy's dick/I fuck other guys... but I'm not gay" assholes? Sick of them. JUST COME OUT!!

[quote] ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’

Doesn't mean you're not, either.

Whatever

Two straight men having a laugh

He’s one small step from coming out to himself. That step sure can take a long time, though, and it leaves a whole lotta denial in its wake.

Tom is NOT GAY but I am.

It doesn't make him Madonna, either.

It's a silly video of horseplay, not sex. I suspect he was fine with doing it in front of a whole bunch of bros, but wouldn't care to do it in private, where it could only be sexual and not playing around. I'm sick of the whole gay-bi-straight-but-has-sex-with-guys thing. He was 21 or 22 at the time, probably had more than few beers in him, and it looked like the whole thing was in response to a dare. Everyone should grow the fuck up. His present-day response is fine by me. As he says, it doesn't matter who he sleeps with.

All the usual Fraus will jump to this closet case's defense but he still won't fuck you.😂

I feel worse for the other guy. I mean, now everyone's seen him naked, and he can't even get hard!

R3 I wrote my comment before R1 was posted. I read the article and was disappointed it wasn't in there.

Love his attitude about it. That is a well-adjusted dude, having a well-adjusted reaction.

More men should be like him. He's a fucking RUGBY player. They ALL seem to engage in this kind of horseplay. It's not even sexual. It's fun and funny. No hang-ups.

Gateway to homosexuality

I masturbate my female friends all the time. I just stick my fingers right up in there and plow away. It doesn’t mean I’m straight. It’s just horseplay!

I liked his response. The full response in the article, not the highlighted excerpt. I know more than a few straight men and not so straight men the same and much more and it doesn't always mean what outward appearances suggest to some. .

That's it?

Jesus...

Cutting down one tree doesn’t make you a lumberjack.

On the other hand, you either suck dick or you DON’T suck dick.

Horseplay? Hardly. Hamsterplay.

They ain't kissing they ain't queers!

Datalounge would have zero interest if he was fat

It’s not gay if the balks don’t touch.

Balls

[quote]I mean, now everyone's seen him naked, and he can't even get hard!

They would say if he got hard, he would be gay. Now, it'd just horseplay.

Is this next level gay chicken? I'm gonna jerk you off but if you get hard then *you're* gay haha

That's it

Penus...

Takes balls to shrug it off.

R7, you’re retarded.

This is typical English, laddish behavior. They have a few beers, drop trou, and act in homoerotic fashion. It's common in rugby (union and league).

They're two guys "performing" before the lads.

Garratt would be gay if a video emerges of him, as another poster wrote, jerking off another guy in the privacy of a bedroom.

Not gay.

So many musical theatre fairies on here, who never hung out with straight men growing up or in college. This is just drunken joking around..

[quote]This is typical English, laddish behavior.

Like the soggy biscuit game?

Englishmen and homosexuals. Difference without distinction.

He’s a good looking guy

His closet must be deep and dark.

Hetero? I dent think so!

I'm sorry, you can't "No Homo" your way out of having given a handjob, maybe if he'd been one getting a handjob there'd be plausible deniability.

It's okay so long as you don't swallow.

Harvey Dent.

We laughing it don't be gay.

Fun video! They’re both cute.

Yeah, okay. He's a little bit gay. Or a lot.

It's like a Dick Dorm video.

Who the hell wants a HAND JOB?. Blow me or get the hell outta my house.

Brit guys are always doing something gay for a laugh. They’ll out a dick in their mouth or get pissed on for the lols.

The guy he was jerking off is cute. He's lucky and he dont even know it

[quote]Like the soggy biscuit game?

Is that the same as an ookie cookie R35?

It ws a brojob.

All of these big dick deviants is all catching hell in 2024!

The guy looks uncut, unfortunately.

Kill yourself r53

[quote] ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’

The poor guy he’s jerking off looks so unhappy and like he’s being molested.

So many "straight" guys are so often gayish

Bah, much ado about NOTHING. In the video @R1 he's clearly joking around and trying to shock his friends. This is clearly something irrelevant and a case of drunk lads being drunk - I mean, what he was doing is the least erotic thing ever. Let's ignore it.

R56 - I think you're projecting because the guy doesn't look the least bit unhappy and doesn't even pull away from the guy jerking him off.

The full quote from the article at OP's link is:

“I stand by the fact it’s funny. It doesn’t mean I’m bi, it doesn’t mean I’m gay… Well, maybe it does. And if I am, I am! All right?”

All straight men masturbate each other all of the time!

I don't know what you all are on about?

He's cute. The video was boring though.

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R35 and R50...

No, it's a McVitie's protein-packed digestive!

That's gayer than getting your dick sucked.

Ruggers love doing things like this

The recipient is not terribly impressive. And clearly not all that excited by the prospect of this hot young stud giving him a handjob. To me it looks like one of those latent pranks frat boys do to explore sexuality from a safe place of deniability. Meh. You do you.

It’s only gay if butts are involved.

His reaction addressing reactions is giving me so much life right now!

This is the best thing I've seen!

Agree with R33.

I've never wanked off a friend in this way and I'm gay.

I feel left out now. Do all the straight guys do this, then?

FAGGOT

[quote] I've never wanked off a friend in this way and I'm gay.

Straight guys only want to wank each other off so that it’s not gay.

Does this dick in my mouth make me look gay?

This can be the "str8" guys doing "gay" things thread

R40, the other guy isn't even hard... it barely counts as a handjob.

Men are the biggest bullshiters on Earth.

[quote] ‘Doesn’t mean I’m gay’

No, but your Instagram posts scream CLOSETED GAY all over.

Dumb.

The guy in the background looks a little bit ... turgid.

Just bros being bros. #nohomo

My daughter told me it’s not gay if the other guy isn’t hard.

Also, it's not gay if YOU'RE not hard!

R75 - The weird thing is that they're all biological brothers, but don't know it.

That was a very half-hearted tug. Should have got down and sucked. He has beautiful eyes

He'd rather tongue-punch his fartbox.

Jokey horseplay but should not be discouraged.

Pity Tom didn't get his out too

Great response! Good for him.