Sexy New NFL Coach Dave Canales is a Recovering Porn Addict

The book is useless without graphic photos.

I wonder if he’s a contributor to our Share Porn Scenes That Always Get You Off threads.

A narcissistic-alcoholic-porn addicted, adulterer. What a catch! Admittedly, he is very good looking.

Gay porn or not ?

You can recover from narcissism?

R5 Only if you really focus on yourself.

Fuck, he’s hot. I wonder if he’d like to have a little JO session as we watch gang bang porn.

Wanna puke? Just watch the first 15 seconds, 15 mind you, of his video @r6.

What’s with the romantic-dreamy vibe at the opening? And that’s not his wife, that’s the interviewer! How phony and trashy. He’ll never be cured. He’ll always be an attention seeking playboy.

I’d be a narcissist too if I looked like that.

R3 Surprising this dude hasn't labeled himself yet a born-again Christian

Dude CANNOT keep his hands off his dick.

As soon as they mention porn addiction, you know they have a prayer group. Jesus saves and Dave spends his seed

He’s not recovered.

He puts the "offensive" in "offensive coordinator"

Verificatia?

There is no recovering from porn or sex addiction. Sexual fetishes are ingrained in people from a young age. They can get better, but they it will always be a constant struggle. He'll eventually cheat on his wife again, if he hasn't already.

Latin lover and masturbator.

I would love to listen to him talk about his experiences and struggles.

How can one avoid porn in today’s world?

[quote]How can one avoid porn in today’s world?

Dockers, Bass Weejuns, a plaid shirt, a porn monitoring app, an accountability partner under the age of 17, and penile restraints.

[quote] penile restraints

A tight butthole works well for that.

In the name of Jesus PM me Davey.

[quote]How can one avoid porn in today’s world?

I have my 17-year-old son and "accountability partner" to answer to!

Goddamn, he's handsome.

I'd pay to watch him masturbate to porn, on OnlyFans.

Oh you know he's not recovered. He's probably horny all time and he's fucking hot

I like horny men I just don't like the problem horny ones. It's hot to be horny but if it's all consuming it's not hot.

There's a LOT of money to be made when you're a born-again football player or coach with a sordid background who wants to talk about how God changed him.

That guy is way too hot to not be horny or have a shot to fuck male or female at all times. My ass he's recovered.

I want me some Canales in my canales!

Dave Canales has a head for business, and a bod for SIN!

He could get it.

I'd do him.

Why would he admit to being a porn addict? I see he has a ring on. I bet it was part of not losing his family was to admit to a problem.

Porn addiction, in the Christian community, explains if not excuses chronic infidelity.

It also makes it "not the man's fault," because pornography will make them do things they never would have done without it.

Not saying I believe this, but that's the rationale.

Oh honey whether it's with his wife or not or whether she knows it or not. He has way more sex than she knows or jacks off more than she knows.

R35 yep. It's also so that the wives never have to feel undesirable or unfit.

He's gorgeous.

He never defines the type of porn he was addicted to.

This guy has a kinky side - and being a narcissist - would love attention from both women AND men.

Bisexual vibe - for the adoration.

He's hot, so ALL IS FORGIVEN!

Definite bi vibe R39

He was addicted to staring at holes on his screen.

There's something hilariously ironic about a narcissist writing a book about his narcissism.

[quote] ‘This gig ain’t for me’: How Bucs’ Dave Canales found a higher calling in coaching

Tampa Bay’s new offensive coordinator, the son of a pastor, dabbled in commercial real estate and leather boot-making before realizing he belonged on the football field.

TAMPA — The sandlot football field near Carson, California, was a place where neighborhood kids, stumbling toward adulthood, would gather without parents to test their might on a makeshift gridiron. No lines were drawn on the field, but the bigger kids would let you know when you crossed one.

Dave Canales not only organized the games, he coached them.

“He’s always been a sports almanac,” said Canales’ brother Josh, the oldest of three boys and the pastor of Carson’s Mission Ebenezer Family Church, which was founded in 1959 by his paternal grandparents. “When we were kids, my dad would buy the guy books on quarterbacking, books on offensive scheme. (Dave) would just eat, sleep and dream football.

“He was the guy at the sandlot that was drawing up plays in the dirt and coaching our little brother. … One time, he organized a sandlot football game at the local park and took a clipboard with him.”

He was 12.

After graduating from Carson High and Azusa Pacific University in California, where he played receiver, Dave tried selling commercial real estate for a year and then went into the leather-boot-making business that he learned from a family friend. Wearing a suit and tie, he traveled from New York to Mexico but told his older brother, “This gig ain’t for me.”

When an opening came up to serve as head coach and offensive coordinator of the freshmen/sophomore team at his high school, Dave knew his calling.

“Tell them I’m their guy! I’m supposed to be on the field,” Dave told Josh. “I can barely sit still. I’m supposed to be running around, coaching up young men and making a difference.”

On Wednesday, Dave Canales accepted the job as the Bucs’ offensive coordinator. His energy, fueled by working for 14 years for Seahawks head coach Pete Carroll dating to his days at USC, is among the many things that Tampa Bay head coach Todd Bowles believes made Canales the perfect choice to lead his team’s offense.

Though he has never called plays above the high school level, Canales has earned this opportunity.

From coaching special teams/tight ends at El Camino College in California, to serving as assistant strength coach and a grunt drawing practice scripts at USC, to coaching receivers and quarterbacks including Russell Wilson and Geno Smith in Seattle, Canales has displayed an ability to organize, teach and inspire.

His work ethic, described by Josh as “the Mexican-American migrant farm worker mentality,” is reflected in all three brothers.

“My father (Isaac) as a child contracted polio and almost died, so my dad never had full use of his right arm,” Josh said. “He was never, ever able to play sports, but he raised three athletes. His energies took him to the academic world. He grew up in the projects, poorest barrio of Los Angeles in the ‘60s. Went to Harvard. He came back, raised us right in the area he was from. He taught us to not let anyone outwork us. My mom (Ritha) and dad taught us to reach for the stars.”

At 41, Dave is not only a first-time offensive coordinator but also co-author of a book with his wife, Lizzy, titled “This Marriage? The Question that Changed Everything.” The foreword was written by Tony Dungy, who helped Dave reprioritize his life as a Christian, husband, father and coach.

Dungy met Dave about 12-14 years ago at a Christian retreat, where they fished and talked about fellowship and faith.

“It’s (longtime NFL assistant and head coach) Leslie Frazier and a bunch of guys who feel the same way and have the same Christian values,” Dungy said “We were able to show (Dave), ‘You know what? You don’t have to give that up, and you can be successful.’ And I think that was the big thing, and he’s stayed true to his convictions, and it’s been great to watch him climb the ladder.”

Dave and Lizzy met at Azusa Pacific. She was friends with his younger brother, Coba. Lizzy spent a semester in Bolivia working for a nonprofit for her degree in global studies when they became email buddies, and the relationship blossomed.

Four children later, Dave had just become the Seahawks’ receivers coach. After a long day and a nervous brake repair on the family Suburban, he wanted to go out to celebrate becoming a position coach. Instead, he stayed home, drinking a few beers and smoking cigars. When he went to bed, he told Lizzy how excited he was about his new opportunity.

“How great is it going to be to have the players over (to) our house, to witness our marriage and family and see how we do it here?” he said, according to the book.

Lizzy’s discontent in their marriage, the demands of being a mother and an NFL coach’s wife, had left her angry and resentful about their relationship. “This marriage?” she breathed out.

They loved each other and had fun together, but she didn’t think they were living “the marriage God intended.”

“So they made a big change,” Josh said, “and he reconfigured this whole formula of what it took to be a high-level coach.”

Former USF quarterback BJ Daniels knows firsthand how much Dave pours into his players. When Daniels was claimed off waivers by the Seahawks in 2013, Dave’s “pet project” was to teach him the offensive playbook.

“We spent many hours and long nights trying to get the playbook down,” Daniels said. “From that point on, when I made the transition my last year from quarterback to receiver, he was promoted to wide receiver coach and our relationship expanded from that to where he taught me the playbook from a different perspective.”

Their bond strengthened through church fellowship, painting Dave’s back yard and moving around furniture together.

“We build a pretty good relationship,” Daniels said.

Dave is the middle of three brothers, “the meat in the sandwich,” Josh says. All were successful athletes.

Drafted out of high school, Josh played baseball at Florida and UCLA. He eventually signed with the Dodgers and played one game in Triple A but mostly kicked around as an infielder for two seasons at Vero Beach in the Florida State League before he heard a higher calling.

“God called me out of baseball,” Josh said. “I think David, too, at some point in his early 20s was trying to figure out, ‘Am I’m supposed to be doing this ministry full time or am I supposed to do coaching as ministry?’ "

Coba played football and baseball. After one season at Penn, he finished his career at Azusa Pacific and now works as associate pastor at Mission Ebenezer Family Church.

From Dave’s early days in college, former Azusa Pacific coach Pete Shinnick knew he would be successful.

“I felt he was going to be great at something people-related,” said Shinnick, now the head coach at Towson. “He really could instruct well; he talked well. He was one of those guys other players could talk to, and he could explain it and break it down. … Love that he chose coaching.”

4 kids right away? He likes to fuck period.

Since there's no mention of drugs, I'd love to introduce him to coke and have him pound my ass like a madman as a result.

Recovering narcissist? Is there an antibiotic you take?

Probably bi or at least experimented. Most guys I've known that were borderline sex addicts started having sex early. Like Jr High. One guy who was my neighbor growing up was fucking hot and started fucking since early high school told me he started messing with guys because he felt he had done everything else already and it wasn't getting more exciting with girls. I started blowing him my Sophomore year and his Senior year.

[quote]“How great is it going to be to have the players over (to) our house, to witness our marriage and family and see how we do it here?” he said, according to the book.

[quote]Their bond strengthened through church fellowship, painting Dave’s back yard and moving around furniture together.

Is this shit for real? Who actually talks like this? "Recovered Narcissist"?? 😂😂😂

This entire story needs to be made into a VERY dark comedy series à la Happiness, with at least one full-frontal per episode. Hot as he may be, this dude is terrifying. I can only imagine what his family must suffer.

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This guy is not a confirmed bisexual, R51.

He has only admitted to jerking off a lot to porn. That's it.

And it doesn't make him bisexual.

I think most posters here are making a huge LEAP from porn addict, to bisexual.

Even though nothing in his story indicates that he's bisexual. Nothing at all.

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The fact that he admitted things that he would never want anyone else to know leads me to believe he's at least gotten head from a dude

slut

With a bigger job comes a bigger ego. He will be cheating again before the end of the next season

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No way that wife's doing the kinda shit he needs to get off. He's either still taking in porn or cheating all the time.

In the Christian World "porn addiction" causes men to have homosexual encounters. Saying you have a porn addiction is tantamount to coming out -with a built-in excuse that can be prayed away.

I would be my paycheck that he has had sex -all kinds of sex - with men.

And thank god. It would be a waste if he weren't having tons of sex with men and women. Looking back on my time as the Whore of Babylon, some of my hottest long-running fuckbuddies were married bi men sex pigs. Never get too close - just meet for the sex and the tiniest of chit chat and you keep the mystery and excitement. It never gets complicated for either party and what's more, those guys cycle through desires and preferences and fetishes like clockwork. They are very inventive and keep things interesting. I got off the meat market first months of COVID because of them. I mean we were all aging but two of these married bi guys had families at home and didn't want to stop with the sex a go go with all their fuckbuddies. If you remember, we were all encouraged, in that time of medical mysteries and death scares, to limit contacts. But they were incapable of stopping. I thought it was low behavior, all around, and took the opportunity to retire my dance card, permanently.

Answered Prayers continued...

ass

[quote] No way that wife's doing the kinda shit he needs to get off. He's either still taking in porn or cheating all the time.

Exactly.

She sounds like a whiny, uptight, frigid prude bitch.

These sentences from the article at R44/R45 says it all for me:

[quote] Lizzy’s discontent in their marriage, the demands of being a mother and an NFL coach’s wife, had left her angry and resentful about their relationship. “This marriage?” she breathed out.

[quote] They loved each other and had fun together, but she didn’t think they were living “the marriage God intended.”

It is sad sad story and demonstrates that we ain't living in patriarchy coz in a patriarchy cheating would be cheered on and his male friends would have naturally told him to get a vasectomy but because there are gender role expectations put on men, he has now four children and is shamed for sleeping around. In a real patriarchy we would teach men early on to tie their tubes and avoid marriage so that they can have wild sex until they are 60. Then maybe they can think about reproducing. if at all. That would avoid a lot of heartbreak for women and it would also prevent men feeling bad about themselves for sleeping around (like nature intended it).

R65, nature intended straight men to fuck as much and as often as they can, with the the aim of producing as many offspring as they can. And I imagine a narcissist would be rather pleased at the idea of creating mini versions of themselves to project their marvellous genetics into the future.

Does his book contain detailed descriptions of his hot, narcissistic, debauched behaviour, preferably with exhaustive photographic evidence, just to fully express the horror of it all?

Who better to be a porn addict than a guy with anal in his name

[quote] ass

Flat ass.

[QUOTE] And thank god. It would be a waste if he weren't having tons of sex with men and women. Looking back on my time as the Whore of Babylon, some of my hottest long-running fuckbuddies were married bi men sex pigs. Never get too close - just meet for the sex and the tiniest of chit chat and you keep the mystery and excitement. It never gets complicated for either party and what's more, those guys cycle through desires and preferences and fetishes like clockwork. They are very inventive and keep things interesting. I got off the meat market first months of COVID because of them. I mean we were all aging but two of these married bi guys had families at home and didn't want to stop with the sex a go go with all their fuckbuddies.

The horny bi man in a nutshell.

Narcissists can't derive pleasure outside of their own ego - he'll cheat forever because he probably doesn't even enjoy sex at all, but only the ego satisfaction that a brand new sexual partner provides. It validates his appeal to women and he'll never stop needing that novel validation.

The guilt by religion must run deep. Both his parents are pastors. Imagine growing up with the denial and repression in his youth. No wonder he married young.

I wish I were his Skippy.

Not related but I didn't realize how handsome legendary NFL/College coach Jim Harbaugh was when he was younger. So stoked to have him coming to my Chargers. First great coach we've had since the Marty firing debacle.

Even if he is "straight," he's certainly seen A LOT of hard cocks over the years.

He’s Latin isn’t he? There’s an 80%-90% chance he’s bi.

Anyone that involved in stating their Christianity and principles has a lot of dirty shit in their past and even in the present that they hope Christianity can be used as a cover.

Every. Single. Time.

Then I need to hear his confession, R77.

R74 being interviewed by that Mormon Miss America…

The man is a whore.

He needs to embrace his inner slut.

I suspect he’s consistently fucking around.

From my experience most truly bi men are sex addicts. And vice versa. Sex addicts always need to push boundaries especially the men.

I suspect that he’s still a whore but only within a tight circle of people now, including male friends, to keep things under wraps since he’s developed such a high profile. He wrote that book claiming to be “reformed” when really it’s just gaining the wisdom from age and experience to be less messy.

Porn addicts usually send dick pics.

Just sayin’.

There is a family owned trucking company in Milwaukee.

One of the thirtyish sons, smoking hot, was a regular on Chaturbate for a while. He would sit in his office chair with his pants down and jerk off his ample size cock.

He would do this with easily identifiable items in camera range, so anyone could see where and who he was.

The guy must have been an exhibitionist to have been so reckless.

In the past year or so, he has ceased appearing on Chaturbate, married and fathered a child, according to his Facebook page.

Fortunately, I have saved some hot screen shots.

[quote] Canales also calls himself a “recovering narcissist.”

Is it really possible to stop being a narcissist? I've never seen this happen.

Is he pals with Josh Hawley?

Ok R84. You know what you have to do.

R84 come on. What was his name on there? And where are the screen shots?

R85 Literally never. At least not full-blown NPD.

I was a fragile child.

Don't want to pretend to be an expert here. But I was the youngest brother of 4 others. I will say that most guys I've known from my brother's friends (where I started experimenting) to my own time growing up have experimented in one form or another. By Jr high most boys my age had been exposed to sex in one form or another and wanted to have it. But I think it was mostly nature. We all messed with each other to a certain extent. We didn't all touch but there was friends you just watch porn with and kinda jack together far apart but there was definite some where touching happened. I was very confused about it through my 20s and I met enough people that admitted to the same thing and thought the same thing I did about it that I grew out of it. When you are young you are horny and just finding way to try to explore it. Most guys I messed with young are really straight but jacking off and stuff was always something you shared with friends because that what kids do. It has nothing to do with gay or straight. It's just the discovery of one's sexuality. And both boys and girls feel more comfortable getting there via people they know and trust which is where experimenting comes in. But it really doesn't mean anything. Just growing up.

Well thank you Dr. Joyce Brothers

R91 -that's nice dear. Thank you for your thoughts, but I'm not sure what that has to do with the topic.

It took R91 a long time to type that obvious fiction with one hand . . .

R91, Sir, this is a Wendy's.

r84 get back in here!

Remember in the olden days when some people used to be called nymphomaniacs. You never hear that word anymore.

By Jr high most boys my age had been exposed to by already having it in one form or another…

FIFY. —not sure what indexed place you came from. Barely a Jack off until past your teens. Yikes.

*unsexed place

Bookmark this story - then wait around 5-10 more years when the other stories come out about him.

Part of this feels like an attempt to get in front of the bad shit he did, part PR as being a Christian, and part an apology to his wife to admit publicly the shit he did so she would stay with him.

None of these are true motivators - it's manipulation.

[quote]Tampa Bay’s new offensive coordinator, the son of a pastor, dabbled in commercial real estate and leather boot-making

There’s a lot to unpack here.

Odd, he is employed by an industry where the worker's uniforms are the definition of pornography.

[quote]Sexy New NFL Coach Dave Canales is a Recovering Porn Addict

Aren't we all... continually relapsing.

I think I dated him. About 22 times.

[quote]Sir, this is a Wendy's.

She needs her medication. She’s repeating herself again.

Aluminum!

I wonder if he likes having his nutsack sucked.

I’m pretty sure he likes it six ways to Sunday. 🤫🍆

[quote] I wonder if he likes having his nutsack sucked.

[quote] I’m pretty sure he likes it six ways to Sunday. 🤫🍆

I'll bet he likes his ass eaten too.

My straight and married fuck buddy loves it, and always asks me to eat his ass.

I'm going to look for him in my SAA meetings. He probably goes to the other group though that's more religious SA.

I really can't blame him. Look at his wife. She squeezed 4 kids out of her vag and now it's loose and flabby, she probably smells like toddler vomit and is too exhausted taking care of the kids to take care of his sexual needs, and he's surrounded by sweaty, muscular jocks in a locker room. What else is a hot man supposed to do?

Betting he has a nice beer bottle length cock with a fat knob.

He probably wasted many an afternoon with a bottle of poppers and a vat of Albolene.

[quote] There’s a lot to unpack here.

I'll unzip him and unpack allllllllll of it.

She’s a bit mannish, yes?

I wonder how many times he's heard the phrase, "OMG it's huge!"?

Not as often as he's heard, "You promise you won't tell anyone?"

He could be Rob Marciano's little brother here.

Mole alert! Holy Mole-y!

You just know the wife has Hobby Lobby-purchased signs all over the house:

“Blessed”

“Live, Laugh, Love”

etc.

I'd pay good money to watch him pull his meat.

He's had a strange career trajectory. He says in the article the drinking and going out would be 'how he got ahead in his career'. Hmmm. So it DID help him?

Now that I read the article, this seems like something he was FORCED to do by his wife so that it would be out there that he's a cheater and as a warning to other women.

No way has this man changed - he just got caught. He was manipulative and a liar before - for decades. That doesn't change.

I'd love to see him NUDE

Juicy pecs . . .

Any updates on the hot slutty coach?

Still hot. Still slutty. Rumor has it his laundry is charging to remove all those "personal" stains from his underwear.

Some of them required pounding with a rock!

Question for sex addicts in any form. My straight woman friend has a hot albeit short husband who likes to jerk off but she is personally offended by that. She feels like he should only get off with her. Does this fly with most people? I've always assumed that anyone you date jerks off right?

Every single man jerks off. I’d be more worried about a guy who claimed never to have jerked off.

Doctors encourage jerking off to keep the prostate functioning properly.

^So why does someone like friend find it hurtful that her husband would need to jerk off. Is she just gullible?

she's a dumb cunt, plain and simple

yes, I echo all those who say he's still fucking around

tell me more about bi guys....I'm learning a lot.

steer clear of them?

I agree that the lie all the time. I suppose they can't even be honest about who they really are...

Guys (for the most part) get that their partner will jerk off all the time, because they do too. Women, on the other hand, tend to see it as a need for sex from someone other than her and get butt-hurt over it. It doesn't mean the guy is cheating on her.

Has Missionary Boys called? .. Canales could fill-in for the absent President Oaks.

[quote]So why does someone like friend find it hurtful that her husband would need to jerk off. Is she just gullible?

Because, R130, women are idiots and think that because a man is willing to fuck her regularly that means that's the only sex he'll EVER want ever as long as he lives.

I’m finally seeing this guy for the first time. He’s hot as advertised.

That's not the face of a man recovering from anything.

Typical of narcissists to make money from sharing all his exciting and risky behavior.

Can't wait for volume 2: "Me, Coach."

I just want to slap him silly.

KING!

"I’d be more worried about a guy who claimed never to have jerked off."

Don't worry, Everything is under control. The Lord Jesus watches over me.

“recovering narcissist.”

Poor Dave, his team is now 3-10 on the season after coming up short in another heartbreaker to the Philadelphia Eagles.

R5 You can actually. Narcissism is not the same as sociopathy , which there is no cure.

Oh, r144. Can you point us in the direction of controlled clinical research on outcomes for NPDs in treatment?

He reminds me of a randy Don Murray with no impulse control.

Net positives all over the place.

Did your Dairy Queen cone drip on your shorts or did you have a relapse?

Fake it to you make it!

Did he MAKE porn?

Still no slutty pic on this guy? We know they're out there.

Probably was jacking off to his own instagram

How many times a day?

Dave might get a win today. He’s going against the lowly Dallas Cowboys.

So much for that. Panthers getting clobbered 24-7 with one quarter left.