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I Went on a Date this Afternoon and it Went Super Well!

Hi, this afternoon I went on a great date.

We initially were going to meet for coffee, but then we changed it to coffee and a walk around the park. It was wonderful.

I am an American law student in my last year of school and he is a resident physician from India. We are about the same age. We discussed our childhoods, our careers, the partition of India, Nehru, the British Empire, and Beethoven. We even ended up talking about past relationships and what we learned about ourselves and what we do/don't want in a relationship.

We didn't want the date to end, so we went back to my apartment, which is close to the park. We then listened to music and talked some more. He had to go to a dinner, but we kissed afterwards.

I'm really looking forward to a another date. I don't have any friends to share this with so I'm posting here.

by Anonymousreply 145March 4, 2024 11:02 PM

He IS a resident physician from India!

by Anonymousreply 1January 21, 2024 2:40 AM

Sounds like fun! Why didn't you fuck like rabbits when you went back to your apartment OP? Are you gay or are you a straight female?

by Anonymousreply 2January 21, 2024 2:41 AM

Eric Porter played Count Dmitri Bronowsky in The Jewel in the Crown which is set in India.

by Anonymousreply 3January 21, 2024 2:41 AM

This isn’t your diary.

by Anonymousreply 4January 21, 2024 2:51 AM

R2 lol that is not who I am or who he is. We both want to take things slow.

by Anonymousreply 5January 21, 2024 2:51 AM

This is how I picture OP:

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by Anonymousreply 6January 21, 2024 2:56 AM

Did his Nutt juice taste like curry?

Just saying? Was he hung?

by Anonymousreply 7January 21, 2024 2:56 AM

R6 why? lol

Because I have good manners and I don't sleep with someone on the first date?

by Anonymousreply 8January 21, 2024 2:57 AM

OP is waiting until they're married R7.

by Anonymousreply 9January 21, 2024 2:57 AM

Good on ya, OP!! Sounds like a great gateway to a possible LTR, or more.

by Anonymousreply 10January 21, 2024 3:00 AM

R10 Thank you! I really hope so. I am a long term oriented person.

by Anonymousreply 11January 21, 2024 3:00 AM

Do you think you'll consider Indian food on your next date?

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by Anonymousreply 12January 21, 2024 3:03 AM

OP, the date sounds lovely. But I’m curious about the very last line of your post. You don’t have a few friends or even one friend you could share this news with? Why is that?

by Anonymousreply 13January 21, 2024 3:03 AM

R13 I moved to my city for school about two years. I just haven't built a strong enough friendships to really share with anyone.

by Anonymousreply 14January 21, 2024 3:05 AM

I used to say dream about meeting a good looking Indian doctor 👨‍⚕️

by Anonymousreply 15January 21, 2024 3:08 AM

I may be just the right shade of tipsy, OP, but that sounds really sweet. I wish you - and this potential relationship - well.

by Anonymousreply 16January 21, 2024 3:14 AM

What about your cold sore?

by Anonymousreply 17January 21, 2024 3:17 AM

R16 that you!

R17 never had one!

by Anonymousreply 18January 21, 2024 3:24 AM

Sounds great OP, I am happy for you. Don't listen to the old whores on here. They think every gay man is just like them from the 70s where you fuck first then maybe date later. They have low self respect. Their time has passed but they still live like that in their own heads. They cant comprehend it actually might be hotter sex getting to know someone a bit before actually letting it evolve naturally into that.

by Anonymousreply 19January 21, 2024 3:32 AM

Congrats, OP. I hope you have another date and it goes even better than the first.

by Anonymousreply 20January 21, 2024 3:33 AM


by Anonymousreply 21January 21, 2024 3:34 AM

OP gonna get ghosted.

by Anonymousreply 22January 21, 2024 3:34 AM

OP, there are no more rules anymore...Go for it!!

by Anonymousreply 23January 21, 2024 3:42 AM

Watch out for young Indian doctors!

by Anonymousreply 24January 21, 2024 4:04 AM

R24 what?

by Anonymousreply 25January 21, 2024 5:09 AM

Esmiss Esmoor! Esmiss Esmoor!

by Anonymousreply 26January 21, 2024 5:17 AM

Don’t you read books R25? Or at least watch the movie versions?

by Anonymousreply 27January 21, 2024 5:17 AM

Are you referring to A Passage to India?

Dr. Aziz was leaps and bounds better than Adela

by Anonymousreply 28January 21, 2024 5:36 PM

That sounds like a great time, OP!

by Anonymousreply 29January 21, 2024 5:37 PM

Not just went well, but SUPER well.

Have fun on the next SUPER date!

by Anonymousreply 30January 21, 2024 5:41 PM

"He had to go to a dinner, but we kissed afterwards."

I don't understand the timing. He left your apartment, went to a dinner. And then somehow you met again and kissed. But just kissed.

by Anonymousreply 31January 21, 2024 5:47 PM

Bad idea to go back to your apartment and just kiss. Now he's wondering why didn't fuck him. It's over.

by Anonymousreply 32January 21, 2024 5:49 PM

r30 you tried

by Anonymousreply 33January 21, 2024 5:51 PM

I love this, OP, and DL could use a little romance.

by Anonymousreply 34January 21, 2024 5:53 PM

That sounds lovely, OP! I hope it works out for you.

by Anonymousreply 35January 21, 2024 5:55 PM

OP a doctor!! Congratulations! A big gay Indian wedding with elephants and both of you dressed as princes will be marvelous!

by Anonymousreply 36January 21, 2024 5:59 PM

If you don't have a stem degree you ain't gettin' past Pushpa his mom.

by Anonymousreply 37January 21, 2024 6:03 PM

You could have at least let him finger you.

by Anonymousreply 38January 21, 2024 6:11 PM

Next date I think it's appropriate to ask him about a dowry

by Anonymousreply 39January 21, 2024 6:47 PM

OP's date/future husband will fly back to Punjab post haste when finished with residency in order to marry his cousin or niece.

by Anonymousreply 40January 21, 2024 7:02 PM

I need to confess...I'm the Indian guy who went on 'the date'. I pretended I am a doc in 'residency' when I actually work at the 7-11 near the hospital. I'm looking to get married to stay in America. I think I found myself a husband.

by Anonymousreply 41January 21, 2024 7:08 PM

You mean Tesco, R41, as the haven't any 7-11s in the UK.

by Anonymousreply 42January 21, 2024 7:10 PM

OP, you know we're just giving you shit in good fun.

I personally hope this works out well for you.

Best of luck! Don't forget to feel up the package next time.

by Anonymousreply 43January 21, 2024 7:14 PM

R42 OOOOOOOOOOOOOOPS ! Wrong guy. I'm in Chicago and went on date with American guy. Never mind.

by Anonymousreply 44January 21, 2024 7:15 PM

Neato OP!

by Anonymousreply 45January 21, 2024 8:03 PM

OP, this sounds really sweet and I am happy for you. Keep us posted.

by Anonymousreply 46January 21, 2024 8:15 PM


Stealth scat thread.

by Anonymousreply 47January 21, 2024 8:19 PM

I am curious what his thoughts were on partition.

by Anonymousreply 48January 21, 2024 8:21 PM

"We discussed our childhoods, our careers, the partition of India, Nehru, the British Empire, and Beethoven. We even ended up talking about past relationships and what we learned about ourselves and what we do/don't want in a relationship."

And that, dear friends, is the epitome of a 'one date wonder'. Guaranteed one or other went straight onto grindr after the date ended.

Based on the topics of conversation, I'm betting the Indian guy is light skinned and firmly believes in the caste system.

by Anonymousreply 49January 21, 2024 8:24 PM

Let us know when you're going steady OP! Just remember that "getting pinned" means something different for gay men. Don't worry, our way is much more fun and it doesn't put holes in your sweater.

by Anonymousreply 50January 21, 2024 8:27 PM

That is great news OP. Good for you. I hope it works out ❤️

by Anonymousreply 51January 21, 2024 9:09 PM

Prissy OP didn't give up the ass but you know damn well she sucked and spit.

by Anonymousreply 52January 21, 2024 9:11 PM

R48's post gave me quite the chuckle!

by Anonymousreply 53January 21, 2024 9:20 PM

I too, am curious on his thoughts regarding Beyonce's crappy song, Partition! 😁

by Anonymousreply 54January 21, 2024 9:22 PM

Did you discuss who's topping or who's bottoming, so there will be no misunderstanding related to pre-date preparation next time?

by Anonymousreply 55January 21, 2024 9:30 PM

This will end in tears (if it hasn't already).

Get a life ... or two, OP.

by Anonymousreply 56January 21, 2024 9:31 PM

R50 once he’s pinned then it’s ok to have sex…it’s a pre-engagement promise for marriage.

by Anonymousreply 57January 21, 2024 9:34 PM

It's the senseless capitalization guy again.

by Anonymousreply 58January 21, 2024 9:35 PM

OP loves Condi!

by Anonymousreply 59January 22, 2024 2:36 AM

Did you exchange FICO scores,?

by Anonymousreply 60January 22, 2024 2:40 AM

Especially Scintillating Tale.

by Anonymousreply 61January 22, 2024 2:45 AM

Does he smell?

by Anonymousreply 62January 22, 2024 3:01 AM


by Anonymousreply 63January 22, 2024 3:03 AM

R7 Do you need to ask whether he’s hung? He’s Indian ffs. Of course not!

by Anonymousreply 64January 22, 2024 3:04 AM

Program Major Book Troll (PMBT) Part 2: Electric Boogaloo

by Anonymousreply 65January 22, 2024 3:10 AM

Well done, OP. Have a spicy romance at your own pace!

by Anonymousreply 66January 22, 2024 3:18 AM

[quote] he is a resident physician

Access to good drugs? He might be a keeper!

by Anonymousreply 67January 22, 2024 3:39 AM

R64 I'm not R7 but I'm curious - men from India are not usually hung ? I never knew that - for some reason, I thought they were well-endowed. I've seen a lot of male college students this year from India - damn, they have hot bodies. I just assumed they were packing.

by Anonymousreply 68January 22, 2024 12:47 PM

If you’ve ever seen the penis size chart around the world, Indian men have the smallest dicks on average.

by Anonymousreply 69January 22, 2024 5:51 PM

Broad generalizations just make a person look stupid.

by Anonymousreply 70January 22, 2024 5:54 PM

Again, if you do not know an India person's FICO score, you may be setting yourself up to be fucked in more ways than one.

by Anonymousreply 71January 22, 2024 6:05 PM

Perhaps size doesn't matter, because this new romance reads like they're both bottoms who might soon go shopping for a double-dong dildo while listening to Beethoven's "Pathétique."

by Anonymousreply 72January 22, 2024 9:13 PM

OP has disappeared and certainly regrets ever posting this. DL can take the joy out of almost anything. But unless he's clueless, why didn't he know that?

by Anonymousreply 73January 22, 2024 9:38 PM

Not clueless, headless.

by Anonymousreply 74January 22, 2024 10:41 PM

Is this the law school crybaby who couldn't find anyone to relate to on a deep level ?

by Anonymousreply 75January 22, 2024 11:24 PM

His mother is crying already.

by Anonymousreply 76January 22, 2024 11:28 PM

Yes, R75.

by Anonymousreply 77January 22, 2024 11:28 PM

I have been reading comments, but some of you take the anonymity out of posting to an alarming level. It is really terrifying in some aspects.

by Anonymousreply 78January 22, 2024 11:36 PM

Ah, youth! Enjoy it while you can. Someday no one will want you.

by Anonymousreply 79January 23, 2024 12:51 AM

That's nice, dear. Tell me all about it.

by Anonymousreply 80January 23, 2024 12:57 AM

R72, I adore you.

by Anonymousreply 81January 23, 2024 12:57 AM

[quote] If you’ve ever seen the penis size chart around the world, Indian men have the smallest dicks on average.

India is actually somewhat above the United States in length. Overall very similar.

Cambodia is in last place.

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by Anonymousreply 82January 23, 2024 7:16 AM

Punjabi men can have big dicks, in my sampling.

by Anonymousreply 83January 23, 2024 2:22 PM

Glad I don't judge long term potential on something like penis length.

by Anonymousreply 84January 23, 2024 2:29 PM

This started out as such a sweet wholesome lovely story.

by Anonymousreply 85January 23, 2024 2:30 PM

With the emphasis on "story."

We've heard the singer's sad, sad song before.

by Anonymousreply 86January 23, 2024 3:39 PM

[quote] while listening to Beethoven's "Pathétique."

Oh, [italic]dear.[/italic]

by Anonymousreply 87January 23, 2024 3:47 PM

Love doesn't come in a minute

Sometimes it doesn't come at all

I only know that when I'm in it

It isn't silly, love isn't silly, love isn't silly at all

by Anonymousreply 88January 23, 2024 3:53 PM

What music did you two listen to?

by Anonymousreply 89January 23, 2024 4:06 PM

Has he contacted you for another date, op? Let him text you first, you don't want to appear desperate. Also, in my experience, many Indian men are just looking for fun until they can find themselves a nice Indian wife...

by Anonymousreply 90January 23, 2024 4:10 PM

It is My Beautiful Launderette!

by Anonymousreply 91January 23, 2024 4:25 PM

[quote] What music did you two listen to?

Somehow I imagine Glenn Miller.

by Anonymousreply 92January 23, 2024 4:27 PM

Tommy Dorsey, R92. Tommy Dorsey.

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by Anonymousreply 93January 23, 2024 4:31 PM

Those penis size charts are ridiculous. They may have a tiny bit of validity in the small number of uber-homogeneous countries. But even if some of those averages are somewhat accurate country-wide, it doesn’t mean the average man’s penis is such-and-such a length. It means all the penises AVERAGE OUT to that length. Meaning many are larger. Speaking from experience, it is not hard to find a huge mouthful in India.

by Anonymousreply 94January 23, 2024 4:56 PM

That’s nice to hear, OP. I love DL but there ain’t a lot of romance in these threads. Hope it works out for you kids.

by Anonymousreply 95January 23, 2024 5:10 PM

Keep us posted!

by Anonymousreply 96January 23, 2024 5:47 PM

Let’s discuss OP’s first date!

by Anonymousreply 97January 23, 2024 6:03 PM

Just when you least expect it, just what you least expect.

by Anonymousreply 98January 23, 2024 6:10 PM

R98 = Neil Tennant

by Anonymousreply 99January 23, 2024 6:12 PM

There's still time to plan your June wedding.

by Anonymousreply 100January 23, 2024 8:50 PM

All good, but you should definitely at least blow him on the second date.

by Anonymousreply 101January 24, 2024 12:31 AM

Why can't we do this on our own terms,

by Anonymousreply 102January 24, 2024 4:04 AM

OP is either new to DL or female.

by Anonymousreply 103January 24, 2024 4:38 AM

"I Went on a Date this Afternoon and it Went Super Well!"

The prequel to 'Seance on a Wet Afternoon'?

Cause OP is now talking to themselves.

by Anonymousreply 104January 25, 2024 6:50 PM

OP has moved beyond talking a while ago, R104, and has been playing with themselves for quite a long time.

His EST expired, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 105January 25, 2024 6:59 PM

OP caught shighella from his Indian paramour. Shoulda washed that punjabi butt first.

by Anonymousreply 106January 25, 2024 7:02 PM

I'm here, it has just been a very busy week!

by Anonymousreply 107January 26, 2024 2:41 AM

[quote] It means all the penises AVERAGE OUT to that length. Meaning many are larger.

In my Experience, all penes average out to DELICIOUS.

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by Anonymousreply 108January 26, 2024 2:46 AM

Yay, OP has come up for air!

So, its been a week, an eternity for a gay relationship, so how was the sex? Have you grown bored and opened the relationship up yet?

by Anonymousreply 109January 26, 2024 2:47 AM

[quote] I'm here, it has just been a very busy week!

Given all those dreamy late night talks about Indian politicians from the 1940s, i shouldn't wonder!

by Anonymousreply 110January 26, 2024 2:48 AM

OP, this is lovely. I'm very happy for you. Indian men are dreamy.

by Anonymousreply 111January 26, 2024 2:53 AM

OP: When he ghosts you, are you going to stalk. him? Hasn't he called/texted you yet----for a second date? Keep saying you're too "busy" !

If you didn't want the date to end, why not have dinner? What a cheap date.

You sound like some breathless 15-year-old yammering on about a first date. How old are you anyway? Are you an ugly virgin?

by Anonymousreply 112January 26, 2024 3:13 AM

We have been texting throughout the week. I work and am in law school, he is a fellow physician- it's not like we are both working part time at Pizza Hut.

We are meeting again this Saturday afternoon. We also want to take things slow.

by Anonymousreply 113January 26, 2024 2:56 PM

You are also a physician?

by Anonymousreply 114January 26, 2024 3:02 PM

R114 read above^

by Anonymousreply 115January 26, 2024 3:04 PM

OP, you’re in law school and you’re also a physician?

Your post at R113 is confusing.

by Anonymousreply 116January 26, 2024 3:46 PM

As in an academic fellow. Not we have the same job kind of fellow.

Not too hard to parse.

by Anonymousreply 117January 26, 2024 5:05 PM

[quote] Not too hard to parse.

The manner in which you wrote it lacks clarity.

by Anonymousreply 118January 26, 2024 5:13 PM

Look up medical fellowship, ass.

by Anonymousreply 119January 26, 2024 5:16 PM

A lawyer you say? Okay, acceptable enough. Is he Hindu, Islam, or Sikh?

by Anonymousreply 120January 26, 2024 6:08 PM

[quote] Punjabi men can have big dicks, in my sampling.

You’re welcome r83, I remember sampling you too!

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by Anonymousreply 121January 26, 2024 6:16 PM

Is he a Dalit? If so he is untouchable.

by Anonymousreply 122January 26, 2024 6:29 PM

Meeting again today

by Anonymousreply 123January 27, 2024 3:47 PM

Are you having Indian?

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by Anonymousreply 124January 27, 2024 6:06 PM

"Are you having Indian?"

Hannibal Lecter weighs in.

by Anonymousreply 125January 27, 2024 6:10 PM

No anal after that meal.

by Anonymousreply 126January 27, 2024 6:14 PM

Oh! Calcutta!

by Anonymousreply 127January 27, 2024 6:15 PM

I’m happy for you, OP. Much luck with the relationship!

by Anonymousreply 128January 27, 2024 6:17 PM

Protect yourself. I fell for an Indian ophthalmologist. Handsome, cute, funny, and a great fuck, but….. turned out he was married and had 2 kids.

Make sure he is out. Should this get serious, then suggest meeting some of his friends. That will tell you what degree of out he is.

Good luck!!!

by Anonymousreply 129January 27, 2024 10:23 PM

He told me he is out to his sister and parents. He hasn't made many friends here because he works a ton.

Second date went well- we ate, talked, and watched a movie and cuddled.

by Anonymousreply 130January 28, 2024 2:00 AM

What did you eat?

by Anonymousreply 131January 28, 2024 2:10 AM

R131 I made a nice winter vegetable soup and we watched Saltburn.

by Anonymousreply 132January 28, 2024 2:29 AM

You have to be an absolute idiot to constantly bring this here to the DL if you are in any way serious. If I was the alleged possible maybe real BF and my friends told me I was being used as fodder for yucks on DL you would be burnt fucking toast.

It’s a small world in many ways

Now if this is an EST that gives you joy then ignore the above and carry on.

by Anonymousreply 133January 28, 2024 1:01 PM

"What did you eat?"

Everything except each others asses or cocks.

Frigid Frida meets foreign closet case.

by Anonymousreply 134January 28, 2024 1:44 PM

Has OP started stalking the Indian man yet?

by Anonymousreply 135January 28, 2024 1:46 PM

When exactly do you start to play 'man-go-up-in-the-other-man'?

by Anonymousreply 136January 28, 2024 5:40 PM

All of these dates and no sex?

-15/10. Go home to Momma.

by Anonymousreply 137January 28, 2024 5:58 PM

Update, "He Is" troll.

by Anonymousreply 138February 10, 2024 4:21 AM

Well update us, "He IS" troll.

by Anonymousreply 139February 24, 2024 5:53 PM

What tribe?

by Anonymousreply 140February 25, 2024 7:36 PM

Jerking off together isn’t a date! He’s just cheap.

by Anonymousreply 141February 25, 2024 7:42 PM

How is everything going? Did you get a ring?

by Anonymousreply 142March 4, 2024 5:53 PM

Dr Bombay, Dr Bombay, cum right away!

by Anonymousreply 143March 4, 2024 6:16 PM

Update- we are doing well, we talk everyday, but haven't met in a few weeks. We are either working on weekends, sick, need alone time, or have been out of town. A very busy time of year for both.

We also don't want to rush into anything and believe in taking our time. We have both been burned by getting involved too fast in a relationship.

by Anonymousreply 144March 4, 2024 8:12 PM

Sounds like he's either doing a slow and polite ghosting, or unknown to you, you've already been friend-zoned.

Hon, get him in the sack tout suite!

by Anonymousreply 145March 4, 2024 11:02 PM
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