I Went on a Date this Afternoon and it Went Super Well!

He IS a resident physician from India!

Sounds like fun! Why didn't you fuck like rabbits when you went back to your apartment OP? Are you gay or are you a straight female?

Eric Porter played Count Dmitri Bronowsky in The Jewel in the Crown which is set in India.

This isn’t your diary.

R2 lol that is not who I am or who he is. We both want to take things slow.

This is how I picture OP:

Did his Nutt juice taste like curry?

Just saying? Was he hung?

R6 why? lol

Because I have good manners and I don't sleep with someone on the first date?

OP is waiting until they're married R7.

Good on ya, OP!! Sounds like a great gateway to a possible LTR, or more.

R10 Thank you! I really hope so. I am a long term oriented person.

Do you think you'll consider Indian food on your next date?

OP, the date sounds lovely. But I’m curious about the very last line of your post. You don’t have a few friends or even one friend you could share this news with? Why is that?

R13 I moved to my city for school about two years. I just haven't built a strong enough friendships to really share with anyone.

I used to say dream about meeting a good looking Indian doctor 👨‍⚕️

I may be just the right shade of tipsy, OP, but that sounds really sweet. I wish you - and this potential relationship - well.

What about your cold sore?

R16 that you!

R17 never had one!

Sounds great OP, I am happy for you. Don't listen to the old whores on here. They think every gay man is just like them from the 70s where you fuck first then maybe date later. They have low self respect. Their time has passed but they still live like that in their own heads. They cant comprehend it actually might be hotter sex getting to know someone a bit before actually letting it evolve naturally into that.

Congrats, OP. I hope you have another date and it goes even better than the first.

Apostrophe

OP gonna get ghosted.

OP, there are no more rules anymore...Go for it!!

Watch out for young Indian doctors!

R24 what?

Esmiss Esmoor! Esmiss Esmoor!

Don’t you read books R25? Or at least watch the movie versions?

Are you referring to A Passage to India?

Dr. Aziz was leaps and bounds better than Adela

That sounds like a great time, OP!

Not just went well, but SUPER well.

Have fun on the next SUPER date!

"He had to go to a dinner, but we kissed afterwards."

I don't understand the timing. He left your apartment, went to a dinner. And then somehow you met again and kissed. But just kissed.

Bad idea to go back to your apartment and just kiss. Now he's wondering why didn't fuck him. It's over.

r30 you tried

I love this, OP, and DL could use a little romance.

That sounds lovely, OP! I hope it works out for you.

OP a doctor!! Congratulations! A big gay Indian wedding with elephants and both of you dressed as princes will be marvelous!

If you don't have a stem degree you ain't gettin' past Pushpa his mom.

You could have at least let him finger you.

Next date I think it's appropriate to ask him about a dowry

OP's date/future husband will fly back to Punjab post haste when finished with residency in order to marry his cousin or niece.

I need to confess...I'm the Indian guy who went on 'the date'. I pretended I am a doc in 'residency' when I actually work at the 7-11 near the hospital. I'm looking to get married to stay in America. I think I found myself a husband.

You mean Tesco, R41, as the haven't any 7-11s in the UK.

OP, you know we're just giving you shit in good fun.

I personally hope this works out well for you.

Best of luck! Don't forget to feel up the package next time.

R42 OOOOOOOOOOOOOOPS ! Wrong guy. I'm in Chicago and went on date with American guy. Never mind.

Neato OP!

OP, this sounds really sweet and I am happy for you. Keep us posted.

Indian?

Stealth scat thread.

I am curious what his thoughts were on partition.

"We discussed our childhoods, our careers, the partition of India, Nehru, the British Empire, and Beethoven. We even ended up talking about past relationships and what we learned about ourselves and what we do/don't want in a relationship."

And that, dear friends, is the epitome of a 'one date wonder'. Guaranteed one or other went straight onto grindr after the date ended.

Based on the topics of conversation, I'm betting the Indian guy is light skinned and firmly believes in the caste system.

Let us know when you're going steady OP! Just remember that "getting pinned" means something different for gay men. Don't worry, our way is much more fun and it doesn't put holes in your sweater.

That is great news OP. Good for you. I hope it works out ❤️

Prissy OP didn't give up the ass but you know damn well she sucked and spit.

R48's post gave me quite the chuckle!

I too, am curious on his thoughts regarding Beyonce's crappy song, Partition! 😁

Did you discuss who's topping or who's bottoming, so there will be no misunderstanding related to pre-date preparation next time?

This will end in tears (if it hasn't already).

Get a life ... or two, OP.

R50 once he’s pinned then it’s ok to have sex…it’s a pre-engagement promise for marriage.

It's the senseless capitalization guy again.

OP loves Condi!

Did you exchange FICO scores,?

Especially Scintillating Tale.

Does he smell?

Curry!

R7 Do you need to ask whether he’s hung? He’s Indian ffs. Of course not!

Program Major Book Troll (PMBT) Part 2: Electric Boogaloo

Well done, OP. Have a spicy romance at your own pace!

[quote] he is a resident physician

Access to good drugs? He might be a keeper!

R64 I'm not R7 but I'm curious - men from India are not usually hung ? I never knew that - for some reason, I thought they were well-endowed. I've seen a lot of male college students this year from India - damn, they have hot bodies. I just assumed they were packing.

If you’ve ever seen the penis size chart around the world, Indian men have the smallest dicks on average.

Broad generalizations just make a person look stupid.

Again, if you do not know an India person's FICO score, you may be setting yourself up to be fucked in more ways than one.

Perhaps size doesn't matter, because this new romance reads like they're both bottoms who might soon go shopping for a double-dong dildo while listening to Beethoven's "Pathétique."

OP has disappeared and certainly regrets ever posting this. DL can take the joy out of almost anything. But unless he's clueless, why didn't he know that?

Not clueless, headless.

Is this the law school crybaby who couldn't find anyone to relate to on a deep level ?

His mother is crying already.

Yes, R75.

I have been reading comments, but some of you take the anonymity out of posting to an alarming level. It is really terrifying in some aspects.

Ah, youth! Enjoy it while you can. Someday no one will want you.

That's nice, dear. Tell me all about it.

R72, I adore you.

[quote] If you’ve ever seen the penis size chart around the world, Indian men have the smallest dicks on average.

India is actually somewhat above the United States in length. Overall very similar.

Cambodia is in last place.

Punjabi men can have big dicks, in my sampling.

Glad I don't judge long term potential on something like penis length.

This started out as such a sweet wholesome lovely story.

With the emphasis on "story."

We've heard the singer's sad, sad song before.

[quote] while listening to Beethoven's "Pathétique."

Oh, [italic]dear.[/italic]

Love doesn't come in a minute

Sometimes it doesn't come at all

I only know that when I'm in it

It isn't silly, love isn't silly, love isn't silly at all

What music did you two listen to?

Has he contacted you for another date, op? Let him text you first, you don't want to appear desperate. Also, in my experience, many Indian men are just looking for fun until they can find themselves a nice Indian wife...

It is My Beautiful Launderette!

[quote] What music did you two listen to?

Somehow I imagine Glenn Miller.

Tommy Dorsey, R92. Tommy Dorsey.

Those penis size charts are ridiculous. They may have a tiny bit of validity in the small number of uber-homogeneous countries. But even if some of those averages are somewhat accurate country-wide, it doesn’t mean the average man’s penis is such-and-such a length. It means all the penises AVERAGE OUT to that length. Meaning many are larger. Speaking from experience, it is not hard to find a huge mouthful in India.

That’s nice to hear, OP. I love DL but there ain’t a lot of romance in these threads. Hope it works out for you kids.

Keep us posted!

Let’s discuss OP’s first date!

Just when you least expect it, just what you least expect.

R98 = Neil Tennant

There's still time to plan your June wedding.

All good, but you should definitely at least blow him on the second date.

Why can't we do this on our own terms,

OP is either new to DL or female.

"I Went on a Date this Afternoon and it Went Super Well!"

The prequel to 'Seance on a Wet Afternoon'?

Cause OP is now talking to themselves.

OP has moved beyond talking a while ago, R104, and has been playing with themselves for quite a long time.

His EST expired, I guess.

OP caught shighella from his Indian paramour. Shoulda washed that punjabi butt first.

I'm here, it has just been a very busy week!

[quote] It means all the penises AVERAGE OUT to that length. Meaning many are larger.

In my Experience, all penes average out to DELICIOUS.

Yay, OP has come up for air!

So, its been a week, an eternity for a gay relationship, so how was the sex? Have you grown bored and opened the relationship up yet?

[quote] I'm here, it has just been a very busy week!

Given all those dreamy late night talks about Indian politicians from the 1940s, i shouldn't wonder!

OP, this is lovely. I'm very happy for you. Indian men are dreamy.

OP: When he ghosts you, are you going to stalk. him? Hasn't he called/texted you yet----for a second date? Keep saying you're too "busy" !

If you didn't want the date to end, why not have dinner? What a cheap date.

You sound like some breathless 15-year-old yammering on about a first date. How old are you anyway? Are you an ugly virgin?

We have been texting throughout the week. I work and am in law school, he is a fellow physician- it's not like we are both working part time at Pizza Hut.

We are meeting again this Saturday afternoon. We also want to take things slow.

You are also a physician?

R114 read above^

OP, you’re in law school and you’re also a physician?

Your post at R113 is confusing.

As in an academic fellow. Not we have the same job kind of fellow.

Not too hard to parse.

[quote] Not too hard to parse.

The manner in which you wrote it lacks clarity.

Look up medical fellowship, ass.

A lawyer you say? Okay, acceptable enough. Is he Hindu, Islam, or Sikh?

[quote] Punjabi men can have big dicks, in my sampling.

You’re welcome r83, I remember sampling you too!

Is he a Dalit? If so he is untouchable.

Meeting again today

Are you having Indian?

"Are you having Indian?"

Hannibal Lecter weighs in.

No anal after that meal.

Oh! Calcutta!

I’m happy for you, OP. Much luck with the relationship!

Protect yourself. I fell for an Indian ophthalmologist. Handsome, cute, funny, and a great fuck, but….. turned out he was married and had 2 kids.

Make sure he is out. Should this get serious, then suggest meeting some of his friends. That will tell you what degree of out he is.

Good luck!!!

He told me he is out to his sister and parents. He hasn't made many friends here because he works a ton.

Second date went well- we ate, talked, and watched a movie and cuddled.

What did you eat?

R131 I made a nice winter vegetable soup and we watched Saltburn.

You have to be an absolute idiot to constantly bring this here to the DL if you are in any way serious. If I was the alleged possible maybe real BF and my friends told me I was being used as fodder for yucks on DL you would be burnt fucking toast.

It’s a small world in many ways

Now if this is an EST that gives you joy then ignore the above and carry on.

"What did you eat?"

Everything except each others asses or cocks.

Frigid Frida meets foreign closet case.

Has OP started stalking the Indian man yet?

When exactly do you start to play 'man-go-up-in-the-other-man'?

All of these dates and no sex?

-15/10. Go home to Momma.

Update, "He Is" troll.

Well update us, "He IS" troll.

What tribe?

Jerking off together isn’t a date! He’s just cheap.

How is everything going? Did you get a ring?

Dr Bombay, Dr Bombay, cum right away!

Update- we are doing well, we talk everyday, but haven't met in a few weeks. We are either working on weekends, sick, need alone time, or have been out of town. A very busy time of year for both.

We also don't want to rush into anything and believe in taking our time. We have both been burned by getting involved too fast in a relationship.

Sounds like he's either doing a slow and polite ghosting, or unknown to you, you've already been friend-zoned.

Hon, get him in the sack tout suite!

There's such a thing as too slow. Be careful.

Do you honesty think he's ghosting or not interested?! We are both just really busy and in busy and stressful jobs

You have a job, OP?

R148 I work part time at a law firm and I am in law school. He is in his fellowship.

He wants to take things slow and have an old-fashioned romance? How does that make you feel, Blanche?

Just wait until your next walk in the park when he suddenly pops a squat and takes a shit in the middle of the path

R151 why are you being so vulgar?

OP: you keep insisting you both are such busy busy bees.....such silly (and unbelievable) bollocks! If you want something bad, you always make time for it.

I doubt either of you work or study 24/7. That's just an excuse you keep making. How do you know he's not fucking someone on the side?

[quote] I doubt either of you work or study 24/7. That's just an excuse you keep making.

OP has plenty of time to start threads about He IS X…, let’s discuss…, favorite person in U.S. presidential administrations, desert island discs, late 20th century actors and composers/symphonic works. He has enough time for a date.

OP, please tell someone, ANYONE who gives a fuck.

“In the Spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love”

-Alfred, Lord Tennyson’s poem “Locksley Hall”.

OP, what’s your first language?

Do you love him Loretta?

[quote] OP, what’s your first language?

OP’s first language is English, but he has an easily identifiable writing style. As he’s told us, he’s from East Texas and is now in Houston.

I'm an old married fart. Not too old and just got married last year. I think more guys on DL should post about a positive date or start of a relationship. All we ever hear is horror stories or men that have given up finding someone for a long term thing. You need to give some hope to the rest of lonely hearts club. I know I could have used it. Didn't meet my husband until I was 49 almost 50.

R144: "we talk everyday, but haven't met in a few weeks."

IOW, it's over.

[quote]We also don't want to rush into anything and believe in taking our time. We have both been burned by getting involved too fast in a relationship.

Professional tip: Fucking does not equal "getting involved too fast in a relationship".

Is he a scion of India’s wealthiest family? If so, I see a wedding with Beyoncé, Taylor, and Madge performing in wait for you.

Just remember, Pushpa holds all the cards ...

In any relationship. always have your own money!!

Is he back in the Mother country? Is he wealthy?

How big is his Cobra...did it bite you!

He said between his fellowship he could not commit to a serious relationships, but thins we could be great friends for now. He said it I did nothing wrong and it has nothing to do with me.

I'm disappointed and not sure. I can't help but think that is probably me because I'm not attractive/smart/kind enough to be with him. I'll probably be alone forever.

Thanks for the update, OP.

Read the below-linked thread for possible consolation.

R267 how will this help?

Sorry, OP. But you certainly shouldn't take it as a reflection of your worth. Sometimes two perfectly attractive, smart and kind people just don't make a match.

Friend-zoned.

Maybe he was looking for sex?

R171 we are both sides

I’m sorry OP.

[quote] how will this help?

You can console yourself with what you’ve fortuitously avoided. See also R62.

You Learn

“I’ll probably be alone forever”

Are you normally a sad morse person who expects the worse? If so that might be a part of your dating problems.

Inspector Morse

Can't anyone sign a DL post as "OP"?

Of course.

He just called!

We're meeting again!!

R180 You didn't learn!

Should I douche? Or is that being over optimistic?

Wait till your first beef.

He's offered to resolve my partition!

Hopefully he doesn’t gang rape you. Indians are really into that

OP here.

While I was dating him, there was another doctor (from Colombia) I went on a date with. Him and I connected again and we have had three dates with a fourth planned for this weekend. This is a better fit.

Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, but I think this will work out long term and he could be the one.

Did you fuck the Colombian?

He IS another doctor!

[quote] Him and I

R172 I've looked at life from both sides now.

OP, not trying to be rude…. but you’re really in your last year of law school and you say things like, “Him and I connected…”?

Inviting a man back to your apartment on a first date, even just for conversation, is whorish.

Unquestionably whorish.

He will never respect you now.

Damn OP, you're a harlot. Dating 2 3rd worlds Gays at the same time.

At least date Americans, does Muriel know about your behavior?

I was respectable, fucking my way through Lakewood religious trailer park in Myrtle Beach, SC

The Colombian probably looks better naked.

How will OP even know, R193?

The "dates" never seem to go very far...

I wouldn’t fuck an Indian but a Colombian I’d be into. He’s not going to invite his pals over for a gang rape or shit outside your house

R191 It should be "him and me."

Good luck in your quest for true love. Keep us posted!!!

[quote]I wouldn’t fuck an Indian but a Colombian I’d be into. He’s not going to invite his pals over for a gang rape or shit outside your house

And the other obvious reason.

[quote] And the other obvious reason.

What is that “obvious” reason?

How is everything going now?

You had me until the partition of India OP. Too 80s sounding. You tried it.

[quote] I too, am curious on his thoughts regarding Beyonce's crappy song, Partition! 😁

Op gonna get ghosted again.

OP is Thooper-Gay Big Gay Al

It didn't work out...

Aw, sorry to hear that, OP. Hugs.

You may want to think twice about posting your true love dating experiences until you've gotten to know the guy. Just sayin...

[quote] You may want to think twice about posting your true love dating experiences until you've gotten to know the guy. Just sayin...

Especially if you want to run for congress.

OP Dude, I'm not going to wade through the potentially bitchy comments here and am going to be direct.

This is a major score. This scenario is how solid relationships might begin. Sure, you might find out later that he's a serial killer or likes to wear corduroy, but in the meantime, this is a wonderful post. You had to tell someone:) Am happy for you and hope this ends up well. In my 45 years of adulthood and dating (am 63 now) this scenario has all of the elements that in my experience have led to long term relationships. Was with my ex for 26 years (we were way too young, but it was a good run) and have been married later in life for the past 6 years.

There's so much shit in the world. This post made my day. Sincerely, thank you for sharing.