I Went on a Date this Afternoon and it Went Super Well!
Hi, this afternoon I went on a great date.
We initially were going to meet for coffee, but then we changed it to coffee and a walk around the park. It was wonderful.
I am an American law student in my last year of school and he is a resident physician from India. We are about the same age. We discussed our childhoods, our careers, the partition of India, Nehru, the British Empire, and Beethoven. We even ended up talking about past relationships and what we learned about ourselves and what we do/don't want in a relationship.
We didn't want the date to end, so we went back to my apartment, which is close to the park. We then listened to music and talked some more. He had to go to a dinner, but we kissed afterwards.
I'm really looking forward to a another date. I don't have any friends to share this with so I'm posting here.
by Anonymous | reply 210 | July 1, 2024 6:36 PM
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He IS a resident physician from India!
by Anonymous | reply 1 | January 21, 2024 1:40 AM
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Sounds like fun! Why didn't you fuck like rabbits when you went back to your apartment OP? Are you gay or are you a straight female?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | January 21, 2024 1:41 AM
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Eric Porter played Count Dmitri Bronowsky in The Jewel in the Crown which is set in India.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | January 21, 2024 1:41 AM
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R2 lol that is not who I am or who he is. We both want to take things slow.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | January 21, 2024 1:51 AM
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This is how I picture OP:
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 6 | January 21, 2024 1:56 AM
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Did his Nutt juice taste like curry?
Just saying? Was he hung?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | January 21, 2024 1:56 AM
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R6 why? lol
Because I have good manners and I don't sleep with someone on the first date?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | January 21, 2024 1:57 AM
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OP is waiting until they're married R7.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | January 21, 2024 1:57 AM
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Good on ya, OP!! Sounds like a great gateway to a possible LTR, or more.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | January 21, 2024 2:00 AM
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R10 Thank you! I really hope so. I am a long term oriented person.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | January 21, 2024 2:00 AM
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Do you think you'll consider Indian food on your next date?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 12 | January 21, 2024 2:03 AM
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OP, the date sounds lovely. But I’m curious about the very last line of your post. You don’t have a few friends or even one friend you could share this news with? Why is that?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | January 21, 2024 2:03 AM
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R13 I moved to my city for school about two years. I just haven't built a strong enough friendships to really share with anyone.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | January 21, 2024 2:05 AM
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I used to say dream about meeting a good looking Indian doctor 👨⚕️
by Anonymous | reply 15 | January 21, 2024 2:08 AM
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I may be just the right shade of tipsy, OP, but that sounds really sweet. I wish you - and this potential relationship - well.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | January 21, 2024 2:14 AM
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What about your cold sore?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | January 21, 2024 2:17 AM
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Sounds great OP, I am happy for you. Don't listen to the old whores on here. They think every gay man is just like them from the 70s where you fuck first then maybe date later. They have low self respect. Their time has passed but they still live like that in their own heads. They cant comprehend it actually might be hotter sex getting to know someone a bit before actually letting it evolve naturally into that.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | January 21, 2024 2:32 AM
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Congrats, OP. I hope you have another date and it goes even better than the first.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | January 21, 2024 2:33 AM
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OP, there are no more rules anymore...Go for it!!
by Anonymous | reply 23 | January 21, 2024 2:42 AM
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Watch out for young Indian doctors!
by Anonymous | reply 24 | January 21, 2024 3:04 AM
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Esmiss Esmoor! Esmiss Esmoor!
by Anonymous | reply 26 | January 21, 2024 4:17 AM
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Don’t you read books R25? Or at least watch the movie versions?
by Anonymous | reply 27 | January 21, 2024 4:17 AM
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Are you referring to A Passage to India?
Dr. Aziz was leaps and bounds better than Adela
by Anonymous | reply 28 | January 21, 2024 4:36 PM
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That sounds like a great time, OP!
by Anonymous | reply 29 | January 21, 2024 4:37 PM
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Not just went well, but SUPER well.
Have fun on the next SUPER date!
by Anonymous | reply 30 | January 21, 2024 4:41 PM
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"He had to go to a dinner, but we kissed afterwards."
I don't understand the timing. He left your apartment, went to a dinner. And then somehow you met again and kissed. But just kissed.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | January 21, 2024 4:47 PM
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Bad idea to go back to your apartment and just kiss. Now he's wondering why didn't fuck him. It's over.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | January 21, 2024 4:49 PM
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I love this, OP, and DL could use a little romance.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | January 21, 2024 4:53 PM
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That sounds lovely, OP! I hope it works out for you.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | January 21, 2024 4:55 PM
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OP a doctor!! Congratulations! A big gay Indian wedding with elephants and both of you dressed as princes will be marvelous!
by Anonymous | reply 36 | January 21, 2024 4:59 PM
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If you don't have a stem degree you ain't gettin' past Pushpa his mom.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | January 21, 2024 5:03 PM
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You could have at least let him finger you.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | January 21, 2024 5:11 PM
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Next date I think it's appropriate to ask him about a dowry
by Anonymous | reply 39 | January 21, 2024 5:47 PM
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OP's date/future husband will fly back to Punjab post haste when finished with residency in order to marry his cousin or niece.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | January 21, 2024 6:02 PM
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I need to confess...I'm the Indian guy who went on 'the date'. I pretended I am a doc in 'residency' when I actually work at the 7-11 near the hospital. I'm looking to get married to stay in America. I think I found myself a husband.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | January 21, 2024 6:08 PM
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You mean Tesco, R41, as the haven't any 7-11s in the UK.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | January 21, 2024 6:10 PM
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OP, you know we're just giving you shit in good fun.
I personally hope this works out well for you.
Best of luck! Don't forget to feel up the package next time.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | January 21, 2024 6:14 PM
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R42 OOOOOOOOOOOOOOPS ! Wrong guy. I'm in Chicago and went on date with American guy. Never mind.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | January 21, 2024 6:15 PM
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OP, this sounds really sweet and I am happy for you. Keep us posted.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | January 21, 2024 7:15 PM
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I am curious what his thoughts were on partition.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | January 21, 2024 7:21 PM
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"We discussed our childhoods, our careers, the partition of India, Nehru, the British Empire, and Beethoven. We even ended up talking about past relationships and what we learned about ourselves and what we do/don't want in a relationship."
And that, dear friends, is the epitome of a 'one date wonder'. Guaranteed one or other went straight onto grindr after the date ended.
Based on the topics of conversation, I'm betting the Indian guy is light skinned and firmly believes in the caste system.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | January 21, 2024 7:24 PM
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Let us know when you're going steady OP! Just remember that "getting pinned" means something different for gay men. Don't worry, our way is much more fun and it doesn't put holes in your sweater.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | January 21, 2024 7:27 PM
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That is great news OP. Good for you. I hope it works out ❤️
by Anonymous | reply 51 | January 21, 2024 8:09 PM
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Prissy OP didn't give up the ass but you know damn well she sucked and spit.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | January 21, 2024 8:11 PM
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R48's post gave me quite the chuckle!
by Anonymous | reply 53 | January 21, 2024 8:20 PM
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I too, am curious on his thoughts regarding Beyonce's crappy song, Partition! 😁
by Anonymous | reply 54 | January 21, 2024 8:22 PM
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Did you discuss who's topping or who's bottoming, so there will be no misunderstanding related to pre-date preparation next time?
by Anonymous | reply 55 | January 21, 2024 8:30 PM
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This will end in tears (if it hasn't already).
Get a life ... or two, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | January 21, 2024 8:31 PM
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R50 once he’s pinned then it’s ok to have sex…it’s a pre-engagement promise for marriage.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | January 21, 2024 8:34 PM
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It's the senseless capitalization guy again.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | January 21, 2024 8:35 PM
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Did you exchange FICO scores,?
by Anonymous | reply 60 | January 22, 2024 1:40 AM
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Especially Scintillating Tale.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | January 22, 2024 1:45 AM
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R7 Do you need to ask whether he’s hung? He’s Indian ffs. Of course not!
by Anonymous | reply 64 | January 22, 2024 2:04 AM
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Program Major Book Troll (PMBT) Part 2: Electric Boogaloo
by Anonymous | reply 65 | January 22, 2024 2:10 AM
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Well done, OP. Have a spicy romance at your own pace!
by Anonymous | reply 66 | January 22, 2024 2:18 AM
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[quote] he is a resident physician
Access to good drugs? He might be a keeper!
by Anonymous | reply 67 | January 22, 2024 2:39 AM
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R64 I'm not R7 but I'm curious - men from India are not usually hung ? I never knew that - for some reason, I thought they were well-endowed. I've seen a lot of male college students this year from India - damn, they have hot bodies. I just assumed they were packing.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | January 22, 2024 11:47 AM
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If you’ve ever seen the penis size chart around the world, Indian men have the smallest dicks on average.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | January 22, 2024 4:51 PM
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Broad generalizations just make a person look stupid.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | January 22, 2024 4:54 PM
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Again, if you do not know an India person's FICO score, you may be setting yourself up to be fucked in more ways than one.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | January 22, 2024 5:05 PM
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Perhaps size doesn't matter, because this new romance reads like they're both bottoms who might soon go shopping for a double-dong dildo while listening to Beethoven's "Pathétique."
by Anonymous | reply 72 | January 22, 2024 8:13 PM
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OP has disappeared and certainly regrets ever posting this. DL can take the joy out of almost anything. But unless he's clueless, why didn't he know that?
by Anonymous | reply 73 | January 22, 2024 8:38 PM
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Is this the law school crybaby who couldn't find anyone to relate to on a deep level ?
by Anonymous | reply 75 | January 22, 2024 10:24 PM
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His mother is crying already.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | January 22, 2024 10:28 PM
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I have been reading comments, but some of you take the anonymity out of posting to an alarming level. It is really terrifying in some aspects.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | January 22, 2024 10:36 PM
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Ah, youth! Enjoy it while you can. Someday no one will want you.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | January 22, 2024 11:51 PM
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That's nice, dear. Tell me all about it.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | January 22, 2024 11:57 PM
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[quote] If you’ve ever seen the penis size chart around the world, Indian men have the smallest dicks on average.
India is actually somewhat above the United States in length. Overall very similar.
Cambodia is in last place.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 82 | January 23, 2024 6:16 AM
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Punjabi men can have big dicks, in my sampling.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | January 23, 2024 1:22 PM
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Glad I don't judge long term potential on something like penis length.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | January 23, 2024 1:29 PM
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This started out as such a sweet wholesome lovely story.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | January 23, 2024 1:30 PM
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With the emphasis on "story."
We've heard the singer's sad, sad song before.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | January 23, 2024 2:39 PM
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[quote] while listening to Beethoven's "Pathétique."
Oh, [italic]dear.[/italic]
by Anonymous | reply 87 | January 23, 2024 2:47 PM
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Love doesn't come in a minute
Sometimes it doesn't come at all
I only know that when I'm in it
It isn't silly, love isn't silly, love isn't silly at all
by Anonymous | reply 88 | January 23, 2024 2:53 PM
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What music did you two listen to?
by Anonymous | reply 89 | January 23, 2024 3:06 PM
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Has he contacted you for another date, op? Let him text you first, you don't want to appear desperate. Also, in my experience, many Indian men are just looking for fun until they can find themselves a nice Indian wife...
by Anonymous | reply 90 | January 23, 2024 3:10 PM
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It is My Beautiful Launderette!
by Anonymous | reply 91 | January 23, 2024 3:25 PM
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[quote] What music did you two listen to?
Somehow I imagine Glenn Miller.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | January 23, 2024 3:27 PM
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Tommy Dorsey, R92. Tommy Dorsey.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 93 | January 23, 2024 3:31 PM
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Those penis size charts are ridiculous. They may have a tiny bit of validity in the small number of uber-homogeneous countries. But even if some of those averages are somewhat accurate country-wide, it doesn’t mean the average man’s penis is such-and-such a length. It means all the penises AVERAGE OUT to that length. Meaning many are larger. Speaking from experience, it is not hard to find a huge mouthful in India.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | January 23, 2024 3:56 PM
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That’s nice to hear, OP. I love DL but there ain’t a lot of romance in these threads. Hope it works out for you kids.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | January 23, 2024 4:10 PM
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Let’s discuss OP’s first date!
by Anonymous | reply 97 | January 23, 2024 5:03 PM
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Just when you least expect it, just what you least expect.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | January 23, 2024 5:10 PM
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There's still time to plan your June wedding.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | January 23, 2024 7:50 PM
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All good, but you should definitely at least blow him on the second date.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | January 23, 2024 11:31 PM
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Why can't we do this on our own terms,
by Anonymous | reply 102 | January 24, 2024 3:04 AM
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OP is either new to DL or female.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | January 24, 2024 3:38 AM
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"I Went on a Date this Afternoon and it Went Super Well!"
The prequel to 'Seance on a Wet Afternoon'?
Cause OP is now talking to themselves.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | January 25, 2024 5:50 PM
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OP has moved beyond talking a while ago, R104, and has been playing with themselves for quite a long time.
His EST expired, I guess.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | January 25, 2024 5:59 PM
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OP caught shighella from his Indian paramour. Shoulda washed that punjabi butt first.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | January 25, 2024 6:02 PM
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I'm here, it has just been a very busy week!
by Anonymous | reply 107 | January 26, 2024 1:41 AM
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[quote] It means all the penises AVERAGE OUT to that length. Meaning many are larger.
In my Experience, all penes average out to DELICIOUS.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 108 | January 26, 2024 1:46 AM
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Yay, OP has come up for air!
So, its been a week, an eternity for a gay relationship, so how was the sex? Have you grown bored and opened the relationship up yet?
by Anonymous | reply 109 | January 26, 2024 1:47 AM
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[quote] I'm here, it has just been a very busy week!
Given all those dreamy late night talks about Indian politicians from the 1940s, i shouldn't wonder!
by Anonymous | reply 110 | January 26, 2024 1:48 AM
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OP, this is lovely. I'm very happy for you. Indian men are dreamy.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | January 26, 2024 1:53 AM
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OP: When he ghosts you, are you going to stalk. him? Hasn't he called/texted you yet----for a second date? Keep saying you're too "busy" !
If you didn't want the date to end, why not have dinner? What a cheap date.
You sound like some breathless 15-year-old yammering on about a first date. How old are you anyway? Are you an ugly virgin?
by Anonymous | reply 112 | January 26, 2024 2:13 AM
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We have been texting throughout the week. I work and am in law school, he is a fellow physician- it's not like we are both working part time at Pizza Hut.
We are meeting again this Saturday afternoon. We also want to take things slow.
by Anonymous | reply 113 | January 26, 2024 1:56 PM
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You are also a physician?
by Anonymous | reply 114 | January 26, 2024 2:02 PM
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OP, you’re in law school and you’re also a physician?
Your post at R113 is confusing.
by Anonymous | reply 116 | January 26, 2024 2:46 PM
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As in an academic fellow. Not we have the same job kind of fellow.
Not too hard to parse.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | January 26, 2024 4:05 PM
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[quote] Not too hard to parse.
The manner in which you wrote it lacks clarity.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | January 26, 2024 4:13 PM
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Look up medical fellowship, ass.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | January 26, 2024 4:16 PM
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A lawyer you say? Okay, acceptable enough. Is he Hindu, Islam, or Sikh?
by Anonymous | reply 120 | January 26, 2024 5:08 PM
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[quote] Punjabi men can have big dicks, in my sampling.
You’re welcome r83, I remember sampling you too!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 121 | January 26, 2024 5:16 PM
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Is he a Dalit? If so he is untouchable.
by Anonymous | reply 122 | January 26, 2024 5:29 PM
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"Are you having Indian?"
Hannibal Lecter weighs in.
by Anonymous | reply 125 | January 27, 2024 5:10 PM
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I’m happy for you, OP. Much luck with the relationship!
by Anonymous | reply 128 | January 27, 2024 5:17 PM
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Protect yourself. I fell for an Indian ophthalmologist. Handsome, cute, funny, and a great fuck, but….. turned out he was married and had 2 kids.
Make sure he is out. Should this get serious, then suggest meeting some of his friends. That will tell you what degree of out he is.
Good luck!!!
by Anonymous | reply 129 | January 27, 2024 9:23 PM
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He told me he is out to his sister and parents. He hasn't made many friends here because he works a ton.
Second date went well- we ate, talked, and watched a movie and cuddled.
by Anonymous | reply 130 | January 28, 2024 1:00 AM
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R131 I made a nice winter vegetable soup and we watched Saltburn.
by Anonymous | reply 132 | January 28, 2024 1:29 AM
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You have to be an absolute idiot to constantly bring this here to the DL if you are in any way serious. If I was the alleged possible maybe real BF and my friends told me I was being used as fodder for yucks on DL you would be burnt fucking toast.
It’s a small world in many ways
Now if this is an EST that gives you joy then ignore the above and carry on.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | January 28, 2024 12:01 PM
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"What did you eat?"
Everything except each others asses or cocks.
Frigid Frida meets foreign closet case.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | January 28, 2024 12:44 PM
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Has OP started stalking the Indian man yet?
by Anonymous | reply 135 | January 28, 2024 12:46 PM
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When exactly do you start to play 'man-go-up-in-the-other-man'?
by Anonymous | reply 136 | January 28, 2024 4:40 PM
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All of these dates and no sex?
-15/10. Go home to Momma.
by Anonymous | reply 137 | January 28, 2024 4:58 PM
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Well update us, "He IS" troll.
by Anonymous | reply 139 | February 24, 2024 4:53 PM
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Jerking off together isn’t a date! He’s just cheap.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | February 25, 2024 6:42 PM
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How is everything going? Did you get a ring?
by Anonymous | reply 142 | March 4, 2024 4:53 PM
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Dr Bombay, Dr Bombay, cum right away!
by Anonymous | reply 143 | March 4, 2024 5:16 PM
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Update- we are doing well, we talk everyday, but haven't met in a few weeks. We are either working on weekends, sick, need alone time, or have been out of town. A very busy time of year for both.
We also don't want to rush into anything and believe in taking our time. We have both been burned by getting involved too fast in a relationship.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | March 4, 2024 7:12 PM
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Sounds like he's either doing a slow and polite ghosting, or unknown to you, you've already been friend-zoned.
Hon, get him in the sack tout suite!
by Anonymous | reply 145 | March 4, 2024 10:02 PM
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There's such a thing as too slow. Be careful.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | March 5, 2024 12:07 AM
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Do you honesty think he's ghosting or not interested?! We are both just really busy and in busy and stressful jobs
by Anonymous | reply 147 | March 5, 2024 12:19 AM
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R148 I work part time at a law firm and I am in law school. He is in his fellowship.
by Anonymous | reply 149 | March 5, 2024 1:00 AM
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He wants to take things slow and have an old-fashioned romance? How does that make you feel, Blanche?
by Anonymous | reply 150 | March 5, 2024 1:01 AM
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Just wait until your next walk in the park when he suddenly pops a squat and takes a shit in the middle of the path
by Anonymous | reply 151 | March 5, 2024 1:03 AM
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R151 why are you being so vulgar?
by Anonymous | reply 152 | March 5, 2024 1:08 AM
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OP: you keep insisting you both are such busy busy bees.....such silly (and unbelievable) bollocks! If you want something bad, you always make time for it.
I doubt either of you work or study 24/7. That's just an excuse you keep making. How do you know he's not fucking someone on the side?
by Anonymous | reply 153 | March 5, 2024 2:47 AM
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[quote] I doubt either of you work or study 24/7. That's just an excuse you keep making.
OP has plenty of time to start threads about He IS X…, let’s discuss…, favorite person in U.S. presidential administrations, desert island discs, late 20th century actors and composers/symphonic works. He has enough time for a date.
by Anonymous | reply 154 | March 5, 2024 2:59 AM
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OP, please tell someone, ANYONE who gives a fuck.
by Anonymous | reply 155 | March 5, 2024 3:00 AM
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“In the Spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love”
-Alfred, Lord Tennyson’s poem “Locksley Hall”.
by Anonymous | reply 156 | March 5, 2024 3:06 AM
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OP, what’s your first language?
by Anonymous | reply 157 | March 5, 2024 3:14 AM
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[quote] OP, what’s your first language?
OP’s first language is English, but he has an easily identifiable writing style. As he’s told us, he’s from East Texas and is now in Houston.
by Anonymous | reply 159 | March 5, 2024 3:33 AM
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I'm an old married fart. Not too old and just got married last year. I think more guys on DL should post about a positive date or start of a relationship. All we ever hear is horror stories or men that have given up finding someone for a long term thing. You need to give some hope to the rest of lonely hearts club. I know I could have used it. Didn't meet my husband until I was 49 almost 50.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | March 5, 2024 3:36 AM
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R144: "we talk everyday, but haven't met in a few weeks."
IOW, it's over.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | March 5, 2024 11:58 AM
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[quote]We also don't want to rush into anything and believe in taking our time. We have both been burned by getting involved too fast in a relationship.
Professional tip: Fucking does not equal "getting involved too fast in a relationship".
by Anonymous | reply 162 | March 5, 2024 12:02 PM
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Is he a scion of India’s wealthiest family? If so, I see a wedding with Beyoncé, Taylor, and Madge performing in wait for you.
by Anonymous | reply 163 | March 5, 2024 1:08 PM
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Just remember, Pushpa holds all the cards ...
by Anonymous | reply 164 | March 5, 2024 5:31 PM
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In any relationship. always have your own money!!
Is he back in the Mother country? Is he wealthy?
How big is his Cobra...did it bite you!
by Anonymous | reply 165 | March 5, 2024 9:12 PM
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He said between his fellowship he could not commit to a serious relationships, but thins we could be great friends for now. He said it I did nothing wrong and it has nothing to do with me.
I'm disappointed and not sure. I can't help but think that is probably me because I'm not attractive/smart/kind enough to be with him. I'll probably be alone forever.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | March 20, 2024 3:50 PM
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Thanks for the update, OP.
Read the below-linked thread for possible consolation.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 167 | March 20, 2024 4:09 PM
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Sorry, OP. But you certainly shouldn't take it as a reflection of your worth. Sometimes two perfectly attractive, smart and kind people just don't make a match.
by Anonymous | reply 169 | March 20, 2024 4:21 PM
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Maybe he was looking for sex?
by Anonymous | reply 171 | March 20, 2024 5:23 PM
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[quote] how will this help?
You can console yourself with what you’ve fortuitously avoided. See also R62.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | March 20, 2024 6:13 PM
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“I’ll probably be alone forever”
Are you normally a sad morse person who expects the worse? If so that might be a part of your dating problems.
by Anonymous | reply 176 | March 20, 2024 7:34 PM
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Can't anyone sign a DL post as "OP"?
by Anonymous | reply 178 | March 20, 2024 7:59 PM
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Should I douche? Or is that being over optimistic?
by Anonymous | reply 182 | March 20, 2024 8:33 PM
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Wait till your first beef.
by Anonymous | reply 183 | March 20, 2024 9:30 PM
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He's offered to resolve my partition!
by Anonymous | reply 184 | March 20, 2024 9:36 PM
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Hopefully he doesn’t gang rape you. Indians are really into that
by Anonymous | reply 185 | March 21, 2024 1:11 AM
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OP here.
While I was dating him, there was another doctor (from Colombia) I went on a date with. Him and I connected again and we have had three dates with a fourth planned for this weekend. This is a better fit.
Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, but I think this will work out long term and he could be the one.
by Anonymous | reply 186 | April 11, 2024 4:22 AM
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Did you fuck the Colombian?
by Anonymous | reply 187 | April 11, 2024 4:23 AM
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R172 I've looked at life from both sides now.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | April 11, 2024 4:34 AM
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OP, not trying to be rude…. but you’re really in your last year of law school and you say things like, “Him and I connected…”?
by Anonymous | reply 191 | April 11, 2024 7:50 AM
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Inviting a man back to your apartment on a first date, even just for conversation, is whorish.
Unquestionably whorish.
He will never respect you now.
by Anonymous | reply 192 | April 11, 2024 8:06 AM
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Damn OP, you're a harlot. Dating 2 3rd worlds Gays at the same time.
At least date Americans, does Muriel know about your behavior?
I was respectable, fucking my way through Lakewood religious trailer park in Myrtle Beach, SC
by Anonymous | reply 193 | April 11, 2024 2:52 PM
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The Colombian probably looks better naked.
by Anonymous | reply 194 | April 11, 2024 3:15 PM
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How will OP even know, R193?
The "dates" never seem to go very far...
by Anonymous | reply 195 | April 11, 2024 3:37 PM
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I wouldn’t fuck an Indian but a Colombian I’d be into. He’s not going to invite his pals over for a gang rape or shit outside your house
by Anonymous | reply 196 | April 11, 2024 6:34 PM
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R191 It should be "him and me."
by Anonymous | reply 197 | April 11, 2024 6:51 PM
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Good luck in your quest for true love. Keep us posted!!!
by Anonymous | reply 198 | April 11, 2024 6:52 PM
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[quote]I wouldn’t fuck an Indian but a Colombian I’d be into. He’s not going to invite his pals over for a gang rape or shit outside your house
And the other obvious reason.
by Anonymous | reply 199 | April 11, 2024 8:32 PM
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[quote] And the other obvious reason.
What is that “obvious” reason?
by Anonymous | reply 200 | April 11, 2024 8:44 PM
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How is everything going now?
by Anonymous | reply 201 | June 24, 2024 1:40 AM
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You had me until the partition of India OP. Too 80s sounding. You tried it.
by Anonymous | reply 202 | June 24, 2024 1:45 AM
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[quote] I too, am curious on his thoughts regarding Beyonce's crappy song, Partition! 😁
by Anonymous | reply 203 | June 24, 2024 2:01 AM
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Op gonna get ghosted again.
by Anonymous | reply 204 | June 24, 2024 2:01 AM
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OP is Thooper-Gay Big Gay Al
by Anonymous | reply 205 | June 24, 2024 2:45 AM
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Aw, sorry to hear that, OP. Hugs.
by Anonymous | reply 207 | June 24, 2024 10:12 PM
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You may want to think twice about posting your true love dating experiences until you've gotten to know the guy. Just sayin...
by Anonymous | reply 208 | July 1, 2024 4:48 PM
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[quote] You may want to think twice about posting your true love dating experiences until you've gotten to know the guy. Just sayin...
Especially if you want to run for congress.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 209 | July 1, 2024 4:52 PM
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OP Dude, I'm not going to wade through the potentially bitchy comments here and am going to be direct.
This is a major score. This scenario is how solid relationships might begin. Sure, you might find out later that he's a serial killer or likes to wear corduroy, but in the meantime, this is a wonderful post. You had to tell someone:) Am happy for you and hope this ends up well. In my 45 years of adulthood and dating (am 63 now) this scenario has all of the elements that in my experience have led to long term relationships. Was with my ex for 26 years (we were way too young, but it was a good run) and have been married later in life for the past 6 years.
There's so much shit in the world. This post made my day. Sincerely, thank you for sharing.
by Anonymous | reply 210 | July 1, 2024 6:36 PM
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