Eldergay here , sex with a friend’s friend

Are you shaggable, OP? I smell old-man stink.

How elder is eldergay in your case, OP?

This thread alone is humiliating. Can you imagine the real-life version? Don't do it, OP. This man is just having fun. Do not make it awkward. Light crushes are meant to stay that way - that's part of the fun. If you take this further, you will embarrass yourself and ruin this. Leave it as innocent fun.

You’re basically trying to get him to do sexual therapy on you. That’s what rent boys are for.

Yes, become sexually active again, but not with this guy. You will lose a friend.

From your conversations at brunch, do you even know that he's into old guys?

Anyway, given the circumstances, I would suggest you NOT pursue this.

Not unless he's made a comment on your boner showing.

There are PLENTY of guys who are into older men. Pursue them, not your friend's friend. A.k.a., don't shit where you eat.

DL regular who's never posted on any other thread here?

Hmmmm.

As has been said there are young guys who are really attracted to silver dads. We eldergays who like young guys are very lucky that is almost a fetish for some guys.

However, it's a small % of the whole young gay sample. Chances are he is NOT one of those guys. Unless you have some specific, concrete, undeniable CLUE from him that he likes you that way, you'd be a sad fool to make a move.

I am dating an eldergay. But only because he is rich.

I say go for it, but do it organically. Flirt and flirt hard, and draw it out until he’s gagging for it. Good luck! Also, don’t tell your friend, cause he’ll get jealous.

lol Teacake

I'm a top that likes to suck dick, but when a guy starts begging me to fuck him, it's a dick wilter. Let me decide if I want to fuck you or not, desperation is a turn off

Does your dick still work?

^No :(

Raise caftan. Present hole.

Dear op, as the data lounge saying goes .....this will End in Tears...😪

If you have to ask- the answer is probably know. Mutual attraction is not a mystery and age has little to do with it when it is present.

No, not know-

Get the dating up Daddyhunt. Its Grindr for eldergays and their admirers. Tread carefully with this, you don’t know if your friend has designs on this guy or if he just hangs out with the elderly because they pick up the check at Denny’s.

At your next lunch, lean over and whisper, "You know you make my mussy WETTER than the Maid o' the Mist."

^^yes, and then make lewd gestures with your tongue. He will get it

I love Eldergays. Except the poor ones.

OP, how old are you?

He's probably just being nice. Also, he's the friend of your friend. Maybe ask your friend if it would be OK.

My straight brother is 10 years younger than me. When I was 45 and he was 35 I was in town for the holidays and we went to a LOT of parties and his he has an older good friend, who is gay and my age. Well we were drinking at one party after another and I was horny and he was hot so I made my play. He was appalled. My brother was appalled. Everyone was appalled. I couldn't believe my hipster brother and his party friend were all such squares.

I think this calls for a meeting of the Council of Eldergays. We should start a completely separate thread, discuss it amongst ourselves, and then we will return with our final report.

We've told you time and time again that Joel's just not into you.

[quote] I think this calls for a meeting of the Council of Eldergays. We should start a completely separate thread, discuss it amongst ourselves, and then we will return with our final report.

The Council has met. We have discussed OP's plan to pounce on the young friend of a friend.

Final report: OP's plan is sound and just fine with us.

[quote] maybe I should just ask X to fuck me to jump start my sex life.

You're an old bottom?

Op's plan is brilliant and as an elderday who hasn't been fucked since 2019, I'm going to just ask Jacob Elordi to fuck me to jump start my sex life, too.

[quote]Well we were drinking at one party after another and I was horny and he was hot so I made my play. He was appalled. My brother was appalled. Everyone was appalled.

🤭😆😂🤣😝

Please get that embroidered on a throw pillow and post pics! I’ll pay for it. Lemme know how to send you the money.

Op, do you want the 30 year old to fuck you back into shape so you can fuck other eldergays? Or is this so you can fuck other 30 year olds? Or is it just this 30 year old?

Why not start with a guy your own age?

I, too, would like to know OP’s age, please.

The 30-year old is the other friend's caregiver and is only there because he's being paid to pretend he likes eating at IHOP during their IHoppy Hours.

OP are you an Eldergay in your 6th or 9th decade?

R35, are you making a veiled and insulting reference to someone else who posts here?

Datalounge Exclusive!!...OP photo!!

Next time you're all at brunch, follow this young guy to the men's room, raise your kaftan and present hole. See if there's any positive response.

Does spitting on a napkin and giving it a wipe count as a positive response?

Where do you have brunch?

Datalounge World Exclusive = Photo of OP and the younger friend!!

R41 We've narrowed it down to IHOP, Denney's, or the brunch combo at Cheesecake Factory.

r43 It sounds more Wienerschnitzel to me.

Anyone that says bestie is a looney tune and infantile.