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Do you allow your husband or boyfriend to go through your phone??

This is a NO. You will not go through my messages, photos, browser history, etc unless I offer to let you look.

by Anonymousreply 26December 3, 2023 10:09 PM


by Anonymousreply 1December 3, 2023 4:09 PM

Why would he want to?

by Anonymousreply 2December 3, 2023 4:11 PM

I’ll leave if you let go!

by Anonymousreply 3December 3, 2023 4:14 PM

[QUOTE] Why would he want to?

Trust issues that lead to controlling and abusive behavior.

by Anonymousreply 4December 3, 2023 4:14 PM

No, nor me want to see his. We are (reasonably) well-adjusted adults.

by Anonymousreply 5December 3, 2023 4:15 PM

Why not? What do I have to hide? I would wonder if he would not let me look through his phone. Because of our acceptance to allow each other full access to each of our phones there has never been a time I felt the need to snoop. That is trust.

by Anonymousreply 6December 3, 2023 4:23 PM

If our sex life is still hot and he has a golden dick, yes.

by Anonymousreply 7December 3, 2023 4:31 PM

If he demands to look through your phone, he's got something to hide (which he has already deleted from his own phone). Beware.

by Anonymousreply 8December 3, 2023 4:38 PM

If by ¨to go through my phone¨ you mean hand over my phone for Daddy to search for signs of sexual, financial, social misdoings, then fuck no, I´m not a child and neither is my partner. We don´t require careful monitoring and snooping.

But if you mean do we have access to each other´s phones, then yes. We know each other´s passwords. I can return a message a call or message from his phone, or check to see if an email or alert arrived, etc. if there´s some need to do. He can do the same on mine. Neither of us has any curiosity to look for hidden photo files or hidden apps or call or message history, etc. Trust isn´t built upon a foundation of a lack of trust.

by Anonymousreply 9December 3, 2023 5:14 PM

"allow?" Is your husband subservient? a pet?

by Anonymousreply 10December 3, 2023 5:16 PM

He's utterly disinterested. There isn't much there I don't show him anyway, like photos from our travels.

I look at his only to clean it up from the dozen apps he leaves open. OCD...

by Anonymousreply 11December 3, 2023 5:17 PM

Why would I care? He can go for it. I've sent nudes, dirty jokes, fuck plans - but my bf knows all about it. 90% of my texts are either with family, or include him anyway. He knows I've got lots of porn, random dick pics, etc.

I would hate being in a relationship where we weren't open, or where I thought I had to hide something.

by Anonymousreply 12December 3, 2023 5:27 PM


by Anonymousreply 13December 3, 2023 5:29 PM

You can lock/hide threads now in WhatsApp.

Useful for more obscene communications.

by Anonymousreply 14December 3, 2023 5:39 PM

My phone is personal not for your eyes

by Anonymousreply 15December 3, 2023 6:33 PM

Do you see how the responses at r1 and r2 are connected

by Anonymousreply 16December 3, 2023 7:07 PM

You both can live quite well if you get rid of these infernal devices.

Stop being a slave to your cell phones.

by Anonymousreply 17December 3, 2023 7:14 PM

Both of them can go through my phone.

by Anonymousreply 18December 3, 2023 7:31 PM

R17 are you 100 yrs old?

by Anonymousreply 19December 3, 2023 8:32 PM

42. Why?

by Anonymousreply 20December 3, 2023 9:16 PM

Your response says otherwise

by Anonymousreply 21December 3, 2023 9:49 PM

To be honest, R21, I do think R17 has a point, and I often fantasise about getting an extremely stupid phone (one that you can only call with, basically).

But then.. there's Google Maps, Card payments with my watch, etc. All conveniences that make my comings and goings 100% traceable, of course.....

by Anonymousreply 22December 3, 2023 9:53 PM

Yes but not my diary.

by Anonymousreply 23December 3, 2023 9:56 PM

I’ve got a lover back in Japan

by Anonymousreply 24December 3, 2023 10:00 PM

Big deal, I've got a China Girl

by Anonymousreply 25December 3, 2023 10:05 PM

Cheap Chinese shoes. Tight on my feet.

by Anonymousreply 26December 3, 2023 10:09 PM
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