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I Want to Share My Weary Heart...

I’m having a midlife crisis. I ended a multiyear relationship and now I want to take trip somewhere to celebrate. Thinking of Atlanta or San Francisco, possibly a Mediterranean cruise, maybe someplace in Maine but having trouble deciding. Have any DLers visited these places?

by Anonymousreply 34November 20, 2023 4:24 PM

It's obvous why he left you

by Anonymousreply 1November 19, 2023 2:50 PM

R1 It was a mutual breakup. We created a fantasy as we would have liked it to be.

by Anonymousreply 2November 19, 2023 2:59 PM

Add Canary Islands to your list.

by Anonymousreply 3November 19, 2023 3:02 PM

[quote]Have any DLers visited these places?

All of those and more. But I've never been to me.

by Anonymousreply 4November 19, 2023 3:14 PM

"I've been to paradise but I've never been to ME..."

So I guess it's Maine.

by Anonymousreply 5November 19, 2023 3:20 PM

Wow.. Atlanta has been on my bucket list for as long as I can remember.

by Anonymousreply 6November 19, 2023 4:07 PM

Atlanta? OMG.

by Anonymousreply 7November 19, 2023 4:31 PM

You’ve already been undressed by kings. What more do you want?

by Anonymousreply 8November 19, 2023 4:44 PM

If you’re serious go to Greece, as many islands as possible. It’s off season for Mykonos so not sure what’s open.

by Anonymousreply 9November 19, 2023 4:49 PM

R8 I've seen some things, let me tell you, buddy.

by Anonymousreply 10November 19, 2023 4:52 PM

I moved like Harlow through Monte Carlo, which took about ten minutes. Very tiny. Hugely small, like Trump's tally whacker.

by Anonymousreply 11November 19, 2023 4:57 PM

we had a fight this morning.

by Anonymousreply 12November 19, 2023 5:01 PM

Honey, Atlanta, no. Maine in the winter? You gotta be the type. Why not Portugal or Spain? So beautiful and sexy!

by Anonymousreply 13November 19, 2023 5:03 PM

Multi- being two, OP?

by Anonymousreply 14November 19, 2023 5:04 PM

Depends on what you're looking for, OP... You want beautiful scenery and weather? Try the Greek isles (plural, honey). Do you want to meet someone new with whom you have a chance of a serious relationship? Try California. It always helps to live on the same continent... Monte Carlo and Nice are nice, but you're gonna be surrounded by snobs and fortune hunters, and the beaches suck. Georgia is still a violently homophobic place once you leave Atlanta.

San Francisco is a bit of a cliche, and according to Datalounge it's past its peak. How about San Diego? Plenty of gay scene, nice weather, and lots to do...

by Anonymousreply 15November 19, 2023 6:20 PM

I wet myself when OP described himself as “midlife.” How many times have we heard her say she’s 65, but looks 39?

by Anonymousreply 16November 19, 2023 6:25 PM

R8, you may have seen some things, but I’ve seen some things that a woman ain’t supposed to see.

by Anonymousreply 17November 19, 2023 6:33 PM

Go on a cruise. A really good cruise. Not some cheap them cruise. Plan it and book it for the Spring of next year. Cunard. Viking. Like that.

by Anonymousreply 18November 19, 2023 6:35 PM

If you have enough money to take a potentially international trip at leisure, you're not in a midlife crisis.

by Anonymousreply 19November 19, 2023 6:36 PM

Transatlantic on a Cunard line ship is an experience unto itself. And if you want to go abroad, Go to London or Vienna. They're quite lovely this time of year.

by Anonymousreply 20November 19, 2023 6:37 PM

I've been to Greece but not to Nice. Wrong season. May through mid October is best.

by Anonymousreply 21November 19, 2023 6:37 PM

Going to old European capitals during the Christmas holidays and enjoying the holiday markets is a wonderful experience. But consider this. If you like theater, opera, ballet, or musical performances, find out what's going on and plan a trip around it. That way you have something, an event to look forward to. And it sounds so cool to be able to say, yes, I saw that opera in Venice. Or London. or WTF ever.

by Anonymousreply 22November 19, 2023 6:48 PM

Can you move like Harlow?

Then definitely Monte Carlo.

by Anonymousreply 23November 19, 2023 6:55 PM

Instead of the Isle of Greece you should try the Isle of Lucy instead.

by Anonymousreply 24November 19, 2023 7:03 PM

The only possible reason to holiday in Atlanta is if you've never set foot outside Alabama.

by Anonymousreply 25November 19, 2023 7:12 PM

Last time this happened to me, I explored being a whore. But you’ve got to be subtle about it, OP.

by Anonymousreply 26November 19, 2023 7:29 PM

Go to a rented cabin in georgia, the leaves are beautiful and autumn is a very calming season. Drink spiced wine and just Relax and Regroup.

by Anonymousreply 27November 19, 2023 7:42 PM

How can one be a "subtle" whore, R26? Or did you mean supple?

by Anonymousreply 28November 19, 2023 8:36 PM

R26 I spent my life doing that.

by Anonymousreply 29November 20, 2023 1:27 AM

R11 You have to show them what you've got.

by Anonymousreply 30November 20, 2023 1:30 AM
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by Anonymousreply 31November 20, 2023 1:57 AM

Remembering a previous thread about this in which someone posted "I moved like Jell-O in Montebello and showed 'em all my twat."

by Anonymousreply 32November 20, 2023 2:37 AM

R9 There's more than one?

by Anonymousreply 33November 20, 2023 3:46 PM

R33 Yes.

by Anonymousreply 34November 20, 2023 4:24 PM
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