What is a fetish that you’ve secretly tried?

I once ate a whole pizza by myself! So ashamed.

Age play and race play (both for my partners' sake). And he didn't just want to do age play—he wanted to be a little girl. It was...well exactly as horrifying as you'd imagine. The race play was somehow worse.

Scat thread

Piss. I didn’t like it.

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Apparently, tho few admit it, a lot of people (both female and male) have "daddy issues" that comes out during sex; as most want to pretend that their dad is pounding them out.

Daddy play, both dad and son.

Is being handcuffed a fetish?

Leather and whips (anything to do with the leather/latex scene), is actually KINK rather than FETISH.

FETISH is something thats not normally seen as sexual that you sexualize; i.e. sneakers, cigarette smoking, football uniforms etc.

Handcuffs / bondage = is a kink

Not a fetish. However, if u think cops are hot = thats a fetish

I try everything once, but there is some shit I won't do twice.

Fucking a cannoli...one with chocolate chips!

My cannoli has a couple small chocolate chips. They give it character.

Did the cannoli consent, R12?

Fucking with the straight girls who incessantly post in the Heartstoppers thread.

Pissfucking, etc.

All of the above

I got my red wings

I had a boyfriend who occasionally wanted to piss in me. Meh.

I’ve done it all, faster than you can say “I wanna finger fuck a hick singer”.

R18, You are one lucky boy!

Tried flogging but kept laughing inappropriately instead of playing daddy.

I did hook up with a total hottie who turned out to be a furry.

I drank my pee once when I was a kid to see how it tasted

Piss (as the pisser, had a partner who was into it).

Fisting (and a footing). I didn't even know it was a thing when I first did it.

Daddy - now that I'm older, I get to mess around with some hot younger guys (28 - 40s) who want do be a son. I'm cool with that.

I never under understood the dad/son thing. In a full relationship I suppose one is looking for a mentor and guide and the other one is looking for a protegee. Is sex the extension to that, or is there more to it when fucking?

This one time, at band camp, I stuck a flute in my pussy.

R25 just a flute? I put an extra large zucchini in my pussy. So there!

R17 Me too.

Candle wax. Ruined my bedsheets

Me too, R17

Daddy/authority figure role play. For one guy who is about 20 Years younger than I am, I agreed to go to his place in suit and tie and pretend to be a private school teacher to his student who was struggling in class and with his sexuality. For a one time hookup I pretended to be his swim coach. I found both exhausting rather than hot, as I found myself trying to come up with story based dialogue rather than just slurping cock.

Pissed on a guy once but didn’t find it hot. Very safe and limited hand tying with a necktie.

R30 - pretty much the same scenario here.

I met this guy online who wanted to do an older/younger role-play. I'm 58 and he was about 48. I've never really done it, so I figured there's no harm in trying. He wanted me to be the coach, and he was my 10-year-old gym class student. We ad-libed from there, and it was kind of fun. He was asking me, the coach why everyone's dick looked different than his because he was uncut and he was on the small side, and I had to explain to him that he hadn't hit puberty, yet, etc, etc etc. However, he affected a voice that he thought sounded like a youngster, but he ended up sounding more like Kermit the Frog. It was very funny, and not very sexy, lol.

I've been lucky so far with the daddy/son thing. So far, I've only had to call him my boy, tell him to suck daddy's fat, hairy cock. That kind of thing.

Years ago, at the infamous Cuffs Bar in Silverlake, I was making out with a hot guy I had only met minutes earlier. I told him I needed to piss, and he said, "Let me have it." This was my first foray into WS. We walked to the urinal, I whipped out my dick, and he drank my piss "straight from the tap." It was hot. WS has since become a regular in my sexual arsenal.

Oh, I live in Texas. The daddy thing is big with Latino boys. Chatting with a 29 yo right now

R31 finger smells like Miss Piggy.

[quote]Oh, I live in Texas. The daddy thing is big with Latino boys

That's not just in Texas, it's everywhere! Except Florida, those guys are Cubans, totally different thing.

R2, I so miss our time together!

R37

Sex with a gerbil.

I'm a big grown up handsome man with a great job and education. Why would I need to be SECRET about some silly little fun or not fetish experiments?

Considering I’m totally not into scat, I’ve brushed up against it a handful of times. One was fisting. This super hot guy who was out of my league wanted me to fuck him. When you’re a top, I think percentage wise you tend to get more guys out of your league. Any way he wanted me to fist him. I’d never done it before and he really wanted it, so I tried it. Not my thing at all. But I am a voyeur and his orgasm was so intense by the end when he had me punching his hole, it was hot to see.

He was surprisingly super clean. I don’t understand how people get their insides like factory sealed brand new, never been used. There was a point though I was so deep, that there was a new delivery. I pulled my arm out and there was a small egg sized turd in my hand. It was like a vending machine experience. I just put it on the side of his bed in a towel and kept going.

Alabama Hot Pocket!

I was with a guy who wanted to role-play a big step bro/little step bro thing. I couldn't get into it. I never understood the fascination with siblings having sex with each other. I have a brother and that's just gross.

Ok, I’m currently on a Vonlane trip (look it up) and there was a chubby guy who boarded aster me. He looked disheveled so I assumed he was hung over. His shirt is unbuttoned except for one button.

His belly is hanging out, and now he’s clearly sober.

Does he have a shame fetish?

I’ve heard about small dick shaming, but WTF?

I was100% an observer so no first hand experience. But the most interesting scene I ever saw was not an elaborate bdsm session. But fear play. Not play like I am afraid but fill me with real terror .

The subject volunteer was in front of an audience and with a professional you knew for sure was not going to hurt him.

That poor young man never had a chance. He said it ended up being the most scared he had ever been in his life. There was a loud real chain saw and a blindfold and restraints involved.

Another a het told of being a guest at a gay session for a man who wanted fear play. There ended up being a blindfold, a crazed out of control alleged homophobic straight with a sharp knife ( some kind of ice as I remember for the knife) and a gay man sure his dick was being cut off and screaming in terror.

Not my thing but really different.

R45. Those boys were likely well paid.

R45

The guy I saw a on the wrong end of a chain saw was a vol from the audience. He was not really into fear play or bdsm he just did it on a lark and because they were asking for a vol. The people putting on the session were paid

Sorry R46 not 45

I suck my Master’s feet everyday after he gets off work. We both get off on it.

So much fetish is undignified, risible and too much work. There's got to be a better way to get off.

In my young 20s try anything phase just to say I did it, I shit in a guys mouth once. That is what he wanted me to do. I could not even begin to imagine why anyone would want to do this. Anyway I did it and couldn't even look at him again and left right after.

I did try another guy's rim chair which was very interesting. I was just minding my own business and he was down there getting his life.

I trolled rest stops to suck off truckers in their sleepers

I shit in my cat's litter box once. Because I could.

R53 I have heard your story before...

I had a friend one year who liked to be whipped. I don't have any whips, so I'd use this silver studded belt of his. I found I couldn't hit him hard or often with the studded side, and that was what he wanted, so he could bleed, I suppose. I couldn't do it. After three tries, I gave it up.

Another guy liked to slather my 501s with Vaseline Intensive Care Lotion, and make both of us cum. I did it a few times, but I had him buy me some new jeans after the first time. He was cute, so I was able to put up with it.

Another guy liked tying or cuffing me to his bed and using some kind of clamps on my nipples in particular that hurt in kind of a good way. I was always high when I was with him. He liked whipping me front and back, and since I was so high, I let him. He was someone I liked a lot when we weren't high, when we were fully clothed, even, so I didn't mind letting him have his way. I never did this with anyone else, though.

I shit in my ex boyfriend’s car because he pissed me off and I thought he was cheating on me with my dad. It wasn’t fetish it was revenge. I laughed for months

R53 is an absolute and total asshole

The one I have a hard time, ok difficult time , even thinking about is those who insert rods or something similar into their penis. That gives me the creeps just thinking about it.

OK making your sub lick the cum off a porn theater floor comes mighty close

Fire play just sounds dangerous.

Why does it seem that it's mostly men that have fetishes? You really don't hear of women having specific fetishes like watching people smoke or crush baby animals with their heels.

R59, you are definitely a gay man. Women have major daddy fetishes. They also love getting choked out, peed on. Even Rosie Perez is pretty outspoken about her foot fetish. And I worked in shoes long enough to know that there are several women with an exhibitionistic streak how love to go to stores with no panties on and try on shoes. I think they get off on having a man at their feet staring up at their cunt. Human sexuality is amazing and varied and pulls no punches when it comes to men or women.

As quiet as it's kept, a good number of women have rape fantasy, fetishes. As Wendy Williams said when talking about Shia LeBeouf, who she had a major crush on, "He just looks like that type that would grab you by the neck, throw you on the bed and do you dirty. You like what you like..."

r60, isn't that exhibitionism? Or is that a fetish? Daddy and rape is fairly common fetishes with men and women. It just seems like men have more than women.

No, women have it just as much. I worked with a group of women. They all talked about liking rough sex, if not all of the time, at least some of the time to get off. I think more so with women. It's a huge generalization, but humans aren't part of the animal kingdom where the female gets to choose her mate. We are part of the animal kingdom where the strongest male just took what he wanted, and it was that way for tens of thousands of years. So that may be built in more so with women, even though it flies in the face of everything women have been taught to want for themselves for the last 200 years.

Exhibitionism can be a fetish. Exhibitionism isn't JUST showing off your genitalia. It is walking around in very revealing clothes, falling out of your clothes. There are women who get a sexual thrill knowing that people can make out their body, their breast, nipples, camel toe just walking down the street, skirt blowing up - this maybe even more so than men too.

R4, Piss, didn't like it either. I opened my mouth to say, "Stop!" and ended up with warm piss in my mouth.

[quote]I pulled my arm out and there was a small egg sized turd in my hand. It was like a vending machine experience.

WW for that 😂😂😂

[quote]Why does it seem that it's mostly men that have fetishes? You really don't hear of women having specific fetishes

Fetlife.com That place swamped with woman. Mostly skanks who want to do nasty mean spirited things to straight men. They keep invading the gay forums too.

Nasty bitches who love being farted on

R66 I forgot all about that place. I don't have the energy for it. You stumble across some hot profile you like and discover the guy hasn't been on since 2013. I wish there was some basic search function on there, but the moderators like to keep it analogue and basic.

I haven't bathed since June. Does that count?

Go away stealth scat troll. Everytime a thread like this comes about that is what it’s about. You’re that freak from a few years ago. Fuck off.

No r69

It seems I've become a fan of fisting (others) . I went to a Stallions and Mares party and found myself getting my hand up guys' butts. Never got it fully in but it was hot. Hot guys too. I'm generally the romantic type that likes to make out, etc.

R69, wow I didn’t know McBongo posted on DL.

I tried verbal domination for a while and I got pretty good at it, too. I found that it can be a great way to increase your partners performance!

R74 I freakin love it too with men and women. I’m so dam kinky verbally.

There is one fetish that is solely men only: pyrofilia

[quote] "He wanted me to be the coach, and he was my 10-year-old gym class student."

This is one I'll never understand. I was aware of my attraction to the same sex at that age, though I didn't have a word for it. And I was drawn to older boys and men. But playacting anything where one is a juvenile or even younger would weird me the fuck out. The same with adult baby fetishists.. Just...fuck no.

I'm pretty vanilla. I don't like mind games in the bedroom. But I do like underwear, and men's vintage clothing/grooming/styling.

The Bill Cosby method with a few willing guys. After the third time it lost it's appeal.

Vicious face slapping.

I was arranging a hook up with a hot sometimes co-worker. He asked if he could put a rope around my “pretty little neck” — he was from the bayou and into all kinds of voodoo shit. Even had his chest tattoos as an Ouija board. I passed.

I was in the Meat Rack and, between dodging and slapping bugs, a man approached. As he continued to suck my cock, he was asking for are play. I started talking about home room and detention. But he kept saying “Younger! Younger!” He wanted me to act as if he was my baby — a legitimate baby. He wanted me to fuck my baby. I left him there on his knees in the Meat Rack, dick out. No judgement but what a freak!

i got into water sports(giving) young during my first trip to NYC. Didn’t find many participants back home. However one hot summer Sunday, when out of town, I met up with a guy who was also from out of town (neither of us had a place to go to) at a beer bust. He was into receiving piss, so I would take his empty beer can to the john and fill it will my piss. We hung out on the patio with he drinking my piss out of his beer can, and I’m drinking scotch and water to keep my bladder full. One of the hottest scenes of my life.

I once told a trick my real name

[quote] I once ate a whole pizza by myself!

Only once?!

Young guy wanted to role play dad-son with me and I complied but as I got very realistic talking about "his mother my wife", he started to freak out. That didn't stop him for cumming like a geyser though.

I keep meaning to have sex with someone I love, but I always put it off.

I used to hook up with this handsome guy in Toronto who was a pee hag. I would pee into his mouth at his place but that’s hard to do with a hard on. If he be more into me in a bar he would follow me into the washroom with an empty pint glass and fill up while I was at the urinal.

On a trip to Copenhagen I went to a private club called Scandinavian Leathermen. The urinals in the washroom led to bathtubs on the other side of the wall and there was an archway so you could go around and look. Guys could just go sit on the tubs and do what they wanted with the pee tricking down the pipes.

Cannibalism

Years and years ago I did daddy/boy stuff with a guy I really liked. I was the boy. I liked it to a point.

But it got super creepy - too intense for me - and I ended things because it was all he really wanted to do sexually.

Piss. Enjoyed it.

I played father/son with a hot fuck buddy a few times. He didn't want me to be underage or anything though. It was more about him sort of encouraging me to explore my fantasies, and his body. It was very hot.

Pissing on somebody - I developed shy bladder and he was suddenly boring to me.

Infantilism - I hit on him and he was passive which was fine, but the third person baby talk afterwards skeeved me out. I couldn’t see the point of pretending once I climaxed. I left.

hot wax

various clamps

choking

exhibitionism

various (probably borderline vanilla) bdsm

I have done roleplay as the dad/son but it's a bore because it involves being in a position that if real I would never do. I also don't understand wanting to have sex with your nearest and dearest. It was hard enough eating dinner with them let alone thinking about my dick and their .....ugh. Dear God just shit on me first!

So many of you are WAY OVER THINKING the meaning behind dad/son roleplay.

Rarely are participants actually fantasizing actual family members but rather it’s an elevated (often to be honest drug induced) mindset that you leave your body , both participants do and in a 3rd person you are able to both physically and mentally play sexually , sorta like imagine 2 boys playing with action figures as kiids; it’s really fun if you find someone compatible who’s mentally capable of keeping up and share the same pervy interests.

I pick my nose.

R93

Rarely? Based on what?

I am going to guess that for many it is reliving or fantasying about actual father and son incest sex. Real or make believe it’s the truly forbidden that makes it hot.

For almost none I am going to guess does daddy son play have anything to do with 2 young boys playing with action figures.

Is it weird to not really have a fetish?

Fisting and shrimp jobs. Oh and shoved my foot up my boyfriends ass.

I was whipped because my friends are into it. It did nothing for me

R96

Not weird just either sexual novice or “vanilla” aka boring

Golden showers with training wheels - I once let a guy piss on my leg while we were taking a shower together.

R93 exactly. I have done dad/son roleplay several times (always as the son) but I am not fantasizing about my own biological father.

When it worked, it was with mature, masculine men who had the right balance of being affectionate and mentoring/encouraging but also passionate (and could throw a good fuck). Think Mitch Leery as your dad....not, you know, your actual dad. The kind of guy who called me "buddy" or "sport" or "champ".....it can be very hot in the right context.

Pissfucking Jennifer’s fag husband.

[quote]and could throw a good fuck

I knew the fuck throwing troll was a bottom.

Leather gear including: Hoods, gags, harness, chaps, boots, jock

Water Sports with 3 other guys all pissing on me while on the floor over a drain.

Being fucked in a sling with hands locked behind my back under the sling. Gagged and blindfolded for good measure.

Glory Hole scene with total stranger in a private garage.

Hot Wax, Pegs, CBT

Gag the Fag style throat fucking.

[quote] Water Sports with 3 other guys all pissing on me while on the floor over a drain.

My shining accomplishment was 6 hot men pissing on me (and several more watching, moaning and shooting their loads around us) in a bathtub in a bar in Toronto.

[...]

R105, I's jealous.

Is Voyeurism a fetish? If so, I am sick with it.

I love to watch, always have. I like seeing how other people get themselves off. Anyway, I bought a sex toy shaped like a female ass on Amazon. It was just the butt with two holes. I nicknamed her Assley Upton. I used to post ads on craigs and doublelist looking for guys who'd let me watch them fuck it. You have to kiss a lot of frogs in emails, but every once in a while you would get a blazing hot guy WHO's secret fetish was exhibitionism, and it was a match made in heaven.

This one straight guy came over during his lunch break from work dressed in a suit, he stripped down at the door stayed naked the entire time and fucked the toy while watching porn. He shot the biggest load all over it. It was super hot.

R95, I think R93 is right.

Daddy/Boy is really about dominance/passivity. (Not quite BDSM, but on the spectrum) It rarely has anything to do with an actual father and son sex.

This dynamic is further heightened with the age gap (presumably) which makes the control the daddy has over the boy seem even more one sided and inevitable: Daddy is all powerful. Boy is all beautiful. Boy is there to be used however daddy wants, but also protected and adored.

Non daddy/boy sex can have this dynamic too. But daddy/boy is just leans into it more.

Fuck, now I wish I was 25 again! I am turning myself on.

Eh, for me it was more of what I described at R101. I was a bottom with "daddy" but not deeply submissive or passive.

Obviously others may experience it differently. But I think the deeply intoxicating part of the roleplay is the mix of a very affectionate, loving older man (especially if you didn't experience that fraternal closeness with your own dad or male family members) combined with hot fucking/passion. And when "daddy" is a virile, hairy man, all the better.

When a bit of your emotional needs are met along with a good pounding......well, it's easy to see why that concept became so popular.

I like daddy/boy musical numbers.

It wasn't until my early-30s that my nip play kink became apparent. This is how it started, I was dating a guy who was extremely into it. I like teasing him with my mouth and squeezing his nips hard with my fingers while I fucked him. At some point I was started tonotice that I was developing my own nip/dick connection.

Twenty-five years later, I am so dependent on having my nips being played with that I am unable to cum without it.

I was with a fuck buddy once and in the middle of things he wanted to do age play. I've always tended to like guys around my own age or older, but he was a bit younger.

We were mid-fuck and he suddenly said "Imagine I'm your younger brother" I went along with it "OK..." Then he asked how young I wanted him to be "Erm...16...?" I said. "No I'm about 10". I just couldn't go through with that. I didn't see him again.

If you notice in porn (as I have) the dad / son thing tends to be a step-father / son scenario, which kind of avoids the ick of incest. I do think it's more about an age and power dynamic.

Has this younger fuck buddy a few years ago who was into piss play. It doesn’t do much for me but I was really attracted to him so I went along with it.

One time I was fucking him and he wanted me to pee while I was inside of him. I found the mechanics of that slightly awkward but managed. It was a weird sensation for me (I think I feared it would suddenly burst out of his ass) but he was so turned on that I got swept up in his euphoria.

Another incident from years ago but always wanted to repeat… Met a guy online who had a whole role-play scenario he wanted to act out. We were to meet “coincidentally” at side-by-side urinals in the men’s room of an Irish pub*. He’s noticing my cock, one thing leads to another, we take it back to my room.

I couldn’t believe how turned on and how hard I got. I hadn’t anticipated being so into it but I was.

*No, I don’t think the Irish pub was part of his fantasy. But I learned later on he’d scouted out bars where the men’s room had a good set up for his plan.

Lets talk dirty:

[quote]R4: Piss. I didn’t like it.

Piss. I absolutely liked it.

DL is full of Piss Queens, gee, what a surprise.

A very good friend of mine is a famous bodybuilder and escort. He has changed his identity and it's dropped out of the scene completely however we still talk and he does tell me some of the stories of his days as an escort. The most disturbing one so far has been the client that wanted to be fisted which is nothing unusual, however he wanted to be fisted in the bedroom of his elderly mother with Alzheimer's so she could watch.

Im a white male escort and 80% of the black men who have hired me have wanted to engage in race play / humiliation.