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When Was The Last Time You Went To A Bathhouse?

If you have been to a bathhouse- what were your adventures there?

I went a week ago and I had sex with this guy who sucked on my toes and fingers besides my cock which he said was HUGE but I noticed a bit later that his penis was impressively small- I would say that full erect he was only about 3.5 inches.

by Anonymousreply 150January 15, 2024 9:43 PM

Make bathhouses cool again. I like going, but haven't been in a while. They are the best places to be in an all-male, gay environment. Have sex, don't have sex or just jack-off together, steam, sauna, etc., bathhouses provide an escape from the world for aw few hours where you can actually see someone in person with whom you're attracted, maybe talk, and not play those endless online chats that rarely if ever amount to anything. Several men all under the same roof at a bathhouse is a hell of a lot more appealing than an online mystery man that is soul-sucking and not much else.

by Anonymousreply 1March 26, 2023 4:35 AM

R1- I didn’t have sex with so called HOT 🥵 guys. They were just regular mature guys like myself. I didn’t care I was just happy to have some fun for a few hours.

by Anonymousreply 2March 26, 2023 4:45 AM

R2 is me the OP.

by Anonymousreply 3March 26, 2023 4:46 AM

I went about 20+ yrs ago. I went about 5x & always with the same hookup/friend. Neither of us had a place so we’d go there to get a room & have sex. A couple times we ventured out to the pool 7& the porn room just to see what was what. I remember people having sex in the porn room—which was prohibited. I was turned off by the smell of ass & we beat a hasty retreat to our room. I remember the Moby song We Are All Made of Stars playing.

by Anonymousreply 4March 26, 2023 7:29 AM

In 1981 when I was 21 I spent the summer in NYC working at the Club Baths. It was an interesting experience and I only had sex with one person while working there, being around all that sex all day kinda turns you off to it after awhile. Although I did still have hook up with guys I met while not working.

by Anonymousreply 5March 26, 2023 8:41 AM

My last bathhouse visit was in February 2020 at the MegaPlex sauna in Providence, Rhode Island. Yes, Covid was already in the news, but in America, nobody seemed too aware or too afraid of -- yet.

I was in the tiny darkish sauna with two guys as I watched one getting sucked for awhile. They weren't interested in me, as they were younger and the suckee was attractive -- but I was happy to simply watch. I was 59 and way out shape.. No interruptions because it wasn't busy in MegaPlex that night.

I still wonder what they would have thought then about Covid starting in a few weeks. Probably turned into a memorable, otherwise random, hookup, as it was likely their last hookup for a while, right? Plus, the soon-to-be epicenter of NYC/NJ was only over two hours south, so maybe some patrons from the that area were in the club already spreading Covid, right? Maybe I was!

I guess the club had to close for awhile, but so far, it seems to have survived?

No, it's not anywhere as nice as Steamworks in Chicago, but better than nothing, as Boston hasn't had a bathhouse in 20 years, and it's only 45 miles away by car, or commuter rail, bus and Amtrak.

by Anonymousreply 6March 26, 2023 9:33 AM

Brooklyn, 1972

by Anonymousreply 7March 26, 2023 9:40 AM

R7= Sophia Petrillo

by Anonymousreply 8March 26, 2023 1:51 PM

I went earlier tonight but I was so cold that I did not have any sex even though an attractive young Asian guy was standing outside of my room numerous times trying to get me to notice him.

by Anonymousreply 9November 5, 2023 6:37 AM

I went last Saturday in Cleveland. I'm 62 look 45 so yes siree, my dance card is always full. I have autism so I don't connect intimately with any of my numerous partners. And I usually say something awkward that kills the ambiance and the man I am with will quickly leave fearing that I am a serial killer. As if. But I have an enormous cock so I just wait for the next guy. After, I will come to DL and post my dead affect experiences.

by Anonymousreply 10November 5, 2023 7:11 AM

It's almost 10 inches.

by Anonymousreply 11November 5, 2023 7:12 AM

Oh R11 is me at R10. My name is Gus. Nice to meat you.

by Anonymousreply 12November 5, 2023 7:12 AM

Sex club, last week. I last went to a bathhouse maybe 5 or 6 years ago. It was Steamworks in Berkeley (California). The area is now gentrified with condos and shops, all withing walking distance. I don't have a car, so it seems a bit more of a hassle to go to the East Bay from San Francisco.

by Anonymousreply 13November 5, 2023 7:17 AM

[quote]They are the best places to be in an all-male, gay environment

I like R1's sentiments. My partner and I just had a night out in West Hollywood - and the whole damn place is overrun with straight girly-girls. Every "gay" bar is overrun with straight women. It was annoying AF.

Judge all you want about bathhouses - and the gay neighborhoods of the 1970's and the 1980's - call them ghettos if you must - but there sure was something wonderful about escaping into an all-male world. No Girls Allowed!

by Anonymousreply 14November 5, 2023 7:32 AM

One and done about a decade ago. Doesn’t curl my toes. I know, I know. I prefer pearls to clutch.

by Anonymousreply 15November 5, 2023 7:54 AM

I went to Megaplex in Providence, Rhode Island, in mid February 2020.....yes , Covid was in the news somewhat but thought nothing of lingering in the sauna watching two guys getting it on. Haven't been back. Wasn't that busy at 2 am on a weekend, not sure if it is nowadays.

I am 63 now.

I'd go a few times yearly to that one or the other in Providence over the years, an hour or less from Boston at night.

I hope to finally go again in the next few months. But 63 is 63, so not expecting a grande reception.

by Anonymousreply 16November 5, 2023 7:58 AM

Two weeks ago, a trip out to Troy NY for a few hours at River Street Club. Bathhouses are hit or miss, the Sunday afternoon I was there it was a big miss.

Clientele were aging fat guys. And a few younger guys who were also fat. For me, it's just not attractive or a turn on.

Now, I did get off, lucked out with meeting another guy show was my age-ish and he was not in bad shape; a hungry cocksucker who blew me (a fine, wet, sloppy, deep-throated, enthusiastic blowjob). In front of others shot my load on his face and the down his throat.

River Street's a fairly nice place. Needs some TLC and better porn on the monitors (one plays straight porn with the volume turned on - who cares?).

by Anonymousreply 17November 5, 2023 11:25 AM

Before I got sober 14 years ago, I used to love West Side Club in NYC. Met two boyfriends there, and both ended badly- near the end, the club was seedy, run down, and full of meth addicts. Derelict, and run down operations. I saw building management are trying unsuccessfully to rent the space for business nowadays.

First boyfriend had a young, haunting beauty of Angelina Jolie, the second was a slim, Black guy with a great smile and almost 12 inches of cock. He lived in DC and I dated both of them for several years.

I spent a lot of time in gay bathhouses because I was lonely. Wish I had taken up a hobby or sport instead!

by Anonymousreply 18November 5, 2023 12:24 PM

Was in Troy last Sunday - fucked the stuffing out of a eager boy in his room - left the door open and drew a crowd. And later fucked a Freddy Mercury look-a-like in the sling ... I had fun

by Anonymousreply 19November 5, 2023 12:32 PM

R6 is Gerg

by Anonymousreply 20November 5, 2023 12:35 PM

I live in Chicago and used to go to Steamworks pretty regularly but haven’t been since before Covid(2019). I feel like it’s a breeding ground to get sick. Something changed and I just can’t do the casual sex thing since the Pandemic. I’m also with my husband/partner for 20 years(we have an open relationship) and I can’t imagine bringing it into the house.

by Anonymousreply 21November 5, 2023 12:41 PM

R18, the West Side Club was always seedy but disgusting at the end. I wonder if whoever moved into this space is haunted by ghosts of sluts past. Or is it still empty as you implied?

by Anonymousreply 22November 5, 2023 1:03 PM

Oh Miss Prissy!

Happily married and monogamous here 7 years, and both open relationships I’ve had ended exactly this way.

There’s also a jolt of energy that waxes and wanes between us and though I’m pretty sure he’d open the relationship, it’d extinguish what we have.

I also don’t cheat because I’d be afraid to open a pants zipper and find a rockhard 3 inches.

by Anonymousreply 23November 5, 2023 1:08 PM


by Anonymousreply 24November 5, 2023 1:31 PM

One man’s 3 inches is another “man’s” engorged clit.

by Anonymousreply 25November 5, 2023 1:35 PM

"it’d "

Oh my !!

by Anonymousreply 26November 5, 2023 4:19 PM

I live in Chicago. Went to steamorks twice over the summer.

I have to be in the mood. Usually, 19 vodka and 6 lines deep.

by Anonymousreply 27November 5, 2023 4:23 PM

R22, If you type in the street address, you can see pictures of floor through space that’s been cleared up for rent. They likely rented out the basement to another tenant, but there’s no trace of the club left.

by Anonymousreply 28November 5, 2023 4:44 PM

R26 Legit. Contraction of “It” and “Would”. “It’d”.

Similar to “I” and “Would”. “I’d”.

by Anonymousreply 29November 5, 2023 4:50 PM

No 29 illgit

by Anonymousreply 30November 5, 2023 5:49 PM

WSC closed a long while ago—early pandemic. The fact that there once was a sex club in that space has nothing to do with its rentability now. It didn’t matter then, either.

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by Anonymousreply 31November 5, 2023 5:57 PM

R31- Some say West Side Club was a DUMP- in the later years it was kinda falling apart but when I started going there in 2000 it was clean and well kept and very busy. One would often have to wait for 15 minutes or more for any room to become available on a Saturday night. There were lots of HOT guys there then but lots of attitude too- even from guys who were average looking.

by Anonymousreply 32November 5, 2023 6:10 PM

I am sure it’s rentable, R32, but I would love to know who’s in there now.

by Anonymousreply 33November 5, 2023 6:11 PM

The Denver Swim Club during the national Gay Chorus GALA festival…2017ish.

by Anonymousreply 34November 5, 2023 6:31 PM

Thursday night at Flex in Cleveland ( the world's largest gay bathhouse). In the Asylum, a big room with glory holes, slings, swinging mattress, etc., there was a guy bent over being tag teamed by two younger men. Of course, a crowd gathered and, as the others watched the fucking, sucking and handjobs ensued amongst all of the others. I got a very good blowjob.

by Anonymousreply 35November 5, 2023 6:32 PM

[quote]When Was The Last Time You Went To A Bathhouse?

Let's just say that there was no DL to provide comfort and support the last time I went to one.

by Anonymousreply 36November 5, 2023 7:06 PM

R36- Awww 😥

by Anonymousreply 37November 5, 2023 7:21 PM

2000 in LA….Can’t remember the name of the place, but it had a bathtub.

I pissed on a very eager tub boy and then came on his face.

by Anonymousreply 38November 5, 2023 7:24 PM

When the Baths of Caracalla opened.

by Anonymousreply 39November 5, 2023 7:42 PM

A luxurious hammam in the then leafy suburbs of Baghdad, under the Abbasid caliphat.

by Anonymousreply 40November 5, 2023 8:04 PM


by Anonymousreply 41November 5, 2023 8:04 PM

R14: "Judge all you want about bathhouses - and the gay neighborhoods of the 1970's and the 1980's - call them ghettos if you must - but there sure was something wonderful about escaping into an all-male world. No Girls Allowed!"-Exactly. That's what kept me going back.

by Anonymousreply 42November 5, 2023 9:03 PM

I'm in one right now! Just waiting for the next viral load, so thought I'd spend a few mins on DL!

by Anonymousreply 43November 5, 2023 9:05 PM

I only know of one that isn’t a total crack den in Philly.

by Anonymousreply 44November 5, 2023 9:11 PM

I was considering going to a bathhouse tonight and being a WHORE but I stuffed myself today so I may just have to settle for being a

FAT WHORE tonight.

by Anonymousreply 45November 12, 2023 1:09 AM

I haven’t been to a gay bathhouse in close to ten years when I still lived in NYC and in decent proximity to the rancid West Side Club.

I live in north NJ now, and once or twice a month I’ll spend an afternoon at one of the handful of Korean bathhouses they have here. I go mostly to relax and see some real live naked dudes. These obviously aren’t gay bathhouses, but they are very cruisy nonetheless. Basically every time I go I’m able to find some to tug off with in the steam room. Even if I’m not participating, I always see some oral or hand stuff happening.

Depending on when you go, the clientele is typically around 40% Asian guys who seem like they grew up with public baths as a common tradition, around 40% gay guys like me looking to see naked dudes and maybe crank off in the sauna, and (most titillating), around 20% straight guys who got dragged there by their wife or girlfriend to have a spa day. You get the full gamut from obese elder trolls to gorgeous 20-something bodybuilder types.

by Anonymousreply 46November 12, 2023 1:48 AM

I haven't been in ten years at least. I'm surprised they're still a thing. I figure the only guys there would be the guys too ugly or old to get laid on hookup apps.

by Anonymousreply 47November 12, 2023 5:35 AM

R47, you are not wrong... my last two trips to bathhouses had that kind of clientele. One must have been a reunion of DataLounge's "Fat Whores Rejoice!" club - Providence, RI chapter, the other? The Troy, NY guys.

by Anonymousreply 48November 12, 2023 12:35 PM

2017. NZ in Amsterdam. Then I met my husband and now our bathhouse is at home.

by Anonymousreply 49November 12, 2023 12:41 PM

I went last night anyway. I felt like I could not get noticed much but the crowd was not particularly illlustrious anyway. The few attractive guys ignored me. I'm no spring chicken and I'm a FAT WHORE but it still bothered me.

by Anonymousreply 50November 12, 2023 3:00 PM

I'm going tomorrow!

by Anonymousreply 51November 12, 2023 3:01 PM

R51- A Monday seems like the slowest day of the week to go to a bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 52November 12, 2023 3:03 PM

It’s probably been 10 years since I’ve been in a bathhouse. I’m 67, and once I started showing my age, I decided not to put myself through the ordeal of being rejected. But in the 80s, 90s, and 00s, I would go a couple of times a week and fuck for hours. At the time, I had great fun. Now, I’m glad it’s not a part of my life.

by Anonymousreply 53November 12, 2023 3:12 PM

R53- I'm 58. Maybe it's time for me to stop going although I see guys there considerably older than me sometimes.

by Anonymousreply 54November 12, 2023 3:18 PM

I never did get into the groove, so to speak, at bathhouses. Whatever the little mating dance was there, I didn't ever seem to do it right.

Had one very awesome afternoon at one in Toronto about 20 years ago, with several middle aged Canadian daddies deciding that the American tourist needed to have his face covered in Canadian cum. Beyond that, it's been a big ole zero every time. I liked cruising mens rooms and adult arcades much better....that's just me, though.

by Anonymousreply 55November 12, 2023 3:23 PM

Yes—they’re called shop bottoms. And they ARE in fact GAY

by Anonymousreply 56November 12, 2023 3:24 PM

I love Korean spas, R 46, especially getting a body scrub which is totally invigorating. Went to a couple where the scrub tables are right next to the showers, so it's normal to see men with very stiff erections lying on the table getting scrubbed. Occasionally, there is a very hot one displaying his hardon. At those times, the number of men hanging around the shower goes up precipitously. A scrub is, by no means, for the bashful. Here is a demo.

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by Anonymousreply 57November 12, 2023 3:45 PM

I love the scrubb a dub dub

by Anonymousreply 58November 12, 2023 3:46 PM

I might go to a bathhouse on Saturday night. If I do I will report back any of my adventures or lack of adventures here.

by Anonymousreply 59November 21, 2023 10:02 PM

R12 Gus, are you on any apps? I need 10 inches.

by Anonymousreply 60November 21, 2023 10:05 PM

Probably in the 20th century....god, that makes me sound old.

by Anonymousreply 61November 21, 2023 10:17 PM

R61- Of course you're OLD if the last time you went to a bathhouse was 1904 ( early 20th century)

by Anonymousreply 62November 21, 2023 11:18 PM

River Street in Troy about a month ago. It was OK. But nothing like it had been years back. Very few men there. And it seems like the owners have given up on properly maintaining the place. No, it’s not a dump. Yet. But gradually headed in that direction.

I suppose with no other functioning bathhouse anywhere close they don’t feel pressured to keep the place nice. But the energy there just felt a bit melancholy.

Plus (bracing myself to be Mary!d), I missed the bird. Some of you must remember the bird in the giant cage facing the gym. That bird had such a nice personality. I used to have conversations with him.

by Anonymousreply 63November 22, 2023 3:46 AM

I’ve never been but I’ve always been curious. Are there any in NYC now? What’s the whole process like? You just walk in and take off your clothes and walk around in a towel staring at each other until something happens? Or doesn’t. I’m deeply shy, I don’t know that I’d be good at it

by Anonymousreply 64November 22, 2023 4:14 AM

R64- Yes, I believe there is only one left in NYC. East Side Club.

by Anonymousreply 65November 22, 2023 1:32 PM

…^which has the worst possible floor plan for any kind of excitement. It makes the WSC look like an Equinox.

by Anonymousreply 66November 22, 2023 3:28 PM

r10 Gus.. seriously I need that dick.

by Anonymousreply 67November 22, 2023 6:40 PM

Huh. I was at River Street last year around Thanksgiving and while the crowd was 60% not my type, I still hooked up with a couple of hot guys.

One guy was a strapping bearded Carharrt daddy. I walked into the steam room and he was there beating off like a maniac. We got into it hard for a good 30 minutes (with a couple of water breaks).

by Anonymousreply 68November 22, 2023 6:51 PM

The last time I was at a bathhouse was 25 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 69November 22, 2023 6:54 PM

[quote]I missed the bird ... That bird had such a nice personality. I used to have conversations with him.


by Anonymousreply 70November 23, 2023 7:48 AM

What I don't get about River Street or the bathhouses in Providence, is why don't they promote themselves? I'm not on Grindr or Scruff, but hop in and out of Manhunt... is there a rule of some sort that prevents bathhouses from having profiles on the apps? Or just ads?

And can't they create some sort of Facebook presence? They don't have to be slutty, but could get the word out about their "services". I really wonder how many guys in western New England even know River Street...

by Anonymousreply 71November 23, 2023 11:15 AM

R71, I’d wondered about that myself. Worse, their websites are way out of date. River Street’s site, in particular is a joke. The home page advertises an event from last March, but the Events page is blank. The Specials page announces a discount between 10 and 11 AM, but they don’t open until 11! Obviously, they just don’t care whether or not men show up.

What I really don’t understand is that with the huge population in the Northeastern US, we should be able to support a whole network of vibrant bathhouses (even today, given that many men hook up exclusively online). Why is it possible in Madrid, Munich, Vienna, Paris …but not in the US? Can anyone explain that?

by Anonymousreply 72November 23, 2023 12:02 PM

What exactly is a bathhouse? Showers? Baths? Sauna? That sort of thing?

by Anonymousreply 73November 23, 2023 12:12 PM

R71 Manhunt? Manhunt! What the hell—are there 8 dudes left in Manhattan on that site?

by Anonymousreply 74November 23, 2023 12:50 PM

R73 yes, Rose. Plus a rowing machine and a single exercise bike.

by Anonymousreply 75November 23, 2023 12:51 PM

R72, I can answer that.

The bath houses like Safari Club in Boston decades ago don’t want to run afoul of decency laws and operate inside a legally grey area sort of like massage parlors OR using “private club” membership like the ELKS or Amvets, that are legal workarounds instead of public facing businesses. The after hours club Rise in Boston did this successfully for many years.

. They don’t want locals to know what’s going on inside their walls, or worse, attract new outsiders that might question the business model. Often, they pay police to look the other way and operate from word of mouth so the refrains know exactly what to expect beforehand.

Safari club closed because even when advertised as a health club and had a handful of gym equipment on site, the police were called during a drunken altercation of a patron and they found a bucket of used condoms indicating sexual activity and empty alcohol containers.

I would venture to guess that they don’t update or promote extensively because whatever advertised could be used against them in a court of law. If they advertised as a “gym” or health club, or like a Turkish or Korean bath house, it would attract straight men or women- thinking it was some sort of beauty retreat or relaxation lounge.

by Anonymousreply 76November 23, 2023 2:00 PM

Yup. It's puritan laws.

Honestly the only advertising I've ever seen for bath houses was in those "Damron Guides", which I guess don't even exist anymore?

by Anonymousreply 77November 23, 2023 5:09 PM

Went to one in Tokyo just last week.It was fantastic, Japanese men are beautiful

by Anonymousreply 78November 23, 2023 8:03 PM

R78- I don't have an Asian fetish but I too have always found some Japanese guys really good looking.

by Anonymousreply 79November 23, 2023 8:14 PM

[quote]Clientele were aging fat guys. And a few younger guys who were also fat. For me, it's just not attractive or a turn on.

Same here R17. Local bathhouses here are a bit like that, the one in Tokyo its the opposite, fat guys were the exception, even the Westerners there. Plenty of older guys, but they are almost all slim with great bodies

[quote]I hope to finally go again in the next few months. But 63 is 63, so not expecting a grande reception.

R16 if you are still in reasonable shape/ slim you may get a far better reception than you think. Age is just a number

by Anonymousreply 80November 23, 2023 8:25 PM

R76, are you saying that bathhouses currently operating in the US are operating illegally? Or am I misunderstanding your point?

by Anonymousreply 81November 24, 2023 12:40 AM

Many are, yes.

You think a gay bathhouse in a Red State would be tolerated by the citizens and law enforcement if they knew what went on inside? Everyone has to keep up a pretense or the bathhouse gets SHUT DOWN.

by Anonymousreply 82November 24, 2023 12:42 AM

R78 and R79, I agree. Japanese men are hot. They're also very stylish, especially their hairstyles.

by Anonymousreply 83November 24, 2023 12:55 AM

R72, there's the question of just maintaining a website that has current information... River Street's way out of date... that's just laziness or disinterest. The dinginess of Mega-Plex in Providence is, again, laziness on the part of the owners.

The attractiveness and cleanliness of the interior of the club's, are again, something that would add to repeat customers...

by Anonymousreply 84November 24, 2023 1:27 AM

Most gay bath houses are owned by straight people who really don't care. Many were at one point owned by (or connected closely to) the mob or organized crime. It was just a way to make money.

by Anonymousreply 85November 24, 2023 2:24 AM

R81 yes and no. Legally, the premise of a bath house is an athletic or recreational facility, the rooms for “resting” and relaxing. Sauna, gym equipment, and TV rooms where members congregate disguise the real intentions.

With gyms failing left and right and Grndr and other apps popular, bath houses are a diminishing return of profit. Also, many only dealt cash and carry, and feel the pinch of credit card fees.

I would guess outdated or old websites allow a certain plausible deniability to the owners as well, especially if they changed hands or management.

by Anonymousreply 86November 24, 2023 7:36 AM

R77 Damron Guide! A blast from the past.

I used to know they guy who went from city to city to review bars and restaurants…and sell ads.

Nice guy…it’s a shame he’s long dead.

by Anonymousreply 87November 24, 2023 8:10 PM

The bathhouse I frequent is run by two married men who actually live in the facility. They have done wonders to clean and renovate the place.

by Anonymousreply 88November 24, 2023 8:22 PM

so R88, where is this said Shangri- La? Although is does sound like you visit someone's home that has been turned into a sex club.

by Anonymousreply 89November 24, 2023 9:01 PM

Why the hate, R89? Your bitterness is so unattractive.

by Anonymousreply 90November 24, 2023 9:07 PM

It was pre-boyfriend and now husband.

Probably 1998.

I need to bulk up (and find an excuse) to go.

by Anonymousreply 91November 24, 2023 9:18 PM

R90, what hate? Jesus Christ... i asked where the place was located, but am a bit skeptical...

by Anonymousreply 92November 24, 2023 11:29 PM

I'm probably going to a bathhouse tomorrow night- it's partly for sex but mostly just to boost my ego.

I will go home completely satisfied knowing good looking guys or a guy is interested in me even if I don't end up having any sex.

by Anonymousreply 93November 25, 2023 4:15 AM

R93, which bathhouse in Rome do you prefer? I am sorry you are not pursuing your Brazilian doctor BF/sugar baby.

by Anonymousreply 94November 25, 2023 4:17 AM

If I went to a bathhouse now, the last thing it would do is help my ego. I doubt even the ugly guys would want to have sex with me.

by Anonymousreply 95November 25, 2023 4:46 AM

R95- How old are you?

by Anonymousreply 96November 25, 2023 5:17 AM

R95, what’s wrong with you? Why would no one want to fuck yoi? Are you missing body parts? Some people are into that.

by Anonymousreply 97November 25, 2023 5:42 AM

I believe, at least years ago, Thanksgiving Wednesday night and through the weekend is busy at American bathhouses? Still the case?

by Anonymousreply 98November 25, 2023 5:54 AM

My last time? Yesterday afternoon. Eagle’s Nest.

by Anonymousreply 99November 25, 2023 11:24 AM

R99 - Eagle's Nest? Is that what used to be Club Body Center? Located up and around the corner from the Eagle? I haven't been there is ages, Is it as dingy as Mega-Plex?

by Anonymousreply 100November 25, 2023 11:53 AM

R99- That sounds like a Leather bar not a bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 101November 25, 2023 2:56 PM

I did end up going to a bathhouse last night. Late during my time there a couple entered my room. One was a very large bear- obese and the other a hot black guy. We had a threesome. They both took turns giving me a blow job- both were VERY good at it too.

by Anonymousreply 102November 27, 2023 2:01 AM

R100, yep. The former Club Body Center. I wouldn’t say dingy. They do a decent job of keeping it clean. But the building and everything in it is definitely old. I thought it had a much better vibe than the Megaplex. I hate that place. Plus, since Eagle’s Nest is steps from the Eagle, there’s a bit of synergy going on.

by Anonymousreply 103November 28, 2023 11:30 PM

thanks R103. A stop at both could be worth a drive.

by Anonymousreply 104November 29, 2023 3:31 AM

[quote][R90], what hate? Jesus Christ... i asked where the place was located, but am a bit skeptical...

Here it is, sarcastic bitch.

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by Anonymousreply 105November 29, 2023 2:46 PM

R105, now if I only had a reason to visit Cleveland! And I'm not being a sarcastic bitch... if that's what the place really looks like, encourage your friends and their investors to buyout Mega-Plex in Providence, RI - that place is depressing.

by Anonymousreply 106November 29, 2023 7:26 PM

now, if ONLY this happened when I was at a bathhouse...

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by Anonymousreply 107November 30, 2023 12:40 AM

I’m told the Dallas Club is still hopping…haven’t been there in years.

by Anonymousreply 108December 2, 2023 7:38 PM

I went Saturday night and had a good time. A man 👨 mildly effeminate with bleach blond hair gave me a nice 😊 blowjob and then said I was HOT 🥵. He was slim and cute.

by Anonymousreply 109December 11, 2023 9:17 PM

The Watergarden in San Jose (now closed), around 2001.

Nice place, as bathhouses go.

by Anonymousreply 110December 11, 2023 10:06 PM

This past Wednesday - had a swell time in the sauna

by Anonymousreply 111December 16, 2023 11:21 AM

Where were you R111? And what did you get to do that created a "swell" time?

Inquiring and celibate minds want to know! Details...

by Anonymousreply 112December 16, 2023 11:36 AM

Stopped at River St. Fucked this handsome goofy dude several times and made out with an extremely handsome African American man who I played with before. The vibe was a bit odd tho - the management threw a holiday banquet for the staff and the clientale - the spread was great, lotsa great food - but going from eating a meatball to getting your balls eaten was a bit of a disconnect ...

by Anonymousreply 113December 16, 2023 11:46 PM

That sounds very hot R113... RSC is unique isn't it? I mean, a mid-week holiday buffet for the guys in towels? I doubt that happens in many places.

Plus, you got to fuck a willing bottom multiple times! Nice!

by Anonymousreply 114December 17, 2023 12:12 AM

I was never really interested in that sort of thing.

No judgment against those of you who are or were.

by Anonymousreply 115December 17, 2023 12:31 AM

I know r115, the notion of a holiday buffet is a total turnoff

by Anonymousreply 116December 17, 2023 12:54 PM

Last Thanksgiving, in Lisbon with my ex. I stroked off the biggest/thickest cock, I'd ever touched and fucked a hairy twunk in a sling.

Afterwards, my ex and I went back to the airbnb and he finished me off.

by Anonymousreply 117December 17, 2023 1:55 PM

Twenty minutes ago - River St was hopping today ...

by Anonymousreply 118December 17, 2023 7:44 PM

gray skies, a rainy Sunday always brings the Dads to River Street... I bet the place was a full house by 11:45am.

by Anonymousreply 119December 17, 2023 8:18 PM

Man, my monogamous marriage may need a reboot.

by Anonymousreply 120December 17, 2023 10:15 PM

Gonna hit River St Wednesday for lunch ...

by Anonymousreply 121December 19, 2023 11:37 AM

Went to Sauna Bruc in Barcelona a few months back while visiting. I was the youngest one there by 20 years. My "youth" (41) and my big American cut cock were quite popular. Let a few of the old coots grope to be nice but that was it.

by Anonymousreply 122December 19, 2023 3:23 PM

Your comment is useless without pictures.

by Anonymousreply 123December 20, 2023 3:14 AM

Headed to River Street this afternoon - year end blow ...out.

by Anonymousreply 124December 31, 2023 12:27 PM

[quote] [R6] is Gerg

Sorry, R20. You are a fool.

I am not in my sixties and I don’t go to bathhouses.

I’m also not “way out of shape.”

by Anonymousreply 125December 31, 2023 12:46 PM

Enjoy R124! Dreay weather, a Sunday, holiday, hopefully the hotter, hairier, cum-filled Dads arrive. Get to RSC early. Supposedly it fills up fast.

by Anonymousreply 126December 31, 2023 1:37 PM

Anybody have any recommendations for Miami? I’m going down a few days early for my cruise at the end of the month, and well, I gotta do something.

by Anonymousreply 127December 31, 2023 1:56 PM

Couple of months back. Living in the sticks so not too often. I;m in luck though because the manager who is one hot fucker and endowed insists on finding me a half hour later and fucking me.

by Anonymousreply 128December 31, 2023 2:05 PM

R78- I find Japanese guys good looking too- 😋

by Anonymousreply 129December 31, 2023 2:28 PM

R127- I would recommend you give Dorothy, Blanche , Rose 🌹 and Sophia a call the next time you’re in Miami.

by Anonymousreply 130December 31, 2023 2:32 PM

r128 where is this place?

by Anonymousreply 131December 31, 2023 4:04 PM

R6 Eek, I'd rather be caught dead with a hatchet in the back of my head in the Fens than go to the MegaPlex in RI.

by Anonymousreply 132January 1, 2024 10:39 PM

The Fens was fun, from time to time. I never made a ritual of partaking there. The Fruit Loop was too easy to pass up, however, and I enjoyed myself greatly.

Of course, I feel a bit bad now, thinking about what I did in certain back patios back in the day. Thank goodness cameras were very unlikely back then.

by Anonymousreply 133January 2, 2024 3:16 AM

I just discovered them in the last few years. Having come up in the early 2000s scene, bathhouses were frowned upon as relics that helped spur the AIDS crisis. I sort of went along with that thinking, seeing them as dirty and for people “not like me.” What Ive found instead in the couple of times I’ve been is a relaxed atmosphere where people are much kinder to one another than they ever are online. I’ve always fucked when there, but actually some of my more prominent memories are of having conversations with people I didn’t want to sleep with and probably would have never talked to otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 134January 2, 2024 5:55 AM

[quote] Eek, I'd rather be caught dead with a hatchet in the back of my head in the Fens than go to the MegaPlex in RI.

R132, I’m sure something can be arranged.

But you make a good point.

by Anonymousreply 135January 8, 2024 11:01 PM

I’m not the only one wishing you were also R132, Pruneslinger. Am I?

by Anonymousreply 136January 11, 2024 4:01 AM

I might go to a bathhouse tomorrow night. I'm looking for some sexual adventures and to have my ego boosted.

by Anonymousreply 137January 13, 2024 12:48 AM

Good for you R137. I hope there's much cock sucking and fucking (if that's your scene). A cum shot or two along the way adds to the pleasure.

by Anonymousreply 138January 13, 2024 11:59 AM

my town only has one really down and out bathhouse, very grim and dirty. I wish there were a nicer one

by Anonymousreply 139January 13, 2024 12:09 PM

r139 I hate to break it to you.....

by Anonymousreply 140January 13, 2024 3:23 PM

Europe is packed with fantastic gay saunas. You guys need to get out more.

by Anonymousreply 141January 13, 2024 3:40 PM

Anyone visit FlexSpas Phoenix AZ?

by Anonymousreply 142January 13, 2024 4:34 PM

R141- Your name rymes with VULVA.

by Anonymousreply 143January 13, 2024 5:28 PM

It seems within the realm of the possible that bathhouses might make a comeback some day..

I think we need a bio pic of John "Jack" W. Campbell...founder of Club Baths chain/ with approx 42 locations in it's heyday... according to wiki.

Bradley Cooper, line one?

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by Anonymousreply 144January 13, 2024 6:32 PM

When I was in my early 20’s I was “between apartments” and would use the bathhouse as a cheaper alternative hotel. I’d pay the extra $15 for a private room and get some sleep. It was nice because I could get nailed at any time throughout the night if I (and they) felt like it. I even did the “door open/ass I the air/face buried in a pillow” thing a couple times. It was wild.

by Anonymousreply 145January 13, 2024 7:01 PM

R145, I really owe you a Thank you. I took you up on that invitation more than once!

by Anonymousreply 146January 14, 2024 7:21 PM

I thought they were illegal....

by Anonymousreply 147January 14, 2024 8:22 PM

R138- I went to a bathhouse Saturday night even though I was so fuckin tired from lack of sleep lately. I could not resist. I noticed that before any of the guys would have sex with me they would enter my room and want to take off my towel to see if I measured up first. That's kinda rude if you ask me.

by Anonymousreply 148January 15, 2024 5:53 PM

well did you?

by Anonymousreply 149January 15, 2024 9:21 PM

R149- Yes.

Fortunately I did measure up everytime this occured - but still- it's annoying.

by Anonymousreply 150January 15, 2024 9:43 PM
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