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Now ex-colleague came out to me on my last day at work

I thought he was straight, but he's full gay, just come out.

We've arranged to meet soon, what should I do?

by Anonymousreply 15March 25, 2023 4:04 AM

Present hole.

by Anonymousreply 1March 24, 2023 7:28 PM

What do you want to do?

Do that.

by Anonymousreply 2March 24, 2023 7:29 PM

Ask your helpful colleagues in HR for the Best Practice Guidelines applicable to this very scenario.

by Anonymousreply 3March 24, 2023 7:30 PM

Develop your relationship as gay men first. Then see if it develops into something more important.

He came out to you. He wanted you to know. What else does he need from you?

You are a Data Lounger. Be suspicious.

by Anonymousreply 4March 24, 2023 7:31 PM

Why do you have to do anything? Why do you need advice?

by Anonymousreply 5March 24, 2023 7:33 PM

He will probably ask a lot of questions. Be Honest.

by Anonymousreply 6March 24, 2023 7:40 PM

Whatever you want, we don't care.

by Anonymousreply 7March 24, 2023 7:40 PM

Do you have prior verificatia of sizemeat at the company urinal? Let that be your guiding light.

by Anonymousreply 8March 24, 2023 8:24 PM

What comes naturally, dear.

by Anonymousreply 9March 24, 2023 8:26 PM

It sounds like you're not meeting for sex but for coffee or something like that, so I'd just do a lot of listening and see where he's at. Maybe he wants to date you and/or sleep with you. Maybe he wants advice about living in the world as an out gay man. Maybe he's just looking for a friend. The ball (balls?) is in his court.

by Anonymousreply 10March 24, 2023 8:46 PM

OP's licence plate is PR353NT H0L3

by Anonymousreply 11March 24, 2023 8:52 PM

First things first — is he hot?

by Anonymousreply 12March 24, 2023 8:55 PM

Yes, r12. He is.

No, we're not, r10 that's the problem, I don't know.

Not idea how big he is lol. I try not to give those signals off at work.

R5, it's the first time this has happened.

That's a good course of action r4. I have given myself permission to fantasise about him now.

We're not working together anymore, r3. Same organisation, different departments, in different offices now.

Thanks for the advice guys.

by Anonymousreply 13March 24, 2023 10:36 PM

A Full Gay is preferable to those Half Gay pretenders.

by Anonymousreply 14March 24, 2023 10:38 PM

Definitely present hole. That’s what he wants.

by Anonymousreply 15March 25, 2023 4:04 AM
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