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Dutch man convicted after he 'stealthed' partner during sex

A Dutch court has convicted a man for removing his condom during sex without his partner’s consent, marking a landmark change in how to deal with the act of "stealthing."

"By his actions, the suspect forced the victim to tolerate having unprotected sex with him," the court said. "In doing so, he restricted her personal freedom and abused the trust she had placed in him."

The unnamed 28-year-old man sent the victim texts after they had sex, including one that insisted she would "be fine" after learning of the act, the AFP reported.

"Stealthing" has become a greater issue for courts as they tackle how to best handle cases that can expose a sexual partner to sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy.

The Dutch court in the Dordrecht district acquitted the man of a rape charge, however, because the court ruled that the sex was consensual. The judge found appropriate "agreement between the suspect and the complainant about the sexual penetration."

The court sentenced the suspect, who is a Syrian-born resident of Rotterdam, to a three-month suspended prison sentence and a 1,000 euro ($1,073) fine for damages.

The case marks the first conviction in the Netherlands for such an offense. Another case involving a 26-year-old suspect saw the defendant acquitted after the court decided it could not determine if the man had intended to force his partner into unprotected sex.

"As soon as sex takes place, and it is not against someone else's will, then there is no coercion," said attorney Mirjam Levy, who represents one of the suspects. "If someone finds out afterward that the conditions have not been met, it does not mean that there is coercion."

Instances of "stealthing" have increased in recent years, leading to the creation of a Dutch website, Stealthing.nl, which is run by a 2017 "stealthing" victim, according to NL Times.

The website operator told the NL Times that "people have already been convicted of rape by stealthing" but that the Netherlands remained less familiar with the act.

Tracking such cases can prove difficult as authorities generally categorize them under rape charges.

In the U.S., California banned "stealthing," requiring verbal consent before removing a condom. But the state has yet to update its criminal code, instead relying on a civil code change so that victims can sue the perpetrator for damages.

Massachusetts State Auditor Diana DiZoglio backed a bill in 2021, when she was a state senator, to ban the act in her state, telling the Boston Globe that it is "an important issue that needs attention from our legislators so we can take a stand with survivors."

A police officer was convicted of sexual assault in a 2018 case in Germany and received an eight-month suspended sentence for "stealthing" and ordered him to pay 3,100 euros ($3,329) in damages.

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by Anonymousreply 20March 19, 2023 2:51 AM

As a fan of barebacking, I really don't see a problem with this.

by Anonymousreply 1March 15, 2023 4:12 AM

Stealth bb thread.

by Anonymousreply 2March 15, 2023 4:21 AM

Then he went to a breeding party and pozzed some slutty women. Now they all have POZ face and crix belly.

by Anonymousreply 3March 15, 2023 4:35 AM

r1 Because men can't get pregnant. For women, stealthing is a huge risk of pregnancy on top of STDs/STIs.

by Anonymousreply 4March 15, 2023 4:41 AM

That's a pretty fucked up thing to do to someone, no matter your sexual orientation.

by Anonymousreply 5March 15, 2023 4:44 AM

And the moral of the story: Find a non-diseased whore to bareback if condoms kill it for you, not a prissy hypochondriac.

by Anonymousreply 6March 15, 2023 5:33 AM

in other words, start respecting others. Keep ur disease ridden cock to urself

by Anonymousreply 7March 15, 2023 6:41 AM

Is there a photo of this hot, hung Dutch stud?

by Anonymousreply 8March 15, 2023 6:42 AM

But but but... U=U goddamnit!

by Anonymousreply 9March 15, 2023 7:00 AM

Hahaha. What a card he is.

by Anonymousreply 10March 15, 2023 8:00 AM

R8, the article says the guy is Syrian.

by Anonymousreply 11March 15, 2023 8:03 AM

That's what you get for whoring yourself out to these Syrian "refugees"

by Anonymousreply 12March 15, 2023 11:23 AM

As a size queen, I don't understand the situation. Why would someone choose Syrian dick over huge thick veiny pendulous primo Dutch dong?

by Anonymousreply 13March 15, 2023 11:29 AM

Need this in the US. Can't tell at women about getting pregnant and needing abortions if scumbags are pulling this crap. Idk why anyone mentally sane would even do this to a casual hook up.

by Anonymousreply 14March 15, 2023 11:32 AM

R13 some of those Dutch biracial lads are fucking enormous, easily dwarving tall muscular Germans & Brits.

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by Anonymousreply 15March 17, 2023 9:07 PM

It seems.like the victim was slumming.

by Anonymousreply 16March 18, 2023 3:12 AM

This was a controversy back in the 90s, I’m surprised it is only coming up now

by Anonymousreply 17March 18, 2023 3:16 AM

R14 presumably it's some kind of k!nk at the crossroads of r ape/non-con, power play, and breeding. And it's vile.

by Anonymousreply 18March 18, 2023 3:37 AM

[quote][R14] presumably it's some kind of k!nk at the crossroads of r ape/non-con, power play, [bold]and breeding.[/bold]

Imagine risking 18 years of child support on purpose.

by Anonymousreply 19March 18, 2023 4:22 AM

R11 it was *work* for my sis to get her Egyptian boyfriend to throw on a shield. Like months of convincing and pressuring and offering other favours. It's fucking shit of men to be such whiny entitled babies about basic health consideration.

by Anonymousreply 20March 19, 2023 2:51 AM
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