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What does DL think of this Frau influx?

Personally, the scolders need to fuck off. One of them flipped out a while back and accused a thread of being about copraphilia (it was not) and threatened to go to Muriel.

by Anonymousreply 100March 17, 2023 4:38 PM

Finger wagging on this thread.

Hate ‘em.

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by Anonymousreply 1March 14, 2023 10:47 PM

I fucking HATE when straight women post here. Go the fuck away.

by Anonymousreply 2March 14, 2023 10:49 PM

BTW I don't actually believe that any truly straight men post here. Regularly anyway.

But str8 women CAN'T let us have our own space. Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 3March 14, 2023 10:50 PM

I mean, I really don't see much difference between fraus and uptight queens. Who can tell who?

by Anonymousreply 4March 14, 2023 10:51 PM

They all have worms in their pussies because they're DIRTY GIRLS.

And their mothers hate them.

by Anonymousreply 5March 14, 2023 10:52 PM

[quote]One of them flipped out a while back and accused a thread of being about copraphilia (it was not) and threatened to go to Muriel.

That's not the fraus, that's the uptight American gays; they freak out whenever something even remotely doody-related enters the convo.

by Anonymousreply 6March 14, 2023 10:53 PM

I think the number of straights here, aside from the trolls, is vastly overstated.

by Anonymousreply 7March 14, 2023 10:53 PM

[quote]BTW I don't actually believe that any truly straight men post here. Regularly anyway.

A couple did up until five or so years ago. But now we're everywhere and they don't need to come to DL to gawk at us anymore.

by Anonymousreply 8March 14, 2023 10:54 PM

[quote] One of them flipped out a while back and accused a thread of being about copraphilia (it was not) and threatened to go to Muriel.

I forgot to add-- it's a hobby and NOT coprophilia if you post about liking to eat shit, like I did.

by Anonymousreply 9March 14, 2023 10:55 PM

Which I did not R9 aka triggered frau.

by Anonymousreply 10March 14, 2023 10:56 PM

R7 Agreed. And the straight women on here are usually regulated to specific threads. Plus, the type of straight women who would be a gay forum wouldn't be some ignorant Midwestern soccer mom type. "Frau" is a pretty loaded term that DLers call anyone they disagree with. It lost all meaning. Most of those "fraus" are just other gay men. DLers love to pretend a lot of gay men aren't feminine.

by Anonymousreply 11March 14, 2023 10:57 PM

There is NO frau influx. It's just that Cunt of a troll. The same ASSHOLE that posts endless "Women in the Workplace" threads. over and over, posting the same stupid fake stories about "fraus" he's "forced to work with". And the troll doesn't even have a job. Just insufferable constant trolling that gets uglier, and uglier, racist, sexist, getting his panties in bunch. Oh, there ^ he is again. Never far from his pile of shit.

by Anonymousreply 12March 14, 2023 10:58 PM

Fraus are a specific subset of females. Not all women are fraus.

by Anonymousreply 13March 14, 2023 10:58 PM

No I'm not R12. That's another person.

by Anonymousreply 14March 14, 2023 10:59 PM

And I forgot to add I most certainly have a job.

by Anonymousreply 15March 14, 2023 11:00 PM

Blowing the homeless is hardly a job.

by Anonymousreply 16March 14, 2023 11:01 PM

Like most things in life moderation is key.

by Anonymousreply 17March 14, 2023 11:02 PM

Poor guess R16.

by Anonymousreply 18March 14, 2023 11:02 PM

This place is filled with middle aged British women, they start all of the tranny and BRF threads.

by Anonymousreply 19March 14, 2023 11:05 PM

Those are the worst R19 and, yes, they start 95% of those threads.

by Anonymousreply 20March 14, 2023 11:07 PM

R19 I agree and it's so painfully obvious with all the "FFS", "prat", "twat", "holiday", "uni" and "mum."

by Anonymousreply 21March 14, 2023 11:08 PM

I think one of them is already on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 22March 14, 2023 11:12 PM

R19 I disagree. I'm a British gay man and I can spot another Brit a mile off. There are some people who, for some reason, pretend to be Brits but they never get it quite right. The trans issue is pretty big in the UK but gender criticism mainly comes from the left here rather than the right.

by Anonymousreply 23March 14, 2023 11:13 PM

OP, did you plop out of a FRAU'S bloody infected cunthole?

by Anonymousreply 24March 14, 2023 11:13 PM

Didn't every one R24? I wouldn't classify my mother as a frau though. See my post at R13.

by Anonymousreply 25March 14, 2023 11:15 PM

How can you tell if a poster is "straight?"

by Anonymousreply 26March 14, 2023 11:16 PM

R26 A poster is straight if you don't agree with them.

by Anonymousreply 27March 14, 2023 11:18 PM

Not necessarily R27.

by Anonymousreply 28March 14, 2023 11:20 PM

It's fraus. They never grew up from being that fat dumb cunt in junior high school that anonymously wrote stuff on the girls bathroom stall wall in order to stir shit up.

Datalounge is catnip to these cows that never know how to let things go and shut the fuck up.

by Anonymousreply 29March 14, 2023 11:21 PM

ElderLez and RescueChick are golden and make great contributions.

by Anonymousreply 30March 14, 2023 11:23 PM

Same old troll. Same shit. Again. How many FRAU threads have you shit out? Hundreds by now?

by Anonymousreply 31March 14, 2023 11:23 PM

R29 Game recognize game.

by Anonymousreply 32March 14, 2023 11:24 PM

No, sorry R31. You're wrong.

by Anonymousreply 33March 14, 2023 11:25 PM

If OP were nicer to the fraus, they might tell him how to get the sand out of his vagina.

by Anonymousreply 34March 14, 2023 11:25 PM

I don't recall ever starting a frau thread.

by Anonymousreply 35March 14, 2023 11:26 PM

That's called brain damage.

by Anonymousreply 36March 14, 2023 11:28 PM

Well, you can tell who they are.

by Anonymousreply 37March 14, 2023 11:28 PM

Being a frau, every thread you start is a frau thread.

See how easy it is, OP?

by Anonymousreply 38March 14, 2023 11:28 PM

Brain damage R38? Or unable to look at posting histories?

by Anonymousreply 39March 14, 2023 11:30 PM

Ah. Frau blocked. Shriek away.

by Anonymousreply 40March 14, 2023 11:31 PM

Is the frau a nepo baby?

by Anonymousreply 41March 14, 2023 11:31 PM

All fraus are nepo babies.

by Anonymousreply 42March 14, 2023 11:33 PM

I don't notice them except when they get disgusted and horrified on threads about rimming or when they become extremely indignant on childfree threads and lecture re: being a parent is the most rewarding thing you could ever do and we will all be sorry when we are old and alone. That type of hysteria and scolding feels like women to me - but honestly - it could be gay men at this point. Who even knows.

Otherwise, I just avoid any threads related to the Royal Family, soap operas, Van Der Pump Rules, etc.

by Anonymousreply 43March 14, 2023 11:33 PM

I think you are correct R43.

by Anonymousreply 44March 14, 2023 11:36 PM

They're fucking everywhere on this site. I don't have a problem with the lesbians, but these straight cunts are overly emotional reactionary locusts.

by Anonymousreply 45March 14, 2023 11:36 PM

Yes, you've posted that lie hundreds of times. Like you and your herpes outbreaks.

by Anonymousreply 46March 14, 2023 11:40 PM

I dealt with a lesbian here who acted like a cunt. Can a lez be a frau?

Anyway, this woman became upset because I dared to criticize 2 female celebs who were supposedly lovers and in the closet. The criticism was mild and directed at their PR phoniness, not their orientation. She accused me of being misogynistic and hypocritical. She acted like I was giving a pass to men who would behave like that. Give me a specific example of 2 male celebs doing the same thing and I would give the same criticism.

Some people are looking to feel aggrieved and self-righteous on the flimsiest of pretexts. She said I was in denial of the fact that men invade women’s spaces, too, (I’m not) while she was missing the irony of invading a DL thread to lecture gay men. I don’t visit L Chat and tell the women there how misandrist and hypocritical they are. I, along with several other posters who weren’t fooled, told her to shut up.

by Anonymousreply 47March 14, 2023 11:53 PM

Is DeFuckto having another bad day?

by Anonymousreply 48March 14, 2023 11:54 PM

Dammit! If I shouldn't post, I won't post. I want to be respectful. But let a frau lurk, at least, won't you? After all, where else am I to turn for my thrice-daily fix of high-tier badinage about everything from Joan Crawford's vaginal hygiene to the global economic implications of Sino-American relations to the interior-decor nuances of Uncle Bill's apartment in Family Affair? Come on, now!

by Anonymousreply 49March 14, 2023 11:54 PM

^Really sad attempt. Really.

by Anonymousreply 50March 14, 2023 11:56 PM

R30, ElderLez, rescue-chick, Senior Lesbian etc. are not fraus.

R47, the poster you're referring to was not a lesbian, it was a PR intern. Next time, ignore and block / punch and delete.

FatCubeFrau: be less verbose or be gone.

by Anonymousreply 51March 15, 2023 4:25 AM

Does Ed.win count as a chunky Puerto Rican frau?

by Anonymousreply 52March 15, 2023 4:28 AM

A disaster-prone mess? Most definitely.

by Anonymousreply 53March 15, 2023 4:36 AM

NOT one of you here posting about how you hate straight women are true DLers.

Fuck off.

You’re all transparent AF.

by Anonymousreply 54March 15, 2023 4:40 AM


by Anonymousreply 55March 15, 2023 4:50 AM

Amusing . Especially on the BRF threads.

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by Anonymousreply 56March 15, 2023 5:12 AM

KGT is a frau and a major Karen. She was tweeting the Dubai police to have Louis Tomlinson arrested because he said the word "fuck" at a concert there.

She got dragged to hell in the replies.

by Anonymousreply 57March 15, 2023 5:22 AM

I vote to oust the conservatives on here, first.

by Anonymousreply 58March 15, 2023 1:17 PM


by Anonymousreply 59March 15, 2023 1:24 PM

Go back to your local BW3'S!

by Anonymousreply 60March 15, 2023 1:26 PM

The frau influx is one thing. The disproportionate amount of them that are British is another.

by Anonymousreply 61March 15, 2023 1:27 PM

[quote]ElderLez, rescue-chick, Senior Lesbian etc. are not fraus.

ElderLez and Rescue-Chick are absolutely frauen. They post about ailments and cute pets and all sorts of minor personal details.

[quote]the poster you're referring to was not a lesbian, it was a PR intern.

It's not 2005, we don't have PR people posting here anymore.

by Anonymousreply 62March 15, 2023 1:31 PM

I think some are pretending to be British r61! They write things like "Harry and Meghan are two scuzzy swingers who probably have orgies with monkeys, pip pip cheerio" and it always makes me laugh.

by Anonymousreply 63March 15, 2023 1:34 PM

You are easily entertained.

by Anonymousreply 64March 15, 2023 1:37 PM

[quote] I think some are pretending to be British [R61]! T

I don't think so. There are other little tells (like R21 noted) on other innocuous threads that I can't imagine anyone bothering with.

by Anonymousreply 65March 15, 2023 1:47 PM

The biggest question is WHY are they here?

by Anonymousreply 66March 15, 2023 2:45 PM

R66/OP, I'm here because I'm a never-married, childless woman in my 50s who has a bit in common with DL posters and is otherwise isolated socially. I stumbled across DL years ago while doing a Google search for info about Joan Crawford's face lifts or some damn thing. I've been hooked ever since. I can refrain from posting often but would appreciate the chance to comment once in a while.

Otherwise, I guess it's back to the perfume counter for me, Ladies!

by Anonymousreply 67March 15, 2023 4:33 PM

I enjoy Frau input. Anyone care to define Frau.

by Anonymousreply 68March 15, 2023 4:39 PM

[quote] They post about ailments

I hollered. Sorry, girls!

R67 - Jesus H. Christ. But now I'm interested: do you work at a perfume counter? I was under the impression you were a cubicle worker, from another thread.

by Anonymousreply 69March 15, 2023 4:44 PM

Hi, Lipstick Lesbian,

Sorry to disappoint; I am indeed a cube stiff. The perfume counter line is from The Women--Joan Crawford's parting shot, if I recall correctly.

by Anonymousreply 70March 15, 2023 4:49 PM

I see. I almost got excited there for a minute - a real-life, fat perfume counter girl. Crystal Allen could never.

A suggestion: stop asking for permission. If you want to post, post.

by Anonymousreply 71March 15, 2023 4:57 PM

Spray FRAU-B-GONE on all the surfaces!

Those pesky fraus will flee immediately for LSA and Upworthy!

by Anonymousreply 72March 15, 2023 4:59 PM

I can't stand the Trans-hating TERF cunts. Some are Brits, most are American. They're also on theBRF threads, where I often agree with them. The Brit gossip is fine, the TERF shit is toxic and has no place on our site. Fraus are fine too as long as they don't cross the line and remember that they are guests here.

by Anonymousreply 73March 15, 2023 5:03 PM

FatCubeFrau doesn't sound frau-ish. As I said, not all women are fraus.

by Anonymousreply 74March 15, 2023 5:56 PM

Said the troll.

by Anonymousreply 75March 15, 2023 8:38 PM

All women are fraus but not all fraus are women.

Some men are huge fraus.

by Anonymousreply 76March 15, 2023 8:49 PM

They are amusing but their pathological SAD is tiresome. Reflection of the frau tenant that every homosexual had to have been molested. Frau mantra is gay=pedo. Yet they come to a gay gossip site.

by Anonymousreply 77March 15, 2023 10:10 PM

Fraus believe their pussy is the gate of paradise yet they never open them.

by Anonymousreply 78March 15, 2023 10:11 PM

I second what R19 and R20 said. It's an infestation and these unpleasant people hate us gays.

by Anonymousreply 79March 15, 2023 10:19 PM

Lie. The frau TROLLS start the threads. Defacto = exhibit A.

by Anonymousreply 80March 15, 2023 10:45 PM

I wouldn't mind them if they didn't tell on themselves so much. The constant overly emotional defenses of celebrities, the finger wagging about terms gay men have used for decades, pearl clutching over sexual topics. It's giving Livejournal circa 2005.

by Anonymousreply 81March 16, 2023 1:32 PM

That's YOU and your troll hysterics, Ed.winna.

by Anonymousreply 82March 16, 2023 1:36 PM

Anyone know why Muriel will permit any filthy word but ED.WINNA is banned? WTF?

by Anonymousreply 83March 16, 2023 3:42 PM

fraus keep the site alive with their investments

but the cost of said investment is them championing ANTI moral crusades as they've always done.. as a collective, they brought masturbation shame, homophobia, eugenics, prohibition, into the spotlight being the busybodies they are...

and as allies to one and all as the most oppressed group, when marriage equality was banned their first thought was to protest every gay/lesbian pub that refused to allow them to have hen/bachelorette parties in the most homophobic ways possible.

And while fujoshis may be radically homophobic as a group, some do make some rather fine art.... when you can get them away from bishy yaoi hand girl-proxy boys, creeper shotacon and tentacle porn.

by Anonymousreply 84March 16, 2023 5:26 PM

Aren't the real names for Attmay and Poo Shoes also banned.

by Anonymousreply 85March 16, 2023 5:52 PM

I think the Poo Shoes ban was shitcanned years ago. I'll try it and see.


Davida Rochelle.

Davida Rochelle Kanter.

by Anonymousreply 86March 16, 2023 5:59 PM

Poo Shoes' real names post just fine.

by Anonymousreply 87March 16, 2023 6:01 PM

[quote]as a collective, they brought masturbation shame, homophobia, eugenics, prohibition, into the spotlight being the busybodies they are...

R84, sounds more like that bitter regulatory misogynistic closeted functionary busybody FRAU "Better to be married than to burn," "Apostle" Paul. His bullshit, and his centuries-later acolyte Jean Calvin absolutely put that bullshit in play.

Not necessarily a frau-lover, but I wouldn't put all straight women in the same basket.

by Anonymousreply 88March 16, 2023 6:16 PM

The Apostle Paul is an excellent example of a male frau! Such a nosy, interfering fucker, always up in everybody's business.

Romans, First Corinthians, Second Corinthians, Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians, First Thessalonians, and Second Thessalonians, he harassed them all for 14 years, a postal terrorist. Paul makes Gladys Kravitz look like a desirable neighbor.

by Anonymousreply 89March 16, 2023 6:58 PM

We don't R88. As I said, frau is a subset.

by Anonymousreply 90March 16, 2023 7:02 PM

I guess it’s time I out myself:

My name is NoPalmOil and I am a Frau.

I’ve been a paid subscriber for several years and have really loved posting and commenting here, getting to know everyone, giving and receiving advice, sharing love and condolences, laughing until I almost wet my frilly knickers (things mug cradlers say and things you did as a young gayling that made it obvious) - but was always sensitive to the fact that fraus weren’t always loved and that I was a guest here so I kept my posts neutral and never commented (I think) on posts that pertained to LGBTQ topics or politics, history, etc, except in support.

DL is my first site in the morning and my last at night and I’ve just adored my time here. Maybe (probably) I spend too much time here and maybe it’s time to move on but I hope I’ve been respectful to everyone as a fellow human.


by Anonymousreply 91March 17, 2023 12:56 PM

R91 Not all fraus are unwelcome. While I personally would like to believe I'm discussing gay topics with other gay men, I recognize that there are some women who came here for the stale tea of yesteryear. As long as you aren't cosplaying as gay in threads or arguing about our existence like some of these cunt trolls, I see no issue with you remaining. Wear the frau label with pride.

by Anonymousreply 92March 17, 2023 3:18 PM

Why do we have to be so welcoming to frauen? I know that on some mainstream forums, when I or someone else has come out to other posters, we’re “tolerated”. I’ve witnessed posters being warned or sometimes banned for bringing up subjects that are deemed distasteful to frauen. Like which celebrities are gay or if we find a male celebrity cute. As long as we talk about fashion or diva worship, we’re good. Gimme a break! Not saying it happens all the time but it does happen.

by Anonymousreply 93March 17, 2023 3:32 PM

NoPalmOil (r91) is okay in my book.

I'm with r92. I don't mind people from different walks of life, but when you start weighing in on things that have no concern to you, or express outrage at things you have no business being outraged about here, such as DL's collective sense of humor, then you can just piss off.

I've never seen NoPalmOil do that, unless she didn't sign her name (which I doubt).

by Anonymousreply 94March 17, 2023 3:55 PM

Gay men won't fuck you. Get over it already Sharon/Brenda/Susan/Kate/Pam...

by Anonymousreply 95March 17, 2023 4:02 PM

[quote]A poster is straight if you don't agree with them.

No, a poster is a troll if you don't agree with them. Ask the trollcusers.

by Anonymousreply 96March 17, 2023 4:03 PM

This is a TROLL THREAD for fuck's sake.

by Anonymousreply 97March 17, 2023 4:04 PM


We spotted the LSA troll

by Anonymousreply 98March 17, 2023 4:05 PM

R92 R94

Thank you both. I have never cosplayed as gay and and don’t weigh in on gay topic posts because I’ve never felt it was my place. I know I’m a guest here and appreciate what I’ve learned from everyone.

by Anonymousreply 99March 17, 2023 4:15 PM

NoPalmOil is okay in my book too.

by Anonymousreply 100March 17, 2023 4:38 PM
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