Do you like being fingered?

What do you do?

Do you "finger" the mouth of strange men?

[quote]other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful

Pics?

Most guys "prone" to enjoying this type of thing either want the dick or a fist. Fingerts, unless one is extremely skillful, get annoying. So basically I'm saying, "you sound annoying"

Is OP Kitara?

No.

And I hope you get pooh finger.

Anti gay trolling exercise

Ok, i ll ignore the beautiful part and answer: i like doing it to others but lately i also got the sense they just suffer it for the sake of the main event. I get this as someone once did it to me and all that poking was horrible (but i also dont enjoy the main event).

There is lots of fingering in gay porn, though.

Yes, both giving and receiving. There’s something about it that gets me insanely hot, either way. Great foreplay if you are any good at it.

Make sure your nails are cut.

It can be good when you’re getting ready to cum. However, not everyone knows how to do it. People can hurt you doing it.

You mean finger fucking?

I like doing it so that when I am back at my desk at work, I can smell my finger and get instantly hard again.

[quote]other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful

LOL

They let you do it because they're whores.

I have never understood the point of fingering for gay guys. Your little, bony finger is not going to do a thing for me.

I think the idea of sticking your finger up someone's ass is ridiculous. Male or female, gay or straight. When it comes to gay sex, it's either shit or get off the pot.

[quote]When it comes to gay sex, it's either shit or get off the pot.

Maybe you should have workshopped that sentence before posting it. 😉

For those who have said it has to be done right, what does doing it right mean? How do you do it right?

[quote]Great foreplay if you are any good at it.

Bingo.

Agree with R18 and the OP must be 15 and or dumb as a rock.

-2/10

The only time I'm fingered is when I go to a masseur who gives prostate massage. I make sure I have cleaned myself thoroughly.

Getting fingered feels so Judgy...

R12 You like the smell of poop?

Are people on Datalounge actually gay anymore? Or is it like 50/50. I am asking because of people like r23 who is either10 years old or some Frau that had her husband "stolen by a fag."

R24 So what you are saying is, you like the smell of poop.

No, what R24 is saying is that if it doesn't smell faintly of poop, you are doing it wrong.

I usually don't truck with men who spent the day turtle-necking R25. Maybe it's an age thing, but the guys I am with seem to be professionals when it comes to being gay and have litter-free highways. I LOVE the smell of a man's ass. The pheromones get me rock hard. I am the one above who said the combination of a clean ass after a brisk jog is the perfect recipe. Smells like sex to me.

A finger is good as a start but only if he finishes off the job with his big dick.

Uh yeah?

Word of warning, OP. My sister died of cuticle cancer from fingering too many bicurious boys in high school. It was a closed coffin funeral.

Not anymore, as I’m bitter and have a lot of internal shame around my body and what I think I can do. Back when I was younger and more attractive, I loved having my hole played with.

I love it. But it's kind of more thrilling to me when it's in public or in a car.

Sometimes it's a prelude to being fucked, sometimes it's just its own thing. Either way it makes me shoot, a lot. (Not the biggest dick, but I shoot a lot and shoot far, and a hot guy kissing me while he fingers me will make me cover us both in my load.)

R32 Yeah, It's not for everyone. Simply being "a bottom" doesn't guarantee that he will like a finger. But for some guys, whether tops or bottoms or undeclared, nothing is more intense that skillfully hitting that happy spot when they come.

Back in the day I used to love feeling how prostate enlarged, got harder and harder, as the guy got ready to cum, and how I could almost edge him by the amount of pressure of a well-placed finger. Ah, youth.

There is certainly more information here than I was looking for!

[quote]And I hope you get pooh finger.

Oh, my word!

Sometimes a finger bang is necessary to open a guy up, especially if he's getting fucked for the first time or hasn't been fucked in awhile because he's been with his wife for a long time.

I know some straight guys love being fingered. It turns me on watching a straight man cum while getting fingered.

Fingering done well is the best. Such a turn on. You’ve gotta treat it with respect and just play, stroke and stretch the arse. It has more nerves than anywhere else in the body. A quick straight in and fuck is always good! But a bit more time down there done right always pays off when I top or bottom.

How many fingers?

Shut up and take them.

Trim your nails, people!

Fingered or fangered?

Fingered? Paleeze! I enjoy being fisted or foot fisted.

I LOVE getting fingered and fingering. I like it more than getting fucked if the top knows what he’s doing with his fingers.

Years ago, I met a guy who fingered me with the most pleasurable technique I’ve ever felt. I’ve used it ever since with other guys and it blows their minds too.

Sadly, as OP says, there’s very little porn showing just fingering for a long times. It’s just usually a few seconds as prelude to fisting or fucking

I usually just rub a little bit of spit on his hole...

Yes!

A blonde is involved in a car accident. Paramedics arrive and blonde says she's lost her sight. Paramedic says "how many fingers have I up?"

And she replies "fuck! I'm paralysed too!"

That’s fucking hysterical, r46!

Consider it stolen.

Some guys love when I finger them while sucking them.

Shove your toes and your foot in my asshole!

The posters who think that butt stuff = poop are either 13yo school boys posing as adults or badly socialised homosexuals who were never taught basic gay hygiene.

OP, try fingering him with your tongue.

Undercover Cadbury marketing thread!

[quote] I have never understood the point of fingering for gay guys. Your little, bony finger is not going to do a thing for me.

It’s called a prostate, hon.

What's green and smells like pork?

Kermit's finger..

He doesn't understand that not all gay men have bonly little fingers like he does, R53.

Love it!

NO!

God, r56, I never realized what babies the kids from ET looked like. I saw the movie when I was younger than Henry Thomas. But he looks about the age I remember Drew Barrymore being.

OP find a new BF, if you can't play with his bussy then what good is he?

Nothing like inspecting and fingering the youngsters.

Inspecting and fingering.

clip you nails

Clip and FILE your nails. The sharp edges will lacerate.

I’ve fingered guys and I’ve fingered girls….

I knew someone who liked to get fingered. Then he died.

^ so, fingering causes death??

Yes if it will get me a little extra publicity.

I remember being fingered by a crazy doctor (who was an ex-military physician), who then (I guess based on whatever he detected) asked me if I was a homosexual. I guess that was one of the ways they weeded out gays in the military in the old days.

Your soft moaning and shouting “give it to me, Doc!!” sort of tipped him off.

I like being fingered with a traffic cone.

Porn is about what LOOKS hot to you when you’re masturbating. When you’re actually with someone it’s about doing what FEELS good, and yeah, if they’re not enjoying it you should switch to something else.

I just gave my boyfriend a foot job

r71, bottom-line, there are too many bottoms out there for OP's BF to be complaining about getting a finger or two up his butt. Im sure OP could find a number of guys who would like it

In all seriousness, does your BF avoid all anal penetration? He might have an issue with hemorrhoids he hasn't taken care of yet.

I was mortified when I developed one in my mid 20's and wouldn't let other guys go anywhere near my hole until I finally got it removed.

I love 5 fingers up my ass!! Stretch!! Stretch!!!

Freddy Got Fingered

"I’ve fingered guys and I’ve fingered girls…."

...."but I've never been to me". Eh, R64?

Hell, yeah!

depends on how much I like and trust the guy.

Ewwww, these LadyG topics burst into many different threads. None of what she does on that orange fool’s backside can be deemed erotic by a normal person.

How else you gonna poke a man’s walnut?

R61 is bad news.

My bf is a bottom R74. He doesn’t like being rimmed either! I’m the one with the unsolved hemorrhoid issues 😳

I stuck in my thumb,

And pulled out a plum!

What kind of gay people stick only a single finger in? You're supposed to start with 1, but to get some real sensation you need 2 - or sometimes 3.

No, I've never fisted anyone - but a single finger is just to get it lubed up.

Like anything in sex, if done well and correctly, it can be amazing.

But if you're just sticking a single finger up the ass and not hitting the prostate - what's the point of all that?

I like doing and receiving.

I'm a versatile top, and if my BF doesn't want to top me every once in a while, he must learn how to finger the Monk in the Cave. Being fingered and blown simultaneously is...

BREATHTAKING.

Fingers also aid in tongue access.

Speaking of which, I do hope you’re using safer sex methods and getting checked for Giardia etc…

Novices, amateurs, and dreamers…..gezzz! DL stuff.

I bet Greg 2023 likes to be fingerlinged...

Good one, R89!

Love it. Makes me feel like a bowling ball.

[quote] Being fingered and blown simultaneously is...

Absolutely AMAZING!

R91 “Bowling Ball” sounds like one of those gay music videos.

No, but I go mad when I get towed.

I have dirty fingernails

Naw, see, naw, nobody like gettin’ fingered, see.

R91 channeling Miley Cyrus...

He made me feel like a bowling ball / his two fingers stretched all my ways / I didn't think I'd cum at all/ Until he put in three-ee-ee-eee.

R91 channeling Bonnie Tyler after he's moved on to fists...

Once upon time I was tight in my life / now my hole has fallen apart / there's nothing I can do / I totally shit when I fart.

More than two fingers is indecent—that goes for both sherry and digital penetration.

A slightly larger than finger vibrating toy!!! No finger, no fuss, no muss.

When I lived in Hell's Kitchen a few years ago and was fucking my neighbor across the hall,, I used to finger him right before I fucked him and he seemed to love it, so who knows. Maybe it works for some and not for others.

r101, I finger every bottom. I want to know if I will be sticking my dick into a frictionless lump of wet Kleenex or if I have to spend a little time opening up and relaxing a tight rosebud.

When I suck a guy, my fingers start moving towards his asshole. A lot of them welcome some finger action

R102 - A frictionless lump of wet Kleenex 😂

[quote]Reaching and penetrating are the prime factors.

Before I stick my finger in any part of you, I want a complete list of everything you ate in the previous 24 hours.

That's faster and easier to figure out R106 by just sticking your finger in.

Not really a fan. I’d rather have my ass eaten—feels infinitely better and gets me fully worked up to take a dick.