I love fingering guys but my boyfriend hates it and won’t let me do it. Today I suddenly wondered if no one actually likes it, and other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful. I don’t think I’ve ever seen guys fingering each other in gay porn… just chicks fingering guys in straight videos
Do you like being fingered?
by Anonymous | reply 107 | February 1, 2023 12:08 PM |
What do you do?
Do you "finger" the mouth of strange men?
by Anonymous | reply 1 | January 27, 2023 7:04 AM |
[quote]other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful
Pics?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | January 27, 2023 7:10 AM |
Most guys "prone" to enjoying this type of thing either want the dick or a fist. Fingerts, unless one is extremely skillful, get annoying. So basically I'm saying, "you sound annoying"
by Anonymous | reply 3 | January 27, 2023 7:35 AM |
Is OP Kitara?
by Anonymous | reply 4 | January 27, 2023 7:50 AM |
No.
And I hope you get pooh finger.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | January 27, 2023 9:39 AM |
Anti gay trolling exercise
by Anonymous | reply 6 | January 27, 2023 9:57 AM |
Ok, i ll ignore the beautiful part and answer: i like doing it to others but lately i also got the sense they just suffer it for the sake of the main event. I get this as someone once did it to me and all that poking was horrible (but i also dont enjoy the main event).
There is lots of fingering in gay porn, though.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | January 27, 2023 10:13 AM |
Yes, both giving and receiving. There’s something about it that gets me insanely hot, either way. Great foreplay if you are any good at it.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | January 27, 2023 10:41 AM |
Make sure your nails are cut.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | January 27, 2023 11:03 AM |
It can be good when you’re getting ready to cum. However, not everyone knows how to do it. People can hurt you doing it.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | January 27, 2023 11:04 AM |
You mean finger fucking?
by Anonymous | reply 11 | January 27, 2023 11:44 AM |
I like doing it so that when I am back at my desk at work, I can smell my finger and get instantly hard again.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | January 27, 2023 12:03 PM |
[quote]other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful
LOL
They let you do it because they're whores.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | January 27, 2023 12:16 PM |
I have never understood the point of fingering for gay guys. Your little, bony finger is not going to do a thing for me.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | January 27, 2023 12:21 PM |
I think the idea of sticking your finger up someone's ass is ridiculous. Male or female, gay or straight. When it comes to gay sex, it's either shit or get off the pot.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | January 27, 2023 12:28 PM |
[quote]When it comes to gay sex, it's either shit or get off the pot.
Maybe you should have workshopped that sentence before posting it. 😉
by Anonymous | reply 16 | January 27, 2023 12:34 PM |
For those who have said it has to be done right, what does doing it right mean? How do you do it right?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | January 27, 2023 12:36 PM |
[quote]Great foreplay if you are any good at it.
Bingo.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | January 27, 2023 12:41 PM |
Agree with R18 and the OP must be 15 and or dumb as a rock.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | January 27, 2023 12:44 PM |
-2/10
by Anonymous | reply 20 | January 27, 2023 12:46 PM |
The only time I'm fingered is when I go to a masseur who gives prostate massage. I make sure I have cleaned myself thoroughly.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | January 27, 2023 12:54 PM |
Getting fingered feels so Judgy...
by Anonymous | reply 22 | January 27, 2023 3:45 PM |
R12 You like the smell of poop?
by Anonymous | reply 23 | January 27, 2023 3:47 PM |
Are people on Datalounge actually gay anymore? Or is it like 50/50. I am asking because of people like r23 who is either10 years old or some Frau that had her husband "stolen by a fag."
by Anonymous | reply 24 | January 27, 2023 3:58 PM |
R24 So what you are saying is, you like the smell of poop.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | January 27, 2023 3:59 PM |
No, what R24 is saying is that if it doesn't smell faintly of poop, you are doing it wrong.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | January 27, 2023 4:07 PM |
I usually don't truck with men who spent the day turtle-necking R25. Maybe it's an age thing, but the guys I am with seem to be professionals when it comes to being gay and have litter-free highways. I LOVE the smell of a man's ass. The pheromones get me rock hard. I am the one above who said the combination of a clean ass after a brisk jog is the perfect recipe. Smells like sex to me.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | January 27, 2023 4:10 PM |
A finger is good as a start but only if he finishes off the job with his big dick.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | January 27, 2023 4:14 PM |
Uh yeah?
by Anonymous | reply 29 | January 27, 2023 4:21 PM |
Word of warning, OP. My sister died of cuticle cancer from fingering too many bicurious boys in high school. It was a closed coffin funeral.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | January 27, 2023 4:23 PM |
Not anymore, as I’m bitter and have a lot of internal shame around my body and what I think I can do. Back when I was younger and more attractive, I loved having my hole played with.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | January 27, 2023 4:28 PM |
I love it. But it's kind of more thrilling to me when it's in public or in a car.
Sometimes it's a prelude to being fucked, sometimes it's just its own thing. Either way it makes me shoot, a lot. (Not the biggest dick, but I shoot a lot and shoot far, and a hot guy kissing me while he fingers me will make me cover us both in my load.)
by Anonymous | reply 32 | January 27, 2023 4:30 PM |
R32 Yeah, It's not for everyone. Simply being "a bottom" doesn't guarantee that he will like a finger. But for some guys, whether tops or bottoms or undeclared, nothing is more intense that skillfully hitting that happy spot when they come.
Back in the day I used to love feeling how prostate enlarged, got harder and harder, as the guy got ready to cum, and how I could almost edge him by the amount of pressure of a well-placed finger. Ah, youth.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | January 27, 2023 4:42 PM |
There is certainly more information here than I was looking for!
by Anonymous | reply 34 | January 27, 2023 4:56 PM |
[quote]And I hope you get pooh finger.
Oh, my word!
by Anonymous | reply 35 | January 27, 2023 5:01 PM |
Sometimes a finger bang is necessary to open a guy up, especially if he's getting fucked for the first time or hasn't been fucked in awhile because he's been with his wife for a long time.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | January 27, 2023 6:39 PM |
I know some straight guys love being fingered. It turns me on watching a straight man cum while getting fingered.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | January 27, 2023 9:51 PM |
Fingering done well is the best. Such a turn on. You’ve gotta treat it with respect and just play, stroke and stretch the arse. It has more nerves than anywhere else in the body. A quick straight in and fuck is always good! But a bit more time down there done right always pays off when I top or bottom.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | January 27, 2023 10:04 PM |
How many fingers?
Shut up and take them.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | January 27, 2023 10:09 PM |
Trim your nails, people!
by Anonymous | reply 40 | January 27, 2023 10:10 PM |
Fingered or fangered?
by Anonymous | reply 41 | January 27, 2023 10:10 PM |
Fingered? Paleeze! I enjoy being fisted or foot fisted.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | January 27, 2023 10:12 PM |
I LOVE getting fingered and fingering. I like it more than getting fucked if the top knows what he’s doing with his fingers.
Years ago, I met a guy who fingered me with the most pleasurable technique I’ve ever felt. I’ve used it ever since with other guys and it blows their minds too.
Sadly, as OP says, there’s very little porn showing just fingering for a long times. It’s just usually a few seconds as prelude to fisting or fucking
by Anonymous | reply 43 | January 27, 2023 10:13 PM |
I usually just rub a little bit of spit on his hole...
by Anonymous | reply 44 | January 27, 2023 10:24 PM |
Yes!
by Anonymous | reply 45 | January 27, 2023 10:29 PM |
A blonde is involved in a car accident. Paramedics arrive and blonde says she's lost her sight. Paramedic says "how many fingers have I up?"
And she replies "fuck! I'm paralysed too!"
by Anonymous | reply 46 | January 27, 2023 10:31 PM |
That’s fucking hysterical, r46!
Consider it stolen.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | January 27, 2023 10:59 PM |
Some guys love when I finger them while sucking them.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | January 27, 2023 11:01 PM |
Shove your toes and your foot in my asshole!
by Anonymous | reply 49 | January 27, 2023 11:18 PM |
The posters who think that butt stuff = poop are either 13yo school boys posing as adults or badly socialised homosexuals who were never taught basic gay hygiene.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | January 28, 2023 2:14 AM |
OP, try fingering him with your tongue.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | January 28, 2023 2:16 AM |
[quote] I have never understood the point of fingering for gay guys. Your little, bony finger is not going to do a thing for me.
It’s called a prostate, hon.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | January 28, 2023 4:40 AM |
What's green and smells like pork?
Kermit's finger..
by Anonymous | reply 54 | January 28, 2023 9:13 AM |
He doesn't understand that not all gay men have bonly little fingers like he does, R53.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | January 28, 2023 5:56 PM |
NO!
by Anonymous | reply 57 | January 28, 2023 6:30 PM |
God, r56, I never realized what babies the kids from ET looked like. I saw the movie when I was younger than Henry Thomas. But he looks about the age I remember Drew Barrymore being.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | January 28, 2023 7:26 PM |
OP find a new BF, if you can't play with his bussy then what good is he?
by Anonymous | reply 59 | January 28, 2023 8:46 PM |
Nothing like inspecting and fingering the youngsters.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | January 28, 2023 10:04 PM |
clip you nails
by Anonymous | reply 62 | January 28, 2023 10:14 PM |
Clip and FILE your nails. The sharp edges will lacerate.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | January 28, 2023 10:25 PM |
I’ve fingered guys and I’ve fingered girls….
by Anonymous | reply 64 | January 28, 2023 10:31 PM |
I knew someone who liked to get fingered. Then he died.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | January 28, 2023 11:30 PM |
^ so, fingering causes death??
by Anonymous | reply 66 | January 28, 2023 11:54 PM |
Yes if it will get me a little extra publicity.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | January 29, 2023 12:38 AM |
I remember being fingered by a crazy doctor (who was an ex-military physician), who then (I guess based on whatever he detected) asked me if I was a homosexual. I guess that was one of the ways they weeded out gays in the military in the old days.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | January 29, 2023 12:57 AM |
Your soft moaning and shouting “give it to me, Doc!!” sort of tipped him off.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | January 29, 2023 1:05 AM |
I like being fingered with a traffic cone.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | January 29, 2023 1:18 AM |
Porn is about what LOOKS hot to you when you’re masturbating. When you’re actually with someone it’s about doing what FEELS good, and yeah, if they’re not enjoying it you should switch to something else.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | January 29, 2023 1:20 AM |
I just gave my boyfriend a foot job
by Anonymous | reply 72 | January 29, 2023 1:30 AM |
r71, bottom-line, there are too many bottoms out there for OP's BF to be complaining about getting a finger or two up his butt. Im sure OP could find a number of guys who would like it
by Anonymous | reply 73 | January 29, 2023 1:30 AM |
In all seriousness, does your BF avoid all anal penetration? He might have an issue with hemorrhoids he hasn't taken care of yet.
I was mortified when I developed one in my mid 20's and wouldn't let other guys go anywhere near my hole until I finally got it removed.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | January 29, 2023 3:22 AM |
I love 5 fingers up my ass!! Stretch!! Stretch!!!
by Anonymous | reply 75 | January 29, 2023 4:44 AM |
Freddy Got Fingered
by Anonymous | reply 76 | January 29, 2023 4:47 AM |
"I’ve fingered guys and I’ve fingered girls…."
...."but I've never been to me". Eh, R64?
by Anonymous | reply 77 | January 29, 2023 7:52 AM |
depends on how much I like and trust the guy.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | January 29, 2023 8:03 AM |
Ewwww, these LadyG topics burst into many different threads. None of what she does on that orange fool’s backside can be deemed erotic by a normal person.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | January 29, 2023 10:35 AM |
How else you gonna poke a man’s walnut?
by Anonymous | reply 81 | January 29, 2023 8:26 PM |
R61 is bad news.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | January 30, 2023 12:38 AM |
My bf is a bottom R74. He doesn’t like being rimmed either! I’m the one with the unsolved hemorrhoid issues 😳
by Anonymous | reply 83 | January 30, 2023 3:27 AM |
I stuck in my thumb,
And pulled out a plum!
by Anonymous | reply 84 | January 30, 2023 3:29 AM |
What kind of gay people stick only a single finger in? You're supposed to start with 1, but to get some real sensation you need 2 - or sometimes 3.
No, I've never fisted anyone - but a single finger is just to get it lubed up.
Like anything in sex, if done well and correctly, it can be amazing.
But if you're just sticking a single finger up the ass and not hitting the prostate - what's the point of all that?
by Anonymous | reply 85 | January 30, 2023 3:34 AM |
I like doing and receiving.
I'm a versatile top, and if my BF doesn't want to top me every once in a while, he must learn how to finger the Monk in the Cave. Being fingered and blown simultaneously is...
BREATHTAKING.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | January 30, 2023 3:40 AM |
Fingers also aid in tongue access.
Speaking of which, I do hope you’re using safer sex methods and getting checked for Giardia etc…
by Anonymous | reply 87 | January 30, 2023 4:20 AM |
Novices, amateurs, and dreamers…..gezzz! DL stuff.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | January 30, 2023 9:40 AM |
I bet Greg 2023 likes to be fingerlinged...
by Anonymous | reply 89 | January 30, 2023 7:42 PM |
Good one, R89!
by Anonymous | reply 90 | January 30, 2023 10:46 PM |
Love it. Makes me feel like a bowling ball.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | January 31, 2023 12:24 PM |
[quote] Being fingered and blown simultaneously is...
Absolutely AMAZING!
by Anonymous | reply 92 | January 31, 2023 12:30 PM |
R91 “Bowling Ball” sounds like one of those gay music videos.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | January 31, 2023 12:46 PM |
No, but I go mad when I get towed.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | January 31, 2023 1:23 PM |
I have dirty fingernails
by Anonymous | reply 95 | January 31, 2023 2:10 PM |
Naw, see, naw, nobody like gettin’ fingered, see.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | January 31, 2023 2:37 PM |
R91 channeling Miley Cyrus...
He made me feel like a bowling ball / his two fingers stretched all my ways / I didn't think I'd cum at all/ Until he put in three-ee-ee-eee.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | January 31, 2023 7:31 PM |
R91 channeling Bonnie Tyler after he's moved on to fists...
Once upon time I was tight in my life / now my hole has fallen apart / there's nothing I can do / I totally shit when I fart.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | January 31, 2023 8:01 PM |
More than two fingers is indecent—that goes for both sherry and digital penetration.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | January 31, 2023 8:38 PM |
A slightly larger than finger vibrating toy!!! No finger, no fuss, no muss.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | January 31, 2023 8:45 PM |
When I lived in Hell's Kitchen a few years ago and was fucking my neighbor across the hall,, I used to finger him right before I fucked him and he seemed to love it, so who knows. Maybe it works for some and not for others.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | January 31, 2023 10:32 PM |
r101, I finger every bottom. I want to know if I will be sticking my dick into a frictionless lump of wet Kleenex or if I have to spend a little time opening up and relaxing a tight rosebud.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | January 31, 2023 10:43 PM |
When I suck a guy, my fingers start moving towards his asshole. A lot of them welcome some finger action
by Anonymous | reply 103 | February 1, 2023 2:26 AM |
R102 - A frictionless lump of wet Kleenex 😂
by Anonymous | reply 104 | February 1, 2023 2:38 AM |
[quote]Reaching and penetrating are the prime factors.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | February 1, 2023 9:41 AM |
Before I stick my finger in any part of you, I want a complete list of everything you ate in the previous 24 hours.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | February 1, 2023 12:01 PM |
That's faster and easier to figure out R106 by just sticking your finger in.
by Anonymous | reply 107 | February 1, 2023 12:08 PM |