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Do you like being fingered?

I love fingering guys but my boyfriend hates it and won’t let me do it. Today I suddenly wondered if no one actually likes it, and other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful. I don’t think I’ve ever seen guys fingering each other in gay porn… just chicks fingering guys in straight videos

by Anonymousreply 107February 1, 2023 12:08 PM

What do you do?

Do you "finger" the mouth of strange men?

by Anonymousreply 1January 27, 2023 7:04 AM

[quote]other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful


by Anonymousreply 2January 27, 2023 7:10 AM

Most guys "prone" to enjoying this type of thing either want the dick or a fist. Fingerts, unless one is extremely skillful, get annoying. So basically I'm saying, "you sound annoying"

by Anonymousreply 3January 27, 2023 7:35 AM

Is OP Kitara?

by Anonymousreply 4January 27, 2023 7:50 AM


And I hope you get pooh finger.

by Anonymousreply 5January 27, 2023 9:39 AM

Anti gay trolling exercise

by Anonymousreply 6January 27, 2023 9:57 AM

Ok, i ll ignore the beautiful part and answer: i like doing it to others but lately i also got the sense they just suffer it for the sake of the main event. I get this as someone once did it to me and all that poking was horrible (but i also dont enjoy the main event).

There is lots of fingering in gay porn, though.

by Anonymousreply 7January 27, 2023 10:13 AM

Yes, both giving and receiving. There’s something about it that gets me insanely hot, either way. Great foreplay if you are any good at it.

by Anonymousreply 8January 27, 2023 10:41 AM

Make sure your nails are cut.

by Anonymousreply 9January 27, 2023 11:03 AM

It can be good when you’re getting ready to cum. However, not everyone knows how to do it. People can hurt you doing it.

by Anonymousreply 10January 27, 2023 11:04 AM

You mean finger fucking?

by Anonymousreply 11January 27, 2023 11:44 AM

I like doing it so that when I am back at my desk at work, I can smell my finger and get instantly hard again.

by Anonymousreply 12January 27, 2023 12:03 PM

[quote]other guys I’ve been with have only let me do it because I’m so beautiful


They let you do it because they're whores.

by Anonymousreply 13January 27, 2023 12:16 PM

I have never understood the point of fingering for gay guys. Your little, bony finger is not going to do a thing for me.

by Anonymousreply 14January 27, 2023 12:21 PM

I think the idea of sticking your finger up someone's ass is ridiculous. Male or female, gay or straight. When it comes to gay sex, it's either shit or get off the pot.

by Anonymousreply 15January 27, 2023 12:28 PM

[quote]When it comes to gay sex, it's either shit or get off the pot.

Maybe you should have workshopped that sentence before posting it. 😉

by Anonymousreply 16January 27, 2023 12:34 PM

For those who have said it has to be done right, what does doing it right mean? How do you do it right?

by Anonymousreply 17January 27, 2023 12:36 PM

[quote]Great foreplay if you are any good at it.


by Anonymousreply 18January 27, 2023 12:41 PM

Agree with R18 and the OP must be 15 and or dumb as a rock.

by Anonymousreply 19January 27, 2023 12:44 PM


by Anonymousreply 20January 27, 2023 12:46 PM

The only time I'm fingered is when I go to a masseur who gives prostate massage. I make sure I have cleaned myself thoroughly.

by Anonymousreply 21January 27, 2023 12:54 PM

Getting fingered feels so Judgy...

by Anonymousreply 22January 27, 2023 3:45 PM

R12 You like the smell of poop?

by Anonymousreply 23January 27, 2023 3:47 PM

Are people on Datalounge actually gay anymore? Or is it like 50/50. I am asking because of people like r23 who is either10 years old or some Frau that had her husband "stolen by a fag."

by Anonymousreply 24January 27, 2023 3:58 PM

R24 So what you are saying is, you like the smell of poop.

by Anonymousreply 25January 27, 2023 3:59 PM

No, what R24 is saying is that if it doesn't smell faintly of poop, you are doing it wrong.

by Anonymousreply 26January 27, 2023 4:07 PM

I usually don't truck with men who spent the day turtle-necking R25. Maybe it's an age thing, but the guys I am with seem to be professionals when it comes to being gay and have litter-free highways. I LOVE the smell of a man's ass. The pheromones get me rock hard. I am the one above who said the combination of a clean ass after a brisk jog is the perfect recipe. Smells like sex to me.

by Anonymousreply 27January 27, 2023 4:10 PM

A finger is good as a start but only if he finishes off the job with his big dick.

by Anonymousreply 28January 27, 2023 4:14 PM

Uh yeah?

by Anonymousreply 29January 27, 2023 4:21 PM

Word of warning, OP. My sister died of cuticle cancer from fingering too many bicurious boys in high school. It was a closed coffin funeral.

by Anonymousreply 30January 27, 2023 4:23 PM

Not anymore, as I’m bitter and have a lot of internal shame around my body and what I think I can do. Back when I was younger and more attractive, I loved having my hole played with.

by Anonymousreply 31January 27, 2023 4:28 PM

I love it. But it's kind of more thrilling to me when it's in public or in a car.

Sometimes it's a prelude to being fucked, sometimes it's just its own thing. Either way it makes me shoot, a lot. (Not the biggest dick, but I shoot a lot and shoot far, and a hot guy kissing me while he fingers me will make me cover us both in my load.)

by Anonymousreply 32January 27, 2023 4:30 PM

R32 Yeah, It's not for everyone. Simply being "a bottom" doesn't guarantee that he will like a finger. But for some guys, whether tops or bottoms or undeclared, nothing is more intense that skillfully hitting that happy spot when they come.

Back in the day I used to love feeling how prostate enlarged, got harder and harder, as the guy got ready to cum, and how I could almost edge him by the amount of pressure of a well-placed finger. Ah, youth.

by Anonymousreply 33January 27, 2023 4:42 PM

There is certainly more information here than I was looking for!

by Anonymousreply 34January 27, 2023 4:56 PM

[quote]And I hope you get pooh finger.

Oh, my word!

by Anonymousreply 35January 27, 2023 5:01 PM

Sometimes a finger bang is necessary to open a guy up, especially if he's getting fucked for the first time or hasn't been fucked in awhile because he's been with his wife for a long time.

by Anonymousreply 36January 27, 2023 6:39 PM

I know some straight guys love being fingered. It turns me on watching a straight man cum while getting fingered.

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by Anonymousreply 37January 27, 2023 9:51 PM

Fingering done well is the best. Such a turn on. You’ve gotta treat it with respect and just play, stroke and stretch the arse. It has more nerves than anywhere else in the body. A quick straight in and fuck is always good! But a bit more time down there done right always pays off when I top or bottom.

by Anonymousreply 38January 27, 2023 10:04 PM

How many fingers?

Shut up and take them.

by Anonymousreply 39January 27, 2023 10:09 PM

Trim your nails, people!

by Anonymousreply 40January 27, 2023 10:10 PM

Fingered or fangered?

by Anonymousreply 41January 27, 2023 10:10 PM

Fingered? Paleeze! I enjoy being fisted or foot fisted.

by Anonymousreply 42January 27, 2023 10:12 PM

I LOVE getting fingered and fingering. I like it more than getting fucked if the top knows what he’s doing with his fingers.

Years ago, I met a guy who fingered me with the most pleasurable technique I’ve ever felt. I’ve used it ever since with other guys and it blows their minds too.

Sadly, as OP says, there’s very little porn showing just fingering for a long times. It’s just usually a few seconds as prelude to fisting or fucking

by Anonymousreply 43January 27, 2023 10:13 PM

I usually just rub a little bit of spit on his hole...

by Anonymousreply 44January 27, 2023 10:24 PM


by Anonymousreply 45January 27, 2023 10:29 PM

A blonde is involved in a car accident. Paramedics arrive and blonde says she's lost her sight. Paramedic says "how many fingers have I up?"

And she replies "fuck! I'm paralysed too!"

by Anonymousreply 46January 27, 2023 10:31 PM

That’s fucking hysterical, r46!

Consider it stolen.

by Anonymousreply 47January 27, 2023 10:59 PM

Some guys love when I finger them while sucking them.

by Anonymousreply 48January 27, 2023 11:01 PM

Shove your toes and your foot in my asshole!

by Anonymousreply 49January 27, 2023 11:18 PM

The posters who think that butt stuff = poop are either 13yo school boys posing as adults or badly socialised homosexuals who were never taught basic gay hygiene.

by Anonymousreply 50January 28, 2023 2:14 AM

OP, try fingering him with your tongue.

by Anonymousreply 51January 28, 2023 2:16 AM

Undercover Cadbury marketing thread!

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by Anonymousreply 52January 28, 2023 2:27 AM

[quote] I have never understood the point of fingering for gay guys. Your little, bony finger is not going to do a thing for me.

It’s called a prostate, hon.

by Anonymousreply 53January 28, 2023 4:40 AM

What's green and smells like pork?

Kermit's finger..

by Anonymousreply 54January 28, 2023 9:13 AM

He doesn't understand that not all gay men have bonly little fingers like he does, R53.

by Anonymousreply 55January 28, 2023 5:56 PM

Love it!

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by Anonymousreply 56January 28, 2023 6:28 PM


by Anonymousreply 57January 28, 2023 6:30 PM

God, r56, I never realized what babies the kids from ET looked like. I saw the movie when I was younger than Henry Thomas. But he looks about the age I remember Drew Barrymore being.

by Anonymousreply 58January 28, 2023 7:26 PM

OP find a new BF, if you can't play with his bussy then what good is he?

by Anonymousreply 59January 28, 2023 8:46 PM

Nothing like inspecting and fingering the youngsters.

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by Anonymousreply 60January 28, 2023 10:04 PM

Inspecting and fingering.

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by Anonymousreply 61January 28, 2023 10:06 PM

clip you nails

by Anonymousreply 62January 28, 2023 10:14 PM

Clip and FILE your nails. The sharp edges will lacerate.

by Anonymousreply 63January 28, 2023 10:25 PM

I’ve fingered guys and I’ve fingered girls….

by Anonymousreply 64January 28, 2023 10:31 PM

I knew someone who liked to get fingered. Then he died.

by Anonymousreply 65January 28, 2023 11:30 PM

^ so, fingering causes death??

by Anonymousreply 66January 28, 2023 11:54 PM

Yes if it will get me a little extra publicity.

by Anonymousreply 67January 29, 2023 12:38 AM

I remember being fingered by a crazy doctor (who was an ex-military physician), who then (I guess based on whatever he detected) asked me if I was a homosexual. I guess that was one of the ways they weeded out gays in the military in the old days.

by Anonymousreply 68January 29, 2023 12:57 AM

Your soft moaning and shouting “give it to me, Doc!!” sort of tipped him off.

by Anonymousreply 69January 29, 2023 1:05 AM

I like being fingered with a traffic cone.

by Anonymousreply 70January 29, 2023 1:18 AM

Porn is about what LOOKS hot to you when you’re masturbating. When you’re actually with someone it’s about doing what FEELS good, and yeah, if they’re not enjoying it you should switch to something else.

by Anonymousreply 71January 29, 2023 1:20 AM

I just gave my boyfriend a foot job

by Anonymousreply 72January 29, 2023 1:30 AM

r71, bottom-line, there are too many bottoms out there for OP's BF to be complaining about getting a finger or two up his butt. Im sure OP could find a number of guys who would like it

by Anonymousreply 73January 29, 2023 1:30 AM

In all seriousness, does your BF avoid all anal penetration? He might have an issue with hemorrhoids he hasn't taken care of yet.

I was mortified when I developed one in my mid 20's and wouldn't let other guys go anywhere near my hole until I finally got it removed.

by Anonymousreply 74January 29, 2023 3:22 AM

I love 5 fingers up my ass!! Stretch!! Stretch!!!

by Anonymousreply 75January 29, 2023 4:44 AM

Freddy Got Fingered

by Anonymousreply 76January 29, 2023 4:47 AM

"I’ve fingered guys and I’ve fingered girls…."

...."but I've never been to me". Eh, R64?

by Anonymousreply 77January 29, 2023 7:52 AM

Hell, yeah!

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by Anonymousreply 78January 29, 2023 7:54 AM

depends on how much I like and trust the guy.

by Anonymousreply 79January 29, 2023 8:03 AM

Ewwww, these LadyG topics burst into many different threads. None of what she does on that orange fool’s backside can be deemed erotic by a normal person.

by Anonymousreply 80January 29, 2023 10:35 AM

How else you gonna poke a man’s walnut?

by Anonymousreply 81January 29, 2023 8:26 PM

R61 is bad news.

by Anonymousreply 82January 30, 2023 12:38 AM

My bf is a bottom R74. He doesn’t like being rimmed either! I’m the one with the unsolved hemorrhoid issues 😳

by Anonymousreply 83January 30, 2023 3:27 AM

I stuck in my thumb,

And pulled out a plum!

by Anonymousreply 84January 30, 2023 3:29 AM

What kind of gay people stick only a single finger in? You're supposed to start with 1, but to get some real sensation you need 2 - or sometimes 3.

No, I've never fisted anyone - but a single finger is just to get it lubed up.

Like anything in sex, if done well and correctly, it can be amazing.

But if you're just sticking a single finger up the ass and not hitting the prostate - what's the point of all that?

by Anonymousreply 85January 30, 2023 3:34 AM

I like doing and receiving.

I'm a versatile top, and if my BF doesn't want to top me every once in a while, he must learn how to finger the Monk in the Cave. Being fingered and blown simultaneously is...


by Anonymousreply 86January 30, 2023 3:40 AM

Fingers also aid in tongue access.

Speaking of which, I do hope you’re using safer sex methods and getting checked for Giardia etc…

by Anonymousreply 87January 30, 2023 4:20 AM

Novices, amateurs, and dreamers…..gezzz! DL stuff.

by Anonymousreply 88January 30, 2023 9:40 AM

I bet Greg 2023 likes to be fingerlinged...

by Anonymousreply 89January 30, 2023 7:42 PM

Good one, R89!

by Anonymousreply 90January 30, 2023 10:46 PM

Love it. Makes me feel like a bowling ball.

by Anonymousreply 91January 31, 2023 12:24 PM

[quote] Being fingered and blown simultaneously is...

Absolutely AMAZING!

by Anonymousreply 92January 31, 2023 12:30 PM

R91 “Bowling Ball” sounds like one of those gay music videos.

by Anonymousreply 93January 31, 2023 12:46 PM

No, but I go mad when I get towed.

by Anonymousreply 94January 31, 2023 1:23 PM

I have dirty fingernails

by Anonymousreply 95January 31, 2023 2:10 PM

Naw, see, naw, nobody like gettin’ fingered, see.

by Anonymousreply 96January 31, 2023 2:37 PM

R91 channeling Miley Cyrus...

He made me feel like a bowling ball / his two fingers stretched all my ways / I didn't think I'd cum at all/ Until he put in three-ee-ee-eee.

by Anonymousreply 97January 31, 2023 7:31 PM

R91 channeling Bonnie Tyler after he's moved on to fists...

Once upon time I was tight in my life / now my hole has fallen apart / there's nothing I can do / I totally shit when I fart.

by Anonymousreply 98January 31, 2023 8:01 PM

More than two fingers is indecent—that goes for both sherry and digital penetration.

by Anonymousreply 99January 31, 2023 8:38 PM

A slightly larger than finger vibrating toy!!! No finger, no fuss, no muss.

by Anonymousreply 100January 31, 2023 8:45 PM

When I lived in Hell's Kitchen a few years ago and was fucking my neighbor across the hall,, I used to finger him right before I fucked him and he seemed to love it, so who knows. Maybe it works for some and not for others.

by Anonymousreply 101January 31, 2023 10:32 PM

r101, I finger every bottom. I want to know if I will be sticking my dick into a frictionless lump of wet Kleenex or if I have to spend a little time opening up and relaxing a tight rosebud.

by Anonymousreply 102January 31, 2023 10:43 PM

When I suck a guy, my fingers start moving towards his asshole. A lot of them welcome some finger action

by Anonymousreply 103February 1, 2023 2:26 AM

R102 - A frictionless lump of wet Kleenex 😂

by Anonymousreply 104February 1, 2023 2:38 AM

[quote]Reaching and penetrating are the prime factors.

by Anonymousreply 105February 1, 2023 9:41 AM

Before I stick my finger in any part of you, I want a complete list of everything you ate in the previous 24 hours.

by Anonymousreply 106February 1, 2023 12:01 PM

That's faster and easier to figure out R106 by just sticking your finger in.

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