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Can a man’s looks effect his willingness/open mindedness to get sexual with another man?

You know, in a country with rising obesity, I wonder how many “straight” men are out there who might have some degree of sexual attraction to other men but don’t act on it because gay men tend to be very superficial sexually, so the opportunities never come their way, and they are never really prompted to think about their sexuality.

Handsome men, on the other hand, surely get hit on more by other men (depending on where they live).

How many “straight” guys would actually hook up with a Brad Pitt in his prime if Brad Pitt were to hit on them?

Are hot guys more likely to sleep with other men, regardless of how they identify?

by Anonymousreply 38January 22, 2023 5:44 PM

NO. Clearly you don't understand what being straight means. A straight man will fuck any pussy he can get a hold of when horny. OP- Write some fanfic to entertain your fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 1January 21, 2023 6:21 PM

Please learn English

by Anonymousreply 2January 21, 2023 6:21 PM

Who can get excited about doughy bodies, feature-robbing facial hair and silly ink?

by Anonymousreply 3January 21, 2023 6:26 PM


by Anonymousreply 4January 21, 2023 6:45 PM

Can someone please translate what OP was trying to say?

by Anonymousreply 5January 21, 2023 6:48 PM

R5 It said "ramble, ramble, ramble, extra comma, ramble, comma, ramble ramble ramble ramble effect (Oh, dear!)

Got it?

by Anonymousreply 6January 21, 2023 6:49 PM

OP has clearly closed his eyes to what's going on in the real world. Fat women are getting laid. Fat women are getting men - hot men. I know it goes against some straight guy fantasy that you've created in your brain, but straight guys like pussy and a lot of guys don't care what the package comes in.

As I heard someone say recently. Many men want the hot swimsuit model, but when they can't get that, all the other women are fair game.

TL:DR version - fat girls are getting dick, lots of dick and good dick. Straight guys don't want other guys.

by Anonymousreply 7January 21, 2023 6:50 PM

R5, it means that OP is overdosing on her Adderall again and over posting to the Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 8January 21, 2023 7:10 PM

OP is questioning if hot "straight" guys are more likely to have sex with other men, due to the fact they get frequent offers for sex from other men.

I agree with r7, they only want women and there is no shortage of women out there looking to have sex with hot guys. There may be a tiny subset that is actually bisexual, but its very small.

by Anonymousreply 9January 21, 2023 7:17 PM

Can anyun go to Harvard iffin they axe politelike?

by Anonymousreply 10January 21, 2023 7:24 PM

R7, most gay men have more sexual partners than straight women (or straight men)

What world are you living in where fat chicks are sleeping with tons of hot guys?

by Anonymousreply 11January 21, 2023 7:27 PM

We're at response 10 and I have guffawed 4 times. I love you bitches. Happy Saturday!

by Anonymousreply 12January 21, 2023 7:28 PM

Fat girls are not getting dick. Fat girls finger themselves and eat their feelings. Normal white straight men find the best looking girl they can reasonably get or just jerk off to porn. Now if they are super drunk they might stick it in a fatty but they will regret it. Fat girls have big fat sloppy pussies. Nobody likes that. Lose the weight ladies. Now black men? They like a fat bitch.

by Anonymousreply 13January 21, 2023 7:34 PM

OP, would you have sex with the hottest (female) supermodel?

by Anonymousreply 14January 21, 2023 7:37 PM

^As opposed to Sam Smith.

Those are your choices.

by Anonymousreply 15January 21, 2023 7:44 PM

Only if they are in prison OP. In society, straight men sleep with women not men. You should've just kept this in your diary.

by Anonymousreply 16January 21, 2023 7:48 PM

I don't think looks have anything to do with it. I think it's all about libido. A man with a super high libido would be more likely to consent to some sort of sex action with another man, I believe. I have always found that men with very high sex drives eventually come to the understanding that a hole is a hole and if it feels good, go for it. Once in a while won't make you gay.

by Anonymousreply 17January 21, 2023 7:52 PM

Without getting into the perennial arguments about straight men vis a vis gay sex, I CAN tell you that hot guys are more likely to sleep with other hot guys.

Take that for what it's worth. Hope it helps.

by Anonymousreply 18January 21, 2023 7:55 PM

OP, perhaps consider that gay men can be more selective than straight men because sex is so easily available to them, whereas straight men often take what they can get. Handsome PEOPLE get hit more as a rule, it's not a question of gender or sexual preference.

And straight men are not generally attracted to very masculine guys. This is why you frequently find them hounding trannies - they want the dick but they don't want it to be attached to masculinity.

by Anonymousreply 19January 21, 2023 8:04 PM

[quote]Handsome PEOPLE get hit more as a rule,

Tell me about it.

by Anonymousreply 20January 21, 2023 8:06 PM

[quote] And straight men are not generally attracted to very masculine guys. This is why you frequently find them hounding trannies - they want the dick but they don't want it to be attached to masculinity.

Can you expound on this R19? Not trying to be snarky I'm genuinely curious how you came to this theory?

by Anonymousreply 21January 21, 2023 8:09 PM

I've heard R19's argument many times -It's actually one of the things that's mentioned on those "how to suck of a straight guy" pages. The way I understand it, straight guys are horny bastards who just want to get off, so they'll consider letting another man do it. But they don't want to feel that they were in any way attracted to that man, or that the encounter was anything more than a bro-job.

It doesn't sound all that unreasonable to me...

by Anonymousreply 22January 21, 2023 8:30 PM

The delusion is unreal!!! You guys ask the same question every other post. Just say that you're tired of doughy average men. You want hot guys but there aren't enough available and when there are, they don't want you. The same rules apply even you're straight.

by Anonymousreply 23January 21, 2023 8:33 PM

Fat girls, in general, are less desirable to straight guys than thinner ones, but there are more and more fat straight guys out there who can’t get prettier girls, and there are fat-fetishists as well as plenty of Black & Latin men, from hot to not, that also desire then.

The two lonely / endlessly single fat girls I’ve known well are both ridiculously picky and had fairly unrealistic expectations given their looks; like lots of gay guys.

by Anonymousreply 24January 21, 2023 8:52 PM

Sorry bottoms, but this is just delusional fantasy thinking.

by Anonymousreply 25January 21, 2023 9:00 PM

R13 and R24 you'd be surprised. I'm not going to claim it's super common for decent looking men to want overweight women, but I have known decent looking men that specifically sought out big girls. Had a roommate that was fine looking and he always brought home girls that were plump. We'd go out and he went to them, ignoring regular women into him. Of course he would get upset if anyone insinuated that because he was in denial and embarrassed about it (but only about other guys judging him).

Knew another decent looking guy. Young women were all over him. He was upfront that he wanted bigger girls. He just wasn't attracted to thin women. Had a mutual friend that was super into him, drop dead gorgeous, but he just couldn't do it he said because he wasn't attracted to her body type.

Point is; there's enough chubby chasers out there -- by choice.

by Anonymousreply 26January 22, 2023 1:22 AM

I could've written R18 's post. It has been my observation and experience that hot men - whether straight, bi, or whatever - ARE likely to be having at least some sex with other men, but it is always other, equally hot men. They know their worth and they know what they can pull down, and why wouldn't they for is there anything more desirable than a fine man? A look in the mirror tells them this every day.

by Anonymousreply 27January 22, 2023 1:48 AM

You're just going to end up getting the shit kicked out of you, OP. If you want to attract a top, lose some weight.

by Anonymousreply 28January 22, 2023 4:00 AM

R14 and R15, yes. But I’m bi.

by Anonymousreply 29January 22, 2023 5:31 AM

R27 I could've written R18's post too...when I was 20 and knew NOTHING about ANYTHING. How old are you?

by Anonymousreply 30January 22, 2023 11:11 AM

OP, evaluate these hot, desperate straight guys as you would sheep.

Your target market is made up of herbivores and you’re selling lyme-infested venison that subsisted on acorns.

by Anonymousreply 31January 22, 2023 3:03 PM

Can a man’s lack of basic English affect his ability to communicate?

by Anonymousreply 32January 22, 2023 3:17 PM

[quote]I have known decent looking men that specifically sought out big girls.

I know that we have a large shut in population here on DL, but if you go outside and just look around, you'll see big girls with boyfriends. Go to any area where there is a military presence of some sort and you'll see military guys and big girls all the time.

I'm not saying that every big girl in the land is getting good dick, but beauty standards have changed and continue to change. Some of you are still stuck in the world where Twiggy is a thing.

And finally gay male standards of attractiveness are not straight male standards of attractiveness - especially when it comes to getting pussy. A fat girl's pussy is still a pussy.

by Anonymousreply 33January 22, 2023 3:48 PM

R26 Interesting false and exaggerated stories to support your desired version of this topic

by Anonymousreply 34January 22, 2023 3:51 PM

R26 There's always been chubby chasers straight and gay. But it's not the norm. Exceptions to every rule. But I stand by my argument that most fatties are not getting a lot of dick. The get cats, watch romantic comedies and eat. And any man who fetishizes fat girls probably has some issues he needs to work through. Nothing more gross than a big sloppy fat pussy.

by Anonymousreply 35January 22, 2023 4:18 PM

How did this become a thread about great, big fat women and all the dick they do or don't get?

by Anonymousreply 36January 22, 2023 4:25 PM

When they get pretty, man goes up in man! Wife needs to watch carefully!

by Anonymousreply 37January 22, 2023 4:42 PM

[quote] There's always been chubby chasers straight and gay. But it's not the norm. Exceptions to every rule.

It's called confirmation bias. The vast majority of hot men choose hot women. There are some who don't (chasers, etc.). But you don't notice the majority -you notice the exceptions because they stick out in your mind. Here's an example: you drive every day, and never really notice much about the cars around you. But then you start shopping for a new car, so you start to notice. You want to buy a(n) XX, so suddenly you see XXs everywhere. It's not that there are suddenly more of them -just that now that you're paying attention you notice them.

by Anonymousreply 38January 22, 2023 5:44 PM
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