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What's the point of a woman having sex?

I'm a woman. I've never given birth, so my vagina isn't loose. However, I don't really feel anything during intercourse. Big penis, small penis, real penis, dildo---it doesn't matter. There's no pleasure from that. I read that this is normal, and most women can't orgasm from intercourse, and only get pleasure from clitoral stimulation.

Anyway, so what's the point of having sex if it doesn't even feel good? Sex is messy and can lead to disease/pregnancy. Women need to take birth control. What's the point of going through all this and risking pregnancy, just to have sex that doesn't even feel good? Is it the only way to "keep" a man? BTW, I know some women do like intercourse.

by Anonymousreply 75December 11, 2022 6:45 PM

Have you tried licking snatch?

by Anonymousreply 1December 9, 2022 2:05 AM

If you don’t want to have sex, then don’t have sex

Simple

by Anonymousreply 2December 9, 2022 2:08 AM

Most men can't orgasm from anal intercourse without jacking themselves off. Yet no gay man would ever ask "what's the point of having sex?"

by Anonymousreply 3December 9, 2022 2:12 AM

It is true that a lot of women can't achieve orgasm from intercourse. But you'd never know that from what you see on tv, in books, in the movies. In all forms of media all a woman needs to achieve sexual ecstasy is to have aq big ol' piece of tubesteak shoved into her honey pot.

by Anonymousreply 4December 9, 2022 2:12 AM

R2 But no man will stay in a sexless relationship.

by Anonymousreply 5December 9, 2022 2:12 AM

R3 So why do they do it?

by Anonymousreply 6December 9, 2022 2:13 AM

Beats the hell outta me, OP.

by Anonymousreply 7December 9, 2022 2:14 AM

[quote][R3] So why do they do it?

Some women are legitimately dickmatized. These would be the few that actually are capable of receiving pleasure from PIV sex.

Those blessed bitches. -_-

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by Anonymousreply 8December 9, 2022 2:16 AM

"[R2] But no man will stay in a sexless relationship. "

Some will stay in it but they'll have sex elsewhere.

by Anonymousreply 9December 9, 2022 2:17 AM

Gurl. you needs ta find a partner who loves to eat pussy and flick yer clit.

by Anonymousreply 10December 9, 2022 2:19 AM

[quote] But no man will stay in a sexless relationship.

If you don’t need his cock, why do you need the rest of him?

These breeder problems are so stupid

by Anonymousreply 11December 9, 2022 2:21 AM

What makes you think a bunch of homos want to hear about your non-loose, orgasmless vag?

Read the room - on your way out of the gay space you wandered into.

Colonizer

by Anonymousreply 12December 9, 2022 2:23 AM

R11 Somebody to get a mortgage with. Someone to hang out with. Someone to put as my "next of kin" on hospital records. Somebody to file a missing person report if I vanish.

by Anonymousreply 13December 9, 2022 2:24 AM

0/10

by Anonymousreply 14December 9, 2022 2:25 AM

Sounds like your issue, lady (if this is in fact a lady). I know plenty of women who have orgasms with PIV sex and love the feeling of a cock inside them.

Good luck.

by Anonymousreply 15December 9, 2022 2:26 AM

OP, something is WAYwrong with you.

by Anonymousreply 16December 9, 2022 2:27 AM

Clitoral Stimulation is the big O op you troll

by Anonymousreply 17December 9, 2022 2:27 AM

Frau, you are in the WRONG place.

Move along, toots.

by Anonymousreply 18December 9, 2022 2:28 AM

Some women like to orgasm via oral or however and then immediately after get fucked. That’s what my girlfriend (hag) likes.

by Anonymousreply 19December 9, 2022 2:30 AM

I don’t think dick is your thing op.

by Anonymousreply 20December 9, 2022 2:32 AM

Doubt this post is real but if you are a woman, find your g spot. Maybe it got lost.

by Anonymousreply 21December 9, 2022 2:32 AM

You need somebody to eat you out and rub your clit at the same time. Tell them what you want! I'm a gay man but ate a pussy when I was 19 yo because I wanting to prove that I was straight. This was back in the 70s. Then I fucked her for probably like 2 minutes, I was a virgin and shot a huge load into her and she really did squirt - I thought she pissed the bed and several years later she told me she came. I guess my point is communication is the key. I didn't know what I was doing but she told me what felt good.

by Anonymousreply 22December 9, 2022 2:38 AM

I find it odd that a woman would think childbirth leaves a vagina stretched out. Also, a clitorus is actually very large and 3 dimensional. Many women find PIV sex as tactile and enjoyable as the external clit stimulation.

by Anonymousreply 23December 9, 2022 2:45 AM

R23, right? It's almost like the OP doesn't have a vagina at all.

Which would be so weird. Just strange.

I mean, she says she's a woman. So she must be. But she doesn't seem to know basic female anatomy.

Eh, it's a riddle I just can't seem to solve.

by Anonymousreply 24December 9, 2022 2:56 AM

I enjoy sex with and without clitoral stimulation. It still feels really good. Are you sure you are getting turned on enough before penetration? Have you tried reaching down to stimulate yourself during penetration?

by Anonymousreply 25December 9, 2022 2:56 AM

[quote] Somebody to get a mortgage with. Someone to hang out with. Someone to put as my "next of kin" on hospital records. Somebody to file a missing person report if I vanish.

And a woman can’t do those things?

by Anonymousreply 26December 9, 2022 2:57 AM

The best time for PIV is after a clitoral orgasm. It jump starts things.

by Anonymousreply 27December 9, 2022 2:58 AM

OP, maybe you can get some help in the Agony Aunt thread. Is Doctor Ruth still around?

Dr Ruth

My cunt is numb, and I don't enjoy sex. It doesn't matter what I love up there, nothing does the job, not a cock, a fist, or even the enormous summer sausage I bought down to the Kroger.

Do women just not enjoy sex? Have TV and movies lied to me?

Help me!

Frigid in Fresno

by Anonymousreply 28December 9, 2022 3:00 AM

Yes it does. R27. OP, try getting on top too. Then you get some great stimulation all around.

by Anonymousreply 29December 9, 2022 3:01 AM

Pussies can’t feel much in the way of tactile sensation past the entrance, but they can still feel pressure deep inside.

Try getting penetrated in your anterior fornix. That’s where all the nerves are that will increase your arousal.

by Anonymousreply 30December 9, 2022 3:02 AM

[quote] she really did squirt - I thought she pissed the bed

Technically, r21, she did piss the bed. Squirting is mostly urine.

My condolences to you for this revelation.

by Anonymousreply 31December 9, 2022 3:03 AM

I didn't even know a woman could cum! Yuck.

by Anonymousreply 32December 9, 2022 3:03 AM

[quote] I find it odd that a woman would think childbirth leaves a vagina stretched out

That’s because OP is not a woman

by Anonymousreply 33December 9, 2022 3:07 AM

OP is a man who wants women to stop having sex with men. OP is threatened by vagina and also obsessed with vagina enough to pretend to be a woman. Case closed.

by Anonymousreply 34December 9, 2022 4:37 AM

Most women don't squirt, R32. Calm down.

by Anonymousreply 35December 9, 2022 4:48 AM

Have you tried my hormone cocktail?

by Anonymousreply 36December 9, 2022 4:51 AM

This thread's title sounds like something Jordan Peterson could publish.

by Anonymousreply 37December 9, 2022 4:52 AM

We know, Ed.win, you identify as a woman.

by Anonymousreply 38December 9, 2022 5:04 AM

Shit. I meant r22 at r31.

by Anonymousreply 39December 9, 2022 5:41 AM

OP, during PIV, ask your partner to finger your anal cavity and massage your prostate until you climax.

by Anonymousreply 40December 9, 2022 6:07 AM

Were you sexually abused as a child? Many women who were raped when they were girls find that their brain basically disconnects from their genital region, such that it feels numb or without sensation. I knew someone who’d been raped by her uncle when she was 10, and even though she got into extensive therapy and became a lesbian, she had no feeling “down there.” She’d go to the gyno for a pelvic exam and would feel nothing. For females, sex is more psychological than physical, so if you ever experienced sexual trauma it’s possible that your brain shut things down to protect you from further pain, and your ability to feel aroused and derive pleasure got shut down too.

by Anonymousreply 41December 9, 2022 6:20 AM

Troll. Thread.

by Anonymousreply 42December 9, 2022 6:21 AM

If it's a pretty woman, it's like a reward for the guy. But if it's an ugly witch, it's an entrapment.

by Anonymousreply 43December 9, 2022 6:31 AM

Autogynephilia is when guys imagine themselves as girls getting fucked. Bitches don't actually post on here since they get attacked so viciously by the mean girls. But gay men pretending they're girls is just sick.

by Anonymousreply 44December 9, 2022 6:53 AM

That's Eddie...

by Anonymousreply 45December 9, 2022 6:55 AM

I bet that's not a woman but a sick gay man trolling.

by Anonymousreply 46December 9, 2022 6:56 AM

Ma’am, this is a Wendy’s.

by Anonymousreply 47December 9, 2022 6:57 AM

OP, while claiming to be a woman with a vagina, probably thinks women pee out of their clit.

by Anonymousreply 48December 9, 2022 7:57 AM

What's the point of a gay man pretending to be a woman?

by Anonymousreply 49December 9, 2022 8:03 AM

We've been trolled.

by Anonymousreply 50December 9, 2022 3:16 PM

OP exactly what are we supposed to do with all this unsolicited information about your imaginary vagina?

by Anonymousreply 51December 9, 2022 3:25 PM

I think he was hoping we’d call out his imaginary female persona for using men for everything except sex.

But it was stupid, sloppy trolling.

by Anonymousreply 52December 9, 2022 3:31 PM

R3 what are you on about? That’s ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 53December 9, 2022 3:36 PM

Doesn’t any clitoral stimulation occur when the man is on top missionary style?

by Anonymousreply 54December 9, 2022 3:37 PM

Finally something to talk about that doesn’t involve TJ Holmes

by Anonymousreply 55December 9, 2022 3:48 PM

Yeah you're a woman OP and I'm Zach Tinker's BF. Nice try.

by Anonymousreply 56December 9, 2022 3:55 PM

How old are you, OP? If you’re young, your sex life changes dramatically in your 30s and 40s. And for the better, might I add.

Also, if you cannot feel anything, you need to see an OBGYN. I wonder if you’re a troll, because while women do complain about not orgasming vaginally, I’ve never heard one say they don’t feel anything.

Also, most straight men have zero clue how to have pleasurable sex. They’re just awful. It’s true. There’s really no point in whoring around, because most of them have zero knowledge of what they’re doing. Guys that learn how to have sex via porn, are usually the shittiest lays ever. Truth.

If you’re fortunate enough to meet a straight man who knows what he’s doing? Good luck getting over him if you end up breaking up, because a great lay is rare AF amongst heterosexuals.

So sad, but so true.

I wonder if this is the same with gay men, or will bottoms pretty much settle for anyone/anything, sexually?

by Anonymousreply 57December 9, 2022 4:12 PM

[quote] I didn't even know a woman could cum! Yuck.

Much harder and much longer than you.

by Anonymousreply 58December 9, 2022 5:30 PM

Maybe they enjoy pleasing their male lovers?

Maybe some women don’t necessarily require an orgasm to enjoy intimacy?

by Anonymousreply 59December 9, 2022 5:32 PM

Why the fuck are yall responding to this dumb ass troll?

by Anonymousreply 60December 9, 2022 5:33 PM

Since we're animals, evolution intended for us to have sex doggy style. Loose hanging balls slap against the clitoris which stimulates the woman and makes the penetration pleasurable. Also the bottom of the clitoris is inside the vagina (known as the infomous "G-spot") And the rubbing and stretching of that tissue can be intensely arousing to the point of orgasm.

by Anonymousreply 61December 9, 2022 5:41 PM

[quote] Loose hanging balls slap against the clitoris

Say what now?

by Anonymousreply 62December 9, 2022 5:46 PM

I don’t even know where the clitoris is.

by Anonymousreply 63December 9, 2022 6:55 PM

The point is to turn her into a sprinkler, and if you didn’t you have no game.

by Anonymousreply 64December 9, 2022 7:11 PM

The point is procreation. Period.

by Anonymousreply 65December 9, 2022 7:13 PM

You’ve come to the right place.

by Anonymousreply 66December 9, 2022 7:14 PM

[quote] I’ve never heard one say they don’t feel anything.

r57 I felt nothing when I had PIV sex. It ranged from feeling nothing (meaning no sensation other than the feeling of being impaled by a penis) to painful due to lack of arousal. If we're not aroused we don't get wet and the vagina won't expand to accommodate a penis, therefore the cervix is lower and susceptible to being hit repeatedly/injured. I wasn't aroused because I'm not sexually attracted to men, but I don't know how much that matters as I've known quite a few non-goldstar lesbians who have been able to have pleasurable PIV sex in the past regardless.

So yes, this is indeed a thing.

by Anonymousreply 67December 9, 2022 9:31 PM

[quote]Why the fuck are yall responding to this dumb ass troll?

And here you are posting, R60.

by Anonymousreply 68December 10, 2022 1:39 AM

Scaredy cat.

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by Anonymousreply 69December 10, 2022 1:45 AM

R69, I cried from laughing!

by Anonymousreply 70December 10, 2022 2:30 AM

[quote] Doesn’t any clitoral stimulation occur when the man is on top missionary style?

Not necessarilly. I guess it can if the guy make an effort to do it but most don't. All they care about it is shoving that thing in and out until they squirt. And that think that's all it taqkes to safisfy a woman.

by Anonymousreply 71December 11, 2022 6:46 AM

When a man lays down on a woman when he is inside her balls deep, he will use his pubic bone to stimulate the clitoris. He'll stop thrusting and just writhe around on her. Men who have more than seven inches (average depth of a vagine) can't really do this. They can't be "balls deep" inside.

by Anonymousreply 72December 11, 2022 12:09 PM

R61, what the fuck are you even talking about.

You must have been one of those miserable lays I discussed upthread.

JAYSUS!

Saggy balls slapping the clitoris?

NOW I’ve heard everything. LMAO.

by Anonymousreply 73December 11, 2022 3:11 PM

[quote] [R61], what the fuck are you even talking about.

[quote]You must have been one of those miserable lays I discussed upthread.

[quote][bold]—former straight boy![/bold]

He was, r73. He was.

by Anonymousreply 74December 11, 2022 6:40 PM

^ Thread title should be amended:

"What's the point of a woman having sex [bold]with a man?[/bold]

Now, that, baffles the hell out of me considering that 90% of the time, women aren't getting off with straight sex due to lack of proper clitoral stimulation and the fact that most men don't give a shit to bother pleasuring women sexually. Just themselves.

by Anonymousreply 75December 11, 2022 6:45 PM
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