Tips to Increase Sex Drive?
My husband and I used to have great sex, often. In the last year it's really slowed down, mostly because my libido has decreased with age.
The main problem is I'm a morning person, he's an evening person. I've tried to get in the mood at night, but I'm so damn tired by then.
Any tips?
by Anonymous | reply 36 | November 24, 2022 6:08 PM
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Introduce a twink into the relationship to spice things up
by Anonymous | reply 1 | November 20, 2022 9:28 PM
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You the top or bottom OP?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | November 20, 2022 9:28 PM
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move to an 8 hour-difference timezone than he is. Then use facetime. See, technology can fix anything.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | November 20, 2022 9:29 PM
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A $20 tip is usually enough to increase my sex drive, or at least the appearance of it.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | November 20, 2022 9:30 PM
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You sound like an old woman with sagging tits OP.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | November 20, 2022 9:30 PM
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Sorry to say but the solution is to decide what frequency you want to have sex each month. Then force yourself to do it that many times. You don't have to tell your husband this is the action plan. Do this for a few months and evaluate if it was worth it, or not. While doing it, try to have a good time.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | November 20, 2022 9:32 PM
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Lie back and think of England.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | November 20, 2022 9:58 PM
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Back in the 1950s, I told my niece Barbara Hutton to swivel her hips during the sex act to get more movement from a diffident paramour. It always worked for me with my four husbands. Of course, two of them turned out to be 'friends of Dorothy' (pansies). So what the fuck do I know?
Marjorie Merriweather Post.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | November 20, 2022 10:04 PM
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Get your testosterone checked.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | November 21, 2022 12:32 AM
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It's probably easier for the morning-sex person to switch to night-sex. Some people just aren't that turned on in the morning. The reason why people don't want to have sex at night is probably due to having had a stressful day with more shit to do before you can relax.
So, I think you do have to plan for sex. Clear your evening calendar, make sure you have no drudge work to do, so you can have sex and then just relax afterwards.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | November 21, 2022 12:38 AM
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Eat alot of peanut butter, pb has natural testoserone. Don't believe me ? Google it.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | November 21, 2022 12:48 AM
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How old are you guys?
Put an ice pack on your balls twice a day for 20 minutes when you wake up and before bed. Straights do it for sperm count but a lot of men due it too boost testosterone. I had to stop doing it because I just wanted to cum all day and was horny all the time. You can grab a bag of frozen vegetables and just put it over your underwear. Also dry to taking cold showers can also boost your horniness. I have experimented with viagra and Cialis recreationally. I've found Cialis actually makes me really horny. 1 pill lasts a few days and your cock just feels heavy all the time, which is hot.
The right type of weed can make me really horny
Walk around the house nude - make it a clothing free zone
Deep kissing and frotting with no expectations is always hot
Jerk off in front of each other
I am 41, always horny, and just like experimenting with things that will make sex even more fun.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | November 21, 2022 1:27 AM
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Make him wear a cock cage. Hide the key in a place he can't find it.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | November 21, 2022 10:48 AM
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My partner and I make a Sunday afternoon nap/sex date weekly. Yes we’re old (in our 50s) but it works for us.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | November 21, 2022 10:56 AM
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R17, so that's why my grandma has a beard now. She eats peanut butter sandwiches every day.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | November 22, 2022 6:31 PM
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Oh for crying out loud, idiots of DL! OLD WIVES TALES INDEED
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 22 | November 22, 2022 6:54 PM
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R18- and you’re going to tell us you look 19 years old
by Anonymous | reply 24 | November 22, 2022 7:31 PM
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Hire rentboys to visit you separately at your individual peak times.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | November 22, 2022 7:32 PM
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Just lie there and let your man have at your hole. It's not like YOU have to do anything. Of course, if your age and whorish past have destroyed your bowel control, well, I don't know what options are left for you.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | November 22, 2022 8:28 PM
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Fenugreek, get the organic seeds or powder, put it in tea. Or smoothie. I use half teaspoon a day. You will smell like maple syrup but trust me… it works!
by Anonymous | reply 27 | November 23, 2022 1:35 AM
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Get one of the highly aphrodisiac sativa strains of mary jane and you'll be going non stop like this I would suppose....
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 28 | November 23, 2022 3:26 AM
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I swear by the icing of the balls for 20. minutes 1st thing in the morning and then again in the afternoon. It's an easy and cheap experiment to try. I was cumming 3 times a day at 41 and was so horny all the time I had to stop. What to you have to loose except for all that pent up cum.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | November 23, 2022 6:06 AM
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Ice baths and plenty of flesh meat.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | November 23, 2022 1:29 PM
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Oysters. Buy canned oysters.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | November 24, 2022 3:03 PM
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Metamucil and assless underwear.
Learning the Shanghai Surprise might help, too.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | November 24, 2022 5:58 PM
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OP, rub your penis vigourously for 5 minutes with Frank's Red Hot chicken wings sauce. Then dance naked to Waterloo by Abba.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | November 24, 2022 5:59 PM
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[quote]What to you have to loose except for all that pent up cum.
Your grasp of the English language, evidently.
[quote]Eat alot of peanut butter,
Oh, DEAR!
by Anonymous | reply 36 | November 24, 2022 6:08 PM
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