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Tips to Increase Sex Drive?

My husband and I used to have great sex, often. In the last year it's really slowed down, mostly because my libido has decreased with age.

The main problem is I'm a morning person, he's an evening person. I've tried to get in the mood at night, but I'm so damn tired by then.

Any tips?

by Anonymousreply 36November 24, 2022 7:08 PM

Introduce a twink into the relationship to spice things up

by Anonymousreply 1November 20, 2022 10:28 PM

You the top or bottom OP?

by Anonymousreply 2November 20, 2022 10:28 PM

Get rid of your clocks.

by Anonymousreply 3November 20, 2022 10:29 PM


by Anonymousreply 4November 20, 2022 10:29 PM

Middle of the day?

by Anonymousreply 5November 20, 2022 10:29 PM

move to an 8 hour-difference timezone than he is. Then use facetime. See, technology can fix anything.

by Anonymousreply 6November 20, 2022 10:29 PM

A $20 tip is usually enough to increase my sex drive, or at least the appearance of it.

by Anonymousreply 7November 20, 2022 10:30 PM

You sound like an old woman with sagging tits OP.

by Anonymousreply 8November 20, 2022 10:30 PM

Take afternoon naps.

by Anonymousreply 9November 20, 2022 10:31 PM

Sorry to say but the solution is to decide what frequency you want to have sex each month. Then force yourself to do it that many times. You don't have to tell your husband this is the action plan. Do this for a few months and evaluate if it was worth it, or not. While doing it, try to have a good time.

by Anonymousreply 10November 20, 2022 10:32 PM

Hi Chasten/OP!

by Anonymousreply 11November 20, 2022 10:33 PM

Lie back and think of England.

by Anonymousreply 12November 20, 2022 10:58 PM

Back in the 1950s, I told my niece Barbara Hutton to swivel her hips during the sex act to get more movement from a diffident paramour. It always worked for me with my four husbands. Of course, two of them turned out to be 'friends of Dorothy' (pansies). So what the fuck do I know?

Marjorie Merriweather Post.

by Anonymousreply 13November 20, 2022 11:04 PM

Take zinc supplements

by Anonymousreply 14November 21, 2022 1:31 AM

Get your testosterone checked.

by Anonymousreply 15November 21, 2022 1:32 AM

It's probably easier for the morning-sex person to switch to night-sex. Some people just aren't that turned on in the morning. The reason why people don't want to have sex at night is probably due to having had a stressful day with more shit to do before you can relax.

So, I think you do have to plan for sex. Clear your evening calendar, make sure you have no drudge work to do, so you can have sex and then just relax afterwards.

by Anonymousreply 16November 21, 2022 1:38 AM

Eat alot of peanut butter, pb has natural testoserone. Don't believe me ? Google it.

by Anonymousreply 17November 21, 2022 1:48 AM

How old are you guys?

Put an ice pack on your balls twice a day for 20 minutes when you wake up and before bed. Straights do it for sperm count but a lot of men due it too boost testosterone. I had to stop doing it because I just wanted to cum all day and was horny all the time. You can grab a bag of frozen vegetables and just put it over your underwear. Also dry to taking cold showers can also boost your horniness. I have experimented with viagra and Cialis recreationally. I've found Cialis actually makes me really horny. 1 pill lasts a few days and your cock just feels heavy all the time, which is hot.

The right type of weed can make me really horny

Walk around the house nude - make it a clothing free zone

Deep kissing and frotting with no expectations is always hot

Jerk off in front of each other

I am 41, always horny, and just like experimenting with things that will make sex even more fun.

by Anonymousreply 18November 21, 2022 2:27 AM

Make him wear a cock cage. Hide the key in a place he can't find it.

by Anonymousreply 19November 21, 2022 11:48 AM

My partner and I make a Sunday afternoon nap/sex date weekly. Yes we’re old (in our 50s) but it works for us.

by Anonymousreply 20November 21, 2022 11:56 AM

R17, so that's why my grandma has a beard now. She eats peanut butter sandwiches every day.

by Anonymousreply 21November 22, 2022 7:31 PM

Oh for crying out loud, idiots of DL! OLD WIVES TALES INDEED

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by Anonymousreply 22November 22, 2022 7:54 PM

Use toys

by Anonymousreply 23November 22, 2022 8:26 PM

R18- and you’re going to tell us you look 19 years old

by Anonymousreply 24November 22, 2022 8:31 PM

Hire rentboys to visit you separately at your individual peak times.

by Anonymousreply 25November 22, 2022 8:32 PM

Just lie there and let your man have at your hole. It's not like YOU have to do anything. Of course, if your age and whorish past have destroyed your bowel control, well, I don't know what options are left for you.

by Anonymousreply 26November 22, 2022 9:28 PM

Fenugreek, get the organic seeds or powder, put it in tea. Or smoothie. I use half teaspoon a day. You will smell like maple syrup but trust me… it works!

by Anonymousreply 27November 23, 2022 2:35 AM

Get one of the highly aphrodisiac sativa strains of mary jane and you'll be going non stop like this I would suppose....

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by Anonymousreply 28November 23, 2022 4:26 AM

I swear by the icing of the balls for 20. minutes 1st thing in the morning and then again in the afternoon. It's an easy and cheap experiment to try. I was cumming 3 times a day at 41 and was so horny all the time I had to stop. What to you have to loose except for all that pent up cum.

by Anonymousreply 29November 23, 2022 7:06 AM

Open relationship.

by Anonymousreply 30November 23, 2022 7:09 AM

coconut-oil handjobs

by Anonymousreply 31November 23, 2022 8:59 AM

Ice baths and plenty of flesh meat.

by Anonymousreply 32November 23, 2022 2:29 PM

Oysters. Buy canned oysters.

by Anonymousreply 33November 24, 2022 4:03 PM

Metamucil and assless underwear.

Learning the Shanghai Surprise might help, too.

by Anonymousreply 34November 24, 2022 6:58 PM

OP, rub your penis vigourously for 5 minutes with Frank's Red Hot chicken wings sauce. Then dance naked to Waterloo by Abba.

by Anonymousreply 35November 24, 2022 6:59 PM

[quote]What to you have to loose except for all that pent up cum.

Your grasp of the English language, evidently.

[quote]Eat alot of peanut butter,


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