Celebs you think are gay or bi but everyone believes to be straight? To you the comments!
Celebs you think are gay or bi but everyone believes to be straight? Part II
|by Anonymous||reply 332||May 22, 2023 1:43 PM|
Finneas O'Connell ?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||September 10, 2022 5:10 AM|
Maluma bi vibes
|by Anonymous||reply 2||September 10, 2022 5:10 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 3||September 10, 2022 5:11 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 4||September 10, 2022 5:11 AM|
Did the other thread fill up?
|by Anonymous||reply 5||September 10, 2022 1:21 PM|
To the JLo poster, why would she date and marry Ben Affleck if she was gay?
|by Anonymous||reply 6||September 25, 2022 9:52 PM|
What about Billie Joe Armstrong? He has said he’s bi in the past, but is he really bi or was he saying that to be edgy?
|by Anonymous||reply 7||September 25, 2022 9:59 PM|
Whenever someone played a gay character on Will & Grace or The L Word it made me wonder. eg Cybill Shepherd, Jennifer Beals, Marlee Matlin, Bobby Cannavale, Patrick Dempsey.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||September 25, 2022 10:03 PM|
R8 It's called acting for a reason. There were hundreds of actresses on L Word over the years. You think they are all gay?
|by Anonymous||reply 9||September 26, 2022 6:30 AM|
R6 if she is, i don't think anything is going on with Leah. Like i doubt the clams wouldn't have tried to out Leah if she really was a lesbian/bi.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||September 26, 2022 7:58 AM|
Why would a lesbian marry Ben Affleck?
|by Anonymous||reply 11||September 26, 2022 8:06 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 12||September 26, 2022 8:11 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 13||September 26, 2022 8:16 AM|
Nicholas Galitzine (bi)
|by Anonymous||reply 14||September 26, 2022 8:57 AM|
R10, when did the clams claim that Leah was a lesbian?
|by Anonymous||reply 15||September 26, 2022 1:15 PM|
R15 they didn't. That's the point.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||September 26, 2022 1:30 PM|
Leah Remini has the female equivalent of ‘Gay or European?’ … ‘Dyke or Jersey?’
|by Anonymous||reply 17||September 26, 2022 1:37 PM|
Erik MCormack is a weird one. He was said to be straight and acted a gay man brilliantly but Will on Will & Grace is less stereotypically gay than say Sean Hayes' Jack which led some to think Eric was not believable.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||September 28, 2022 1:00 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 19||September 28, 2022 3:37 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 20||October 4, 2022 9:06 AM|
R14 do you think? He gives me pretty straight vibes bar the fact he’s now done 3 queer roles.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||October 4, 2022 9:20 AM|
I had sex with Casper in a 42nd St. video booth- so JLo is suspect.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||October 4, 2022 9:41 AM|
R22 You also had sex with Mark Anthony and Ben Affleck?
|by Anonymous||reply 23||October 4, 2022 12:29 PM|
R20 Why her?
|by Anonymous||reply 24||October 4, 2022 12:29 PM|
R6, plenty of closeted lesbians marry men. I find J-Lo suspect because so many of her partners have been rumored to be gay or bi. There have actually been quite a few rumors about her - they just haven't gained traction because her obsession with marrying men overshadows them.
Also, her first husband said she was bi and that the honeymoon video he was trying to release showed her kissing girls. That to me is pretty telling...why would he lie about that?
|by Anonymous||reply 25||October 5, 2022 8:29 AM|
Jenny from the block got rocks.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||October 5, 2022 10:02 AM|
There's definitely sexual chemistry between her and Leah in the interviews I've seen. In one of them, Leah touches Jennifer right at the top of her thigh, with her fingers almost in her crotch. Maybe they're just very, very close friends, but it's a bit suspect.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||October 5, 2022 11:09 AM|
R25 "plenty of closeted lesbians marry men" Where's your proof of that?
And who are these many partners of hers, that have gay rumors?
|by Anonymous||reply 28||October 5, 2022 3:46 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 29||October 5, 2022 7:55 PM|
r28, is that a serious question? You don't think a lesbian who doesn't want people to know she's a lesbian might marry a man to throw people off the scent?
JLo's partners with gay or bi rumors: P Diddy (very widely rumored to be bi), Marc Anthony, Beau 'Casper' Smart. Partners who don't seem 100% straight: A-Rod, Cris Judd. That's most of her public pairings. I think only her first husband (the Cuban waiter) and Ben Affleck seem straight.
FWIW, I don't think she's a lesbian. I do think she's very likely to be bi (it's a weird thing for her ex-husband to lie about), although it's a bit strange she wouldn't just admit it at this point. She has always pinged to me, quite a lot.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||October 5, 2022 11:48 PM|
Whatchu fuqqin talkin bout? That’s a buncha fuckin nonsense!
|by Anonymous||reply 31||October 5, 2022 11:54 PM|
[Quote] P Diddy (very widely rumored to be bi),
Among other things.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||October 6, 2022 12:10 AM|
r29 ryan reynolds is straight, his wife is pregnant! (blake lively) can be bi though i dont think so.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||October 6, 2022 4:06 AM|
R21 he could be bi, he wore pride socks, he gives vibes that's for sure, he also doesn't give me straight dude bro vibes
|by Anonymous||reply 34||October 6, 2022 8:19 AM|
Andrew Garfield, but the scum said he is gay without the physical act.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||October 6, 2022 8:22 AM|
R30 "You don't think a lesbian who doesn't want people to know she's a lesbian might marry a man to throw people off the scent?"
No. Lesbian would be disgusted by sleeping with a man. Unless he is part of the secret. I doubt Ben Affleck or Marc Anthony would marry a lesbian out of the kindness of their heart. Never heard about Marc Anthony rumors. Doesn't he cheat on his female partners with other women?
|by Anonymous||reply 36||October 6, 2022 8:29 AM|
[quote] the honeymoon video he was trying to release showed her kissing girls. That to me is pretty telling.
Has R25 ever met a straight woman? Or left the house?
Hetero women hug and kiss and touch each other platonically all the time.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||October 6, 2022 8:33 AM|
r37 I don't think what was on the video was platonic. Apparently it was kissing with tongues and some spanking. You think her husband would say she was bi over a kiss on the cheek? I used to live in Miami and there were rumors there that she messed around with girls in her twenties.
r36 who said anything about sleeping with? Have you really never heard of bearding arrangements? You've never heard of a gay man and a gay woman having a sham marriage as a cover? That's why people think a woman who chooses gay/bi partners is likely to be gay/bi herself.
Marc Anthony is widely rumored to cheat on his partners with women and men. There was a Ted Casablanca blind about it back in the day, among other things. I think his relationship with J-Lo was genuine, I don't think either of them are gay, but bi? I can absolutely believe it.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||October 6, 2022 8:58 AM|
OP, you’re going to trigger all the local fraus who believe that only .009% of celebrities are LGBT, and that there’s no such thing as bisexuality. I don’t keep up much with this topic anymore, but I certainly have a wish list.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||October 6, 2022 9:17 AM|
Univision broadcast some snippets of that JLO/Ojani honeymoon video a few years back. Nothing outrageous but she came off a bit kinky in it...she flicked her tongue (as in miming eating pussy) at the camera with her mom sitting next to her, oblivious, and got on a motorcycle in a short dress with no underwear and flashed the camera. Not at all a stretch to think it also showed her with women imo.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||October 6, 2022 10:52 AM|
R29 idc if RyRen is gay or not. I'm only worried about whether he can resist over-Americanising a proud Welsh football club.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||October 6, 2022 10:58 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 42||October 6, 2022 11:00 AM|
I saw someone blaming fraus for not seeing that Bisexual people exist, well you , R41 are as ignorant and stupid as they are for calling Ryanren gay, he has kids, he is married. He fucks women. He could be bi, but I guess we will never know.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||October 6, 2022 11:16 AM|
R43 you're mixing me up with another poster. I didn't say Ryan was gay, I said I didn't care whether he is or not (and for the record, I don't think he is).
So don't come at me with that hostile energy. I don't need that.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||October 6, 2022 11:31 AM|
[Quote] and that there’s no such thing as bisexuality.
That's not a frau thing.....
|by Anonymous||reply 45||October 6, 2022 11:40 AM|
r43 Oh my
|by Anonymous||reply 46||October 6, 2022 11:45 AM|
r10 yes I did think that but there was also a story about how they were going to hurt Leah by going after J-Lo, and then nothing really came up. I'm sure they found plenty of dirt about her but for some reason they didn't put it out there. J-Lo's dad is a longtime Scient0logist, so maybe that has something to do with it.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||October 6, 2022 3:16 PM|
Christy Carlson-Romano. Married to some kind of military man.
Clocked her when I was 8 watching 'Cadet Kelly'. She's at least bi if not febfem, trust. Young gaydar does not lie.
That being said I do also think she had something going on with Shia LaBoeuf in their late teens that messed her (and maybe him) up. Would make sense.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||October 6, 2022 6:59 PM|
R38 You are forgetting one little thing, Ben Affleck isn't fucking gay. And a lesbian woman would disgusted by sleeping with him.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||October 6, 2022 8:52 PM|
R48 Do you know what febfem means? Bisexual that exclusively dates the same sex. Christy Carlson-Romano is married to a guy and has s couple of brats. So no, she isn't a febfem.
"Young gaydar does not lie" This is the biggest pile of horse shit one can write.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||October 6, 2022 8:54 PM|
R50 one can also marry and procreate without feeling soul-deep authentic romantic or sexual love. People have been doing it en masse for centuries. There are many reasons to marry and spawn, and dating/attraction often don't figure into the decision--it's more like family pressure, societal expectation and FOMO, fears of mortality or around loneliness, financial or social security, wanting to seem more mature, needing help with elder care, etc. etc.
Who says Christy doesn't cheat with women on the side, or quietly date women if she has an open marriage? Who says she married for love? We don't know these things, we just assume they must be true because that's the superficial narrative society pushes.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||October 6, 2022 9:02 PM|
Armie Hammer. Or is he only a cannibal?
|by Anonymous||reply 52||October 6, 2022 9:05 PM|
R51 Who says she does?
|by Anonymous||reply 53||October 6, 2022 9:08 PM|
r49 do you have a reading comprehension problem?
I literally said I don't think Lopez is a lesbian. I think she's bi. So no, it's not surprising that some of her partners are actually straight men. I read many moons ago that she's sexually into men and women but emotionally only into men...don't see why that's not likely to be true.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||October 6, 2022 9:28 PM|
Who is this poster arguing over everything? Once again, it’s people we [bold]think[/bold] are gay. No one has to prove anything to you!
|by Anonymous||reply 55||October 6, 2022 11:05 PM|
Exactly r55. Some of the responses are plain weird, and naive.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||October 7, 2022 2:45 AM|
R48 Hilary looks great, but she should have done this type of shoot back in the early 00s.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||October 7, 2022 3:10 AM|
R48 How do you explain a husband?
|by Anonymous||reply 58||October 7, 2022 3:42 AM|
Theo James. Either that or he's hiding something else cause he always tries too hard in interviews etc and seems acutely insecure and inauthentic.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||October 7, 2022 5:46 AM|
Tom Hiddleston and Charlie Cox recently bought a house together and installed an extra large privacy fence to hide the backyard from prying eyes.
Tom's "fiancé" is not listed anywhere on the deed for the house.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||October 7, 2022 7:05 AM|
R60 are they gonna live there or..?
|by Anonymous||reply 61||October 7, 2022 7:14 AM|
Tom Hiddleston always gave me gay vibes , after he dated Taylor Swift, it was like a confirmation that he's definitely gay !!
|by Anonymous||reply 62||October 7, 2022 7:48 AM|
R62 Why? Do you also think that Calvin Harris, Harry Styles and John Mayer are gay?
|by Anonymous||reply 63||October 7, 2022 8:11 AM|
I’m really curious about the poster who’s arguing that Ben Affleck couldn’t possibly be gay because he has kids (or some shit), and JLo must be straight because no lesbian would ever have sex with a man. Could you please tell us a little bit about yourself?
|by Anonymous||reply 64||October 7, 2022 8:21 AM|
Jennifer Lopez was very widely rumored to have participated in FFM threesomes with Diddy back in the day and Suge Knight allegedly had a sex tape of her getting down with a woman. Her first husband also claimed she liked women. I also noticed that when she was on Ellen a few years back, she had quite a bit of sexual chemistry with her to the point it was almost flirty. Why are people so convinced she's straight? She can want to marry men and have the 'traditional' lifestyle (she comes from a very Catholic Latino background) and still be attracted to women.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||October 7, 2022 10:23 AM|
[Quote] I also noticed that when she was on Ellen a few years back, she had quite a bit of sexual chemistry with her to the point it was almost flirty.
Oh God, imagine the drama if those 2 assholes ever got engaged.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||October 7, 2022 10:28 AM|
I could actually see J-Lo and Ellen as a lesbian power couple. They really seem to get along very well.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||October 7, 2022 11:25 AM|
But would Jenny agree to give up her acting and singing careers for Ellen?
|by Anonymous||reply 68||October 7, 2022 11:53 AM|
Why would she have to? Ellen isn't really working anymore, right? She can tag along.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||October 7, 2022 12:14 PM|
Ross lynch ?
|by Anonymous||reply 70||October 7, 2022 12:18 PM|
I have heard many rumors about kj apa what do you think?
|by Anonymous||reply 71||October 7, 2022 12:19 PM|
R65 Because she has 28 ex-husbands
|by Anonymous||reply 72||October 7, 2022 1:13 PM|
r72 the fact all her relationships with men have failed makes it more, not less likely that she's not actually straight.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||October 7, 2022 6:44 PM|
R73 So, the more people of the opposite sex you fuck, the more gay you are? Elizabeth Taylor must have been one of the gayest people ever.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||October 7, 2022 9:42 PM|
This thread is annoying. It's not clear whether people are deliberately missing the point or just incredibly naive. The entire concept of being bi seems to be alien to some people. As has been stated here already, bi women often marry men. It doesn't mean they don't ever sleep with women too.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||October 7, 2022 11:39 PM|
R71 I think every CW actor has gay rumours.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||October 8, 2022 3:01 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 77||October 10, 2022 10:20 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 78||October 10, 2022 10:27 AM|
R78 He's married to a man. WTF?
|by Anonymous||reply 79||October 11, 2022 5:17 AM|
Why are so many celebs gay geez
|by Anonymous||reply 80||October 11, 2022 10:48 AM|
Josh Lucas needs to be mentioned in every one of these threads.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||October 11, 2022 11:02 AM|
J-Lo giving some serious butch vibes on the set of her new movie.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||October 13, 2022 11:59 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 83||October 16, 2022 4:01 AM|
Kj apa maybe bi or only straight?
|by Anonymous||reply 84||October 21, 2022 5:56 PM|
Apparently JLo and Leah aren't friends anymore. I wonder what they fell out over and if it's related to a possible relationship they had.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||October 21, 2022 10:47 PM|
R85, where did you get that idea? They still follow each other on IG.
But you know who aren’t friends anymore? Colton Haynes and Shawn Pyfrom.
|by Anonymous||reply 86||October 23, 2022 7:15 AM|
R59, Theo James is married to a woman, although that's obviously not proof of anything.
R84, KJ Apa has a child with his girlfriend, so who knows.
|by Anonymous||reply 87||October 23, 2022 7:43 AM|
[Quote] But you know who aren’t friends anymore? Colton Haynes and Shawn Pyfrom.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||October 23, 2022 8:47 AM|
r86, Leah didn't go to the latest wedding, and when they were both at JR Ridinger's funeral recently, they didn't interact.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||October 23, 2022 10:49 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 90||October 27, 2022 12:59 PM|
[quote]Leah didn't go to the latest wedding, and when they were both at JR Ridinger's funeral recently, they didn't interact.
JLo has a wedding every year, maybe Leah just had other things to do.
|by Anonymous||reply 91||October 27, 2022 1:15 PM|
[quote]Do you also think that Calvin Harris, Harry Styles and John Mayer are gay?
Yes, yes, and yes.
|by Anonymous||reply 92||October 27, 2022 1:15 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 93||October 27, 2022 2:13 PM|
R92 Oh, so you are delusional. Good to know.
|by Anonymous||reply 94||October 27, 2022 2:39 PM|
[quote] Theo James is married to a woman, although that's obviously not proof of anything.
That's why they call if Gaydar. it sees through the external bullshit.
He may just be a sexist oaf with too much testosterone or prolonged coddling by women in his life cause of his looks.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||October 27, 2022 3:09 PM|
I get the vibe that Affleck loves blowjobs and isn’t picky about who is supplying them once it’s past the witching hour
|by Anonymous||reply 96||October 27, 2022 8:02 PM|
It’s hard for me to answer this as i am sensitive to the pings and have a pretty good track record for getting it right, but I just wanted to pop in and say that I am constantly amazed at how clueless the average person is about celebrity gossip (this is not a bad thing - I am far too interested), but when I discovered my sister had no idea that there were even gay rumors about Tom Cruise — it was my first insight into the mindset of “it’ll never play in Kansas”. Eye opener and not a good one. This conversation was about 5 years ago. 20, yeah okay maybe
|by Anonymous||reply 97||October 27, 2022 8:09 PM|
I always assumed Ryan Seacrest was gay and out, but apparently he says he's straight?!
|by Anonymous||reply 98||October 27, 2022 9:16 PM|
[quote]I had sex with Casper in a 42nd St. video booth
The ghost? How did you see him?
|by Anonymous||reply 99||October 28, 2022 1:59 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 100||November 2, 2022 6:35 AM|
Maluma? Cute comment
|by Anonymous||reply 101||November 2, 2022 6:37 AM|
I’m still on the fence about Kit Connor?
|by Anonymous||reply 102||November 2, 2022 6:48 AM|
R102 He is bisexual, get over it.
|by Anonymous||reply 103||November 2, 2022 9:50 AM|
How sick and twisted could you be that a pissed 18 year old would be lying about his sexual orientation to the world?
|by Anonymous||reply 104||November 2, 2022 9:52 AM|
That you think*
|by Anonymous||reply 105||November 2, 2022 9:52 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 106||November 2, 2022 11:56 AM|
Anyone know about Maluma?
|by Anonymous||reply 107||November 2, 2022 2:30 PM|
Thomas Haden Church.
|by Anonymous||reply 108||November 2, 2022 3:06 PM|
Re J-Lo, those lez/bi rumors have been around for years but they never really went mainstream, which is weird. Her first husband said over a decade ago that she was bi and that he had video of her kissing women, and it still didn't really make the press. She denied being bi and claimed she'd never kissed a woman and that was that.
Her chemistry with Leah Remini was always off the charts...in one live stream she did, Leah said "I'm gonna grab your pussy" (not realizing J-Lo was filming) and their entire body language was very sexual and flirty. I remember an interview with James Corden where Leah was sitting with her hand resting on the inside of J-Lo's thigh...what straight women do that?
I've heard from many different sources that she messed with women in her 20s when she was living in Miami...why hasn't this come out? Why did none of these women sell a story?
|by Anonymous||reply 109||November 3, 2022 10:58 AM|
This thread is died ?
|by Anonymous||reply 110||November 3, 2022 7:39 PM|
R109 Is there a video of that live stream? JLo doesn't even have rumors on lesbian forums
|by Anonymous||reply 111||November 4, 2022 9:13 AM|
r111 here it is is a short clip from it where you can hear Leah say "I'm gonna grab your pussy". There have been rumors about J-Lo and Leah on lesbian forums, just not as many as you'd think.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||November 4, 2022 9:59 AM|
Who cares if that old hag is lesbian or not
|by Anonymous||reply 113||November 4, 2022 10:04 AM|
R112 Thanks. There are no rumors about them on LChat
|by Anonymous||reply 114||November 4, 2022 1:18 PM|
@r114 there were a few threads about J-Lo and Leah, J-Lo is mentioned several times in the 'Hollywood Closet' thread, and there was a little bit of discussion about Lopez's rumored dalliances with women back in the day, but not a whole lot. I do believe she is at least bisexual. I'm confused about why she hides it, given how supportive she is of LGBTQ+ stuff in general. If there was something sexual going on with Leah (and I really think there was based on their body language and vibe), I can understand not wanting to be open about it because Leah was married, but in general, why lie about it?
|by Anonymous||reply 115||November 4, 2022 2:36 PM|
R115 What do you mean by at least bisexual? Since she's clearly not gay
|by Anonymous||reply 116||November 4, 2022 2:48 PM|
r116, why clearly not gay? She can't pick a man for shit, all her relationships with men have fallen apart, and she has no chemistry with men, really. Why would it be far fetched to think she's a full-on lesbian? The only thing that gives me pause is she does seem head over heels for Ben Affleck, for some weird reason.
|by Anonymous||reply 117||November 4, 2022 3:43 PM|
R117 Cause she's in love with Ben Affleck. This is her second time with him. And she had a ton of men before him. Lesbians aren't bad at picking men, they don't want men at all. Why would she marry all these men if she was gay? Obviously not for bearding purposes, cause then she wouldn't change them so often and would pick gay men, not famous straight men. Also, she has zero rumors, so it's not like she needs a beard
|by Anonymous||reply 118||November 4, 2022 3:50 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 119||November 4, 2022 3:55 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 120||November 4, 2022 3:58 PM|
@r118, she DOES pick gay men. Casper Smart was caught fucking men multiple times during their 'relationship'. Diddy has gay/bi/DL rumors. The majority of men she's dated have been ambiguous or very obviously gay, but Casper Smart was extremely suspect, and it coincided with the point the J-Lo/Leah rumors were at their peak.
As to why a lesbian would do this - who knows? Bearding arrangements, being in denial, publicity...many possibilities.
For the record, I don't think J-Lo is a lesbian, I think she's bi. I heard years ago she's sexually into women but emotionally more into men. There was tea on a site like this pretty much saying the same thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 121||November 4, 2022 3:58 PM|
R121 Yeah, but why would someone like Ben Affleck agree to be a beard for a lesbian celeb? It would make no sense. Also, none of her (ex)husbands have gay rumors, Cris Judd, Mark Anthony, Ben..
|by Anonymous||reply 122||November 4, 2022 4:07 PM|
Jennifer Lopez's first husband Ojani said she was bi. Don't see why he'd lie about that, so it's probably true. She does ping a bit.
|by Anonymous||reply 123||November 4, 2022 4:36 PM|
The only actors I wanted to be gay were Ryan Reynolds and Hugh grant.
|by Anonymous||reply 124||November 4, 2022 6:45 PM|
Sadly they aren't.
|by Anonymous||reply 125||November 4, 2022 6:46 PM|
[Quote] Casper Smart was caught fucking men multiple times during their 'relationship'. Diddy has gay/bi/DL rumors.
That boner photo of Casper will never not be funny to me. But Diddy is a whole other story, nothing but bad vibes from him.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||November 5, 2022 2:24 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 127||November 5, 2022 2:30 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 128||November 5, 2022 3:34 AM|
Emilien vekemans? (Actor from Netflix series Bastard son & The Devil Himself
|by Anonymous||reply 129||November 5, 2022 7:31 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 130||November 6, 2022 1:12 AM|
Why so many day kj apa? He's got a child. Clearly interested in women he could be bi but what's the point?
|by Anonymous||reply 131||November 6, 2022 1:53 AM|
r126 what's with Diddy? Been hearing gay rumors for years but never anything too concrete.
|by Anonymous||reply 132||November 6, 2022 2:26 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 133||November 9, 2022 2:01 PM|
Taika Waititi. I know he has children and is married to a woman, but he PINGS. I swear I thought he was gay and out when he first entered the scene. Also his ex-wife is now married to a woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 134||November 9, 2022 2:41 PM|
Agreed. I'm not happy about it, he annoys the ever living fuck out of me, but there is no way that man is straight.
|by Anonymous||reply 135||November 9, 2022 4:44 PM|
R134 Where did you get the info that his ex wife is married to a woman? I can't find anything online
|by Anonymous||reply 136||November 9, 2022 7:13 PM|
Just look at the highlights on her insta page R136.
|by Anonymous||reply 137||November 9, 2022 8:26 PM|
R137 Did they really marry or is it a joke? She's 46, that girl is 24
|by Anonymous||reply 138||November 9, 2022 9:27 PM|
I don't know, but I don't think she would have it as one of her highlights if it was just a joke R138.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||November 9, 2022 9:43 PM|
[Quote] what's with Diddy? Been hearing gay rumors for years but never anything too concrete.
I don't think we will ever see anything concrete unfortunately. But rumors of being physically and sexually abusive to men/women. Turned Usher out who went on to do the same with Justin.
[Quote] Taika Waititi. I know he has children and is married to a woman, but he PINGS. I swear I thought he was gay and out when he first entered the scene.
Taika is probably bi like Rita. But i did see a rumour he is hooking up with another Marvel actress on some new project they're doing together.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||November 9, 2022 11:38 PM|
Definitely get a bi vibe from actor/Youtuber Rory Jennings. Perhaps from his friend and collaborator James Lawrence Allcott as well.
No-one has ever said this in anything but jest, as far as I know. The default assumption in the football fan community is that every man is Kinsey 0.
|by Anonymous||reply 141||November 10, 2022 12:18 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 142||November 10, 2022 1:25 AM|
R140 well there were some bi-rumours before he was mainstream and one datalounger claimed to have hooked up with him at Telluride (also before Thor 3).
|by Anonymous||reply 143||November 10, 2022 7:57 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 144||November 10, 2022 8:11 AM|
"[R117] Cause she's in love with Ben Affleck."
I don't believe that J-Lo and Afflect are in love for one minute. I think they have a mutual interest in publicity and being perceived as part of a "power couple", my guess is that they're two old friends helping each other out at a time when neither has anyone serious around. AND she gets an escort out of the deal, and he gets a minder. It's a win-win-win for both.
But fuck J-Lo and her youthful misadventure, tell me more about Taika Waititi! And Cate Blanchett, I've heard her long term marriage is as lavender as her gowns.
|by Anonymous||reply 145||November 10, 2022 8:59 AM|
[Quote] and one datalounger claimed to have hooked up with him at Telluride (also before Thor 3).
I hope he wasn't coked up when it happened.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||November 10, 2022 9:36 AM|
R145 You think JLo is gay? And no, Cate Blanchett's marriage isn't fake. Not even people on LChat believe that. Apart from a few crazy ones who still think she's with Rooney Mara or something
|by Anonymous||reply 147||November 10, 2022 12:47 PM|
R147 is Cate Blanchett/Rooney Mara the LChat version of Timothee Chalamet/Armie Hammer?
|by Anonymous||reply 148||November 10, 2022 4:11 PM|
Not a celeb, but a public figure...
Senator Cory Booker of NJ
|by Anonymous||reply 149||November 10, 2022 4:20 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 150||November 10, 2022 7:35 PM|
r145 I think J-Lo is very much in love with Ben. I think he's the one who got away for her, the love of her life.
I also think she's into women...there have been plenty of rumors over the years of threesomes with Diddy and other women and her 'friendship' with Leah Remini was highly suspicious. Their body language screamed coupley and intimate. I think she is probably bi. I can imagine she might want to hide it because of her cultural background and fanbase. Lots of Latinos are very homophobic. Her mother seems very strict, traditional and overbearing too.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||November 10, 2022 7:40 PM|
R151 Doesn't Leah Remini have a husband?
|by Anonymous||reply 152||November 10, 2022 7:46 PM|
r152 she does but maybe she's also bi and plays with women on the side?
|by Anonymous||reply 153||November 10, 2022 9:46 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 154||November 11, 2022 12:39 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 155||November 11, 2022 1:17 AM|
R63 I think what he was trying to say is that Taylor Swift is a lesbian
|by Anonymous||reply 156||November 11, 2022 3:14 AM|
R156 He's delusional then
|by Anonymous||reply 157||November 11, 2022 8:23 AM|
Scott Evans. I think he is ashamed that he likes vagina too and pretends to be gay.
|by Anonymous||reply 158||November 11, 2022 8:39 AM|
Anthony Hopkins bi.
|by Anonymous||reply 159||November 11, 2022 6:51 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 160||November 12, 2022 5:47 AM|
Leah Remini has come out with more stuff on $cientology. She's feisty and still very pretty. She definitely pings but she has been married a long time ...what's the deal there?
|by Anonymous||reply 161||November 13, 2022 12:17 PM|
R159- Anthony Hopkins is not bisexual
|by Anonymous||reply 162||November 13, 2022 12:45 PM|
The guy who plays Vecna in stranger things pings to me. But he has a girlfriend..
|by Anonymous||reply 163||November 14, 2022 11:39 AM|
R163, I know, I thought he was gay in Sweeney Todd.
|by Anonymous||reply 164||November 15, 2022 6:23 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 165||November 15, 2022 6:35 AM|
R165 Is the guy she's been dating for years, her beard?
|by Anonymous||reply 166||November 15, 2022 8:10 AM|
Wow, R166. He's hot.
Certainly hotter than that biker she slummed with.
|by Anonymous||reply 167||November 15, 2022 12:28 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 168||November 17, 2022 5:23 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 169||November 17, 2022 7:26 AM|
Robert Downey Jr.
|by Anonymous||reply 170||November 17, 2022 12:12 PM|
What's the tea on Marc Anthony? Watched him on Latin Grammys right now and find him strangely attractive. I remember some bi rumors from a while ago.
|by Anonymous||reply 171||November 18, 2022 12:45 AM|
Jennifer Lopez was apparently dating women in Miami back in the 90s. Weird this never came out during the height of her fame...now I guess nobody cares.
|by Anonymous||reply 172||November 23, 2022 2:35 AM|
R172 they do on LChat now. Surprised she hasn't got her own thread yet.
|by Anonymous||reply 173||November 23, 2022 2:55 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 174||November 23, 2022 3:24 AM|
Obviously Lennon and McCartney - two bisexuals who were in an intense on/off relationship from the time they were teenagers. If you look even a little bit into the history between these two men, it's glaringly obvious and rather sad.
There's been much talk about it and fairly reliable gossip at DL (and personally told to me once!) over the years, but the general public has severe blinders on and dismisses it as "fanfiction," which is mostly likely due to how strong both the PR narratives that McCartney and Yoko have created are. Some people believe that the two were never even FRIENDS in the first place!
|by Anonymous||reply 175||November 23, 2022 3:31 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 176||November 23, 2022 5:13 AM|
taylor swift is well known lez, so is sandra bullock, hiddleston & cox: sweet.....
|by Anonymous||reply 177||November 23, 2022 5:44 AM|
R177 Well known? Sure. Are you Nate Crnkovich?
|by Anonymous||reply 178||November 23, 2022 8:23 AM|
R177 Sandra Bullock has a boyfriend. Was married to a neo Nazi before him.
|by Anonymous||reply 179||November 23, 2022 8:26 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 180||November 23, 2022 9:10 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 181||November 23, 2022 2:12 PM|
Joe Amamabibile - that bachelor guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 182||November 24, 2022 3:02 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 183||November 25, 2022 2:29 AM|
Why so so many people think Paris Hilton is gay? On here and on LChat.
|by Anonymous||reply 184||November 25, 2022 3:44 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 185||November 25, 2022 3:45 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 186||November 25, 2022 4:19 AM|
R184 probably because of the photos where Paris is making out with Lindsay. Or when she was hooking up with Elisha Cuthbert while filming House Of Wax. Why is Paris being bi such a shock?
|by Anonymous||reply 187||November 25, 2022 12:04 PM|
R187 I didn't say bi, I said gay. Many people think she is gay. No one thinks Lindsay is gay, and she publicly dated a woman. Or Elisha because of hooking up with her.
|by Anonymous||reply 188||November 25, 2022 8:35 PM|
Same diff R188
|by Anonymous||reply 189||November 26, 2022 2:30 AM|
R189 Yes, bi people in hetero marriages are the same thing as gay people.
|by Anonymous||reply 190||November 26, 2022 4:34 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 191||November 26, 2022 5:08 AM|
RYAN REYNOLDS, Ryan Reynolds Ryan Reynolds Ryan Reynolds Ryan Reynolds
|by Anonymous||reply 192||November 26, 2022 6:34 AM|
R192, Ryan Reynolds definitely pings.
|by Anonymous||reply 193||November 26, 2022 7:38 AM|
R192 he is straight!
|by Anonymous||reply 194||November 26, 2022 10:31 AM|
Chris Evans bi Tom Holland bi
|by Anonymous||reply 195||November 26, 2022 4:42 PM|
Rachel Recchia -lesbo
|by Anonymous||reply 196||November 26, 2022 7:38 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 197||November 26, 2022 9:04 PM|
Ryan Reynolds pings to the Andromeda Galaxy and back, and I suppose there's a faint possibility that he really is a straight guy with gayvoice. THey do exist, there was this gayvoiced guy at my job that I was quite sure about, until he left his wife for the woman he'd gotten pregnant and then had a few more kids with her.
But the fact is, Reynolds wants to be a mainstream A-list movie star, and he wants to make comedies for straight guys and superhero movies, and earn shit-tons of money instead of the pennies he'd get for making gay indies. If my gaydar is correct about him, well, I can see why he'd choose a closet with a glass door.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||November 27, 2022 5:03 AM|
The ship has sailed to the north pole, R198. Not many people make their sexuality their whole personality or even prioritise it especially when they are NOT gay, he's married and has kids. he could be bi which we will never know, but you have to be all levels of delusional to assume that he is gay.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||November 27, 2022 5:59 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 200||November 27, 2022 7:13 PM|
Is Ryan Seacrest really not out?
|by Anonymous||reply 201||November 27, 2022 8:09 PM|
Didn't bunch of women accused him of sexually harassing them?
|by Anonymous||reply 202||November 27, 2022 9:00 PM|
JLo pings to high heaven to me. I've always thought she came across butch, especially when not doing red carpet stuff or events. I'm surprised more people don't think so.
|by Anonymous||reply 203||November 27, 2022 11:36 PM|
R203 they do on LChat.
|by Anonymous||reply 204||November 27, 2022 11:56 PM|
R204 They don't. They just opened a thread for her cause info that some think she's bi was taken from here and spread there.
R203 Why would she marry Ben and Anthony then? It's not like they would agree to be beards.
|by Anonymous||reply 205||November 28, 2022 3:45 AM|
R204 she doesn't have a thread on there. It was discussing on the Hollywood closet one (which randomly turned into talking about Henry and Chris). Someone asked if she should get her own thread and another anon said no because she's too old 🤣
|by Anonymous||reply 206||November 28, 2022 5:02 AM|
r205 do you understand the concept of 'bi'? If she's bi, she's into women AND men. So no surprise whatsoever that her public relationships have been heterosexual ones. I heard back in the day that she was sexually into women but more emotionally into men. Completely possible that she has just fooled around with women casually but stuck to having relationships with men.
|by Anonymous||reply 207||November 28, 2022 8:00 AM|
R207 You said she comes across as butch. Butch = lesbian, not bisexual.
|by Anonymous||reply 208||November 28, 2022 8:16 AM|
I will never buy JLO, Affleck and Remini as straight -- also JLO faked her "pregnancy"
|by Anonymous||reply 209||November 29, 2022 2:15 AM|
What makes you think she faked it r209?
|by Anonymous||reply 210||November 29, 2022 2:48 AM|
R209 Now Affleck is gay/bi too? Jesus Christ
|by Anonymous||reply 211||November 29, 2022 8:18 AM|
Michael Myers. Seriously in all the Halloween movies you've never seen him fuck a girl. Pretty suspect.
|by Anonymous||reply 212||November 29, 2022 8:22 AM|
If they were lovers as you say R175 then Paul should've had more of a reaction when he found out about John's death. Look at this video, you would think they told him Lennon broke a nail. If someone I loved since I was a teen was suddenly, brutally murdered the last thing I would want to do is talk to the press.
|by Anonymous||reply 213||November 29, 2022 8:39 AM|
As far as Ryan Reynolds, a long time ago I saw him at the after party for the premiere of that godawful John Travolta Scientology movie Battlefield Earth. It was at the time he was doing that sitcom, Two Guys, A Girl and Pizza Place, so I recognized him. He was hanging with a small squad led by, of all people, Kathy Najimy. All I can say is Ryan was very, very, very, VERY effeminate in voice and body language. Like...VERY EFFEMINATE. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Or that it necessarily means anything but, like, very effeminate...
|by Anonymous||reply 214||November 29, 2022 9:02 AM|
R214 okay, we will say he's an effiminate guy who's married to a woman and has kids with her.
|by Anonymous||reply 215||November 29, 2022 9:17 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 216||November 29, 2022 11:40 AM|
[Quote]okay, we will say he's an effiminate guy who's married to a woman and has kids with her.
Okay let's say he's a gay man who's married and has children.
Hardly unheard of The superintendent of schools in the town I grew up in in NJ was married with 8 children and was arrested for solicitation in the men's room rest stop off the Garden State Parkway.
Ever hear of Jim McGreevy married with 2 children who was the one-time governor of NJ?
|by Anonymous||reply 217||November 29, 2022 6:10 PM|
Definitely NOT John Travolta! He was married with kids!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 218||November 29, 2022 6:47 PM|
"If they were lovers as you say [R175] then Paul should've had more of a reaction when he found out about John's death. "
Okay, let's suppose that Lennon and McCartney were both bi, and had been in love when they were young, which I don't think it outside the bounds of possibility, during the Beatles years it was clear that those two adored each other. But by 1980, McCartney was in a happy marriage with a sane partner and had a ton of kids and a quiet life on a farm, he must have thought of John as the crazy ex he was lucky to be away from.
|by Anonymous||reply 219||November 29, 2022 11:39 PM|
Never thought this would be a thread devoted to Jennifer Lopez.
|by Anonymous||reply 220||November 29, 2022 11:47 PM|
Whatever happened to the supposed sex tape Suge Knight had of Jennifer Lopez allegedly having sex with a woman? Did it get destroyed?
|by Anonymous||reply 221||November 30, 2022 1:23 AM|
Every. Single. One. Of. Them.
|by Anonymous||reply 222||November 30, 2022 1:33 AM|
R216 wasn't there a video of Matt jerking off? I just assumed he was bi.
|by Anonymous||reply 223||November 30, 2022 3:34 AM|
[Quote]"If they were lovers as you say [[R175]] then Paul should've had more of a reaction when he found out about John's death. "
Theyn had been apart professionally and personally for quite some time.
|by Anonymous||reply 224||November 30, 2022 7:48 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 225||November 30, 2022 1:49 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 226||December 3, 2022 3:08 AM|
I don't know if Ryan Reynolds is gay or not, but I have heard first-hand accounts that he's a real asshole.
|by Anonymous||reply 227||December 3, 2022 4:35 AM|
R227 doesn't surprise me. Blake's probably no walk in the park either.
|by Anonymous||reply 228||December 3, 2022 6:25 AM|
The guys from Good Mythical Morning.
|by Anonymous||reply 229||December 3, 2022 7:25 AM|
R227 with that class clown personality, of course he is.
|by Anonymous||reply 230||December 4, 2022 5:23 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 231||December 4, 2022 2:51 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 232||December 4, 2022 3:28 PM|
Rege jean page?
|by Anonymous||reply 233||December 5, 2022 5:01 AM|
LMFAO! John Lennon and Paul McCartney, taika waititi AND Ben Affleck are now gay? For real? Ok.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||December 5, 2022 5:35 AM|
Rege jean page Looks like a half a dozen spry, lanky, well hung West Village men you’d meet 20 years ago at Sneakers, Pieces, or the Hangar.
|by Anonymous||reply 235||December 5, 2022 7:39 AM|
Dwyane wade. It's so freaking obvious.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||December 5, 2022 7:59 AM|
R236 What is Gabrielle Union doing with him then? She could have any guy she wants.
|by Anonymous||reply 237||December 5, 2022 8:09 AM|
[Quote] She could have any guy she wants.
Gabrielle probably doesn't see it that way after being raped.
|by Anonymous||reply 238||December 5, 2022 8:11 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 239||December 5, 2022 8:14 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 240||December 5, 2022 8:20 AM|
R240 Thanks. Didn't know that. So you think she would beard for a gay man because she was raped? Doesn't make sense to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 241||December 5, 2022 8:27 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 242||December 6, 2022 9:23 AM|
I'm the poster that mentioned Jamie Campbell bower on this thread, I saw an interview of him with the guy who plays young Henry in stranger things pings to the heaven, the one that plays Henry in flashbacks, he pings to me, he must be gay. I also think Jamie uses she/her pronouns in real life and considers himself as a lesbian woman, he has a girlfriend irl, I guess he wants to transition, maybe his career is holding him back.
|by Anonymous||reply 243||December 7, 2022 5:26 PM|
^ too many typos, sorry.
|by Anonymous||reply 244||December 7, 2022 5:26 PM|
the Beatles were very opened about "having done EVERYTHING together", but maybe that interview never made it accross the pond ???
|by Anonymous||reply 245||December 7, 2022 5:29 PM|
open (and opened)
|by Anonymous||reply 246||December 7, 2022 5:35 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 247||December 7, 2022 6:24 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 248||December 8, 2022 12:10 PM|
All up and down this thread, the claim keeps being made that men cannot be gay if they have a wife and/or kids. I haven't bothered to check if all these instances are being said by one user, 'coz I don't really care.
But it's worth pointing out that Oscar Wilde, one of the gayest gays who ever gayed, was married and had children. Marriage has no bearing whatsoever on gayness, and never has. Nor does having kids. It's not a reliable indicator of straightness. So whoever keeps saying this, just cut it out, will ya?
Ryan Reynolds pings to me too. He always has. But someone on this thread is terribly, tragically invested in his total straightness. A frau? Maybe, but not necessarily.
On IMDb, there was a poster calling himself 'GayIthacan'/'GayIthacan2', who got terribly worked up and upset whenever it was suggested that Brad Pitt might have propensities. Bright poster, but for some reason this used to really make him lose his shit.
|by Anonymous||reply 249||December 8, 2022 10:46 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 250||December 8, 2022 10:47 PM|
Cher and John Travolta
|by Anonymous||reply 251||December 8, 2022 10:50 PM|
John Travolta and Cher
|by Anonymous||reply 252||December 8, 2022 10:52 PM|
[quote]R245: the Beatles were very opened about "having done EVERYTHING together", but maybe that interview never made it accross the pond ???—Seriously, America, you didn't know ?
It doesn't seem to be really widely known, regardless which side of the Pond, save to LGBTs, who tend to be more interested in that sort of thing. It's probable that the vast number of Beatles fans simply choose not to know.
But it's no secret here at the DL. There's been scores of threads about it over the years. Here's one:
|by Anonymous||reply 253||December 8, 2022 11:07 PM|
Another 'Beatles' thread:
|by Anonymous||reply 254||December 8, 2022 11:09 PM|
I always use Oscar Wilde as an example to the people who say "he can't be gay, he's married and has kids!" Even Oscar Wilde, of all people, had a wife and kids. And he was the gayest gay until Liberace came along.
|by Anonymous||reply 255||December 8, 2022 11:09 PM|
I think Waititi is on the make for narcissistic supply, gender not a concern. I get a Roger Stone “come to my party, I’ll let you fuck my wife” vibe from his marriage to Rita Ora.
|by Anonymous||reply 256||December 8, 2022 11:25 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 257||December 9, 2022 12:08 AM|
R255 You know he died 120 years ago? Things have changed a bit since then.
|by Anonymous||reply 258||December 9, 2022 8:24 AM|
Cher?! If so why would she have been so freaked by how Chastity turned out?
|by Anonymous||reply 259||December 9, 2022 8:44 AM|
Josh O’Connor. Bi. At least. He’s got a great sense of style.
|by Anonymous||reply 260||December 9, 2022 10:53 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 261||December 9, 2022 11:00 AM|
[quote] You know he died 120 years ago? Things have changed a bit since then.
Gay/bi people marrying the opposite sex and having kids, particularly to cover up/hide from/suppress their true sexuality has never gone away.
|by Anonymous||reply 262||December 9, 2022 11:19 AM|
R262 Sure. But it's much rarer than in Oscar Wilde's time. Why even bring him up, when he lived 150 years ago. There were no out gay people then.
|by Anonymous||reply 263||December 9, 2022 12:35 PM|
[quote] But it's much rarer
Somewhat, but not really.
|by Anonymous||reply 264||December 9, 2022 12:36 PM|
R264 Not somewhat, A LOT! Especially in the western world.
|by Anonymous||reply 265||December 9, 2022 12:42 PM|
[quote] Not somewhat, A LOT! Especially in the western world.
Nope. Don't underestimate how much this kind of closet still exists outside our more liberal/urban/gay bubbles, and particularly among the conservative/religious/"faith-based". Even a simple google search will blow your mind.
|by Anonymous||reply 266||December 9, 2022 12:51 PM|
R266 No, a simple Google search won't blow my mind. If you are saying that things aren't that much different between now and 150 years ago, when there was 0 out people, you are insane.
|by Anonymous||reply 267||December 9, 2022 1:04 PM|
[quote] No, a simple Google search won't blow my mind. If you are saying that things aren't that much different between now and 150 years ago, when there was 0 out people, you are insane.
How about reading a little more carefully next time. Of course we have come a long way in 150 years, nobody is doubting that, and yes, it might not be as prevalent, but it's certainly not gone. Not as much as we think. Especially if you come from fairly conservative/religious circles you'd know. And yes, google will tell you a lot. I remember stumbling on a very robust message board several years ago specifically on the subject of women who were dealing with their closeted husbands. Yes, it was quite mind blowing.
|by Anonymous||reply 268||December 9, 2022 1:13 PM|
R268 I know what site you are talking about and it didn't blew my mind at all. Of course it's still a thing today, but to think that most of the gay people in the western world are married to the opposite sex and have children is insane. Yes, there's a lot of people like that but the ones that aren't married also outnumber them by a lot. Especially among younger generations.
|by Anonymous||reply 269||December 9, 2022 1:20 PM|
[quote] I know what site you are talking about
[quote] most of the gay people
No one ever said "most".
|by Anonymous||reply 270||December 9, 2022 1:38 PM|
Yes, unless there is more than one forum for straight folks who are married to gay folks. Ok, but it's not even a big percentage of gay people. Maybe among older generations that number is somewhat big, but not among younger ones.
|by Anonymous||reply 271||December 9, 2022 1:51 PM|
Jesus Christ, we're still arguing this? LOL!
|by Anonymous||reply 272||December 9, 2022 2:24 PM|
Even Oscar Wilde, of all people, had a wife and kids. And he was the gayest gay until Liberace came along.
R255 I beg to differ, dear boy.
|by Anonymous||reply 273||December 9, 2022 6:21 PM|
R255 So do I.
|by Anonymous||reply 274||December 9, 2022 6:26 PM|
Poor Oscar’s situation was uniquely complicated. Nothing I’ve read about him indicated that he was under any social or economic pressure to marry and have a family and he seems to have genuinely wanted and cared for his wife and children. He was like any other Victorian gentleman who kept his home life separate from his sex life, only in his case he used male prostitutes instead of females and had male lovers instead of mistresses. But even that would have been all right if he had played by the rules and kept it all out of the public eye.
|by Anonymous||reply 275||December 9, 2022 11:26 PM|
Aaron Tveit. I used to read about twinks being seen leaving his apartment early in the morning, presumably having come home with him from the theatre on nights he was performing.
|by Anonymous||reply 276||December 9, 2022 11:29 PM|
Nicole Kidman's ex and current husband
|by Anonymous||reply 277||December 9, 2022 11:31 PM|
R276 do you think Aaron hooked up with Chace?
|by Anonymous||reply 278||December 10, 2022 1:17 AM|
What's rarer in today's world isn't gay or bi men who marry and have kids, it's wives who'll put up with gay/bi/downlow husbands! Mrs. Oscar Wilde and her ilk could only grit their teeth and wait for the comfortable years of widowhood, today's women can file for divorce without stigma... if they can afford to.
And that's why IMHO the closet isn't going anywhere, not on the conservative and repressive areas of the world. Low wages and a high cost of living means that young people are more dependent on their families than they've been for a century, and if your average human has to choose between passion and truth on one side, and a low-cost or free place to live on the other.... they'll decide that passion and living their truth are luxuries they can't afford.
|by Anonymous||reply 279||December 10, 2022 1:31 AM|
r278, cousinly love to the side, if each of them is homosexually inclined, how could they keep their hands off each other.
|by Anonymous||reply 280||December 10, 2022 2:34 AM|
R280 and obviously while wearing their baseball uniforms.
|by Anonymous||reply 281||December 10, 2022 3:02 AM|
R277 Why would she marry a gay guy?
|by Anonymous||reply 282||December 10, 2022 4:08 AM|
Lez be honest R282 It's obvious isn't it.
|by Anonymous||reply 283||December 10, 2022 5:31 AM|
R283 So you think Nicole Kidman is gay as well? You didn't mention her being gay in your original comment, for some reason, that's why I'm asking Maybe obvious, to you. Not to me. She seems very straight.
|by Anonymous||reply 284||December 10, 2022 11:15 AM|
[quote] Mrs. Oscar Wilde and her ilk could only grit their teeth and wait for the comfortable years of widowhood, today's women can file for divorce without stigma... if they can afford to.
R275 Would anyone have blamed OsacrWilde's wife for filing for divorce, even then? He was publicly tried for sodomy. What kind of stigma would be attached to divorcing that guy?
|by Anonymous||reply 285||December 10, 2022 5:58 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 286||December 10, 2022 6:00 PM|
R285, in 19th century Britain and America divorce was considered socially unacceptable, especially for women. The fact that divorced people "weren't received" shows up in many books of the era ("The Age of Innocence" and "GWTW" come to mind), so anyone filing for divorce knew that their freedom would come at the price of being shunned by their friends at least, if not their family. And a woman who filed for divorce could easily lose custody of her children, or find herself left without a penny and shunned by her family.
People still thought of divorce as "breaking God's law", because whom God had joined together let no man put asunder... no matter what horrors the married persons had afflicted on each other. So yes, women like Mrs. Oscar Wilde might separate from their husbands, if he'd give them enough money to live on and allow them contact with the children, but most women didn't see divorce as an option, no matter who their husband was fucking.
|by Anonymous||reply 287||December 10, 2022 6:27 PM|
R287 Actually the original tweet wasn't about dfivorce, it was about women married to gay/bi men having to grin and bear it until widowhood - but they could at least live separately. The Wilde trial was later than The Age Of Innocence or GWTW - closer to the 20th century. Divorce rates had gone up somewhat by then. But anyway - your point is well taken.
|by Anonymous||reply 288||December 10, 2022 6:38 PM|
I don't think that living separately was an option for everyone in those days, R288, by law the husband would have control of the money and the children, and if he withheld both she'd have no option but to live as a poor relation or take up some form of sex work.
But there were lots of amicable separations, too, the spouses would live in separate houses if they could afford to, or the husband would go live peacefully at his Gentleman's Club, and leave the wife to run the family home and raise the children. You'd think that Mr. and Mrs. Oscar Wilde would have done that long before the Bosie scandal, can someone fill me in on the progress if their marriage?
|by Anonymous||reply 289||December 10, 2022 6:54 PM|
Great biography of Wilde from a few years ago (2018).
|by Anonymous||reply 290||December 10, 2022 7:36 PM|
I'm gagging at all this Lennon and McCartney talk. Young or old they were both gross😝 I'm more interested if Young Mick Jagger and Keith Richards ever did anything together. Those two were actually sexy when they were younger.
|by Anonymous||reply 291||December 11, 2022 3:11 PM|
Young Mick Jagger and David Bowie definitely did.
|by Anonymous||reply 292||December 12, 2022 12:36 AM|
D list Melissa Villasenor pings to high heaven.
|by Anonymous||reply 293||December 12, 2022 12:49 AM|
R293 Weird that she never had a public boyfriend.
|by Anonymous||reply 294||December 12, 2022 6:52 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 295||December 12, 2022 7:10 AM|
What makes you think that r242?
|by Anonymous||reply 296||December 19, 2022 12:15 PM|
R243 So does that mean his girlfriend would continue to be with him when he becomes a her, because even though the girlfriend is happy going out with a guy (currently) who has a penis, she would be fine going out with a woman with a vagina? This stuff is exhausting.
|by Anonymous||reply 297||December 19, 2022 3:41 PM|
R276 Tveit's life might be complicated. His brother is a Catholic priest.
|by Anonymous||reply 298||December 20, 2022 12:58 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 299||December 20, 2022 1:59 AM|
bumpity bump...anyone else to add?
|by Anonymous||reply 300||December 24, 2022 6:13 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 301||March 13, 2023 3:37 AM|
Someone said Seth Meyers is a closet case.
Is this true?
|by Anonymous||reply 302||March 13, 2023 4:24 AM|
Has J-Lo still not come out? The rumors about her have been swirling for years and years.
|by Anonymous||reply 303||March 15, 2023 11:04 PM|
R302 who would say a thing like that?
|by Anonymous||reply 304||March 15, 2023 11:32 PM|
R243 gurl what? Jamie Campbell-Bower is identifying as a woman? Now I've heard it all.
It's a pity, too, because I loved his performance in the otherwise execrable 'Will'. He played a very sympathetic but also realistically cunty and difficult and mixed up Christopher Marlowe (a man who loved being a man and loving other men, let us remember). I remember thinking as I watched that Jamie was beautiful and charismatic and popped off the screen, maybe a future star. Alas.
|by Anonymous||reply 305||March 17, 2023 2:24 AM|
Is Ben Affleck bi?
|by Anonymous||reply 306||March 19, 2023 11:30 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 307||March 19, 2023 11:44 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 308||March 19, 2023 11:45 AM|
R306 the straights can keep him.
R307 Pink [italic]is bi[/italic]
|by Anonymous||reply 309||March 19, 2023 2:32 PM|
Isn't Pink openly bi?
|by Anonymous||reply 310||March 19, 2023 8:47 PM|
R11 to boost their public image and careers. As they grow older, it's better to be a power couple. They would get less attention as single people.
|by Anonymous||reply 311||March 19, 2023 8:52 PM|
Then why didn't they stick together back then?
|by Anonymous||reply 312||March 19, 2023 9:25 PM|
R312, apparently it wasn't helping their image. At least for Ben.
|by Anonymous||reply 313||March 19, 2023 9:29 PM|
R311 I fully believe Jennifer Lopez is into women but I also fully believe she's truly in love with Ben Affleck. I think she was dating Leah Remini for years and once Ben came back onto the scene, Leah was shown the door, and that's why she and J-Lo aren't speaking anymore. Too far fetched?
|by Anonymous||reply 314||March 19, 2023 10:06 PM|
I could well believe Leah Remini is a sister of Sappho.
|by Anonymous||reply 315||March 20, 2023 8:00 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 316||March 20, 2023 9:08 AM|
R315 me too. So is her marriage a bearding arrangement? Her husband seems gay to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 317||March 21, 2023 10:05 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 318||March 25, 2023 4:39 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 319||March 25, 2023 10:33 PM|
Justin Trudeau-bi Wayne Gretzky-closeted
|by Anonymous||reply 320||March 26, 2023 7:09 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 321||March 26, 2023 7:49 AM|
So what's the deal with Taylor Swift?
|by Anonymous||reply 322||May 18, 2023 11:31 PM|
Is George Clooney gay or does he just play at it for publicity to keep his name alive on social media by giving us all something to debate and chat about?
|by Anonymous||reply 323||May 18, 2023 11:47 PM|
JLo and Ben not a real couple? I wouldn't have believed it until I read the other day that they don't even live together.
|by Anonymous||reply 324||May 20, 2023 8:20 AM|
R324 I wouldn't want to live with them either.
|by Anonymous||reply 325||May 20, 2023 9:48 AM|
Someone in another thread claimed to be pretty sure that Trey Parker is bi
|by Anonymous||reply 326||May 20, 2023 10:13 AM|
Would JLo's career be impacted if she were openly bi/gay? I took a little look at some videos of her and Leah together to see what people meant, and I definitely see something there.
|by Anonymous||reply 327||May 20, 2023 4:28 PM|
J-Lo? I think she would have been more popular with straight men if she'd come out as bi back in the day, but being bi wasn't as trendy when she was young.
What would her Hispanic following have thought about that, from the 1990s to now?
|by Anonymous||reply 328||May 20, 2023 4:38 PM|
r328 I think a lot of Hispanics are still extremely conservative. Not so much Puerto Ricans like her (NY Puerto Ricans tend to vote Democrat and are socially more liberal) but Mexicans and other Latin Americans are very traditional and conservative. Her ex Marc Anthony is also apparently bi and maybe reluctant to publicize it for the same reason.
|by Anonymous||reply 329||May 20, 2023 5:57 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 330||May 21, 2023 6:44 AM|
Juan Martin del Potro (at least as bi). Back in his prime days he never pinged to me, but now he does.
|by Anonymous||reply 331||May 21, 2023 6:56 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 332||May 22, 2023 1:43 PM|