Bro Cuddles become Popular with Men

Any excuse to smell their bros’ pits.

What are you a fag?

Skepticism intensifies…

I WANT to cuddle with Bros!!!!!!!

I'm concerned.

Cuddles are fine, but why is he stroking his friend's back?

BroAffection

Faggots!

For hundreds of years the churches have tried to tie a man's every need to a woman.

I love this, and watching it is actually more erotic for me than sex.

It doesn't stop with cuddles.

The guy doing the hugging has a very cute ass in those basketball shorts!

Is this something real or what? Doesn't pass the logic test. Gaydar goes whoop, whoop.

[QUOTE]The guy doing the hugging has a very cute ass in those basketball shorts!

Yeah this wouldn’t work for me. My hands would just naturally gravitate towards that booty.

You have to know one of the bros farted rancidly.

Spooning leads to forking!

I won’t be the little spoon with a straight dude. It feels belittling and emasculating

When they feel something poking them, I think there would be nothing wrong with a bit of a bro-jerking session. Your bodies are already touching, may as well bust a nut together.

I think it's great if men are rediscovering that they can be physically affectionate with other men without it being sexual.

No mention of the surprise anal afterwards...

This goes beyond showing emotion or a hug. Who the hell are they kidding?

yeah I think they prob had some hardcore BBQ dinner before this and then the rank farting began

[Quote]This goes beyond showing emotion or a hug. Who the hell are they kidding?

And that is exactly why men are so afraid of showing affection to another man. Grow up.

[quote] Men need platonic affection with other men

It’s a good gateway for men to explore more physical activities.

It is a very heterosexual thing to do!

Fags!

Why is this a thread? As a gay man, do you hold and caress your male family members like that? Fuck no! They are gay!

I practice Bro Cuddling on a regular basis.

Sometimes we even cuddle each other's cocks with our mouths.

I occasionally cuddle with a straight bro of mine. He is very affectionate, and has explicitly said he expects his friends to be physically expressive and affectionate with him. At first, I thought he just meant hugs and verbal expression, but over time, we would end up, cuddling, watching movies in football. I’ve seen other straight dudes cuddle with guys too. No, he has never tried to cross the line from platonic to sexual or romantic. I definitely would never initiate anything untoward. With him, it’s all wholesome platonic affection.

However, you should not cuddle with straight dudes to whom you are attracted. That’s problematic

R29 -- Good for you. I'd love to have a cuddle buddy like that. 👍

Only when it's cold though

Gen Z hits different

Who can blame them. Look what women have become. Hate-filled victims looking for revenge.

^^^^^. Sounds like somebody is still bitter about being turned down for prom. Let it go. She probably sensed even back then that you were a big MO!

Sounds like a misogynist

MMmmmmmmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

Complicated

[quote] That’s problematic

So is saying “problematic”.

Ha! Sure, okay. "Bro cuddling".

Gen Z is lit 🔥

Bro cuddling… sure Jan.

By all means, please “normalize” this.

It's probably primal. Males were cavemen for many more eons than they were hetero family guys. A man's most important people were his bros. And if they were on a hunt or something- and it was cold- you better believe they huddled (and possibly more).

This happens in the military and prison. It has been studied at length. Men (of a certain age range) need to be nurtured and will get it anywhere they can when females aren't available.

Just using the word “bro” is trying to pretend it’s something that it’s not.

Gaaaaaaaayyyyyyy

Yes R45 I totally agree. This is sooooooo gay!

One thing can lead to another

It’s not gay if not sexual. Duh

No one would cuddle with Op the smelly seacow.

I've cuddled with straight guys. Both always get erections because everyone get hardons during the night, sexually aroused or not.

R48 Apparently you don't understand how dicks work... do you have one? lol

NO HOMO!!!

That little video was a bit more than 'cuddling.'

Brojobs!

Bro up!

Duderonomy

I love cuddling with the homies

This is always the question I have that goes back and forth in my mind - what constitutes gay? Does sexual activity constitute gay? Does that mean someone is not officially gay until they have sex? That obviously makes no sense. Someone can be gay without ever having sex. Is there an emotional component to being gay? Is cuddling with someone more intimate than jacking off with them? The animal kingdom, which humans are a part of, is very complex and very rarely black and white. But we paint something as complex as sexuality as something very black and white. Can men get aroused around each other, play with each other in a purely physical way without it being gay? What makes a gay man a gay man? I don't think there is a clear answer. And I don't think defining it by sexual activity is the answer either.

There have been times in history, in certain cultures - western and otherwise - where sex was soley defined as something two human beings did with each other and not defined by who you did it with. There was not good or bad, gay, bi or straight. It was all viewed through the same lense. There were love affairs between men and love affairs between women. Julius Ceasar was even associated having well documented love affairs with both men and women. People just had sex with whomever - out of lust, politics or procreation.

And I would imagine in the millennia before female birth control where sex could lead to a death sentence for women when it came to childbirth, there was a lot more recreational sex in all forms between men. And no one thought one way or another about it.

It seems like a generation gap. I can imagine showing this to straight male friends who would roll their eyes and said “that’s gay” but I’m in my 40s.

Guessing some 20 year olds would have a different reaction. Also might depend what region you’re in/what context. I always assume the younger generation is so more liberal/gay friendly but who knows. A bunch of fraternity boys at the University of Mississippi would likely have a different reaction than some SJWs from Wesleyan.

And who knows what any of them do behind closed doors.

I need a bro 😎

This is all BULLSHIT! These guys may have girlfriends and later wives, but they are still both homosexuals!

R58 You are overthinking this. Homosexual is defined as: "a person who is sexually attracted to people of their own sex." PERIOD.

Engaging in same sex activities is a pretty clear manifestation of someone's homosexuality but it is not needed for someone to be a homosexual. Translation, if all you've ever done is jacked to gay porn, you are a homosexual.

It is the "attraction" that makes you a homosexual. A person who is bisexual is ALSO by definition a homosexual. There, necessarily, is overlap.

Being homosexual or bisexual or even straight, is not a choice, but your behavior is. People are designed to CRAVE sex, but we're not animals. How, when and where and with whom (specifically) we have sex IS within our control. This was the flaw of Don't Ask Don't Tell." We cannot control the gender we are oriented to have sex with.

DADT assumed that ALL homosexual men are also bisexual men and can thus choose to have sex only with women instead of men. That is false. SOME Bisexual men can (and do) choose to only have sex with women, but that is a choice their employer has no right to require them to make. Someone who is only homosexual (and NOT Bisexual) or a Bisexual who also wants sex with their same sex is shit out of luck. They are not only being told not to have same same sex relations, but they are also being told that they cannot even discuss their same sex attraction.

Many women are married to bisexual men. Some don't know it. Some don't care. Being bisexual doesn't prevent a person from committing to one sex (ie one person ---- gay or straight) for life. That doesn't stop them from being a homosexual. Two things can (and in this instance are) true at the same time.

Far too much weight is given to whether or not someone is a homosexual. It is just a part of who a person is, just like being left handed or being able to whistle. It is just part of who you are. It is in your DNA. We are still all individuals, so our behavior will also be individualized. Having a same sex attraction does not mean you will act on it (although, I believe, most people will at some point act on it).

If you do act on in though, it should be no one's business but yours. People need to stop looking at homosexuality as a lifestyle. While it is often the case, it is not always the case. Homosexuality at its core is just a biological trait that many people carry. It is not necessarily determinative of anything.

🙄🙄🙄🫥

" I would imagine in the millennia before female birth control where sex could lead to a death sentence for women when it came to childbirth, there was a lot more recreational sex in all forms between men. And no one thought one way or another about it."

Maybe crack open a history book.

Preferably one on LGBT history and not one for straight people.

apparently no one recalls when somewhere between the youngest millennials and the oldest z that rather than looking for sex, they were all looking for cuddle parties. . . it's one reason there's so many furries among them, too.

r64 they're likely looking at rad fem books, they're filled with that kind of shit... though they contradict themselves often. I try to expose people to them because so many are unaware that while rad fems split from both the lgbt and feminist movements, their names largely stripped from the annals, this undercurrent remains... and it's much of what we see happening in the extremes of "queer" politics. somewhat ironically, given both groups are radically opposed to one another... but quite close in their identity games.

What the hell? ⬆️

I love laying like this with my straight buddy

The guy holding him looks like Keith Rainere

Who dat?

Straight men gay baiting for money and "likes". Earth is doomed.

What about bro nipple play?

Some rich gay guy is setting this up this is like that "competitive tickling" shit. There's absolutely no way straight men are doing this or would consider this for a fucking second lol

This is the gateway! Dark forces spreading evil! We must not let the dark in!!!! 🤡

I have a friend who refuses to cuddle with me because he is married and straight, but he does suck my dick sometimes.

No there's nothing wrong with men cuddling being affectionate. Sometimes it's friendly, sometimes someone is carrying a torch.

I think one one guy at least is carrying a torch. Georgia, the lisp. The lingering hug as if it means something more. Come on.

Nude Bro Cuddles are the latest thing in Northern Europe.

it's a 'profession'

So let me get this straight — straight men are cuddling each other, yet the only physical contact I have with another human is when I get my blood pressure taken every year?

homies love to cuddle

Cuddle Party events are between $15-30. Get certified as an "official cuddler" for just under a thousand.

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Next up, Bro Cooties

I’ve heard dudes say their homie got bricked up while cuddling (usually morning wood), but no one has said they got upset

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The next thing they'll be asking me to issue them marriage licenses.

Which brings me to ask, have there been verified cases of dudes marrying their Homies just to get benefits?

Duh yes R86. There's even a few movies about it. (Even though I'm a pretentious snob, I enjoy Adam Sandler.)

Can we dial back to the beginning please? I am as gay as can be, in my 50s. I never cuddled with another man I didn't have sex with, not even other gay men. For me cuddling was always very intimate, maybe even ore than sex. When did cuddling with men become a thing? I feel like I missed out.

Jozea

Don’t straight men hold hands in India?

I don’t know it all depends.

My straight friends have all wound up in bed together when they were younger and got drunk and parties. You’d see them passed out spooning on the couch or in bed.

Lots of straight friends do “gay shit”.

It’s just friendship.

Straight women do the same. It’s just considered taboo when straight guys do it.

Why are gay men the most closed minded about this type of thing? My straight male friends don’t bat an eye or say anything snarky about bros being physically affectionate, but the only time I hear anyone questioning if it’s truly platonic, it’s a gay male doing it

Transition if you have such a problem with gay men^.

Bump

Nice

R23 If the straight friends were a man and a woman do you think people would still naively think it was just friendship if they were always cuddling? Come on, bro.

R89 Jozea is an attractive GAY man. Any guy crawling in bed with him is not there for "straight" male bonding.

He annoys me

Plus, Jozea is hypersexual. A straight is not cuddling with a gay guy who being flirty and sensual, nor one prone to go tell the world he cuddled with you

Bump

This isn't awkward at all lol. Didn't you guys grow up with brothers or horsed around with your friends.

This is wonderful. Loving caring sharing moment with your bro.

Not all affection is sexual. Most is not

[quote] I think it's great if men are rediscovering that they can be physically affectionate with other men without it being sexual.

It’s good that people can be like this, but I don’t think my brain is wired that way. If a man shows me any form of kindness, I immediately think “Does he want sex?”

Thirty seconds of cuddling like that would make me horny as hell.

Not if you’re not attracted to the guy

I guess I wouldn’t be interested in cuddling with someone I had absolutely no attraction to.

I see ads on DL and occasionally on Grindr, where guys are seeking other guys to cuddle with. Has anyone here hooked up just cuddle? Did it lead to anything more?

[quote] Can men get aroused around each other, play with each other in a purely physical way without it being gay?

Don't wrestlers sometimes get erections?

[Quote]Not if you’re not attracted to the guy

Then I wouldn't be cuddling with them to begin with

heterophobes

It's only natural r107

Keep it platonic

R105, R108

[quote]I guess I wouldn’t be interested in cuddling with someone I had absolutely no attraction to.

[quote]Then I wouldn't be cuddling with them to begin with

Well therein lies the difference. Some people cuddle just to cuddle, just for the feeling of closeness and comfort, without any underlying sexual pretense. The “attraction” they have to each other is friendly.

Exactly

Straight bros do not cuddle, sadly. Fun fantasy though!

Horse hockey.

For those gay men who prefer to pretend to be hetero.

Then we reach over and grab each others dicks…

Keep it pure bro

Why is the guy in the OP pointing so hard, so stiff. Like a robot.

OP is clearly not familiar with the great sport of football (soccer)

That’s a hug, not a cuddle

Jude Bellingham

I would only like to cuddle with a guy who is bigger, no gut, kind, at peace with himself, hot

Ummm Kay

More!

What happens to their erections? Because when I was that age, my dentist hovering over me was enough to get me hard.

It happens, bro

Vumo

No way. Getting too hot. Anyone that wants to cuddle can take their body heat elsewhere.

cuddling is the true gay test,

only gay men w/ dirty thoughts gets hard & have no chill abt it

true str8 bros can keep it chill & fun & no hard feelings

^ Oh, FFS.