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Bette Davis's Twink Grandson

He's gay, right?

He comes in at 3:50.

Bette's demented religious extremist daughter says in the clip that Bette called him a fag and said he needed to be toughened up.

This is from 1991. He looks like a twinky Abercrombie model.

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by Anonymousreply 177September 5, 2022 6:30 PM

And here's Bette's psychotic daughter just seven years ago warning about witchcraft.

She says Bette was a literal witch who used magic spells to punish her enemies, and she says that she saw Bette literally transform into Satan, with demonic claws. Yes. She said that.

If there were any doubt about whether her Mommie Dearest accusations were true—she watched Bette literally transfigure into the devil. So.

[quote] In a 2015 video, Hyman says: ‘[She] would sit on her bed and she had this big metal wastebasket and she would have her secretary get a piece of clothing from someone who had vexed her, crossed her in her view, and she would take this piece of clothing and she would mumble incoherently and she would then set it on fire and hold it over this metal wastebasket, and laugh as it burned and she dropped it into this container.

[quote] ‘People’s lives were destroyed. They fell apart. All sorts of horrible things happened to them.’

[quote] She also claims to have witnessed her mother’s ‘demonic cackling,’ watching her ‘transform into a Satanic figure, [with] a Satanic face, long claws on the end of her hands,’ scraping at the glass of a terrace door during a 1982 trip to her Davis, California home.

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by Anonymousreply 1July 10, 2022 11:41 AM

Did that kid have two white chicklets stuck to his upper teeth?

by Anonymousreply 2July 10, 2022 11:44 AM

J. Ashley Hyman today.

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by Anonymousreply 3July 10, 2022 11:53 AM

R2 R3

by Anonymousreply 4July 10, 2022 12:04 PM

R3 The son in the video is Justin Hyman. According to Wikipedia, B.D. has two sons, Justin and Ashley. So, presumably, the J. Ashley you linked to is not the Justin from the video.

I'm 90% settled that the kid in the video is gay. His mother is a delusional religious nut. I've looked him up online and only info about his brother comes up. I hope his mother didn't shame him to suicide or anything.

by Anonymousreply 5July 10, 2022 12:07 PM

I want to watch the full show now and see BD and Christina interact.

by Anonymousreply 6July 10, 2022 12:13 PM

B. D. is now a widow.

by Anonymousreply 7July 10, 2022 12:16 PM

Here is more, R6.

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by Anonymousreply 8July 10, 2022 12:18 PM

It's strange to me that Joan had B.D. on her show at all around this time. Joan lived for her career and for Melissa (and later for her grandson Cooper), and Melissa abandoned her for a while after Joan's husband killed himself. I'd think this interview would be hard for Joan, to even think about a daughter of a celebrity doing this kind of thing to her mother, and even to wonder potentially if her own daughter may harbor this sort of resentment. I bet Joan and Melissa had some long talks about this interview.

To Melissa's credit, she has been as loyal to Joan after Joan's death as Joan was to her when Joan was alive. They were soul mates.

Melissa was on the board of a nonprofit I worked for many years ago, and she seemed like a decent person. She made inappropriate jokes about sensitive topics related to the nature of the nonprofit that were not funny in public forums and seemed to have little self-awareness that she wasn't funny like her mother was, but she was committed and came across as having good intentions. B.D., on the other hand, seems like a humorless monster.

by Anonymousreply 9July 10, 2022 12:21 PM

"Jeremy Hyman was born in United States. According to his family tree, Jeremy was father to 2 children. He married Barbara (Sherry) Hyman on December 31, 1963. They had children Jeremy Ashley Hyman and Justin Hyman. He died in 2017."

by Anonymousreply 10July 10, 2022 12:25 PM

Christina Crawford is obviously well studied about abusive behavior patterns and empathetic. She couldn't sound more credible in the videos above. B.D. Hyman sounds spiteful toward Bette Davis, which I guess is understandable if she really was abused and if her sons were abused, but Crawford sounds like she understands how Crawford's life experiences corrupted her and made her an "inadvertently" (her term) harmful parent.

by Anonymousreply 11July 10, 2022 12:46 PM

I can't believe Davis said that about her own grandson. Gay icon my foot.

by Anonymousreply 12July 10, 2022 1:35 PM

He's cute.

by Anonymousreply 13July 10, 2022 1:52 PM

I love her grandson's snarky disdain for her. I can believe everything he is saying too.

by Anonymousreply 14July 10, 2022 1:53 PM

He's also pretty and the women in that family certainly were not. Was his father pretty?

by Anonymousreply 15July 10, 2022 1:53 PM

R12 I don't want to believe it but it seems kind of in character what with all the talking about how New England made her tough.

I am rewatching Feud: Bette and Joan and in it, Bette initially was very upset the male costar in Baby Jane was 'a homosexual' and wanted him fired, but she came around to respecting his acting. He told her he loves her and she snapped, "Of course you do. All the queens love me."

We know Katharine Hepburn was mannish and always wore pants and was bisexual if not a lesbian, and she addressed homosexuality in this interview, but she also brought it up in a kind of disapproving way. She sort of defends it as natural, due to "overpopulation," but she still presented it with an air of disapproval.

Remember that both Bette and Katharine were brought up in a Puritan tradition and they were born in 1908 and 1907, respectively.

Looking back at her movies from the 30s and 40s, it is really outstanding that Hepburn almost always wore pants in her films and her character was usually masculine. If she were coming of age today, I suspect she would be an outspoken LGBT activist if not gender fluid or transgender. She's one of the few people who never self-identified as transgender but who just kind of seems like she should have.

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by Anonymousreply 16July 10, 2022 1:57 PM

R16 Ridiculous. Have you drunk the trans Koolaid? Hepburn doesn't seem transsexual. She seems like a tomgirl grown into a butchy but lipstick lesbian. Histrionic, with a gritty "swims in the winter Sound" shtick.

by Anonymousreply 17July 10, 2022 2:07 PM

Trashing your own grandmother to a national audience on the Joan Rivers show is about as trashy as it gets, even for 1991.

Justin seems to have a low, or no, footprint on the web. Jobless? Reclusive? Institutionalized?

by Anonymousreply 18July 10, 2022 2:12 PM

R18 I wonder the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 19July 10, 2022 2:15 PM

He's a Bette Davis impersonator.

by Anonymousreply 20July 10, 2022 2:15 PM

Odd that BD managed to leave the whole witchcraft thing out of her book. What's next, the cannibalism she suddenly remembered?

by Anonymousreply 21July 10, 2022 2:21 PM

I'd love to see a supernatural thriller about Bette Davis terrorizing her daughter with black magic. It'd be like Mommie Dearest meets The Devil Rides Out. The Devil Rides Mommie.

by Anonymousreply 22July 10, 2022 2:26 PM

The tranny at r16 seeks desperately to eliminate the gays.

by Anonymousreply 23July 10, 2022 2:31 PM

If Bette was able to physically transform into the devil, maybe Bette is the one who raped Rosemary!

by Anonymousreply 24July 10, 2022 2:36 PM

Both mom and grandson look like Bette Davis but only the grandson is cute. Davis had mannish features.

They seem trashy. His shoes especially.

by Anonymousreply 25July 10, 2022 2:46 PM

it is all about the grift.

BD was close to her mother but she fell in with a man twice her age at the age of 16. If I had to guess, it was his idea to create a narrative similar to Christina Crawfords to get a book and media deal going. When the media career didn't happen , they shifted to religion for the grift.

Christina Crawfords story has been corroborated by others who observed her and her brother with bruised faces and bodies.

by Anonymousreply 26July 10, 2022 3:05 PM

Bette spent years on the talkshows treating the people she didn't like (Miriam Hopkins, Faye Dunaway etc). I love that her own family ended up turning on her and doing exactly the same thing. Bette could dish it but she could never take it.

by Anonymousreply 27July 10, 2022 3:08 PM

You need see very little of Bette Davis to know that she was an abusive bitch, the worst kind, in fact.

by Anonymousreply 28July 10, 2022 3:11 PM

A real woman!

by Anonymousreply 29July 10, 2022 3:12 PM

[quote] Trashing your own grandmother to a national audience on the Joan Rivers show is about as trashy as it gets, even for 1991.

The kid was 14. It's clear he was put in a position of "Dylan Farrow-ing" it by his psychopath mother. However, unlike Dylan, he hasn't milked it for the past 30 years.

by Anonymousreply 30July 10, 2022 3:19 PM

If this is B. D.'s Justin then I think it's fair to say he is a man who engages in the homosexual lifestyle.

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by Anonymousreply 31July 10, 2022 3:23 PM

R30, B. D. obviously offered her son's appearance to the show's producers and maybe even made it a stipulation for her appearance.

by Anonymousreply 32July 10, 2022 3:25 PM

r3 that can't be him. BD's son would only be in his mid-forties.

by Anonymousreply 33July 10, 2022 3:27 PM

R31, Justin Hyman would be 45 years old now.

by Anonymousreply 34July 10, 2022 3:28 PM

I'm hoping Justin Hyman is a DataLounger. He seems like a likely candidate, flamboyant, middle aged and bitter.

by Anonymousreply 35July 10, 2022 3:29 PM

BD and her husband were a couple of leeches who didn't like to work for a living. Bette supported them financially - at a very comfortable level - for twenty years. BD was spoiled rotten.

by Anonymousreply 36July 10, 2022 3:32 PM

My GUESS is that as a GAY MAN the name HYMAN simply HAD to GO.

by Anonymousreply 37July 10, 2022 3:32 PM

You guys are confusing me. Is BD Bette Davis?

by Anonymousreply 38July 10, 2022 3:33 PM

R38 B.D. Davis/B.D. Hyman is Bette Davis's daughter.

It does suggest a certain level of narcissism that Bette named her daughter after her own initials, or else wanted "Beedee" to sound like "Betty" but not be an exact copy.

by Anonymousreply 39July 10, 2022 3:35 PM

I've watched that amazing Cavett interview with Hepburn countless times but I've never been able to figure out what the hell she's saying in that segment in the clip at r16. Dick clearly seems mystified, too, but seems to know not to probe further.

by Anonymousreply 40July 10, 2022 3:36 PM

Let’s call her BDD

by Anonymousreply 41July 10, 2022 3:37 PM

Hi man!

by Anonymousreply 42July 10, 2022 3:40 PM

What's confusing to you, R40?

It sounds straightforward to me. There was an allusion to the casting couch and Hepburn says she has never experienced that kind of pressure from men in Hollywood and always found them to be supportive of her. Then she makes a little snarky joke implying a lot of the men in Hollywood are gay and so of course they wouldn't make passes at her, and Cavett jumps on that and asks her what she thinks about homosexuality. She says she thinks it's nature's response to overpopulation, the implication being that when there are too many human beings, nature curbs reproduction by making people want to mate with the same sex so as to slow reproduction rates. It's not confusing.

by Anonymousreply 43July 10, 2022 3:41 PM

This is him.

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by Anonymousreply 44July 10, 2022 3:42 PM

R43 that was her way of saying homosexuality is natural. It's actually supportive for the time. It's also quirky New England Wasp thinking.

by Anonymousreply 45July 10, 2022 3:43 PM

R39, B. D.'s birth name was Barbara Davis Sherry.

by Anonymousreply 46July 10, 2022 3:47 PM

R44 Interesting. BD still lives in Charlottesville, too. His life must be miserable. I wonder if he really believes his grandmother tranformed into a clawed devil.

R45 I think her hypothesis is based in pretty sound logical way of thinking, true or not. The population began to increase exponentially around the 1960s and there was a lot of talk about its effects on the environment, so it would make sense that an increasing share of the population being nonreproductively oriented would help to slow the problem.

by Anonymousreply 47July 10, 2022 3:47 PM

The orphanage dumped a mental defective on poor Bette because they knew she couldn't give the child back.

by Anonymousreply 48July 10, 2022 3:48 PM

R44's link doesn't give much info, and he seems to have no online presence, but can we at least give his stately home the Tasteful Friends treatment?

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by Anonymousreply 49July 10, 2022 3:50 PM

I'm a new fan of Christina Crawford after that interview above. What a thoughtful and sincere person. Based on the common idea of Mommie Dearest, you'd think she had a bitter hatred toward Joan.

by Anonymousreply 50July 10, 2022 3:50 PM

R48, Bette said in interviews that her mother Ruthie advised her to return Margot when it was discovered she was brain injured, but Bette refused.

by Anonymousreply 51July 10, 2022 3:52 PM

What a cumdump!

by Anonymousreply 52July 10, 2022 3:58 PM

Check out the body language here.

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by Anonymousreply 53July 10, 2022 3:59 PM

why doxx someone so completely ? He doesn't have an online presence for a reason. Its not like you shared a link to his facebook page. I don't understand people. This is inappropriate. Op is a wierdo too. Blocking this fucking thread.

by Anonymousreply 54July 10, 2022 4:00 PM

And here.

It makes you wonder, if she hated him so much, why is she trying to act so affectionately towards Justin?

Was it only for the cameras?

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by Anonymousreply 55July 10, 2022 4:00 PM

Bette had an intellectually disabled adoptive daughter and I think that she also financially supported her sister Bobby, who was either also intellectually disabled or else had some kind of disabling mental illness. I can believe she was stern and also prejudiced, but she doesn't seem like an evil person. She took care of people.

by Anonymousreply 56July 10, 2022 4:02 PM

[quote]why doxx someone so completely ? He doesn't have an online presence for a reason. Its not like you shared a link to his facebook page. I don't understand people. This is inappropriate. Op is a wierdo too. Blocking this fucking thread.

Mary!

by Anonymousreply 57July 10, 2022 4:03 PM

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

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by Anonymousreply 58July 10, 2022 4:03 PM

R54 I am the OP and I didn't doxx anyone and would not do that. I linked to Hyman's video because Hyman posts her videos to YouTube and has discussed her mother in them, and they have been written about by journalists. I didn't divulge any personal info about anyone.

And the only reason I asked for opinions about whether her grandson is a "fag" is because that is a quote from BD Hyman in the Joan Rivers interview, in which she alleges her mother called her son a fag, just before she brought her son out for the world to see.

by Anonymousreply 59July 10, 2022 4:04 PM

If you ask me, BD is the one with the crazy eyes.

Not Bette.

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by Anonymousreply 60July 10, 2022 4:05 PM

Bette is always the one going in for the kiss, and her family members are always rejecting her.

BD looks like a bitch here, on her wedding day.

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by Anonymousreply 61July 10, 2022 4:06 PM

R60 BD is crazy. Look up her YouTube account if you need to be convinced.

That doesn't preclude Bette being crazy, but Bette seems to have been respected throughout the entertainment industry, compared with Joan, who was acknowledged as a movie star but thought of in a rather disapproving way by many.

by Anonymousreply 62July 10, 2022 4:06 PM

R61 BD was afraid her mother's devil claws were going to come out, and she was going to tear through her jugular with devil fangs!!

by Anonymousreply 63July 10, 2022 4:07 PM

"Doxxing" doesn't mean linking to the web page of someone's property sale. It means giving personal information of someone for the purpose of contacting and harassing them. No one here is suggesting we try to track down the grandson in person or contact, let alone harass, him.

by Anonymousreply 64July 10, 2022 4:08 PM

R55, That's not Justin, it's his older brother Ashley. Ashley co-starred in a television movie with Bette when he was younger.

by Anonymousreply 65July 10, 2022 4:22 PM

Bette and Ashley in "Family Reunion".

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by Anonymousreply 66July 10, 2022 4:26 PM

Bette supported her mother, her mentally ill sister, and of course BD and BD's useless husband. She spent a fortune on all of them, and didn't have a lot left over for herself. She could've been a very wealthy woman if not for her support of her family.

I read BD's book years ago and it's ridiculous. Bette was not an abusive mother like Joan Crawford was. She drank too much and could be overbearing and overly involved in her children's lives but she was no different from millions of other mothers. There was nothing scandalous in the book, the arguments and fights were the usual family stuff that most everyone has gone through with a parent at one time or another.

Bette provided BD with a very comfortable life until BD was nearly 40 years old and gave her anything she wanted and BD was nothing but an ungrateful little cunt.

by Anonymousreply 67July 10, 2022 4:30 PM

BD's sons were born in the late 60s/early 70s, right? They'd be 50-ish now, I hardly think that 25 yr old twink is her son - grandson maybe.

by Anonymousreply 68July 10, 2022 4:32 PM

I am a but thrown as I try to make sense of BD. She is very defensive on behalf of her son and was angry that her mother allegedly said he'll be a "fag." BD notably doesn't say "of course he's not!" as most homophobes would. Instead, she says he is "very sensitive." She said she was close to her mother until her mother became abusive toward her kids, and that's the example she cites. So I would think BD was defensive on behalf of her gay son.

Except it seems that can't be the case given that BD is a born-again Christian nut who now says her mother was a devil witch. But she doesn't seem unreasonable in the clip if her mother really did call her son the F-word.

It's actually an echo of my life. My grandmother was the most doting and wonderful Grandma in the world until I hit puberty. She completely changed her attitude toward me, and would slight me in ways like sending my sister $100 for her birthday and me $5. She would cheat with my sister when we played games so that I would lose and then laugh. It was really alarming to be rejected by my grandmother like that. It caused a major rift between us and between my mom and her mother for years. The year before she died, my grandmother told me her first husband was gay and she always hated him, but now she finally realizes he couldn't live his own life and that he only hurt her because he had no way to live his life freely. On her deathbed, the last thing she said to any of us was to call me over and squeeze me and tell me she has always been proud of me and she loves me. Then we left and she died.

This personal history with my grandmother makes me want to think BD finally drew the line with her mother because she hurt her son. But then there's that whole BD-turned-out-to-be-a-psycho thing.

by Anonymousreply 69July 10, 2022 4:33 PM

In R58's photograph, is that Connie Ford next to Roddy? She looks great (if it's her).

B.D. is nuts, but I've read My Mother's Keeper, and it seems consistent with Bette's behavior (although B.D. certainly never mentions her and her husband's mercenary motives).

by Anonymousreply 70July 10, 2022 4:34 PM

Great photo r58. Liz was wearing her George Hamilton costume that night.

by Anonymousreply 71July 10, 2022 4:36 PM

So the other son Jeremy died in 2017?

by Anonymousreply 72July 10, 2022 4:37 PM

Oh nevermind, that was BD's husband?

by Anonymousreply 73July 10, 2022 4:38 PM

Bette didn't age well. The booze and cigs really did a number on her face.

by Anonymousreply 74July 10, 2022 4:39 PM

14…. Damn, any pics at 18?

by Anonymousreply 75July 10, 2022 4:40 PM

She's a crazy Christian nut in Charlottesville. I wonder if she carried a confederate flag to the Nazi march.

by Anonymousreply 76July 10, 2022 4:41 PM

[quote] BD's sons were born in the late 60s/early 70s, right? They'd be 50-ish now

In the op's video, Justin says he's 14 years old. And the video clearly says "1991."

That would mean that he was born around 1977, which makes him about 45 now.

by Anonymousreply 77July 10, 2022 4:41 PM

They should have named him Buster.

by Anonymousreply 78July 10, 2022 4:42 PM

A generou$ gentleman took us to an awards dinner in Hollywood where Bette, Phyllis Diller, and Tab Hunter were among the attendees. Bette walked in looking like she wished she was somewhere else. Tab Hunter looked very hot and we sort of exchanged glances.........

by Anonymousreply 79July 10, 2022 4:49 PM

That Tab Hunter once exchanged glances with Erna is practically a John Waters film all by itself.

by Anonymousreply 80July 10, 2022 4:52 PM

Lust in the Latrine starring Tab Hunter and Erna.

by Anonymousreply 81July 10, 2022 5:03 PM

Here she is sometime between Eve and Jane.

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by Anonymousreply 82July 10, 2022 5:11 PM

What a fabulous photo at r58! I recognize Bette, Liz, Roddy, Mary Steenburgen, Stephen Collins and his ex, Faye Grant, but who are all the others? r58, you should post the photo on the When Stars Collide thread for comments.

by Anonymousreply 83July 10, 2022 5:36 PM

[quote] [R3] that can't be him. BD's son would only be in his mid-forties.

That's her older son Ashley, and he's 53.

by Anonymousreply 84July 10, 2022 6:04 PM

I think this is his instagram. He...uh...seems to like bikes. Not much on his sexuality although you hear a woman's voice in some of the videos.

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by Anonymousreply 85July 10, 2022 6:20 PM

R85 I! Was! Right! Ducatis are the faggiest of Italian vehicles! And the little terrier seals the deal! My! Grandson! Is! A! You-know-what!

by Anonymousreply 86July 10, 2022 6:24 PM

Looks like Ashley died early this year.

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by Anonymousreply 87July 10, 2022 6:25 PM

Wow, that's sad R87.

And R85 there are a few posts in there that he does reference loving women or something.

by Anonymousreply 88July 10, 2022 6:28 PM

He looks cute - has several posts about taking care of his mom, so that's interesting.

by Anonymousreply 89July 10, 2022 6:35 PM

He has a Chihuahua named Natasha...

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by Anonymousreply 90July 10, 2022 6:38 PM

Aw, this is a sweet post about saving little Natasha from being murdered because of an underbite.

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by Anonymousreply 91July 10, 2022 6:40 PM

His girlfriend...

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by Anonymousreply 92July 10, 2022 6:41 PM

r83 the woman in the silver dress and black gloves was Kathryn Sermak, Bette's personal assistant in her later years.

by Anonymousreply 93July 10, 2022 6:42 PM

I bet the other guests (i.e. real stars) rolled their eyes at her garish dress and ostentatious gloves.

by Anonymousreply 94July 10, 2022 6:45 PM

Here's a pic of Ashley from a couple years ago

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by Anonymousreply 95July 10, 2022 6:50 PM

^^Sorry, not Ashley but Justin the younger one.

by Anonymousreply 96July 10, 2022 6:50 PM

R87, According to multiple sources, J. Ashley Hyman is still with us.

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by Anonymousreply 97July 10, 2022 8:21 PM

Well his brother posted that he died.

by Anonymousreply 98July 10, 2022 8:27 PM

Michael Merrill's wife died suddenly in 2014 at age 62.

Friends of mine here in Massachusetts knew her, worked with her and adored her.

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by Anonymousreply 99July 10, 2022 8:27 PM

Good catch R85, that's definitely him. Has the same bone structure...just no hair. And he LOVES tiny dogs.

Is anyone gonna tell him to fasten his seatbelts?

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by Anonymousreply 100July 10, 2022 8:50 PM

r100 in my post at r95 you can see what Justin looks like now

by Anonymousreply 101July 10, 2022 8:56 PM

r99 what did she die from?

by Anonymousreply 102July 10, 2022 8:57 PM

I knew it wouldn't take Datalounge detectives no time to find the grandson's social media account. You bitches are amazing!

by Anonymousreply 103July 10, 2022 9:41 PM

I have to wonder if today, so many years after that Joan Rivers clip, does Justin feel differently about Bette, at the very least appreciative of her incredible body of work.

by Anonymousreply 104July 10, 2022 11:16 PM

Bette should've pulled The Nanny on the whole lot.

by Anonymousreply 105July 10, 2022 11:50 PM

BD Hyman and Maria, Dietrich's daughter, remind me of a DL post (quoting a bio book) about Lana Turner who was thrilled to learn that her daughter was gay because it meant her daughter was not going to run off with a man.. She felt she could keep her daughter close this way.

And Lana was right. Her daughter and the daughter's partner were always there for her right up to the end. And they all loved each other.

by Anonymousreply 106July 11, 2022 1:27 AM

Bette didn't deserve her family. And all of her husbands were shits. She got dealt a bad hand in her private life.

by Anonymousreply 107July 11, 2022 1:43 AM

R107 Agreed

by Anonymousreply 108July 11, 2022 3:06 AM

Hmm...BD says in the Joan interview that she grew up with a crazy movie star and in this interview earlier she says that Bette was "never" a movie star at home, just "a working mother" who insisted that "Hollywood is a location, not a lifestyle."

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by Anonymousreply 109July 11, 2022 3:20 AM

Yes, BD was quite contradictory in her interviews. There's one from 1989 where she insists she wrote the book in an attempt to reconcile with her mother and this was the only way of communicating with her and being listened to, and in another interview a couple of years later she claims she wrote the book in order to get her mother out of her life. She also said in one interview that Bette was never abusive and she had an idyllic childhood, then she claimed otherwise in a different interview. Perhaps BD is mentally ill and a pathological liar. Could be genetics, or maybe Bette's violent marriages traumatically affected BD (and Bette and BD didn't realize it).

by Anonymousreply 110July 11, 2022 5:25 AM

Whatever happened to Joans Grandson Cooper?

by Anonymousreply 111July 11, 2022 5:43 AM

Preach it sister!

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by Anonymousreply 112July 11, 2022 6:25 AM

I should add that I'm not defending Bette's daughter at all. I think she was wrong to write her book, and I agree with others who have speculated that she wrote it thinking her mother would be gone by the time it went to print, but Bette survived and BD had the book published anyway. She likely wrote it for money and revisionist self-righteous spite, and it was a nasty thing to do.

by Anonymousreply 113July 11, 2022 6:32 AM

BD exemplified the worst of 80's hair and fashion. Watching the interview, one gets lost struggling to understand these choices.

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by Anonymousreply 114July 11, 2022 6:36 AM

BD now looks like Baby Jane with a Mar-a-Lago makeover

by Anonymousreply 115July 11, 2022 6:43 AM

He's got Bette Davis Eyes....

by Anonymousreply 116July 11, 2022 6:53 AM

[quote]does Justin feel differently about Bette

If she did indeed throw him in a room for not eating his dinner and stuck a hot poker in his face, then I doubt it.

by Anonymousreply 117July 11, 2022 7:05 AM

We have something unfortunate like this going on in Spain right now. The daughter of the greatest Spanish Diva of our time (Rocio Jurado who died in 2006) now has a TV series in which every week she dishes the dirt about all the family drama during Jurado's life. The daughter sounds genuinely insane.

It's very distasteful. So of course I'm there for all of it.

So far the best info IMO is that Jurado's last husband (the drunken bull fighter) hit on the daughter's husband.

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by Anonymousreply 118July 11, 2022 7:39 AM

That party photo is hilarious, what a diverse group of people.

Liz T looks like a burnt baked potato, but Malcom McDowall actually looks hot, he was still married to Mary Steenburgen, who is behind Liz.

Stephen Collins is in the background, didn't he go to jail for child molestation? His ex-wife is the woman with the red hair, forgot her name, she was an actress.

I don't recognize the woman in the silver dress or the man near her who looks like a thin Dick Van Patten.

by Anonymousreply 119July 11, 2022 7:45 AM

Every little joke, every little jab, every harmless facetious remark, they took to heart, not because they were stupid, but because they thought they were smart.

by Anonymousreply 120July 11, 2022 8:00 AM

r119 the silver dress woman was explained upthread. Kathryn Sermak, Bette's personal assistant. I believe the man sitting next to Sermak was that Mexican lawyer Liz was dating at the time.

by Anonymousreply 121July 11, 2022 8:14 AM

Bette (as well as Joan) was homophobic early in her career but became an ally in her later years and had several gay friends.

by Anonymousreply 122July 11, 2022 8:30 AM

Yes, the guy to the right in the party photo is Elizabeth's fiance at the time, Mexican attorney Victor Luna.

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by Anonymousreply 123July 11, 2022 8:47 AM

The most prominent examples of this phenomenon are children who remained attached to and dependant upon the star parent long after reaching adulthood (Riva, Davis, and Crawford). That pattern raises two questions:: 1) if the parent was so bad why did the child expose herself and her children to the parent long after reaching adulthood and 2) are the books merely a continuation of their financial dependency in the parent?

In addition, does this phenomenon feed on society’s sexism? No one has made much money demonising a celebrity father even though I’m sure many male stars have been horrible parents. Perhaps we only blame women for being bad parents.

by Anonymousreply 124July 11, 2022 8:59 AM

Financial dependence on a wealthy parent (star or not) lasts a lifetime. The parent uses wealth and security to control.

Even if one has found one's way in the world there's always the parent's sizeable estate up for grabs.

by Anonymousreply 125July 11, 2022 9:58 AM

R124 The Joan Rivers interview above contradicts two of your assertions.

First, BD says that she was close to Bette, even with her being a "crazy movie star" and remained close to her all her life until Bette attacked her grandsons. She says that was when she wrote the book to drive Bette away. She says that Bette vowed to break up her marriage and get the kids to be taken away by the father so Bette could have BD all to herself, and so that story sounds more like Bette was an obsessive and possive smothering mother rather than someone horribly abusive to BD. (It sounds crazy, mind you. If Bette said something like that, like "I am going to get your kids taken away so I can have you all to myself," I wonder if she may have been just speaking hyperbolically as a way of telling BD she loves her? Bette does say in the Cavett interview above that letting go of children as they grow up is the hardest thing to do.)

Second...

[quote] No one has made much money demonising a celebrity father even though I’m sure many male stars have been horrible parents. Perhaps we only blame women for being bad parents.

Joan Rivers had Bing Crosby's and Frank Sinatra's sons on to talk about how horribly abusive they were. Crosby's son said his father was ashamed of him being overweight, and he weighed him every week, beat him if he was over his goal weight, and ultimately hired a doctor to drug him with amphetamines, which led to lifelong drug addiction. That's at least as fucked up as what Joan allegedly did, although a bit short of transforming into the devil. 🙄

Frank Sinatra has a legacy that's about on par with Joan and Bette, but I wouldn't say Bing does. I was born in 1978, after all their careers were basically over, and Crosby is the only one I know almost nothing about. So it's not a surprise to me that his story is no Mommie Dearest. The only people who seem to care much that Joan was abusive today are a lot of gay men and some women, and only because Mommie Dearest is so campy and people see it as humorous. So the real way Joan has been demonized in the public eye is the way she's been mocked and turned into a caricature. And Bette—I would bet most people have never heard she was allegedly abusive. Her daughter's book seems to have been pretty much rejected in favor of Bette's positive movie star legacy.

So in sum, I feel like Joan is the only one whose abuse allegations really stuck, and that's really only because an over-the-top movie was made about them. Crosby, Sinatra, Davis and any others didn't stick so much, and so I think Joan's story is an exception and not demonstration of broad sexism.

by Anonymousreply 126July 11, 2022 12:30 PM

Current celebs who have been visited by CPS include Angie and Brad, Will and Jaida, Britney, Robin Thicke, Lisa Marie Presley, Halle Berry, Adam Levine, Mariah and Nick Cannon, Drew Barrymore's parents...

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by Anonymousreply 127July 11, 2022 12:35 PM

What a CUNT!

by Anonymousreply 128July 11, 2022 12:52 PM

R126. How is that any contradiction of what I said? BD even allowed her children to appear in films with Bette. Her life was quite closely linked with her mother’s by her own choice.

The only allegations that really made an impression on the public are the ones against Bette and Joan.

by Anonymousreply 129July 11, 2022 12:56 PM

What Bing did to his kids was far more heinous than anything Crawford or Davis ever did.

by Anonymousreply 130July 11, 2022 1:39 PM

R117, you should ask him on his instagram.

by Anonymousreply 131July 11, 2022 3:30 PM

Why would anyone believe what this vindictive nutcase says about her mother? It's so awful and disgusting how Bette supported this fundie retard daughter of hers comfortably for YEARS, and she has the gall to trash her on a national platform. Bette seems tough and a bit distant, but not remotely abusive. Her biggest failure as a parent was not cutting off this bitch earlier.

by Anonymousreply 132July 11, 2022 3:36 PM

And Bette was no homophobe. Neither was Joan. A person who grew up in the early 20th century throwing around "fag" a few times doesn't make them hateful towards gays, only Gen Z who thinks that words mean more than actions would believe so. Most people casually said fag until maybe the 90s.

by Anonymousreply 133July 11, 2022 3:41 PM

Remind Justin to tell you about the time he looked into the heart of an arsehole, R131.

by Anonymousreply 134July 11, 2022 4:12 PM

R111, he's FINE!, he sends his love.

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by Anonymousreply 135July 11, 2022 4:13 PM

"What Bing did to his kids was far more heinous than anything Crawford or Davis ever did."

That prick Jerry Lewis, as well.

by Anonymousreply 136July 11, 2022 6:23 PM

[quote]Bette seems tough and a bit distant, but not remotely abusive. Her biggest failure as a parent was not cutting off this bitch earlier.

Bette probably would've died broke if she hadn't cut BD off when she did. She died with just over a million dollars in the bank, which was an outrageously low sum for a star of Bette's stature.

by Anonymousreply 137July 11, 2022 6:25 PM

R137 Bette took on all those demeaning hag projects even after she had serious health issues to keep her leech family in comfortable money. She even sent BD and husband’s kids to private school. She was beyond generous - as someone said, Jerry Lewis left his some of his kids homeless.

by Anonymousreply 138July 11, 2022 6:56 PM

R133 ranting against Gen Z but defending the homophobia of old straight people. Most old people voted for Prop 8 and other anti-gay ballot initiatives

by Anonymousreply 139July 11, 2022 7:02 PM

Wow, Cooper grew up to be a handsome man at R135!

by Anonymousreply 140July 11, 2022 7:18 PM

True r138. Bette spent her life supporting her family and didn't have much money left over on herself. She took all those shit roles in her later years because she had to keep paying bills. She should've been a very well-off woman. Garbo and Hepburn were smart to never have children.

by Anonymousreply 141July 11, 2022 7:19 PM

I think Bette loved to work and would have taken all those projects on anyway, regardless of family obligations. Nothing wrong with that, except for the sad stains it left on her later resume.

by Anonymousreply 142July 11, 2022 8:00 PM

There were very few outlets for older actresses back then. Today, a big star actress of a certain age could get a streaming series but then there were only three networks.

by Anonymousreply 143July 11, 2022 8:03 PM

R138, Jerry Lewis was a POS.

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by Anonymousreply 144July 11, 2022 8:08 PM

[quote]r1 She says Bette was a literal witch who used magic spells to punish her enemies, and she says that she saw Bette literally transform into Satan, with demonic claws.

Honestly, that sounds about accurate.

by Anonymousreply 145July 11, 2022 8:12 PM

Who's face is on a postage stamp? Bing Crosby's. The public likes to believe he was a warm, endearing entertainer, with a host of Christmas songs, movies and TV specials. He played "nice guys" on the screen, for the most part.

Who's face isn't on a postage stamp? Joan Crawford's.

Herein lies the sexism.

by Anonymousreply 146July 11, 2022 8:37 PM

Bing Crosby is familiar to more people because he had duo careers as a singer and an actor… plus everyone’s seen WHITE CHRISTMAS.

Not everyone’s seen MILDRED PIERCE. (Or TROG.)

by Anonymousreply 147July 11, 2022 8:40 PM

Hah!

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by Anonymousreply 148July 11, 2022 8:40 PM

I have so enjoyed this thread. Thanks, bitches.

by Anonymousreply 149July 11, 2022 8:45 PM

Bette continued to work even after all of her illnesses. She looked ancient and her speech was affected by the stroke, but she kept plugging along.

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by Anonymousreply 150July 11, 2022 9:00 PM

Bette's stroke was caused by alcohol withdrawal, when she was still in the hospital recovering from her mastectomy. It could've been easily prevented if the hospital staff were aware that she was a decades-long alcoholic and at very high risk for going into withdrawal. It was completely avoidable if the proper precautions had been taken.

by Anonymousreply 151July 11, 2022 9:02 PM

Bette calling her grandson a "fag" qualifies the guy DL ICON status. Would lov for him him drop in here, whether he is "that way" or not. Chile!

by Anonymousreply 152July 11, 2022 9:06 PM

Heh, true, r152. He could put together a whole cabaret act: Bette Davis Called Me a Fag! Tell me it wouldn't sell out all over the place. Just try to tell me.

by Anonymousreply 153July 11, 2022 10:17 PM

How r151 by giving her vodka in her IV?

by Anonymousreply 154July 11, 2022 10:18 PM

[quote]Who's face isn't on a postage stamp? Joan Crawford's.

And yet more people in Hollywood licked Crawford more than a stamp.

by Anonymousreply 155July 11, 2022 10:24 PM

Seriously, they can't even give a bitch a stamp? The hell is wrong with this government?

by Anonymousreply 156July 11, 2022 10:25 PM

I'm frankly shocked that Crawford hasn't been commemorated with a stamp. Even Greta Garbo, a Swede, has had a stamp.

by Anonymousreply 157July 11, 2022 10:52 PM

Her image is way too controversial, since her child abuse habits were long ago revealed.

Though a commemorative Mother’s Day stamp might sell well.

by Anonymousreply 158July 11, 2022 10:54 PM

As long as she's holding an axe r158.

by Anonymousreply 159July 11, 2022 10:57 PM

They could make this into a stamp in her memory.

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by Anonymousreply 160July 11, 2022 11:03 PM

But weren't Bing's abusive father shenanigans similarly revealed? And he got a stamp. Not to mention the amoral and mob-related Frank Sinatra who's also gotten a stamp.

by Anonymousreply 161July 11, 2022 11:04 PM

People’s personal lives and opinions should have nothing to do with their artistic merit, this is a very new line of thinking being enforced across the board by puritanical Gen Zs.

by Anonymousreply 162July 11, 2022 11:08 PM

Oh, Garbo has more than that, r157...

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by Anonymousreply 163July 11, 2022 11:15 PM

Rally it is...

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by Anonymousreply 164July 11, 2022 11:20 PM

r154 there are medications that can prevent DTs and get the person through withdrawal.

by Anonymousreply 165July 11, 2022 11:54 PM

Wait - there’s some Tijuana stamp (or something) featuring a pic from one of her nudies.

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by Anonymousreply 166July 12, 2022 1:05 AM

JCJC

by Anonymousreply 167July 12, 2022 11:32 AM

and JFC

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by Anonymousreply 168July 12, 2022 11:33 AM

Is that really ELizabeth "AID$" Taylor in the group pic, or was it inserted later?

And where is Larry "12 thick inches" Fortensky?

by Anonymousreply 169July 12, 2022 11:59 AM

Liz was still on the hooch and diet pills in that pic. She hadn't gone to dry out yet and met Larry.

by Anonymousreply 170July 12, 2022 12:40 PM

Bette was pregnant with BD while filming the movie Deception. In her pregnancy bliss, liittle did she know what that little spawn would do to her later in life.

by Anonymousreply 171July 13, 2022 1:52 AM

She was a fun gal. She liked a little smacky smacky. "Sure, baby, me too," I said. Nothing wrong with a little fun like that.

by Anonymousreply 172July 13, 2022 3:10 AM

A dozen W&Ws to r52. 😂

by Anonymousreply 173July 13, 2022 8:19 PM

Bette didn't deserve her family. She really went through a lot with them, and they did nothing but leech off of her.

by Anonymousreply 174September 5, 2022 6:07 PM

BPD Hyman is an annoying cunt

by Anonymousreply 175September 5, 2022 6:17 PM

Love his hair!

by Anonymousreply 176September 5, 2022 6:19 PM

[quote]BD was close to her mother but she fell in with a man twice her age at the age of 16. If I had to guess, it was his idea to create a narrative similar to Christina Crawfords to get a book and media deal going. When the media career didn't happen , they shifted to religion for the grift.

100% agree. They were always a couple of grifters who didn't want to work at any kind of real job.

by Anonymousreply 177September 5, 2022 6:30 PM
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