We must sound the alarm. (where the hell is Kamala-mama?!). There is an increasing shortage of reasonably masculine and suitable bottoms as this crisis claims more homos by the day.
Crisis in the gay community: men wearing dangly earrings
|by Anonymous||reply 167||December 6, 2022 1:54 AM|
A fabulous eldersister once said:
"Chandelier earrings and picture hat weather'
|by Anonymous||reply 1||July 9, 2022 7:40 AM|
Shut up, Grump Old Unfucked Man. Nobody wants to fuck you, NOBODY. Not old, not young, not masculine not femme. YOU ARE A NASTY SELF HATING STUPID TWAT.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||July 9, 2022 7:49 AM|
Not to mention the pearl necklaces. SMH.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||July 9, 2022 7:51 AM|
R2 = extremely triggered fem power bttm because (s)he loves the dangly earrings isn’t getting quality D.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||July 9, 2022 7:53 AM|
* AND isn’t
|by Anonymous||reply 5||July 9, 2022 7:53 AM|
R2 has STATED her BOUNDARIES and will NOT be SILENCED‼️👩🏾🎤
|by Anonymous||reply 6||July 9, 2022 7:57 AM|
It's not exclusive to gay men. Tanner Malmedal from the Dope or Nope Youtube channel has been sporting those exact type of dangling cross earrings for years, and he's straight.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||July 9, 2022 8:22 AM|
😂😂 it does look kind of dumb.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||July 9, 2022 8:27 AM|
Biggest boner killer for me right now. The second I see that dangling earring, I’m out.
I would never say this outloud or in person to any of my gay friends here in NYC, but let’s be real: it’s quite seriously the faggiest look.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||July 9, 2022 8:38 AM|
What can I say? It’s a look.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||July 9, 2022 8:41 AM|
R7, one look at that dude’s pics and I’m not so sure he’s straight…. Sussss
|by Anonymous||reply 11||July 9, 2022 8:42 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 12||July 9, 2022 8:42 AM|
If the guy is cute, has a phat ass, and knows how to carry a conversation.. who cares about a little earring??
|by Anonymous||reply 13||July 9, 2022 8:44 AM|
R13, for all the same reasons that’d be a turn off if that same guy had an exaggerated lisp and flamboyant way of talking / acting.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||July 9, 2022 8:49 AM|
They may as well be hanging panties from their ears lol
|by Anonymous||reply 15||July 9, 2022 8:50 AM|
🛑 STOP 👏🏽 POLICING 👏🏽GENDER👏🏽 NORMS ❗️
|by Anonymous||reply 16||July 9, 2022 8:52 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 17||July 9, 2022 8:53 AM|
Op better not be E d w 1 n A. Because we all know that sea cow loves those dangling earrings.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||July 9, 2022 8:55 AM|
What about the caftans?
|by Anonymous||reply 19||July 9, 2022 8:59 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 20||July 9, 2022 9:03 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 21||July 9, 2022 9:07 AM|
R21, who looks at that and thinks that is actually hot or sexy?
|by Anonymous||reply 22||July 9, 2022 6:12 PM|
Luckily I've never seen a gay guy wearing those, and I live in a very gay city
|by Anonymous||reply 23||July 9, 2022 6:13 PM|
Low breeding indicator
|by Anonymous||reply 24||July 9, 2022 6:17 PM|
I wonder how many BONER KILLERS the posters on the this thread contain in their looks and on their body. And they are unaware. The mind boggles.
- unfucked self-hating aging gay incels say what?
|by Anonymous||reply 25||July 9, 2022 6:20 PM|
R23, they are unfortunately ubiquitous in NYC. Esp the cross earrings.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||July 9, 2022 6:20 PM|
Nose piercings on men are even worse. Especially septum ones.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||July 9, 2022 6:20 PM|
R25, well more power to you for wearing your ugly super fem accessories. That doesn’t mean we need to fuck you.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||July 9, 2022 6:21 PM|
Septum piercings are worse. They are not hot or sexy and I hate seeing guys who flair their nostrils to show them off. It reminds me too much of cows. Something many gay men and straight men agree is tattoos and facial piercings are not hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||July 9, 2022 6:39 PM|
R29, I automatically dehumanize people who have septum piercings upon seeing them for the first time. They all look like bulls to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||July 9, 2022 6:43 PM|
I find guys like OP tedious, who push that stereotype that us gay men can only lust after hot, straight alpha males who repress any feminine trait.
Stop that stereotype bullshit.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||July 9, 2022 6:48 PM|
Not OP but dangly earrings don't just look feminine, they look stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||July 9, 2022 7:14 PM|
Get off my lawn, young whippersnappers with your dangling earrings!
|by Anonymous||reply 33||July 9, 2022 7:59 PM|
I hope r16 is ironic.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||July 9, 2022 8:03 PM|
Pearl necklaces and dangle earrings I don't get it.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||July 11, 2022 3:23 AM|
R31, imagine OP having another opinion. Just imagine that!
No one is stopping you from wearing your dangly earrings and pearlz honey.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||July 14, 2022 8:28 PM|
[quote] [R31], imagine OP having another opinion. Just imagine that!
Is that how you justify trolling, another opinion?
|by Anonymous||reply 37||July 14, 2022 8:34 PM|
Don’t get me started on this nail polish trend too. Nail polish + pearls + danglin earrings + baby bopper tanks + fibro support group style hair color = 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
|by Anonymous||reply 38||July 14, 2022 8:44 PM|
Septum piercings sort of broadcast that your hole can accept forearms.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||July 14, 2022 10:09 PM|
Monkey pox is a crisis in the gay community OP. Dangly earrings is not.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||July 15, 2022 1:40 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 41||July 15, 2022 2:46 AM|
R40 = dangly earring wearing monkeypox spreader
|by Anonymous||reply 42||July 17, 2022 6:04 AM|
I have never felt compelled to wear any earrings and I've been gay for many, many decades. Does this have something to do with the trans movement?
|by Anonymous||reply 43||July 17, 2022 6:08 AM|
^^ Actually I should have described it as a trans epidemic. It's an epidemic, not a movement.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||July 17, 2022 6:08 AM|
R43, I’ve pondered this myself. Could be that or just the overall loosening of gender norms.
I also can’t help but wonder to what extent COVID played a role in this. I feel like I’ve seen this explosion of these sorta gender-bending type styles and behaviors in the last 2 years….
|by Anonymous||reply 45||July 17, 2022 6:11 AM|
Very common on straight influencers like Mr. Vinnie Hacker.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||July 17, 2022 6:18 AM|
This has been going on since the '80s.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||July 17, 2022 6:22 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 48||July 17, 2022 6:25 AM|
You're not gonna believe...how out of hand...it's gonna be.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||July 17, 2022 6:25 AM|
It really needs to stop. Maybe the elder gays and Gen X’ers can collaborate to start outreach and education efforts.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||July 17, 2022 6:27 AM|
Eldergays, this trend actually proliferated among young straight men first so it is hardly a gay crisis.
Unless you are a really pretty male you should leave this alone. It looks awful on guys with rugged looking features.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||July 17, 2022 7:14 AM|
Thank you so much, 1985.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||July 17, 2022 7:17 AM|
Dangling earrings are the bomb, because queer ya’ll!
|by Anonymous||reply 53||July 17, 2022 2:16 PM|
Guys with dangly earrings, tattoos, and painted nails.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||July 17, 2022 3:41 PM|
Big enuff 4 y’all hunties?!
It’s Miss @thequeerindigo
|by Anonymous||reply 55||July 18, 2022 2:14 AM|
OP is danglephobic.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||July 18, 2022 2:30 AM|
R55 Isn't she sweet!
|by Anonymous||reply 57||July 18, 2022 2:34 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 58||July 18, 2022 6:23 AM|
The eXTTraordinary @thejeffreymarsh
|by Anonymous||reply 59||July 18, 2022 9:40 AM|
Xmas in July
|by Anonymous||reply 60||July 18, 2022 9:42 AM|
It's like a lot of things: good-looking men can pull it off and unattractive men can't. See r47 and r48, respectively.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||July 18, 2022 9:47 AM|
I can take it or leave it. It's not one of the outward indicators that would send me screaming/rending my garments/running in the opposite direction.
That infected open wound at R60, is a whole catalogue of wrong things, the dangly earring absolutely the least of them.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||July 18, 2022 9:59 AM|
Monkeypox is on the loose exclusively among males, most identifying as gay and earrings are s crisis?
|by Anonymous||reply 63||July 18, 2022 2:11 PM|
R63 sounds like a Danglepox denier.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||July 18, 2022 2:37 PM|
R61 I don't see any good-looking men, tho.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||July 18, 2022 5:39 PM|
Fair enough, R65. I think that Rob Lowe, certainly when he was younger, was generally thought to be attractive though there will always be some who simply disagree with these things.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||July 18, 2022 5:42 PM|
My gay younger brother just got his ears pierced and purchased a cross earring just like the original photo so I guess you are right about the trend. I think it's adorable, but he is only 17 and still discovering his style.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||July 18, 2022 5:53 PM|
I’ve only seen this on gay porn stars. Then again, I don’t hang out with prissy queens.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||July 18, 2022 5:55 PM|
R67, you should intervene before it’s too late. Save your brother.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||July 19, 2022 4:44 AM|
R66 Oh, sorry - Rob was hot, I got the photos mixed up.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||July 19, 2022 4:52 AM|
This is not even a slightly new trend, it's been coming back for at least 5 years.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||July 19, 2022 4:54 AM|
Excuse me...excuse me, OP. Dangly earrings are a sign of growing up and maturity. Think of what they meant to Ann Marie when her father gave her a pair.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||July 19, 2022 4:55 AM|
Kundalini: Serpent Power
|by Anonymous||reply 73||July 20, 2022 11:48 AM|
Vermeer redux: Boi with a
|by Anonymous||reply 74||July 20, 2022 11:50 AM|
This has been around since the 80's. Style trends tend to get recycled.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||July 20, 2022 11:52 AM|
Aussie tennis player Kokkinakis, who allegedly banged Stanimal's woman, wears a cross in one ear. Frankly, I don't believe he's ever banged a woman. He's always pinged to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||July 20, 2022 12:29 PM|
R76: quite expressive
|by Anonymous||reply 77||July 20, 2022 12:34 PM|
Earring *and* rainbow wristband
|by Anonymous||reply 78||July 20, 2022 12:40 PM|
it's funny to see all the butthurt squealing in this thread about old gays. butthurt babies squealing and knowing they never get their nelly asses laid gives me a boner. 😂😁🤪
|by Anonymous||reply 79||July 20, 2022 2:54 PM|
Dresses are worse. Heavy makeup plus danglers? Ugh
|by Anonymous||reply 80||July 20, 2022 3:15 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 81||July 20, 2022 8:38 PM|
In the 80s it was one ear but now it's often two.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||July 21, 2022 9:37 PM|
Swing out Sister
|by Anonymous||reply 83||July 22, 2022 6:43 AM|
Category is: 70s Studio 54 realness
|by Anonymous||reply 84||July 22, 2022 6:47 AM|
Very funny, OP, but a crucifix in one ear is hardly a pair of shoulder brushing chandelier earrings which your post suggests
|by Anonymous||reply 85||July 22, 2022 11:24 AM|
What's the thing about wearing full women's clothing and hairstyle, with a beard? Looks like the bearded lady in the circus.
|by Anonymous||reply 86||July 23, 2022 6:55 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 87||July 23, 2022 7:02 PM|
The guy at r81 better be a bottom. He has a great body but no package whatsoever.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||July 23, 2022 7:09 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 89||July 23, 2022 7:21 PM|
DL Fave Jerreth @jerreths
|by Anonymous||reply 90||July 24, 2022 9:41 AM|
^ since we’re on the topic of Jerreth [Colton Haynes’s first known bf]: recently photographer Doug Inglish did a then-and-now shoot. This is Jerreth from around that Colton era
|by Anonymous||reply 91||July 24, 2022 9:44 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 92||July 24, 2022 9:44 AM|
^ okay, that’s it. Just thought I’d share
|by Anonymous||reply 93||July 24, 2022 9:44 AM|
Courtesy of Crayola
|by Anonymous||reply 94||July 24, 2022 10:22 AM|
R81 was cute but tiniest package I’ve ever seen
|by Anonymous||reply 95||July 24, 2022 10:41 AM|
R83 oh my sides. 😂😅😂
|by Anonymous||reply 96||July 24, 2022 10:53 AM|
R95 I know! You need this to see👇
|by Anonymous||reply 97||July 24, 2022 10:57 AM|
Serving Botticelli realness
|by Anonymous||reply 98||July 24, 2022 11:39 AM|
R81 is Ashley reese
|by Anonymous||reply 99||July 24, 2022 9:43 PM|
Move like water
|by Anonymous||reply 100||July 26, 2022 7:31 AM|
Cat poop danglies.
I think Carrie Fisher would have approved of this article.
|by Anonymous||reply 101||July 26, 2022 7:52 AM|
Freshly recovered from Monkey Pox
|by Anonymous||reply 102||August 7, 2022 4:14 PM|
R102 will be back to taking anon loads next weekend. Nothing’s gonna keep him down!
|by Anonymous||reply 103||August 7, 2022 4:26 PM|
OP- I'm far more offended by his UGLY haircut than the earrings.
|by Anonymous||reply 104||August 7, 2022 5:15 PM|
If you have cats, dogs, and/or children, dangling earrings are dangerous to those loved one. And they might be stuck in old people's dentures like those of OP too. Be sensible and be kind to the helpless and the elderly.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||August 7, 2022 9:35 PM|
Chunky, rather than dangly
|by Anonymous||reply 106||August 12, 2022 2:51 PM|
Dangly earrings can get caught in pencil sharpeners and wood chippers, super dangerous.
|by Anonymous||reply 107||August 12, 2022 3:33 PM|
This bottom can't even look at his top because top's dangling earring is so ridiculous looking:
|by Anonymous||reply 108||August 12, 2022 3:41 PM|
I, for one, fully support dangly cross earrings!
|by Anonymous||reply 109||August 12, 2022 3:49 PM|
Lol at r108
|by Anonymous||reply 110||August 12, 2022 3:55 PM|
My old ass has that same dangly cross earring.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||August 12, 2022 4:59 PM|
R108, I know Austin Wolfe get a lot of shit on here, but I always found him. That said, I puked a little in my mouth seeing those earrings on him.
Also; tops should never, ever wear dangly earrings. Bad enough with all the bottoms doing it. Def a top disqualification event.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||August 12, 2022 5:58 PM|
Found him hot *
|by Anonymous||reply 113||August 12, 2022 5:58 PM|
R113 Good, I thought maybe he. was always getting lost
|by Anonymous||reply 114||August 13, 2022 6:08 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 115||September 11, 2022 6:08 AM|
Dangly earrings are OK if the dude is muscular. What's really faggy these days is multicolored nail polish on an otherwise masculine-looking man. It's the trans erasure of masculine gay men.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||September 11, 2022 6:23 AM|
R116: yes! Nail polish on men’s hands is so much more off putting than dangly earrings
|by Anonymous||reply 117||September 11, 2022 6:34 AM|
Dangly everything darling
|by Anonymous||reply 118||September 19, 2022 1:30 PM|
Dangly is just too much.
|by Anonymous||reply 119||September 19, 2022 1:44 PM|
Thankfully I'm not around the desperate types who would wear those.
|by Anonymous||reply 120||September 19, 2022 1:45 PM|
Bartender on Animal Kingdom had one. It was fucking distracting. Took the focus from his face to what's that thing hanging off his ear? I feel that way about face piercings in general. People who have them want to look stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 121||September 19, 2022 1:53 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 122||September 19, 2022 2:04 PM|
Even axe-wielding freaks like the dangly earrings!
|by Anonymous||reply 123||September 20, 2022 6:27 AM|
^ ‘Tacky that’s really tacky’
|by Anonymous||reply 124||September 20, 2022 8:15 AM|
Violet hair + Dangly shoulder duster = Double Whammies!
|by Anonymous||reply 125||September 28, 2022 4:53 AM|
I dont mind them but then again I wore earrings back in my youth.Im too old now,but if I were 21 again Id damn sure sport one. Honestly,it sounds like some of you bitches never had an ounce of fun.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||September 28, 2022 5:19 AM|
Everyone seems to be struggling to be special and/or unique.
If we accepted what is already unique about us, we'd already be special enough.
|by Anonymous||reply 127||September 28, 2022 5:30 AM|
Subtle. Barely there
|by Anonymous||reply 128||October 3, 2022 9:07 AM|
Mmm-hmm, gurl you KNOW daz right.
|by Anonymous||reply 129||October 3, 2022 12:37 PM|
R129: quite funny
|by Anonymous||reply 130||October 4, 2022 5:42 AM|
R129, call me petty or obnoxiously picky, etc, but that headband and earrings killed what was otherwise a very hot pic to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 131||October 4, 2022 6:09 AM|
‘HOE me Reno I’m Scared!’
|by Anonymous||reply 132||October 14, 2022 4:26 PM|
This guy is straight, Chase Stobbe.
|by Anonymous||reply 133||October 14, 2022 4:33 PM|
R133: good for him to get in touch with his Yin side
|by Anonymous||reply 134||October 14, 2022 4:48 PM|
R132, doesn’t Mario the guy with the earring identify as straight? Lol
R133, I subscribed to his OF earlier this year. It’s all him fucking women (blegh), but his physique and those nipples are incredible.
|by Anonymous||reply 135||October 14, 2022 6:15 PM|
Dangly, in motion
|by Anonymous||reply 136||October 21, 2022 10:02 AM|
It looks stupid. But then again, I find the fashion of alot of 20something gays to be ridiculous. Unflattering mom jeans and tanks on fat/out of shape bodies, etc, so what do I know?
|by Anonymous||reply 137||October 21, 2022 10:32 AM|
It's enough to put me off.
|by Anonymous||reply 138||October 21, 2022 12:32 PM|
R2 has a Dangling Earring Etsy Shoppe.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||October 21, 2022 12:37 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 140||October 21, 2022 6:19 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 141||October 21, 2022 6:33 PM|
Huddy wears them. Don't think he's gay tho.
|by Anonymous||reply 142||October 22, 2022 12:52 AM|
R142: a pretty straight boy with dangly
|by Anonymous||reply 143||October 22, 2022 4:16 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 144||October 22, 2022 4:18 AM|
Just a few ideas...
|by Anonymous||reply 145||October 22, 2022 4:20 AM|
it's sported by the unfit
|by Anonymous||reply 146||October 22, 2022 9:35 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 147||October 22, 2022 10:28 AM|
R146 and the trendy uncuts.
|by Anonymous||reply 148||October 23, 2022 1:05 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 149||October 26, 2022 4:49 AM|
This dangly shit needs to stop.
|by Anonymous||reply 150||October 26, 2022 6:03 AM|
This was a thing in the 80s.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||October 26, 2022 6:32 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 152||October 27, 2022 7:06 PM|
R39 - that is funny on so many levels. I laughed myself silly when I read it. Bravo!
|by Anonymous||reply 153||October 27, 2022 7:37 PM|
OP sounds sheltered or young. Dangly earrings have been a thing on men (gay or straight) since at least the 80s.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||October 27, 2022 7:40 PM|
^ and since when were they “a thing” on men AFTER say the early 90s? Uh, never, until now.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||October 28, 2022 6:16 AM|
R151 Yeah, usually only one, though. (I think.) Rob Lowe in St. Elmo's Fire, I copied that.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||October 28, 2022 3:40 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 157||October 29, 2022 2:31 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 158||October 29, 2022 8:35 PM|
Next Big Thang
|by Anonymous||reply 159||November 1, 2022 5:01 AM|
To be I can usually tell if I see a pic of a guy on grindr with an earring that they are 'queer'/bi or into ftms. Seems to be a staple for that crowd...
|by Anonymous||reply 160||November 1, 2022 5:11 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 161||November 1, 2022 5:24 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 162||November 1, 2022 10:31 AM|
As a matter of fact actor Cody Saintgnue’s sexual orientation hasn’t been determined [but there’s loads of rumors about him of course]
I just thought this pic by Matthew Brookes is quite stunning and deserves to be posted
From ‘Man About Town UK’ magazine
|by Anonymous||reply 163||November 6, 2022 1:22 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 164||November 23, 2022 7:06 AM|
I find neon boy @ R162 totes adorbs!
|by Anonymous||reply 165||November 26, 2022 11:17 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 166||December 6, 2022 1:48 AM|
No no no no no no no no
|by Anonymous||reply 167||December 6, 2022 1:54 AM|