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Tom Ford - I Still Fucked Women Even After Coming Out As Gay

Telling Vogue

"I had girlfriends throughout high school, felt that I was in love with them, and had a great sex life."

"Even occasionally after I began dating men, I continued to sleep with women off and on, and while definitely gay, I am someone for whom sex is an expression of affection and love. I simply fall in love with men most of the time."

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by Anonymousreply 92July 5, 2022 12:19 AM

Didn't he say the opposite in the past, that he had never slept with a woman?

Maybe he just wants women to think they have a chance

by Anonymousreply 1July 1, 2022 2:40 AM

Didn't his late partner look like the crypt keeper?

by Anonymousreply 2July 1, 2022 2:42 AM

Shut up, Tom.

by Anonymousreply 3July 1, 2022 2:44 AM

Is he Bi then?

by Anonymousreply 4July 1, 2022 2:44 AM

Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I stay in my own lane.

by Anonymousreply 5July 1, 2022 2:44 AM

Tom, you've grown tiresome.

by Anonymousreply 6July 1, 2022 2:45 AM

HISSSS!!!!

OFF WITH HIS HEAD!!!!

STINKFISH!!!!!

HE FUCKED THE CRYPTKEEPER!!

HIS CLOTHES ARE GHASTLY!!!!

HISSSS!!!

HISSSS!!!

by Anonymousreply 7July 1, 2022 2:48 AM

This mary wants us to believe that he’s a top.

by Anonymousreply 8July 1, 2022 2:49 AM

Barf.

by Anonymousreply 9July 1, 2022 2:55 AM

Was he always openly gay his entire professional career or did he come out after much success.

by Anonymousreply 10July 1, 2022 2:55 AM

Sure, Jan

by Anonymousreply 11July 1, 2022 2:56 AM

R1 no, he talked about fucking girls in high school and how girls used to get abortions as a form of birth control.

by Anonymousreply 12July 1, 2022 2:58 AM

No, Tom Ford is not bisexual. He's gay. Always has been.

Jesus Christ, this is not news. A lot of gay guys have girlfriends in high school. Young gay men might be coming out earlier and earlier nowadays, but years ago when Tom Ford was in high school, most young men either stayed in the closet or had not yet begun to explore their sexuality. If he continued dating and/or fucking women in his 30s or 40s, then that would be a reason for discussion. However, admitting you had a girlfriend here and there in high school is not newsworthy not does it show that you are bisexual.

Hell, I had a couple of girlfriends in high school. Didn't matter. I knew I was gay and that girls were not going to last or go anywhere that had any long-term meaning. Tom Ford knew this too.

by Anonymousreply 13July 1, 2022 2:59 AM

Who was the blond friend he was often out and about with?

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by Anonymousreply 14July 1, 2022 3:00 AM

I can't imagine why a man his age feels the need to ever talk about the nuances of his sex life openly. Tom, no one cares. And its just embarrassing for everyone involved.

by Anonymousreply 15July 1, 2022 3:01 AM

R13 NO - he said when he was in New York and dating men - he still fucked women

by Anonymousreply 16July 1, 2022 3:01 AM

A children's authoress r14.

by Anonymousreply 17July 1, 2022 3:02 AM

WTF is Miss Ford talking about? She is a FAGGOT, just like I am. Please shut up, Miss Ford,

Thomasine, the Faggot make out KWEEN!!

by Anonymousreply 18July 1, 2022 3:05 AM

R16. If Tom Ford is admitting this now as a way to show that his sexuality is "fluid," it won't work. He's not fluid. He's gay even if he had a girlfriend in high school. Many guys, straight and gay, did. It means nothing.

I would question how many girlfriends he had when he moved to NYC. I'm sure it was few and far between. By the time Ford was in New York, he was gay just because he may have had a rare dalliance. And I doubt they were actual girlfriends.

This is bullshit. Tom is trying to jump on the "fluid" train. That train has long since left the station regarding Tom Ford. He's gay and always was.

by Anonymousreply 19July 1, 2022 3:06 AM

I think gay men say this because they’re desperate to fit in. I’m gay but not one of those gays.

by Anonymousreply 20July 1, 2022 3:07 AM

[quote]Tom is trying to jump on the "fluid" train.

Yeah, he needs to grow up.

by Anonymousreply 21July 1, 2022 3:08 AM

Attention whore alert!📢

by Anonymousreply 22July 1, 2022 3:10 AM

Did Tom tongue Fello's shitter?

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by Anonymousreply 23July 1, 2022 3:11 AM

He grew-up in Texas. You'd have to gave sex with women to survive.

Does anyone own any of his stuff? Fragrances, etc.?

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by Anonymousreply 24July 1, 2022 3:12 AM

Silly old queen!

by Anonymousreply 25July 1, 2022 3:13 AM

I would have fucked Cybil Shepherd back in the day.

by Anonymousreply 26July 1, 2022 3:13 AM

Tom Ford has always come across as a totally affected pretentious twat. That fake voice he puts on is hilarious.

His designs aren't so original either.

by Anonymousreply 27July 1, 2022 3:13 AM

He’s an asshole. Just go away already.

by Anonymousreply 28July 1, 2022 3:16 AM

Agreed, R27. Just cuz some gay men find him handsome doesn't make him any less ridiculous or unbearable. You know he has perfume on his pubes. He's a prissy fag. Silk sox = no sex.

by Anonymousreply 29July 1, 2022 3:18 AM

I would have fucked *Jeff Bridges* back in the day.

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by Anonymousreply 30July 1, 2022 3:18 AM

He really is an exhausting mess, isn't he.

by Anonymousreply 31July 1, 2022 3:21 AM

Him too.

by Anonymousreply 32July 1, 2022 3:30 AM

Oh look, it’s another successful gay man being trashed on Datalounge. What else is new?

by Anonymousreply 33July 1, 2022 3:49 AM

Mary is so tedious.

by Anonymousreply 34July 1, 2022 4:08 AM

Miss Thing… 🙄

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by Anonymousreply 35July 1, 2022 4:51 AM

The affected speech. How does he keep that up? It's exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 36July 1, 2022 5:22 AM

Women probably threw themselves at him. I used to fuck women too before i discovered ass. I never went back because i fell in love with ass attached to a guy.

by Anonymousreply 37July 1, 2022 5:55 AM

Yeah, I would have. FUCKED him. Back then. Dude is like 65 years old now. Who fucking cares if he likes pussy? Tom wants to be loved - is that so wrong?

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by Anonymousreply 38July 1, 2022 6:08 AM

#37, you are so deep and profound. What other body parts make you write sonnets?

by Anonymousreply 39July 1, 2022 6:36 AM

I have no doubt he did; men who engage in bisexuality despite knowing they innate sexual orientation tend to be raging narcissists. And he is that........

by Anonymousreply 40July 1, 2022 6:42 AM

[quote] I can't imagine why a man his age feels the need to ever talk about the nuances of his sex life openly.

What's amazing is that he's so successful, and he's always been so handsome, and yet he's so patently insecure. Imagine bragging at his age about how active your sex life (with girls!) was in high school!

Yves St. Laurent, Halston, and Alexander McQueen were all the same way. Whatever they had achieved, no matter how handsome they were, it was never enough for them. Maybe that's why they were all so successful.

by Anonymousreply 41July 1, 2022 6:50 AM

Tom Ford has always been on the sexuality is fluid train.

From August 2019:

[quote]I don't know if I'm bisexual but I do know I'm not entirely gay. My concept of sexuality isn't set in stone. I've lived with a man, Richard, for twenty-three years, I love him and I'm faithful so I'm not sleeping with women at this point in my life. If I were single though, I'm not so sure because there are a lot of women I'm attracted to. Let's say I'm 65% gay and 35% straight.

Why does 99% of the world revolve around heterosexuality? Because that’s how straight people see the rest of the world. “Datalounge thinks everyone is gay” because gays grouped together become centered in gay perspective. Bi/pan/fluid people will search for and embrace sexual fluidity in others.

Tom Ford labels himself gay because people assume he is anyway. Gray has become less about orientation over the years.

by Anonymousreply 42July 1, 2022 6:55 AM

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by Anonymousreply 43July 1, 2022 6:57 AM

Dear God, He sounds like a waste of perfectly good carbon.

by Anonymousreply 44July 1, 2022 6:57 AM

Present something r39 and i might compare it to a summer day 😍

by Anonymousreply 45July 1, 2022 6:57 AM

Most homosexuals are married to fish.

by Anonymousreply 46July 1, 2022 7:37 AM

^ posting from 1943 ^

by Anonymousreply 47July 1, 2022 7:39 AM

Probably true today too ^ if you look at it globally.

by Anonymousreply 48July 1, 2022 7:50 AM

Way back in the day, early 2000s, my husband, then boyfriend, was a waiter at Il Cantinori in the village in NYC. That's the restaurant that famously hosted Carrie Bradshaw's 35th birthday. Anyway it was and still is a big celebrity hangout. Tom Ford would come in and on handful of times get drunk and try to get my husband to go downstairs with him to the bathroom. My husband is such a prude. I would have totally done it. I find Tom Ford very handsome - especially then.

by Anonymousreply 49July 1, 2022 7:51 AM

I love that more than half the Eldergay Hissing on here involves calling Ford by female pronouns.

by Anonymousreply 50July 1, 2022 7:51 AM

R50 is fun at parties!

by Anonymousreply 51July 1, 2022 7:54 AM

Our gorgeous horse-hung fourth husband was an ex-fishfucker, a huge turn on for us!

Once the fish he almost got engaged to called and we answered the phone...... letting her know who was enjoying the chorizo now.

by Anonymousreply 52July 1, 2022 7:58 AM

Bisexuals are all deeply insecure........literally imagine being his age and feeling like you need to talk about fucking pussy in Vogue magazine. Maybe he has had one too many facelifts and its affected his brain.

by Anonymousreply 53July 1, 2022 8:26 AM

We should perhaps read the original, in a series disgustingly described by Vogue as being dedicated to " queer American designers".

Thankfully, however, Tom himself only uses the words gay and bisexual to describe sexuality, none of this "queer" and "LGBT" garbage.

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by Anonymousreply 54July 1, 2022 8:46 AM

R14, blondie is Ian Falconer, a theatrical designer and creator of the Olivia books.

He's the first guy Tom fucked. They're still friends today.

by Anonymousreply 55July 1, 2022 9:00 AM

he's fakegay and exgay, queer bi pansexual fluid asshole, not gay. Fuck him.

by Anonymousreply 56July 1, 2022 9:13 AM

We believe Miss F was already well identified as a sissy by the time she reached high school.

by Anonymousreply 57July 1, 2022 9:22 AM

Gay men don't fuck pussy.

by Anonymousreply 58July 1, 2022 9:29 AM

They don't?

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by Anonymousreply 59July 1, 2022 9:37 AM

r58 many a faghag would like a word with you

by Anonymousreply 60July 1, 2022 9:37 AM

Faghags are their own special brand of delusional

by Anonymousreply 61July 1, 2022 9:39 AM
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by Anonymousreply 62July 1, 2022 9:41 AM

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by Anonymousreply 63July 1, 2022 10:08 AM

Typical bi sum

by Anonymousreply 64July 1, 2022 10:09 AM

I think he probably fucked Grace Jones at some point.

by Anonymousreply 65July 1, 2022 10:19 AM

scum*

by Anonymousreply 66July 1, 2022 10:20 AM

He really is insufferable.

And, basically bland.

by Anonymousreply 67July 1, 2022 10:22 AM

I don't find his bisexuality controversial or interesting. Why does it piss you guys off so much? I have always had some bisexual friends and fuckbuddies. Some for many many years. Good sex! Never had a bisexual boyfriend though.

by Anonymousreply 68July 1, 2022 10:36 AM

It's not his so called bisexuality that makes him insufferable. I'm fine with bisexuals. Most of the best sex I've ever had has been with bisexual dudes. They're fun in bed.

by Anonymousreply 69July 1, 2022 10:40 AM

Bisexuals can be very reliable fuckbuddies and I agree very spirited and inventive in bed. Many bis are also versatile. Anything goes.

by Anonymousreply 70July 1, 2022 10:50 AM

Bi = only for sex

by Anonymousreply 71July 1, 2022 10:54 AM

When we were very young and very beautiful fish, usually old/ugly, were constantly 'interested' in having us engage in Lesbianism!

by Anonymousreply 72July 1, 2022 10:56 AM

He is dishonest about being bi, he's always claimed gay. That what's so despicable about it. If he's bisexual just admit it. Then he can go on about his queer business.

by Anonymousreply 73July 1, 2022 11:45 AM

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by Anonymousreply 74July 1, 2022 11:48 AM

It wasn't much in the zeitgeist from about 1983 to 1990s during AIDS for a young man to identify as "bisexual" even if he was. Not many women were interested in fuckng bi guys in cosmopolitan cities because everyone was freaked out by deadly AIDS. This chilled out by the 90s when it became clear that safe sex totally worked for gay guys. Everyone had figured out that not all gay guys were doomed.

by Anonymousreply 75July 1, 2022 11:55 AM

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by Anonymousreply 76July 1, 2022 11:59 AM

I don't worship bi men you twat. I said I appreciated them as fuckbuddies and I don't have bisexual boyfriends. Because I know their M.O. The rest of your screed is bizarre. Tom Ford moves in a very rarified glamorous art/business world of roleplaying and illusions. Who really cares what any of them say about their sexualities.

by Anonymousreply 77July 1, 2022 12:58 PM

TMI...at 60 no one cares

by Anonymousreply 78July 1, 2022 4:18 PM

[quote] he's always been so handsome, and yet he's so patently insecure.

It is always the most drop-dead gorgeous men who are the most insecure

by Anonymousreply 79July 1, 2022 4:38 PM

To R62, Please marry me, you are the reason I post& read the comments. 1-900-Fag-Hags, too funny. I knew 4 gays who took home "fag-hags" for Thanksgiving, Christmas, Important family parties, weddings etc. I knew 1 gay man (Freddy), who widowed Dad married his Fag Hag and another one (Mitchell-nice looking gay stockbroker), whose older Fag Hag left him her Penthouse overlooking Central Park& the floor below the penthouse (2 3-bedroom apartments). The entire contents of the penthouse (including her jewelry-paintings) were left to Mitchell. The children received their inheritance 10 yrs before she died.

by Anonymousreply 80July 1, 2022 5:20 PM

Are there nude photos of Tom?

We suspect tinymeat.

by Anonymousreply 81July 1, 2022 8:20 PM

Tom's next fashion and fragrance line should be called Pretentious.

His smug face is so punchable.

by Anonymousreply 82July 1, 2022 9:06 PM

Tom looks like a gay Ken doll, he's so plastic.

by Anonymousreply 83July 1, 2022 9:10 PM

He's good-looking, successful AND he's trying to claim he's also a real man" because he fucks women too. Plus he was "gay married" and has a kid.

That's why R68

by Anonymousreply 84July 1, 2022 9:49 PM

Let the hissing recommence

by Anonymousreply 85July 2, 2022 3:50 AM

Stuck-up little priss!

by Anonymousreply 86July 3, 2022 6:24 AM

I used to think he was sexy because he was handsome and stylish. But the news that he fucks women ruins everything.

by Anonymousreply 87July 3, 2022 2:43 PM

Pompous narcy.

by Anonymousreply 88July 3, 2022 8:29 PM

Snotty little bi cunt.

by Anonymousreply 89July 3, 2022 9:41 PM

Pompous. pretentious, 75 yr old Faggot Nancy boy.

by Anonymousreply 90July 4, 2022 3:35 AM

Didn't Enty have a blind item about him cheating on his husband with women?

by Anonymousreply 91July 5, 2022 12:01 AM

Tom was just throwing Cher a bone.

by Anonymousreply 92July 5, 2022 12:19 AM
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