Tom Ford - I Still Fucked Women Even After Coming Out As Gay
Telling Vogue
"I had girlfriends throughout high school, felt that I was in love with them, and had a great sex life."
"Even occasionally after I began dating men, I continued to sleep with women off and on, and while definitely gay, I am someone for whom sex is an expression of affection and love. I simply fall in love with men most of the time."
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 92 | July 5, 2022 12:19 AM
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Didn't he say the opposite in the past, that he had never slept with a woman?
Maybe he just wants women to think they have a chance
by Anonymous | reply 1 | July 1, 2022 2:40 AM
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Didn't his late partner look like the crypt keeper?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | July 1, 2022 2:42 AM
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Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I stay in my own lane.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 1, 2022 2:44 AM
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Tom, you've grown tiresome.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | July 1, 2022 2:45 AM
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HISSSS!!!!
OFF WITH HIS HEAD!!!!
STINKFISH!!!!!
HE FUCKED THE CRYPTKEEPER!!
HIS CLOTHES ARE GHASTLY!!!!
HISSSS!!!
HISSSS!!!
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 1, 2022 2:48 AM
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This mary wants us to believe that he’s a top.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 1, 2022 2:49 AM
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Was he always openly gay his entire professional career or did he come out after much success.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | July 1, 2022 2:55 AM
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R1 no, he talked about fucking girls in high school and how girls used to get abortions as a form of birth control.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | July 1, 2022 2:58 AM
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No, Tom Ford is not bisexual. He's gay. Always has been.
Jesus Christ, this is not news. A lot of gay guys have girlfriends in high school. Young gay men might be coming out earlier and earlier nowadays, but years ago when Tom Ford was in high school, most young men either stayed in the closet or had not yet begun to explore their sexuality. If he continued dating and/or fucking women in his 30s or 40s, then that would be a reason for discussion. However, admitting you had a girlfriend here and there in high school is not newsworthy not does it show that you are bisexual.
Hell, I had a couple of girlfriends in high school. Didn't matter. I knew I was gay and that girls were not going to last or go anywhere that had any long-term meaning. Tom Ford knew this too.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 1, 2022 2:59 AM
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Who was the blond friend he was often out and about with?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 14 | July 1, 2022 3:00 AM
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I can't imagine why a man his age feels the need to ever talk about the nuances of his sex life openly. Tom, no one cares. And its just embarrassing for everyone involved.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | July 1, 2022 3:01 AM
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R13 NO - he said when he was in New York and dating men - he still fucked women
by Anonymous | reply 16 | July 1, 2022 3:01 AM
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A children's authoress r14.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | July 1, 2022 3:02 AM
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WTF is Miss Ford talking about? She is a FAGGOT, just like I am. Please shut up, Miss Ford,
Thomasine, the Faggot make out KWEEN!!
by Anonymous | reply 18 | July 1, 2022 3:05 AM
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R16. If Tom Ford is admitting this now as a way to show that his sexuality is "fluid," it won't work. He's not fluid. He's gay even if he had a girlfriend in high school. Many guys, straight and gay, did. It means nothing.
I would question how many girlfriends he had when he moved to NYC. I'm sure it was few and far between. By the time Ford was in New York, he was gay just because he may have had a rare dalliance. And I doubt they were actual girlfriends.
This is bullshit. Tom is trying to jump on the "fluid" train. That train has long since left the station regarding Tom Ford. He's gay and always was.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | July 1, 2022 3:06 AM
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I think gay men say this because they’re desperate to fit in. I’m gay but not one of those gays.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | July 1, 2022 3:07 AM
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[quote]Tom is trying to jump on the "fluid" train.
Yeah, he needs to grow up.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | July 1, 2022 3:08 AM
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Did Tom tongue Fello's shitter?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 23 | July 1, 2022 3:11 AM
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He grew-up in Texas. You'd have to gave sex with women to survive.
Does anyone own any of his stuff? Fragrances, etc.?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 24 | July 1, 2022 3:12 AM
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I would have fucked Cybil Shepherd back in the day.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | July 1, 2022 3:13 AM
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Tom Ford has always come across as a totally affected pretentious twat. That fake voice he puts on is hilarious.
His designs aren't so original either.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | July 1, 2022 3:13 AM
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He’s an asshole. Just go away already.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | July 1, 2022 3:16 AM
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Agreed, R27. Just cuz some gay men find him handsome doesn't make him any less ridiculous or unbearable. You know he has perfume on his pubes. He's a prissy fag. Silk sox = no sex.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | July 1, 2022 3:18 AM
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I would have fucked *Jeff Bridges* back in the day.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 30 | July 1, 2022 3:18 AM
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He really is an exhausting mess, isn't he.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | July 1, 2022 3:21 AM
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Oh look, it’s another successful gay man being trashed on Datalounge. What else is new?
by Anonymous | reply 33 | July 1, 2022 3:49 AM
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The affected speech. How does he keep that up? It's exhausting.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | July 1, 2022 5:22 AM
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Women probably threw themselves at him. I used to fuck women too before i discovered ass. I never went back because i fell in love with ass attached to a guy.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | July 1, 2022 5:55 AM
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Yeah, I would have. FUCKED him. Back then. Dude is like 65 years old now. Who fucking cares if he likes pussy? Tom wants to be loved - is that so wrong?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 38 | July 1, 2022 6:08 AM
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#37, you are so deep and profound. What other body parts make you write sonnets?
by Anonymous | reply 39 | July 1, 2022 6:36 AM
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I have no doubt he did; men who engage in bisexuality despite knowing they innate sexual orientation tend to be raging narcissists. And he is that........
by Anonymous | reply 40 | July 1, 2022 6:42 AM
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[quote] I can't imagine why a man his age feels the need to ever talk about the nuances of his sex life openly.
What's amazing is that he's so successful, and he's always been so handsome, and yet he's so patently insecure. Imagine bragging at his age about how active your sex life (with girls!) was in high school!
Yves St. Laurent, Halston, and Alexander McQueen were all the same way. Whatever they had achieved, no matter how handsome they were, it was never enough for them. Maybe that's why they were all so successful.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | July 1, 2022 6:50 AM
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Tom Ford has always been on the sexuality is fluid train.
From August 2019:
[quote]I don't know if I'm bisexual but I do know I'm not entirely gay. My concept of sexuality isn't set in stone. I've lived with a man, Richard, for twenty-three years, I love him and I'm faithful so I'm not sleeping with women at this point in my life. If I were single though, I'm not so sure because there are a lot of women I'm attracted to. Let's say I'm 65% gay and 35% straight.
Why does 99% of the world revolve around heterosexuality? Because that’s how straight people see the rest of the world. “Datalounge thinks everyone is gay” because gays grouped together become centered in gay perspective. Bi/pan/fluid people will search for and embrace sexual fluidity in others.
Tom Ford labels himself gay because people assume he is anyway. Gray has become less about orientation over the years.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | July 1, 2022 6:55 AM
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Dear God, He sounds like a waste of perfectly good carbon.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | July 1, 2022 6:57 AM
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Present something r39 and i might compare it to a summer day 😍
by Anonymous | reply 45 | July 1, 2022 6:57 AM
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Most homosexuals are married to fish.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | July 1, 2022 7:37 AM
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Probably true today too ^ if you look at it globally.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | July 1, 2022 7:50 AM
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Way back in the day, early 2000s, my husband, then boyfriend, was a waiter at Il Cantinori in the village in NYC. That's the restaurant that famously hosted Carrie Bradshaw's 35th birthday. Anyway it was and still is a big celebrity hangout. Tom Ford would come in and on handful of times get drunk and try to get my husband to go downstairs with him to the bathroom. My husband is such a prude. I would have totally done it. I find Tom Ford very handsome - especially then.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | July 1, 2022 7:51 AM
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I love that more than half the Eldergay Hissing on here involves calling Ford by female pronouns.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | July 1, 2022 7:51 AM
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Our gorgeous horse-hung fourth husband was an ex-fishfucker, a huge turn on for us!
Once the fish he almost got engaged to called and we answered the phone...... letting her know who was enjoying the chorizo now.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | July 1, 2022 7:58 AM
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Bisexuals are all deeply insecure........literally imagine being his age and feeling like you need to talk about fucking pussy in Vogue magazine. Maybe he has had one too many facelifts and its affected his brain.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | July 1, 2022 8:26 AM
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We should perhaps read the original, in a series disgustingly described by Vogue as being dedicated to " queer American designers".
Thankfully, however, Tom himself only uses the words gay and bisexual to describe sexuality, none of this "queer" and "LGBT" garbage.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 54 | July 1, 2022 8:46 AM
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R14, blondie is Ian Falconer, a theatrical designer and creator of the Olivia books.
He's the first guy Tom fucked. They're still friends today.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | July 1, 2022 9:00 AM
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he's fakegay and exgay, queer bi pansexual fluid asshole, not gay. Fuck him.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | July 1, 2022 9:13 AM
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We believe Miss F was already well identified as a sissy by the time she reached high school.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | July 1, 2022 9:22 AM
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Gay men don't fuck pussy.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | July 1, 2022 9:29 AM
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r58 many a faghag would like a word with you
by Anonymous | reply 60 | July 1, 2022 9:37 AM
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Faghags are their own special brand of delusional
by Anonymous | reply 61 | July 1, 2022 9:39 AM
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I think he probably fucked Grace Jones at some point.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | July 1, 2022 10:19 AM
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He really is insufferable.
And, basically bland.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | July 1, 2022 10:22 AM
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I don't find his bisexuality controversial or interesting. Why does it piss you guys off so much? I have always had some bisexual friends and fuckbuddies. Some for many many years. Good sex! Never had a bisexual boyfriend though.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | July 1, 2022 10:36 AM
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It's not his so called bisexuality that makes him insufferable. I'm fine with bisexuals. Most of the best sex I've ever had has been with bisexual dudes. They're fun in bed.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | July 1, 2022 10:40 AM
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Bisexuals can be very reliable fuckbuddies and I agree very spirited and inventive in bed. Many bis are also versatile. Anything goes.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | July 1, 2022 10:50 AM
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When we were very young and very beautiful fish, usually old/ugly, were constantly 'interested' in having us engage in Lesbianism!
by Anonymous | reply 72 | July 1, 2022 10:56 AM
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He is dishonest about being bi, he's always claimed gay. That what's so despicable about it. If he's bisexual just admit it. Then he can go on about his queer business.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | July 1, 2022 11:45 AM
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It wasn't much in the zeitgeist from about 1983 to 1990s during AIDS for a young man to identify as "bisexual" even if he was. Not many women were interested in fuckng bi guys in cosmopolitan cities because everyone was freaked out by deadly AIDS. This chilled out by the 90s when it became clear that safe sex totally worked for gay guys. Everyone had figured out that not all gay guys were doomed.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | July 1, 2022 11:55 AM
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I don't worship bi men you twat. I said I appreciated them as fuckbuddies and I don't have bisexual boyfriends. Because I know their M.O. The rest of your screed is bizarre. Tom Ford moves in a very rarified glamorous art/business world of roleplaying and illusions. Who really cares what any of them say about their sexualities.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | July 1, 2022 12:58 PM
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[quote] he's always been so handsome, and yet he's so patently insecure.
It is always the most drop-dead gorgeous men who are the most insecure
by Anonymous | reply 79 | July 1, 2022 4:38 PM
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To R62, Please marry me, you are the reason I post& read the comments. 1-900-Fag-Hags, too funny. I knew 4 gays who took home "fag-hags" for Thanksgiving, Christmas, Important family parties, weddings etc. I knew 1 gay man (Freddy), who widowed Dad married his Fag Hag and another one (Mitchell-nice looking gay stockbroker), whose older Fag Hag left him her Penthouse overlooking Central Park& the floor below the penthouse (2 3-bedroom apartments). The entire contents of the penthouse (including her jewelry-paintings) were left to Mitchell. The children received their inheritance 10 yrs before she died.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | July 1, 2022 5:20 PM
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Are there nude photos of Tom?
We suspect tinymeat.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | July 1, 2022 8:20 PM
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Tom's next fashion and fragrance line should be called Pretentious.
His smug face is so punchable.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | July 1, 2022 9:06 PM
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Tom looks like a gay Ken doll, he's so plastic.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | July 1, 2022 9:10 PM
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He's good-looking, successful AND he's trying to claim he's also a real man" because he fucks women too. Plus he was "gay married" and has a kid.
That's why R68
by Anonymous | reply 84 | July 1, 2022 9:49 PM
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Let the hissing recommence
by Anonymous | reply 85 | July 2, 2022 3:50 AM
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I used to think he was sexy because he was handsome and stylish. But the news that he fucks women ruins everything.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | July 3, 2022 2:43 PM
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Pompous. pretentious, 75 yr old Faggot Nancy boy.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | July 4, 2022 3:35 AM
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Didn't Enty have a blind item about him cheating on his husband with women?
by Anonymous | reply 91 | July 5, 2022 12:01 AM
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Tom was just throwing Cher a bone.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | July 5, 2022 12:19 AM
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