I agree completely R49. It's my favorite show of many years. The 💩 degraded the shole series in the end, and it's lodged in my mind when I think of the show, but I love everything else about it.
I think the discussion about whether Mike White is 'neoliberal' or 'woke' is irrelevant and reductive. I think the series speaks for itself. It's satirical and sincere at the same time, and I think it does have a moral center but at the same time, paradoxically, it's amoral like Shakespeare is amoral in the sense that it simply depicts the best and worst parts of human nature in an unmediated way.
It's the kind of series that only HBO makes, like Six Feet Under and The Sopranos.
The mother played by Connie Britton is basically an arrogant, ambitious executive, and we all know that type, except here we don't see that type at work, but on vacation with her family, and we see how much she loves her whole family as demonstrated through behaviors of a ruthless executive. She's not a 'bad person' at home by any measure, but she's still a dick. And we see that her daughter is the only one in her life who calls her on how much of an asshole she is, even as her daughter studies and begins to emulate her. She loves her husband, her son and her daughter sincerely, but she's a but cold and aloof while also doting. That's a real kind of person.
Jennifer Coolidge's character is a satirical character and performance, but also the kind of person you'd meet in reality and think, "wow, this lunatic is too bizarre—you wouldn't believe her in fiction!" Her mood swings are insane and I buy them totally. Her obsessive magnetic hatred with her dead mother is probably overly dramatized, but it's as if she is peforming publicly the sort of internal struggle someone with a mother like that would have. I love most that the character tells everyone how awful she is, and they comfort her and get drawn in, and then they're shocked to discover she's exactly who she described herself to be.
On an individual level, the characters are brilliant.
And then the social and cultural and political dynamics are as ruthless as nature is ruthless. This is how the show is simultaneously moral and amoral like Shakespeare is. We get the moral message—we see how certain people are harmed by systems—but that doesn't change the systems at all. Most contemporary storytelling is morally based, and the bad guys get their comeuppance. Here, we get the point even as the amoral and immoral ways of the world keep on cycling and people are victimized by injustices.
Tolstoy hated Shakespeare because Shakespeare's writing didn't always punish bad guys and reward good guys. He thought Shakespeare was a hack because he felt "good writing" must dramatize the way things should be rather than the way things are. I think most of the general public thinks like Tolstoy, and that's why we've been overtaken by DC and Marvel dreck instead of made to think by more Mike Whites.