Men that only women find attractive

Pete Davidson

Ben Affleck

Fabio 🤢

Robert Redford.

Mick Jagger.

^ Yes, this ^

I think Depp, DiCaprio and Pitt were attractive at various points but none of them are really "beautiful" to me. I don't quite get the fanatical obsession with them that straight women have with them especially today.

Elvis

Clint Eastwood

Tom Jones

In his prime, Alan Alda

[quote] Robert Redford.

A lot of posters on DL have talked about how they thought Robert Redford was so "beautiful" in his prime.

Michael Jackson

Chris Pratt

Harry Styles is hot.

Axel Rose

Elon Musk. Donald Trump. Bill Clinton. Chip Gaines. Payton Manning

Liberace.

Paul Anka. Frank Sinatra. Michael Bolton. Steven Tyler.

Bill Clinton

^ Good one

Leonardo di Caprio was attractive to *lesbians* at one point, but never to gay men.

R22 LOL true. Throw in Nick Carter and Lance Bass as crushes for young proto-lesbians

Very interesting.

Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Gosling

The Man That Got Away

I’m a male and I’d fuck any of the guys on this list so far. I’m also a whore.

Most rockers

I don’t get the appeal of Channing Tatum or harry styles so I guess I always assumed females liked them.

I'm always perplexed by the men straight women find hot, especially on sitcoms. They are usually the blandest men you can imagine.

R16 um, I find Axl very hot and I'm a guy

Young Axl was a good-looking twink despite the hideous tattoos. He looks disgusting now mainly due to the balding and weight gain from anti-depressants. At least, he's not on the self-destructive path anymore. He bitches about the GOP on Twitter, so he's cool to me.

R32 he's fat now but I still find him kinda adorable although he's much older than me. He has beautiful eyes.

I think straight women are more attracted to the qualities of a man rather than just the visual. A lot of these men represent an ideal that is attractive. Mick Jagger is absolutely disgusting to me but I can see women were attracted to his attitude and androgyny. Both Depp and DiCaprio look awful to me now but their fangirls still picture them as dreamy young guys. Straight men and gay men forget about celebs they like as soon as they get old and ugly and move on to the next hot thing.

A frau.....Brad Pitt can be hot af in some movies, others not. His shirtless scene in OUATiH took my breat away and I am usually more of a face girl. Other than him, I have never found any of the other men named here attractive.

I'm gay and I think Brad is attractive but he peaked to me in 90s like in Se7en, Joe Black and Fight Club. Though he recaptured his former glory in OUATinH. I really don't like that period he had long hair, he looked a hobo. So I wasn't into his look in Legends of the Fall, Interview with the Vampire and Troy, he looked like a redneck Fabio.

Switching my username to Redneck Fabio.

Women love long hair on men wayyyy more than gay men do. Not every man has the face for long hair. And if a guy has long hair, it must be well-groomed. Joe D'Allesandro had beautiful, silky long hair that looked like he groomed. Same with Chris Cornell who had beautiful wavy hair. Native American, Asian and Indian men tend to comb, oil and wash their hair and can pull it off.

A lot of white straight men do not seem to groom their hair like women do. Way too many look unhygienic with it. I've noticed gay men with long hair, shampoo, condition and detangle like crazy. Thankfully, younger men seem to wisened up, as I see more groomed hair among them.

Never liked long hair on men, at least not past 1994.

Hugh Grant

R38, speak for yourself

R41 Speak for what? Do you like long hair on men? Nothing wrong with it but I just made an observation that it appears way more popular with straight women than gay men. You don't see a lot of long, flowing hair on gay porn stars and nude models for instance and the furthest they go is chin-length. I don't mind long hair on a guy if it's groomed and well-styled and most importantly, he has the right face and physique for it like say Ben Barnes.

Be still my heart... 🙄

@r42, I agree with you, straight men wear long hair because women think it's hot. You rarely see a Gay guy with long hair

R43 okay, that's not fair. It's his worst photo and it's old. He doesn't look like that now. These are his latest pics

Michael Douglas was pretty cute in Streets of San Francisco

Fraus love man buns. There are IG accounts dedicated to it. Jon Bon Jovi is popular with Gen X.

R44 we must be living in different worlds. I can only agree about the porn actors. But long/ish hair is very much in vogue with younger gay men

I swear Axl was a redhead. Why is he blond now? Is that how it grays?

R48 Yes and gay men pull off longish hair better because they understand to shampoo, condition and protective styling. Straight men just grow it out and think it magically looks good without effort.

Most women do NOT like long hair on men, not sure where that idea came from. But they are more forgiving of unattractive looks on men compared to gays, so gay porn tends to be visually rigid.

Ben Barnes looked hot as Dorian Gray with longish hair because it was well-styled to his bone structure and accentuated his best features. Hair is like clothing, you have to find a style that is suited to you and have a care routine to maintain said style. Women and gays know this. But a lot of straight men don't even try and just let it look like a mop on their head.

"Most women do NOT like long hair on men, not sure where that idea came from. "

The cover of every romance novel...

Here, read all about it

speaking of long hair, Michael Bolton and Jason Mamoa who was hot when he was young and had short hair but not now.

R52 most normal women find these novels and the Fabio guys extremely tacky. Only a Lindseybelle type goes for this shit.

R53 um, Jason Momoa is HOTHOTHOT you absolute weirdo

Wow, Axl looks like a whole different person.

[quote] I swear Axl was a redhead. Why is he blond now? Is that how it grays?

Axl is probably mostly bald now. That blonde hair is probably a wig or dyed transplants.

His skin looks lasered to the max.

His teeth look like a full set of overly-white veneers.

[quote]Pete Davidson

Not too many women find him attractive, either.

His hair looks too thin to be a wig, R55. Looks natural to me. The strong overhead lighting makes it look blond.

Oh, and I think his skin looks AMAZING for a 60 yo! Enviable.

I am a straight woman and Harry Styles mystifies me. He looks like a frog and he has no charisma. Michael Douglas looks like a lizard.

[quote]Mick Jagger

Actually, it was an inside joke with some Boomer guys that if they were able to sleep with one guy without it counting as gay, Mick Jagger would be their pick.

[quote]Chris Pratt

I don't know a single woman who describes this chinless smarmer as attractive.

Elliot Page.

R60 I do. My close friend loves him, she's a straight woman.

[quote]straight men wear long hair because women think it's hot

Straight men also think long hair automatically makes them an untamed rebel or a crunchy granola earth child.

Mel Gibson/JFK Jr

David Beckham.

Most musicians.

Love Axl, R45, but these days he's looking more like Ward Bond.

I would power bottom for Harry Styles and Pete Davidson until my entire digestive system collapsed on itself.

I'm a gay man, and I think Chris Pratt is hottish. Not spectacularly hot like Robert Redford in his prime or Ben Affleck, prime or not [ahem, R2 and R4], but pretty hot. I'd definitely enjoy having him as a frequently shirtless neighbor if straight guys regularly took their shirts off in public, as they used to do but don't do so much anymore.

Clint Eastwood was hot af in his younger days, and he aged into a sexy middle-aged man if you like very masculine men. Tom Jones was also sex on a stick way back when. Both had off-the-chart virility, which may explain some of the appeal differential, if there is one.

I don't know what you guys are smoking that you think tastes are THAT different. I agree there are men who appeal more to women - and lots more men who appeal more to gay men, which deserves its own thread - but to say "only women" find any man attractive is ridiculous.

I think Pete Davidson's appeal is his instability combined with a sorta innocent puppy dog look. He's ugly but not unpleasant on the eyes. He has that Steve Buscemi and Willem DaFoe ugly-charm thing. Women want to nurture him and get him sober. And I would not want to bother with a mentally ill junkie. But to each their own.

Chris Pratt looks so doughy to me, but to each their own.

Where is the Crisp Ratt troll who usually finds every mention of him on here and mangles his name?

R71, he is a bit doughy. I like doughy men, up to a point. I always have, but the taste has become more pronounced as we've been flooded with Instaho gymbot bodies that all look alike.

Chris Pratt looked better to me when he was thicker and chubbier on Everwood and Parks and Rec.

Ryan Gosling

To me, Chris is a perfect example of an Average White Guy- I just don't see the physical appeal. Is it also his personality that's appealing to you, r72? That I can understand.

A lot of rappers like Lil Wayne, T-Pain, Tyga and Drake. Just like rock stars, most are below average-looking.

R64 many gays also found Mel Gibson and JFK, Jr. hot/sexy in their heyday.

Young women like the androgynous type - currently the guys from BTS, Harry Styles, Bieber; before that there was young Axl, young Keanu, young Leo...

Older women seem to go more for the officer & gentleman type - think Gere in his prime, Russel Crowe in his prime, Chris Noth.

Just look at the music/movies geared towards women and you'll see. All those jacked muscle types are for the boys.

Cillian Murphy

He always looked like a defective, effeminate Tom Welling to me.

If Chris Pratt is an example of average white guys, then I guess I like AWGs. I think he's HAF and way above average. Who doesn't think Mel Gibson wasn't hot in Gallipoli and The Year Of Living Dangerously? You must be blind or have some serious jungle fever.

what about someone like Kevin James (King of queens). Seems like the everyman type that women like. Men, not so much.

I find Cillian extremely attractive, and I'm a gay male, nothing bisexual about me.

So because I don't like the same guy you do, r80, I must not like white guys at all? Weird reasoning. I didn't say there's something wrong with you liking AWGs, I merely asked if his personality also was the reason for the attraction. No need to imply that there's something wrong with my eyesight- I'm sure I'm not the only person whose tastes differ from yours.

Geraldo Rivera was considered hot before the Capone and I didn’t understand his appeal. I worried I was being a bigot, but no. I still don’t see anything desirable.

My mother had a thing for Michael Keaton. I never got the appeal, although she was adorable about it.

She liked Hugh Jackman, too. That I understood.

[quote]what about someone like Kevin James (King of queens). Seems like the everyman type that women like.

I don't even know who this guy is. With most TV husbands, ask yourself: is he the type women "like," or the type average women settle for?

R86 Carrie seemed to love Doug very much.

Who are Carrie and Doug? Are they the fictional characters on the show?

The two incher boys of BTS.

Chris Martin from Coldplay.

John Ham.

I don’t care how hung he (supposedly is).

Justins Bieber and Timberlake

There is a bunch of actors named Chris and they all look exactly alike to me.

Benedict Cumberbatch.

R94 shame that the poor thing doesn't find them attractive back...

Adam Driver.

Steven Tyler

I remember an old 2000s commercial where he entered a restaurant and all of the patrons (who were all female) suddenly began lusting after him.

I was like 🙄

R96 John Oliver would disagree with you

Some people o this thread like R97 and the King of Queens guy clearly don't make the difference between reality and fiction

Benedict looks like an intersection where Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and Down Syndrome collided.

Adam Driver is all kinds of ick.

Donald Trump the fat diaper, pants shitting, 6 times bankrupt, former Reality TV show host.

Michael Bolton

Yanni

Very few of these guys are attractive to me.

Faceless Chris people, comedians that look like children, and cheesy musicians?

Admit I'm a sucker for long hair, but it has to suit the man and it's not a sticking point. Dude can be a bald fox and that's ok.

Most of these choices raise the question--if neither women nor men are finding these chumps attractive, why are they pushed on us so much?

Yes, R75, I do like his personality, at least as we see it on screen.

But ... you say "Average White Guy" like that should rule out attractiveness, which sort of misses the point. I [bold]like[/bold] average white guys if they're above-average in terms of basic good looks. Chris Pratt is surely above average if you look around and see what constitutes "average". 🙂

R91, I don't think only women find Jon Hamm attractive.

AFAIK, the topic of the thread isn't "men I personally don't find attractive".

No, AWG rules out hotness, not attractiveness. Average guys can be attractive. To me, being hot means above average. Maybe you weren't the poster who called him hot? I thought all the Pratt posts were by the same person.

HARRY STYLES

^ Lol, I *live here. I've loved here, too, but that's not what I meant to type.

Ed Sheeran.🤮

Alan Rickman

MICRODICK ZAYN MALIK

I never thought Benedict Cumberbatch was anything but fugly but Jane Campion somehow managed to make him incredibly hot in PotD. I was aghast.

Alan Rickman is agood one. I am female and I will forever thirst for him. Don't know any gay guys that even know he existed.

the vast majority of women want a boyfriend/husband/lust object whose a male girlfriend who happens to have a penis....

truly gorgeous and built men terrify most women because of their own insecurity (which knows no bounds!), jealousy (not getting all the attention) and other negative emotions....

women are also the most easily brainwashed by mass media on what males are "hot" and "sexy"...... The truth is that women don't realize that their boyfriend or husband or male co-worker or guy they see at the gym is handsomer and better built and sexier than 99% of the men that hollywood and the sporting world deemed as hottest, sexiest, best built and so on....

Alan Rickman is a prime example of what numerous posters here have referenced about women--we consider the totality of the person and not just the visual factor.

If a man has a sexy voice, an accent, a way about him, manners, humour and moves well and keeps groomed, he has a better chance of seeming like a stud to women than all of the Chris Pratts and Matt Damon's in the world.

Oh, look--a misogyny MRA incel professes to know anything at all about what women truly think and feel.

R115, a true mind-reader.

R117.. R115 here,.. thanks for the compliments....

R116 agree on all of this, most straight women can see a charm and sexiness beyond the purely physical.

if a man has a fat wallet, all the better as well... and they call men "superficial"?...

Pete Davidson is a mistery to me. Maybe it's the height. Same thing with Machine Gun Kelly. Women love tall men.

But I find a lot of men that women like attractive. Harry Styles is cute. Adam Driver is pure masculinity. And I don't mind long hair, in fact I think it looks sexy if the guy is suuuper masculine like Jason Momoa.

Gay men care about the body imo. We're sluts for big arms, chest, nice shoulders.

Another female fav I find hot is James Mcavoy. He got hot! Nice beard too.

[quote] Matt Damon's in the world.

Matt has a movie called "In the World"?

Can the butthurt MRA interloper go back to 4chan? The adults are trying to converse here.

Alan Rickman is a great example. Ugly as sin but his personality turns women on.

alec baldwin

Sean penn

that actor with bug eyes

R125 jake gyllenhall?

I think the kind of men Blanche Deveraux would love.

Lloyd Bochner, Tom Selleck, Sean Connery, John Forsythe...

I exclude Burt Reynolds since gay men do find him attractive.

Jacob Elordi

Ryan Gosling

Chris Pratt

[quote]Most rockers

Log off, nana.

Then I am frau, cause I luved young Jagger and Axl. Great combination of fragile body and masculine energy.

I know that different guys are considered attractive by women and particularly young girls than by gay men, but the posters have mentioned almost all male celebrities that are considered to be attractive. So, who would be considered attractive by males?

[quote]that actor with bug eyes

They want to take him home and mother him.

Watch out John K: your wife is filming the new Nolan movie with him. She'll smuggle him home in her handbag.

SPeaking of John Krasinsky: I'm a guy and think he's hot as hell, even as I acknowledge he could be in the category of AWG.

Most of these responses I disagree with. When I think of frau crushes I think of uggos or obvious closet queens, like Taylor Hicks and Liberace.

R134 to me you’ve just described Harry Styles.

I'm a dude and I do happen to find Giacobbe Elordi VERY hot. The ones that only "them wimmin" find hot are those hairless androgynous Kpop stars

Can't imagine a Gay guy finding this hot 🙄

Nato, are you the one that is more liked by women?

[quote]Can't imagine a Gay guy finding this hot

Korean cock is clit sized.

^ Doesn't matter if you're a top 😛

R139 But they have the highest IQ in the world along with Chinese and brain is more important than the dick. Horse have big dicks, but it didn't help them much.

Do you find Cody Ondrick attractive? He's a friend of mine from Mister Supranational, probably not a hair over 5'5", but he has GORGEOUS body and face. Lewk him up

I want to know how many of the male posters here talk to real women (not internet "womyn") about the men they find genuinely attractive.

My guess would be few beyond their own mothers or sisters.

Ther average looking twinks from that chaste sexless Heartstopper show. There's no way gays would be obsessed with those sexless, average looking guys.

R27 I’m female, slightly interested in men (call it 80% women-leaning), and wouldn’t fuck or drool over most of the men mentioned so far. The majority cited are hideous inside and out, so it’s a no from me.

On a purely physical level, I guess a young Redford or Connery could catch it, though. And men like James Macavoy have cute appeal, like a puppy or something. The late Alan Rickman also gets a pass for being super-intelligent, charming, polite and a thoroughly-decent bloke (a very rare find in a straight man).

Nobody cares about their big brains and small cocks R141. Well maybe genuine straight men just looking for a sissy hole to fill because their wife is a bore.

To answer the OP:

Their obese/morbidly obese, smelly, obnoxious hubbies who have no style, refuse to wash their asses for fear of it being construed as "too gay" an act, and who love Donald Trump.

THOSE are the men to which only sad Fraus and sadder self hating gays are attracted.

All these other guys are just a matter of personal taste, for the ladies and the gents.

As a frau myself I do want to call out the weird attraction to the type of little girl looking k pop guys in bowl haircuts and lipstick that some women (granted its mostly teens/college aged girls) seem to be in to. Nothing more attractive and hot than a male who's still awaiting puberty. Asian men can be hot af as the pic a few posts above me shows, but the k pop boy band types leave me puzzled.

A lot of these cited are what I would call Mom Appeal cheesecake.

It’s a particular category—Paul Newman, Kurt Russell, Patrick Swayze...

Fish will find any man with $$$ attractive!

Mom appeal depends upon generation and demographic, certainly.

I think my mom was into artists and musicians, not actors.

There's nothing wrong with Kurt Russell or Paul Newman. Even Swayze had his moments. But I don't know about women now "lusting" after these guys.

R150 Fish will also find 80% of men without $$$ unattractive

Nato, I bet you tried to lay your hands on the little guy you mentioned at R142.

DiCaprio owns this thread and I love this dude, even before I realized I was a gayling. He's not ugly but it's not attractive to me, not sexy. He just is and one of my favorite actors.

However Ben Affleck is fkin sexy as fuck and reminds me of every straight bro who always befriended me since I was in high school.

R144 The Greek boy from the chaste show is cute.

Drake

Harrison Ford

The recurring theme among these men is they all look like they’d have poor anal hygiene.

R158 how do you mean?

Pierce Brosnan

Andy Garcia

Johnny Depp was stunning in his prime.

Maybe stop calling women fish and fraus and actually treat them as individuals in their own right?

Jason Momoa

Well I keep sharing with you how fit footballer Jordan Henderson is but most of you (bar a few) aren't having it so far. So I suppose that's a DL example.

I find androgynous people attractive, more so people who aren’t particularly young, but who are unconventional. Men who are more in the lower testosterone range, women who are in the higher range. I like male figure skaters and female runners and softball players. Not so much into lipstick on anyone though.

R157 no way. Young Harrison ford was sexy. One of my first crushes as a gayling was Indiana Jones.

R163 shut up tilapia cunt

R168 🤣

John Wayne, he was a good actor in many good movies, very quotable, screen presence, etc but I never found him physically attractive or sexy, though the women I know over the years have always swooned for him, I never saw the physical appeal at all, he's always cowboy on a horse and needs a bath. lol

Harry Styles never did it for me until his video with Shania Twain. He looked hot as fuck in that sequined vest without a shirt under it.

My list: Usher, Johnny Depp, and all men with long hair (the only man who has EVER pulled it off for me was Fabio)

Robert Goulet and Wayne Newton.

Remember when Ricky Martin had long hair during his General Hospital stint? *shudder*

It was popular among some men in the early to mid-1990s. I think it started when Fabio became popular via the romance novel covers and I Can't Believe It's Not Butter! commercials. Brad Pitt even got into the game and looked awful.

[quote]Horse have big dicks, but it didn't help them much.

The Dutch have big dicks, and according to The Dutch Sound Really Cunty thread, it helps them a lot!

Fuck off, cheesy diseased dick. R168.

Christian Slater

They lust over him in HEATHERS and TRUE ROMANCE.

Also, in the original BUFFY THE VAMPIRE movie, her dream was to "go to Europe, marry Christian Slater, and die."

I was a teenager at the time and remember him being promoted as a heartthrob and I just didn't get it.

Gandolfini times a million

Christian Slater looked pretty hot as a blond skater in Gleaming The Cube.

Frankenstein's Monster

The entire male cast of Beverly Hills 90210.

[quote] The entire male cast of Beverly Hills 90210.

Never quite got why Luke Perry was considered so hot. He looked a dollar-store James Dean.

Sean Bean.

I really liked Jason Priestley, Brian Austin Green, and later Jamie Walters on 90210.

R182 there are Legolas girls, and Boromir women.

Adam Driver. Adrian Brody. Jeff Goldblum. Aagh these fugs.

R181, I didn’t see 90210 era Luke Perry as hot, but he has a kind of seen-it-all expression in his eyes. His father was a steelworker and died of a heart attack in 1980.

[quote] Gandolfini times a million

WHUT!!? I am definitely a man and James Gandolfini was a sexy motherfucker. Cute AND good looking.

Jeff Goldblum was some hot tail when he was young. You obviously never watched Earth Girls are Easy or the first Fly.

Adam Driver--i can kinda see it. He was impressive in that first Star Wars thing he did, although he really should have emulated a British accent. But when he gets too scrawny, whoa-neanderthal fug!

Who in fuck are "lusting after" John Wayne or Wayne Newton? More proof everyone here is truly ancient. My grandma preferred William Holden and Mario Lanza.

Ben Affleck……as for Harry Styles, he’s a one night stand’s dream

Russell Crowe

Harrison Ford

Idris Elba

John Malkovich

Malkovich comes off as extremely gay.

So surprised to learn he's been married and/or mated up for years and has grown kids.

Benji

[quote] Christian Slater

And that voice of his...it's like nails on a chalkboard.

R154 You didn’t think DiCaprio was sexy in The Departed? That was his peak imo.

I also thought he was beautiful in Catch Me If You Can. He finally looked masculine and not like a lesbian.

People are just naming heterosexual actors and singers they don't find attractive. Do they seriously think no, or very few, gay men find Star Wars-era Harrison Ford attractive? Russell Crowe in his heyday? Ben Affleck? Idris Elba?

What sort of Instaho/Only Fans/ubergay bubble do you have to live in to imagine that there aren't lots of gay men who think these guys are - or once were, in the case of Ford and Affleck - sexy?

[quote]Adam Driver. Adrian Brody. Jeff Goldblum. Aagh these fugs.

DING! DING! DING! Finally. A post that I completely agree with. Sean Bean isn’t fuckable now, but when he was much younger I would have bent over for him. Something rough and nasty about him.

Harrison Ford looks ridiculously handsome in this interview while promoting the first Star Wars movie.

[quote] Sean Bean isn’t fuckable now, but when he was much younger I would have bent over for him. Something rough and nasty about him.

It was his turn in LADY CHATTERLEY'S LOVER that did it for many straight women. He was an exciting and physically strong, passionate bit of rough, but with a morally-conflicted, vulnerable, wounded romantic side, a combination that triggers the "I can fix him" response.

Same is/was true of Mel "the smell" Gibson: at the time of "The Year of Living Dangerously," he was the hottest looking man on earth; no other human body ever looked so good in khaki slacks, before or since. "Drool-worthy" in those "Mad Max" movies, too. It's a shame he ended up looking like The Old Man of the Sea, but that's life for ya.

[quote]It was his turn in LADY CHATTERLEY'S LOVER that did it for many straight women. He was an exciting and physically strong, passionate bit of rough, but with a morally-conflicted, vulnerable, wounded romantic side, a combination that triggers the "I can fix him" response.

I can’t speak for frauen, but I like his 1980’s gutter punk whore look. I would have rented that ass.

E.g. re Mel:

Young Sean Bean was definitely fuckable.

So we're concluding that Sean Bean in right in the middle of the Venn diagram, between 'Men attractive to women' and 'men attractive to gays'.

Mel did NOT go full retard in "Tim".

[quote]So we're concluding that Sean Bean in right in the middle of the Venn diagram, between 'Men attractive to women' and 'men attractive to gays'.

Gays would have fucked young Sean Bean, frauen will take him old or young.

Yes to Sean Bean and Jeff Goldblum....I remember seeing Sean Bean playing a sadistic rapist in the crappy GWTW sequel Scarlett and I still fancied his psychotic ass.

Goldblum made me realize puberty was just around the corner when I watched "Earth Girls are easy"at the tender age of 11. That was far different from the crushes I had had as a wee girl on Corey Haim and Kirk Cameron. Goldblum was a man...that piqued my interest.

I had a few months of slobbering over Russel Crowe but that didnt last long since the guy balooned up and let himself go almost immediately.

[quote]Who in fuck are "lusting after" John Wayne or Wayne Newton?

Fraus. Fraus are lusting after them. I know women in my family who find these uggos sexy.

Incidentally, do you think the Germans find the word 'frau' as funny as we do?

Also, I hate that they got rid of 'fraulein..' It sounds so nice.

Danny DeVito

R211 are they 100 years old??

Adam Levine.

214 they aren’t, actually. Just frauen.

[quote]Andy Garcia

Not according to several guys on the Godfather threads.

[quote]all men with long hair (the only man who has EVER pulled it off for me was Fabio)

Yet he's posted on this list, which is really just a "guys I don't like, so I can't imagine anyone else does" collection of names.

R208. From that pic, I’m thinking uncut. But since Mel is Mel, who gives a damn?

Benedict Cumberbatch

Tom Hiddleston

Pete Davidson

Sean Penn

Aqua man Jason Mamoa

Chris Martin

[quote]People are just naming heterosexual actors and singers they don't find attractive.

That is what I was thinking, too. They don’t name men that gay men generally wouldn't find attractive while women do find them attractive (although there can be exceptions too). They just name celebrities they personally don’t like.

ADAM LEVINE? Now, THAT'S some bullshit. We know gays at the vainest creatures in the universe but to think ONY women find a majority of the men in this thread attractive is just dumb.

BTW, Adrian Brody could get IT.

Goddamnit, forgive the misspellings

R219 Catholic and born in Peekskill NY, I'd imagine Gibson was circumcised

The majority of WHITE American-born men (even those on military bases abroad like my nephews) continue to be circumcised. There are exceptions, of course, but they are few and far between. Uncut cocks are associated with minorities and foreigners.

^What does the CDC say about this? : "National trends. Across the 32-year period from 1979 through 2010, the national rate of newborn circumcision declined 10% overall, from 64.5% to 58.3% (Table and Figure 1)." Fifty-Eight percent, barely HALF.

I think circumcision in America was a product of Victorian-era fears of masturbating. Doctors kept it to keep turning a profit. It's very outdated.

R229 Yes, which is why the US is the only Western country where it's still routinely done

R229 For no reason by the way, certainly not religious or sanitary ones

[quote] Doesn't matter if you're a top 😛

Provided you're only interested in fucking. I'm a top but I love to suck dick and a wart size dick doesn't do the trick for me.

Benicio del Toro

I feel like women are the only ones who find Blake Shelton hot.

When men enlisted, the exams found deformed, ruined dicks because nobody told these guys about dick hygiene- other than “more than 3 shakes and it’s masturbation” , folks weren’t very forthcoming.

Are you talking about WWI again, R235?

R236, I worked with men on parole who believed it was a Jewish plot hatched within the WWII draft board.

Their logic is that all doctors are jewish.

Are you giving me another theory?

It doesn't even phaze you guys that you're the only ones to do this in the Western hemisphere. You find nothing wrong with that at all. You don't even ask yourself a question or two. Perfectly normal

[quote]Provided you're only interested in fucking. I'm a top but I love to suck dick and a wart size dick doesn't do the trick for me.

I don't understand the guys here who say that they are not interested in cock, cause they are tops. Are these guys lying, because they are the kind of tops who end with legs in air sooner than you take your coat. Or are they deranged and have strong internalized homophobia and think that if they don't touch the dick they are less gay.

I mean, why would they even be with men if they don't care for the cock. They could have sex with women.

And what kind of sex can you have with a person that is not interested in sexual organ of their partner. Doesn't anyone like to grab their partner by the crotch (not only Trump)?

Imagine if a straight guy says that he is not interested in tits, cause he is the one who is fuckin so he cares only about the hole.

Denzel Washington he oozes talent, not sex appeal

^ Denzel is cute-ish and masculine without being threatening, women love that

Barry White.

I don't believe that Brad Pitt was unattractive to gay men, back in the day. On the contrary.

What say you, who remember.

^ You tell us... Whoever wrote that was nuts 😛

Wait, Liberace was gay???

R244 Agree. Pit was incorporated concept of beauty.

That's the thing about attraction vs beauty. Tho I'm not that attracted to Brad Pitt (not a fan of the Blonde hair/blue eye combo), I can STILL see every possibility that at one time he was THE most beautiful creature on the planet. TOO pretty in fact

R239, agreed to some extent but bisexuality is not only real but it is common. Think of how many pop stars, male or female, are androgynous. Androgynous women can be very attractive to mostly straight women too. Not to say really feminine women and really masculine guys aren’t popular too, but there’s a role for androgyny in any case. Most straight sex isn’t reproductive sex anyway, naturally, since women are only actually capable of getting pregnant during a couple days of the monthly cycle. And women don’t go into “heat” where there’s only sex during the fertile time. Humans aren’t geared to have only reproductive sex for whatever reason - maybe sex helps with social bonding. We’re a lot more capable of getting along in groups compared to chimpanzees.

R248 The theory makes sense because humans are also serial monogamists. We fall deeply in love with others whether opposite sex or same sex. We move on pretty quickly too. Humans don't mate for life. We adopt other children all the time. Human children take forever to become independent. Human babies are incredibly fragile and utterly helpless. Pair bonding makes sense. Raising a child by oneself would have been impossible for most of human history. Women are helpless when pregnant and it was dangerous and maternal deaths were not uncommon. Plus men died all time from either war, illness, hunting or physical labor. Homosexual pair bonding would have provided another form of serial monogamy that could take place if a child lacked immediate parents.

Most thug rappers. T.i. was nice looking in youth, warren g, ice cube though he wasn't a thug.

R241. I'm sorry but Denzel was out right fine early 2000s. I was watching Out of Time the other day, good lawd-- one of the seciest casts ever. And the cinematography off everyone's tanned, golden skin was just beautiful.

Brian Dennehy.

You heard someone finds Brian Dennehy attractive?!

R223:

[quote]They don’t name men that gay men generally wouldn't find attractive while women do find them attractive (although there can be exceptions too).

Exactly. Even the thread title says "men that only women find attractive" when there are no such men.

There are certain types that tend to be more attractive to women than gay men and vice versa, but there will always be some women who like cookie-sniiffing pretty boys and some gay men who like stalwart but styleless AWGs.

Jason Dottley

I feel like Johnny Depp owns this thread.

He's just a relic of a bygone era, when women would fall for the "Misunderstood" guy. He really branded moody attitude, frowny face, and floppy hair. If Johnny Depp was in his early twenties today he'd be called an incel loser.

R256 He always looks very unkept (or should I say unkePP?), very pirate-y and hobo-y. And now also fat. And he ain't even particularly tall to make up for that

Johnny Depp was beautiful, R256, and if he were in his twenties today he most certainly wouldn't be branded an "incel loser." That's ridiculous. He might not be your idea of attractive, but that doesn't mean he wasn't attractive.

They look pretty strung out....

Gay ones.

Denzel Washington is a gentleman, and that is sexy.

If he was gentleman he would have defended Chris Rock R261.

This caricature is so good it made me laugh like a drain.

R243 My friends and I didn't go see his films, weren't fans and didn't think he was anything more than average and rather bland. I never found him sexy until recently in OUATIH. The late Ray Liotta in Goodfellas and Something Wild was far hotter back in the day.

Sean Penn is and always has been hideous. And Tom Hiddleston is gross.

Harvey Weinstein.

Bill Clinton

Julian Sands

R7, Depp was GORGEOUS at one point.

C’mon. He had a beautiful face that the camera adored.

Gérard Dépardieu

Sean Penn is gorgeous in "At Close Range"

r61 F&F (just kidding)

Liberace

[quote]I think straight women are more attracted to the qualities of a man rather than just the visual

HA HA HAAA!

LOTS of fugly straight men think that too.

I must not be a very good woman. I read this entire thread and can only agree that young Axl was a panty dropper and Jason Momoa still is. All the other guys are non entities as far as sexual attractiveness although I could see that young Pitt and Depp were attractive it wasn't a sexual attraction.

Do you all actually know women who lust over the men in the thread or is it just guesswork?

R275, OK, I'll bite (non-sexually!).

Which men in this thread stand out to you as unattractive to most heterosexual women (not just unattractive to you)? I'm not arguing with you. I think gay men have very little idea of what makes a man attractive to women, but surely many of these men - not just Momoa and Rose, who have very distinctive looks - are attractive to women. I am extremely dubious that Robert Redford, to choose an example from early in the thread, was not considered attractive by many, many women. I actually remember women in my office back in the late '70s talking about how sexy he was.

r276, I guess I saw, a few years back, all the woken in celebitchy lost their minds for Cumberbatch. I don't know any women who find him attractive and many who do not. Fabio? I think every women I know considers him a joke along the lines of the male strippers. Like, nice body, fun to hoot at but only with your girlfriends. I have never heard anyone in real life say they were attracted to Redford.

Upon thinking about it and rescrolling through the thread, I do think most straight women (at least previously) found Pitt and Depp hot and I do have a friend who mentioned she thought Styles was cute. I think Goldblum was along the lines of Cumberbatch, sort of an internet thing.

Jay Z owns this thread.

I’ve never heard of a woman finding Alan Alda attractive.

A lot of these men were very attractive in their prime. You can’t compare Young Elvis to Fat Elvis, for example.

I'm old enough to remember women thinking Alan Alda was hot. For a while, there were frequent jokes on sitcoms and late night about wives and girlfriends wanting sensitive men like Alan Alda, and how irritated the straight guys were about that.

The recent documents leak from a bunch of misguided Depp stans reveals that Depp hasn't been able to get it up in quite some time. DL speculated about this many years ago. He just has that incel hobo look about him.

R281 I vaguely remember some comedian referring to Alda as “a pencil-necked geek”, so I don’t doubt you.

Richard Simmons

Popeye (black and white era)

That guy from that one show

Casey Kasem

R34, some women are attracted to the rock star not the actual man . Mick is hideous

Redford was GORGEOUS when he was younger.

Only an idiot would argue otherwise.

R281, I'm old enough too, and I have never, never ever heard ANYONE of either sex say Alan Alda is hot.

Mic Jagger and Judy Davis look like they could be related. Mic’s brother isn’t bad-looking.

I would venture more women were into young Brad Pitt than young Johnny Depp. Especially as they have grown older and Johnny has grown weirder. Most of the women I know who’ve stanned Johnny into middle-age are either Goth-adjacent, into heavy metal or the occult.

Most people, men and women, thought Redford was handsome. I believe Newman was more regarded as “hot.”

Sean Penn did have a moment or two. He was attractive in the Woody Allen film but I can’t remember the name.

Nicolas Cage

^ “Sweet and Lowdown”

In what universe is peak Denzel Washington not handsome and sexy?

Adam Driver looked hot in a SNL skit where he played a suburban dad with a close-trimmed beard - maybe he is just marketed wrong.

Pete Davidson has a great body and nice hair.

[quote]Adam Driver looked hot

...in practically everything I've seen him in. ISHC.

The actors who played the hobbits. Their fans who invaded Datalounge to squeal about them 20 years ago were almost entirely women.

Nicolas Cage was hot in “Birdy” and a few early films but he lost it by “Peggy Sue got Married.” His acting in “Moonstruck” was so over the top it took away from his appeal.

Luke Perry wasn’t the most handsome guy but he had a fantastic body and a great sense of humor.

Adam Driver looks hot from the neck down. There are several actors like that who have great bodies but horrendous faces: Jeff Goldblum (when he was younger), Charles Bronson (ditto), Ian Ziering, John Krasinski, Mark Wahlberg, Nicolas Cage (I disagree he lost it in the 80s--he was at his very hottest in "Red Rock West" in the 90s). For some reason women go for that type, even though they're not usually as obsessed with muscles as gay men are.

R17 No gay men found Bill Clinton attractive? He was peak teddy bear in his prime - beautiful eyes and the most charismatic person I have ever met.

Wasn’t Viggo Mortenson hobbit-adjacent?

Victor Mature.

Cliff Richard.

R276, Redford was also gorgeous.

WTF are people in this thread talking about?

Almost all of the men in this thread were hot, except that French dude, Gerard Depardieu (probably didn’t speak his surname correctly).

Peak Depardieu was hot in a kind of wild, animalistic way.

[quote]Most people, men and women, thought Redford was handsome.

A lot of people don't go in for bleached blonds.

It is undeniable that American women generally did love male sex symbols with long hair back in the 80s and 90s, when most strippers who performed at women-only strip clubs (which used to be a thing then) kept their hair long. You also always saw men with long hair on the covers of sexy women's romance fiction. Men's mullets were popular with women in those decades too, although gay men only rarely cut their hair in that style (the male porn stars from that era who had mullets were usually G4P, like Ryan Idol).

But times change, and styles change. You will rarely see men with long hair on the covers of sexy romance novels any more, and of course there are very, very few strip clubs that are women only anymore. Most strippers, gay or straight, keep their hair short now.

Yes, Women were absolutely in love with Robert Redford in the 1970s - that was because he played the lead in a love story (The Way We Were). If Redford had stayed with westerns, motorcycle and caper movies, it wouldn't have happened. A lot of the time it's context as well as looks. The difference is he's so good looking vs creaming in their pants.

Women went bonkers on RR before The Way We Were. Butch Cassidy did it for him and he looked GORGEOUS in it but not in an aggressively sexual way, which women favor.

Yes, R310, but Redford was not a mega star until TWWW.

If you didn't personally experience it, r287, then it never happened. That's how life works, according to DL.

Alda was referred to as a "left-wing sex symbol" in WaPo's review of Sweet Liberty as late as 1986, but what are facts when we have feelings and faulty memories instead?

R312, if you read about it instead of actually being alive when it allegedly happened, it existed. That's how life works, according to DL.

It's not surprising that there's someone like r314 on DL who thinks that archival sources of information don't count, but it does always shock me when I see it laid out so plainly.

Donald Trump

Adam Driver is fucking hideous and white soccer moms with no sex lives are absolutely insane about him. The person that said that he looks like Keanu Reeves drawn from memory by a drunk person was right.