I Went To A Bathhouse Saturday Night

Look on the bright side, OP: At least you’re not Kevin Sessums.

Nothing like a trip to the tubs!

Were there only hot young guys there? Or was everyone else invisible to you?

Next time pay for it instead of going to the baths you’ll get just what you want

R3- No I had a nice time with a guy who is mature like myself. He gave me an very good blowjob too. I would rate it a solid B+. Later the same guy went into the room of someone opposite to me. This person in that room was morbidly obese ( HUGE stomach). It made me think this mature guy was not particular at all. Later someone new was in that same room. This guy was much younger about 30 years old, muscular- another words HOT. This hot guy did not notice me at all. He left his room and did not return for maybe 75 mins +. Then he got dressed and left. I'm sure he was able to pick and choose ANYONE in the bathhouse and was sated so he left. I know at 56 years old I should not expect ANYONE to be interested in me but it still hurts that all of the young ( under 40) good looking guys were not noticing me at all.

R4- I mentioned this on my other thread- I've gone to rentmen.com several times. I find the men there generally VERY average looking. The guys walking around the bathhouse were a lot better looking then the escorts at rentmen.com.

R5- Is also me.

Are you mascular? I know an Asian who’d be into you!

R7- I'm not into Asian guys with frosted hair and lots of upspeak.

He wants to share his knitting needle with you.

Well honey,what in the fuck did you expect ? Are you new to gay life ? I had some lovely times in the Tubs but my god,that was 40 years ago and I wouldnt even dream of setting foot in one again. Unless of course you're a masochist.

Well at least you know for the next time that you can't be as picky as you think you should be

R11- Yes, I guess at my age GAY beggars can't be choosers. I've NEVER used apps like Grindr or Scruff or any others. I don't like the idea of bringing some stranger back to my place or going to their place. A bathhouse ( as dated as it is) is the only place I'm comfortable going to. I have not entered a gay bar since March 2011.

R1- One good thing. I'm considerably younger than him. What is the significance about him. Why did you mention him?

Everyone I just remembered that there were some attractive guys my age walking around there Saturday night and they walked by my room too. I just wanted everyone to know I'm NOT one of those queens who only wants the young ( under 40) to notice me. I can definitely be attracted to someone 45+ but the attractive 45+ guys ignore me too. Oh well.

Dear OP, R12 If you decide to rent a prostitute take them to a bath house rather than have the trauma of bringing a stranger to your home.

R15- as I mentioned before the prostitutes at rentmen.com are mostly very average looking. I'm not going to pay $250 for an hour of sex with some average looking person. Some of the guys walking around the bathhouse and especially the guys I used to see in the bars back in the mid to late 1990's were FAR hotter than the escorts at rentmen.com

I'm so happy I'm done with sex

R17- How old are you?

Yesssssssss, OP, people at the bath house should DEFINITELY be giving you ALL the sex you deserve for your fine character...a character that is just as banal and superficially concerned with others' looks and preferences, as are the characters of the better looking people who don't give you a second glance, let alone a suck or fuck.

We did notice your massive 220-lb entity, OP, but we'd rather not hit on you.

Surely there’s bathhouses out there that are for mature folks only with a specialty for young guys that love to frequent them.

I hear so many young guys that adore older bears or older fit men period.

I think you to need research some more locations which I’m pretty sure will fit your needs.

Best wishes and all is not lost. Remember that.

[quote]My previous thread that I posted last night is now inaccessible

Was that the one about getting herpes?

I'm 29 op and women hit on me all the time but not men, to my horror.

What is this insanity? Why are we debating bath houses vs taking someone home vs grindr vs scruff. Gays are creeps and nice and cute and ugly and mean spirited and enlightened just like all humans. Why are you trying to justify a pattern of behavior based on random chance? A bath house is just as safe as your home. Grindr is just as dangerous as Facebook. It's all venue, vs the mask it wears. If you go to a bath house, and get a blowjob, and don't get raped, guess what? WIN!!!

If you have high standards (like, say, a four expecting to hook up with sevens or higher) and go to cruising spots or bath houses you set yourself up for failure, humiliation and disappointment. Either lower your expectations or hire an escort or hustler.

The process of discovering you’re invisible sure can hurt when you need to use your looks to get what you’re after. I don’t even know what to suggest except to say that I hired a trainer at my gym and discovered that I expected him to flirt with me and was mortified when he was thoroughly professional, got over myself, and now have pleasant, unimportant chats with him while becoming familiar with good exercises I should do on my own.

I’m not going to be the hottest thing anywhere I go — and never was anyway — so I wish you luck, OP, because it truly is downhill from here and not in a happy way.

Now get checked out for STDs, OP.

Datalounge people explain this to me- Over the years and even now I’m often in a situation where I’m at a gay venue and I want some guy to express his interest in me even when I’m not interested in them.

Maybe I need a shrink.

Yeah. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Be realistic. Age gracefully.

Back in 1995 I was going to the bars heavily. I would get cruised some nights left and right ( LITERALLY) simultaneously by good looking guys. It overwhelmed me. I RARELY went home with anyone back then. Of course if I walked in to a gay bar today ( I mentioned earlier I haven’t been in a gay bar since March 2011) I would be totally invisible. Oh well. Believe it or not I still hold out hope for a relationship- even at my advanced age.

Young people don't want to hang around old people!

This doesn't just happen in the gay world, OP. Moms get ignored by their teens, and so on.

Go to a darker bathhouse.

What were you doing in your room to be ignored? Sitting on your bed with your legs crossed? On all fours in a caftan? Reading while snacking?

R33- I had my towel on and was rubbing my crotch at times.

Just hire an escort. That way you don’t waste time and get exactly what you want. Though perhaps the real problem is that you have no idea what to do with your time…

R35- The guys that would cruise me in the bars in 1995 were FAR more attractive than any of the men I've viewed on rentmen.com. Why would I pay $250 for an average looking guy that I would have ignored in the bars in 1995. If I saw someone who made my pupils dilate that might be worth paying for. But I have yet to see anyone he meets that criteria on rentmen.com or other similar sites.

R36 is OP- me

R23- Having women flirt with you is better than NO ONE flirting with you.

Stopped reading at “NO spring chicken.” In DL talk this means you’re on your tenth year of Social Security.

R36 1995 was 27 years ago ,dear. that puts you at what,50-60 ?

R40- If you hadn't skipped over this thread I mentioned already that I'm 56 years old.

Honey, 1995 is long over. If you didn't have all the sex you could have had back then, there's no making up for it now. If you want a relationship, stay out of the bathhouses and go meet men your own age in a more civilized venue.

Old gay men are like trans

They are astonished and angry that no one will have sex with them, but they won’t have sex with each other.

And neither group can see their own hypocrisy

R33 If you want your dick sucked you should have it out and be playing with it....90 percent of the guys at bathhouses are looking to suck

I also want to a bathhouse on Saturday night - Entourage in Las Vegas. I posted about my Vegas bathhouse plans last week. I’m a 48-year-old bear. A cute, friendly twink blew his load in my mouth and then a quiet, bearded otter gave me a hand job to completion in the sauna. Exactly the experience I was looking for. Sorry, OP! Not sure what I did right.

Maybe the overweight guy in the room next to you frequents the place and is "talented" thus why people flocked to his room. If you want to be more attractive make sure you are very well groomed and do what you can to improve your looks. Yes, it's superficial but that is kind of what you are saying you are looking for.

How sad

R43- You can say the same thing about Asian guys.

R44- I never have my towel off when I'm trying to entice someone. I rub myself with the towel on- always. Do you thing that would make a big difference if I was exposed and wagging my boner at guys I would get a much better response?

OP why not ask someone on Grindr or Scruff to meet you at a bathhouse? I’m sure *someone* would get off on that idea and it would solve the issue of where to fuck.

Worth a try.

R50- That might work but I have never used any of the apps to meet guys for sex.

R49 well you couldn't possibly get less of a response than you did....It pays to advertise

Op, Have you tried not being a dirty old man?

R53- What would I have to do to be THAT dirty old man?

Being middle-aged sitting in a small room all night naked, with the door open rubbing your junk hoping a pretty man will come in then come in you. That's a good start.

R55- LOL

Yeah, The situation is pretty laughable.

R55- I did not notice the last words of the first sentence. I'm a Top so I've never had anyone cum in me.

Thanks for sharing.

R59- That's what datalounge is all about.

On DL, I think the proper term is oversharing.

DL people I forgot to mention this- There was a guy walking around Saturday night at the bathhouse who was only wearing a towel but he had his mask on. I saw one or two other guys walking around with their masks on ( I can't blame them). He stood at my door then entered and took off his mask ( he can't give me blow job with his mask on - DUH). When he took the mask off he appeared considerably older than he looked with it on. But he gave me a good blowjob so it was worth it after all.

No doubt attempting to hide their shame. Lol

There are 3 types of people at the bathhouse....those there for drugs....those looking for the porn star guy....Or those who have lowered their standards and are just looking for a couple of hours of fun...I'm the third...There are guys who I'd do at the bathhouse but I would never invite them over my place

R64- The first type is ON drugs.

The third is someone you'd have sex with but you're not attracted to- You'd let them suck you off but you'd never reciprocate- did I get that right?

R65 Pretty much....on drugs or the dealer is there

This is a failure of the gay community to make new spaces and change with the times.

There is no reason that all these places have to close and no new ones open. Get innovative. Start a new club. Make a bathhouse that people want to go to. Clean, entertaining. New. High speed wi-fi for people to use. Bring it into the 21st century.

I haven’t been to a bathhouse in years, but I have a friend who goes from time to time. According to what he’s telling me, the trannies have invaded the gay bathhouses too.

It's a good guess most of the commenters here have never been to Steamworks Chicago.

R69- Why. Do you recommend it?

I used to go in the late 70s up to early 80s until the ones in NYC were largely closed due to The AIDS. Those pre-AIDS bathhouses were a different scene and I was in my twenties and drunk or stoned.

Wandered into one about 15 years ago again, the East Side Sauna. Coming from my then job uptown just on a whim got off the subway in the East 80s and went in. After decades away. That started about a decade of popping in randomly, never more than once a month, often less frequently, sometimes once every six months. Never the same day of the week.. I could make many observations but here's one thing that stood out to me as a sort of anthropologist of the bathhouse. No matter when on these truly random trips I showed up there was a core of the same middle-aged or older guys there. They must have been spending a shit load of money. But they were socializing, talking in the hall, watching TV together. It occurred to me that this was as much, or more, about that for them, than sex. This was their local gay bar, their gay community center, their MCC, whatever venue older gays use to socialize and maintain contacts and sorta friends. It seemed OK or even healthy viewed that way.

Covid lockdown must have been hard on them.

Is that where all the A-level meth sluts go R69?

Steamworks in Chicago is much, much better than most. Most of the bathhouses in the US are flophouses for the homeless or drug addicts. Enjoy your bedbugs.

Mikveh night?

R45- That was generous of the Twink to save IT all for you.

DL people don't berate me but I'm considering trying my luck again at the bathhouse on Saturday- assuming the weather is not inclement. I bit of a FRAU because I don't like driving on rainy nights. I shall duly report back here all of my adventures or MIS adventures.

I'm a bit of a FRAU

not I

[QUOTE]an average looking guy that I would have ignored in the bars in 1995

And there, OP/R36, you have your answer. Back in 1995, you would’t give the time of day to guys you considered ‘average’. Well, 27 years later, you’re below average. And your present-day heirs are giving you the same treatment you gave to others.

Ain’t life a bitch, bitch?

R78- Back in 1990 to 1992 before I started going to gay bars I would respond to peoples personal ad and I was rejected left and right even by guys who were totally average looking and not out of my league. When I was rejected back then it would take me two or three days to recover from the rejection. I bought an inexpensive set of weights at Service Merchandise ( remember that place) and they sat around for months until my brother assembled the bench. I did not know that having a build was a type of currency in the gay world when I bought the weight set and the bench. By 1993 I had a build and was exploring gay bars regularly and started to do well ( in terms of being cruised not having sex). Why shouldn't have I rejected average looking guys by 1995 now that I was out of their league when back in 1991 most of them rejected me. You take what you can get. Back in 1991 I knew I was a beggar so I would only reject guys who were obese.

Steamworks Chicago has been described as the "Disneyworld" of bathhouses in the US, which is a very good description. Very clean, very minimal drug usage, and some of the hottest bodies you've ever laid your eyes (or any other part of your anatomy) on. The places in NYC and LA are complete shitholes.

It sounds practically wholesome R80.

OP, are you a female to male transgender? No one wants you pussy.

If you're old, you're not wise. Young people don't want to fuck old people for free.

R82- I’m a top. I do the FUCKING.

Have you tried Palm Springs, OP?

R84- I've never been there. Is it nice?

Have you tried a homeless shelter, maybe a drug rehab center?

R86- Why would I want to go to those establishments.

R87-OP

To improve your odds, of course.

After my fifth time at a bathhouse, I acquired an STD. I never had one before and I was mortified. It was curable, but I never went back. It’s not worth it. I was 51 at that time. I’m 59 now and I’m still too frightened to go back.

R90- The only thing I ever got from a bathhouse was Crabs. But back in the 1990's when I was a youngster I had someone at my place and he gave me Crabs. I was so naive then. I didn't know what these things were that were crawling all over my private area.

If you don't mind my asking- What was the STD you acquired?

STD outbreaks can start at bathhouses, there was a place in I think Indiana where a regular gave a bunch of guys herpes.

I think there was a motor oil in the 1970's called STD.

R91, it was chlamydia. I’m a top, but I think I contacted it through oral sex.

R94- Yikes. What were your symptoms?

OP take heart. Even sexy.people sometimes have trouble getting laid on a Saturday night. This gal even wrote a song about it.

R96- Wish me luck. I'm going back to the same establishment on Saturday. I'm going there partially for sex but also to know that guys are interested in me- still. I'm not just talking about the youngsters but attractive guys my age.

In 2018 I was at a bathhouse- not the one I'm going to tonight- It was a Sunday night in February. It wasn't that busy. A good looking (HOT) muscular young masculine white guy ( DL people's FAVORITE type) stopped at my door and said - Are you having a good time? Okay, I've only been here for 8 minutes - I said like a drip. I wanted him to scram. I couldn't deal with having sex with such a HOT guy. I want to enjoy sex not feel like I'm performing.

He entered my room anyway. I did not taking my towel off I just rubbed over the towel a bit. He turned around and walked out. Did he walk out because he did not like what he saw close up or because I did not respond properly to his HOTNESS? Who knows.

OP check out this bathhouse in New York. It seems to be more fun.

R99- The OP of that thread said the place is packed with bottoms. EVERY gay place- bars, bathhouses, Grindr is PACKED with bottoms.

You sound off Op, are you a dreaded Aspie?

R95, I had a burning sensation while urinating. Also, my urine was cloudy and it looked milky. I went to my doctor, my urine was tested, and the result was Chlamydia. I took meds and was cured. I never went back to a bathhouse. My nerves can’t handle it.

Most places are bottom-heavy. Even older guys can land if they advertise as a top. Take the towel off and show them your raging hard-on. Walk around. Everybody’s there for the same reason. Stop being afraid of rejection, it’s life. Move on to the next guy. People who lack confidence never get what they want.

R103- Good advice. I am a top so that helps.

One messy bottom and the place becomes a giant toilet stall.

This is going to sound harsh but you need to be realistic about your own level of attractiveness and the attractiveness of the guys who you want to have sex with, even though it is a bathhouse environment and everyone is in theory up for sex. Just because they are horny and want to have sex doesn't mean that an attractive man is going to go for you, if you are not their equal.

I have been to a bathhouse/gay sauna more times where I've not actually had sex with anyone than the times I have...I remember one time, I was in one of the porn rooms and still had my towel on and a guy who I had given no prior signals to decided to grab my towel and swooped down to suck my cock and I had to physically push him off. He wasn't unattractive but I wasn't attracted to him and what made it even worse was his comment to me "How much did you pay to get in here?" with the insinuation that since I'd paid an entry fee I must be desperate for sex or had to get my money's worth with whoever approached me. Gross.

Anyway, a bathhouse is a pot luck thing generally, if you didn't find anyone to have fun with this time, don't get depressed thinking you never will - go another day at another time and try your luck again, you never know who you might meat, er...meet!

Thanks for the advice UK Guy.

Do mind telling me how old you are?

So much work to cum. And then once you do, you have to get out of his room or get him out of yours (or otherwise extract yourself from whatever play space you are in), get dressed, walk to your car, drive home, and then sit there and wonder what venereal disease you just got.

Or you could just look at xhamster, jerk one out, and then sit here and bitch at all the whores.

R108- It's much more awkward if someone comes over to your place that you met on Grindr and you're JUST NOT THAT INTO HIM- like SJP said on SATC.

What do you do then? At a bathhouse you just say- I don't think it's going to work or I want to take a break.

Dear lord! You're totally missing the point! At your advanced age, who fucking cares what someone thinks or doesn't think?

Once you cum, the world changes.

Who wants to put up with all that bullshit?

R110- Actually most of the time I go to bathhouse I don't have any orgasms till I get home and find something or someone HOT to masturbate to on the internet- so it's even worse than you thought.

I agree with the confidence - I don't think I am overly attractive, 59, but I like myself and am confident, and have a surprising number of people (to me) show interest. It's kind of weird, but nice. .

You know you can jerk off at home to something infinitely hotter than the in-person "local talent" in Albany, right, r111?

R112- Is this on Grindr, Scruff or a bathhouse?

R103, that’s an excellent idea. I’m a top and I’ll try it.

walking around with a hardon never occurred to you, r115?

I smell frau

R116- R115 is not me.

Sounds like you are kinda awkward based on your story with the hot guy. Maybe try talking less, no one is there for conversations.

I also suspect you have too high of standards for your station in gay life. You also seem to have a need to be validated by a more attractive guy flirt with you. This can be unappealing when it’s obvious.

R118- When I am really attracted to someone I act indifferent. I can be real friendly to someone when I have no attraction to them- I'm weird like that. The HOT guy that night in 2018 chatted me up first.

A couple of years earlier a so called hot guy- Tall, moderate build, very good looking masculine white guy was walking around the bathhouse ( he did not notice me at all- I didn't mind) he walked up to some guy ( I witnessed this all from my room) and waved a finger at him and said- You've been following me around all night! The other guy who was NOT hot ( he was kind of meek looking and I felt sorry for him) said ( apologetically) I was just admiring your Abs. He was so stricken by the hot guys beauty he had to be near him.

I agree with a previous comment. Hire an escort. You can get exactly what you want. Life is short.

R119 is me (OP)

I am no Brad Pitt but God gave me a huge cock. I would go to the bars and be ignored by the guys I wanted. I went to the bathhouse after the bar one night, got a room laid back, and brought out big willie. I was the belle of the ball. The first guy walks by my door does a double-take, leans on my door until i say "you want to come in?" He shuts the door and proceeds to blow me, He does an okay job but as I said I am blessed. Next thing I know he wants me to fuck him. Hot damn I do. I pounded the hell out o him, moaning loudly, Jesus christ and oh my gods. I thought he was just play-acting but nope, He kissed me gave me his number. Next guy I recognize from the bar. He is a bit older but very well muscled. He has no clue who I am. Same scenario. Daddy is moaning like a whore in church. Wants to lay and cuddle, invites me back to his place. I tell him "you know I know you from the bar," and he is genuinely shocked. I give him a pass because I am not his type and he smiles and says "well you are now,"

R122- Some gay men are so FUCKIN shallow.

I'm not great with crowds even when I'm fully clothed, so the idea of being nearly naked in a place where strangers are constantly sizing each other up sounds like a true nightmare.

R124- Some people there walk around dressed.

R122 = yawn. Not buying it....

[quote]Surely there’s bathhouses out there that are for mature folks only with a specialty for young guys that love to frequent them

Hey Siri, find the closest mortuary near me.

r126 IDGAF. It's true. The funny part is people started approaching me at the bar afterward. My muscle mary had a big mouth. The problem was most of them just wanted to try it, not actually date or hang out beyond me fucking them. Yeah, I was fucking hot guys but they would ignore me at the bars until closing time.

OP you are right very shallow.

R128- Don't you HATE people like that. I would think it would be very satisfying to reject them so they can know what it feels like to be ignored and rejected.

Datalounge people I went to the bathhouse again last night. I sat in my room for one full hour not even advertising ( rubbing myself) I just sat there with my arms crossed. That mature guy from last time gave me a nice blowjob , a guy who looked like a trucker ( he had sagging tits and lots of tats), and some small Asian queen who snorted popper also gave me blow jobs- nice ones as did some guy with a shaved head. None of these people are what datalounge would refer to as HOT or particularly attractive but at least I had some good sex so that's what matters. There was a slim good looking young Latino guy walking around ( just my type) he did slow down when he went by my room but I did not take off my towel or do anything to indicate my interest- which is not to say he would have been interested in me anyway.

Seriously Op, Are you on the spectrum?

I assumed everyone who went to bathhouses were guys too ugly to score on Instagram, tinder, or even grindr. No offense. Like maybe because the only bathhouse near me is in the deep south, so maybe my experience is different from people on the coasts.

R132- I mentioned it earlier in this thread that I've never been on Grindr, Scruff or Tinder and Instagram.

R107 I'm nearly 40, I am not the most handsome guy ever or have a phenomenal body but whenever I've found myself in a sauna environment I can usually get what I want, I just have that swagger I guess.

R134- That guy you mentioned who gave you an attitude - he wasn't even someone you were attracted to. Over the years almost anyone who's ever given me an attitude was someone average looking and or someone I wasn't even attracted to.

Who's to say what constitutes a phenomenal body. I like a slim natural body over someone muscular and covered in tattoos.

Swagger? ugh...

Stick your dick through a glory hole, no one will notice your age or lack of fitness.

R137- Who does glory holes anymore this isn't 1977.

R131- How am I ON THE SPECTRUM?

I assume all baths have them.

I went to the bathhouse again Saturday night. I did not really have any sex. This attractive Latino stood outside my room chatting with me then he sat down and closed the door. His English was poor. I've been learning more Spanish on Duolingo for over a year and a half so I was able to speak some Spanish to him. Any after a while we made out- kissed and felt each other up but there was NO fucking and NO sucking. I did not mind really.

Before I fooled around with the attractive Latino and about Fifteen minutes after I was in my room a good looking HUNKY Latino stood at my door ( he wore a neckless too) and smiling asked if I was having a good time, how long had I been here etc. He was a good looking, muscular, masculine Latino hunk - but I blew him off I told him I'm not ready yet and then I yawned- then he said - Oh you're tired, Yes I said. I was not tired I just could not deal with having sex with a HOT guy- Oh well.

R141 what was the sauna you went to?

So, OP, you are depressed when you don't get to fuck hot guys at the bathhouse but when a hot guy chats you up at the bathhouse you choke.

I don't think you're cut out for the bathhouse.

R142- It's in the Eastern half of the USA.

R143- When someone HOT expresses an interest in my I get VERY uptight. Especially if the guy is MASCULAR.

That's a good new dl word taken from that Asian guy . It combines masculine and muscular.

But you might be right. It's a no win situation for me. The thing I do best unfortunately is daydreaming.

Obviously, guys are not cruising you because they are bad people

R145- Is from me the OP.

How's the bathhouse in Troy, NY? Anyone gone?

R148, I've been to the Troy, NY place twice, but it was a number of years ago, so take this with a grain of salt... it's a nice facility (well-lit, nice jacuzzi/shower, comfortable seating area). But the staff are very strict about guys who start playing in public spaces... gonna play, there are spaces for that. Also, it's not 24/7, so you gotta pick the time to visit... I'd recommend calling before showing up and asking when it's busy.

I've thought about visiting again because I've tried the Providence RI places and man they are t-i-r-e-d. Mega-Plex is really grungy.

The whole thing sounds stressful.

I don't get why you turn a hot guy down who is wanting to have sex with you? I have got with some of the hottest guys ever at a bathhouse, if they are into me I'm not going to act disinterested or be too nervous to go through with it - why go there only to have non-sex with less hot guys? Doesn't make any sense to me.

Have a lemon party OP!

Datalounge people- I have an announcement to make.

Saturday night I'm staying home for a change. I'm NOT going to the bathhouse for the first time in 5 weeks. I need to get up early Sunday morning and go to the bakery to order a Chocolate Easter Bunny Moose Cake 😋 to take to my friends house on Easter Sunday.

The guy getting sucked in that photo looks twenty years younger than the other two nursing home escapees.

Gonna go to the bathhouse in Troy, NY tomorrow. Who wants to go with me?

R155- Tell us about your adventures or lack of adventures there tomorrow here on this thread because most dataloungers including me will be sitting in our LA-Z-BOY Chair in our XXL Caftans eating Haagen Dazs Vanilla Milk Chocolate Almond Bars-(the GIANT 15 count from Costco) will watching reruns of The Golden Girls.

FFS get over yourself! When you were 30 would you have looked twice at a 56 year old! You need a does of reality!

R153, I have an announcement to make - Easter is NEXT Sunday.

R157-What does FFS stand for?

R158-I am ordering the Chocolate Moose Easter Bunny Cake tomorrow and I will pick it up on Saturday April 16 so I can take it to my friends house on Easter Sunday April 17.

Moose and Bunny? I thought it was moose and squirrel.

r138 FOR FUCKS SAKE

I'm so glad I hate being around other people.

R163- Then how do you ever have sex?

Yes, R164 but then I quickly leave.

(r156) - Had a surprisingly good time - busy with lots of selections ... of men over 40. But that is not a bad thing at all. Fucked a cute cub in the back room while he was sucking another dad. Had some slap and tickle in the showers and got some primo head in the video room. Not everyone's scene, I'm sure, but I'm gonna go back. I' in my late 50s and I was not invisible ... to all anyway.

R166- Good for you.

R166- Post any new adventures at the Troy bathhouse here.

OP you seem to want every thing on your own terms: 'I won't go on the Apps', 'I won't meet anyone at home', 'all escorts on rentmen are average looking' , 'I always rub myself over my towel' etc. The definition of madness is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. Maybe just be a bit more flexible in trying new things, and changing your expectations. I'm in my early 50s, never had much of a problem attracting 'hot' guys through my 20s and 30s. I found myself becoming increasingly invisible in my 40s. It's just what happens. You either adjust and change your expectations and behaviour or you turn into a tragic Norma Desmond figure. I don't really understand why you're so bemused by this.

Are men feeling comfortable with COVID at this point to return to bathhouses. Considering bathhouse tend to cater to eldergays, I would guess they would still be pretty empty

I’ve actually been to the Troy, NY bathhouse—it was years ago but it had a great mix of older married guys and college boys. And everyone had a huge dick! Something about the water in the Albany area.

A college kid with the biggest dick I’ve ever seen fucked me very slowly. I had never experienced anything like that—my whole body relaxed. Heaven.

The place is small but nicely laid out. Didn’t experience much attitude actually

R166, your good time was had at the Troy, NY bathhouse? If so, I may make a drive out there. What day of the week did you go? Time of day?

Any DL daddy can give me a ride to Troy??? I am a Asian student in Boston and I don't have a car.

Public transportation going to Troy is very inconvenient.

There are Daddy chasers and Grandpa chasers, there are many young who prefer old.

I am now in my 40s' and I am catnip to the late 20s crowd, no idea why.

R173, the Troy bathhouse isn’t really a destination. It’s somewhere for local boys. I would imagine that the Providence RI bathhouse is closer to Boston

I’ve been up to Albany a few times for work and visited the Troy bathhouse (right next to Albany).

There’s a daddy there with a massive cock who shows up a lot. My guess is he’s in his 60’s with a great body, but that cock is legendary. He’s married (to a woman) but spends so much time fucking gay men.

He goes from bottom to bottom and makes them cum with a few thrusts. It’s so long and thick. When he got to me, I was sure I couldn’t take it all, but he was so gentle with me that he slid it in slowly without much resistance. I’m not a seasoned bottom so it wasn’t entirely comfortable in me, but he deep kissed me into submission. What a nice memory.

I'm 54. We've had our day in the sun. Treasure those days. Your mindset does not bode well for aging with integrity. You will not be as desirable in those settings. That's life. And stop being a dirty old whore.

You write like an old Harlequin novel R176.

R178- Yes , but either way it was enjoyable to read.

R177- You put it wrong . You should have said to me-

You’re a WHORE darlin

R169- What you mean is - I’m not in a position to be so independent anymore

Believe it I still daydream about meeting a nice guy for a relationship. I used to do lots of stuff- Gay softball team, hiking 🥾 club, Gay volleyball 🏐 team.

When one is single EVERY THING is a place to meet someone.

I bought a book years ago- It was written by a frumpish woman about how to meet a man 👨.

It looked like a book written by a secretary 🧑🏻‍💼 for secretaries.

In the book she gave one good piece of advice- Alway dress 👗 nice when you go out because you can meet someone anywhere.

(r172) Sunday afternoon is the busiest. A large number of license plates in the cark park are from MA and VT. If the Bear Albany has an event on a weekend, both afternoons have proved ... fruitful. I've landed there on Wednesday and Thursday during the day and its been hit or miss - mostly older guys. Evenings are sort of a bust as the place is only open from 11am - 8pm, so the after work crowd seems slim.

Fri-Sun seems to be the best time.

Thanks R181... weekends are when I can make the drive, I may head out for a Sunday cruise. I think I fit the profile of the clientele... over 50 (actually, closer to 60 - well, we'll just stop there).

And Albany still has a gay bar? Wow - that's a surprise.

So the baths are for old people and young whores?

Love bathhouses although I haven’t been to one in quite a long while.

Getting fucked by ten different guys, each with a different look and body type, is something every gay man should experience

I do go to the bathhouse for sex but just as important if not more is getting my EGO boosted. A week ago Saturday my ego got a major boost after that HOT Latino guy chatted me up- even though I didn't have sex with him- it didn't matter. I went home satisfied.

Well, we know R184 is a diseased mess.

R186- We know he's a

WHORE darlin

OP is probably not real, however, the things I have learned from quite a few bathhouse visits over the years (they're much better in Europe), include:

- a lot of the communication of interest is done subtly and non-verbally, through eye contact and how you position yourself. In the probably fake story at R98 OP expressed such clear disinterest he almost chased the hot guy out of the room. Someone on the spectrum probably would struggle in these places.

- actually, not all the hot guys at these places are having all the sex they want. Some of the guys who go do seem to be very conflicted about being there, either because they are closeted or because they feel shame for having casual sex with strangers - so you do get guys who just walk around and around and seem uninterested in anyone. If they do end up playing it might be only when they are under the influence or in the poorly-lit communal areas.

- gay men are very diverse in their sexual interests. Every other young guy on the apps has 'daddy' listed in his interests, and it's very common to see guys who are, to put it charitably, very different types pairing off. You might have to wait a bit longer and to improve the signals you send out but as a gay man in his 50s you're much more likely to attract a guy in his 20s (assuming no financial element to the attraction) than a straight man is with hot young women.

- if older-younger is your thing, try a specialist website. A friend of mine swore by Silverdaddies.

R188-My stories are real. You think my story from 2018 is fake because I didn't show interest in that Hot guy?

I admit I am uptight with some guys especially if they're in the category of hot. But it's not THAT often that I have so called HOT guys expressing an interest in me.

Sex clubs are like a buffet. Sometimes you want a plate with a little bit of everything. If you haven't eaten in a while, you can gorge yourself.

R189 I don't think you're real because you claim to be 56, a frequent visitor to bathhouses yet you seem to have no idea about how cruising and attraction between men works. I will allow the possibility that you are real but unusually clueless.

Next time, make an effort to show interest in the hot guy, Or else don't complain that he left when you gave him absolutely no encouragement to stay,

R191- One problem with that guy in 2018- I had only been in my room for 5 or 6 minutes and I needed to acclimate to being there. I wasn't ready to have sex yet - especially with a hot guy. I guess you're right though- I didn't properly and promptly respond to his hotness when he entered my room so he just promptly left.

R192. I'm afraid that is the culture in these places, and with the apps too. You won't be courted.

Sounds like bathhouses really are for old men and young whores?

Bathhouses are hit or miss. Sometimes it feels like a porno orgy scene on steroids (too much stimulation), other times it feels like everyone there (hot, average, and plain out ugly) are just in walk around and fill their 10,000 step a day quota (no stimulation at all).

Drop the expectations and judgment (self and others). Let loose, look at it as transactional, not some sort of life validation. Go for it with guys who you fancy, some will say no, some may not. Some may be jerks, some may surprise you.

Your being a top helps.

Also try a bathhouse in other countries? In Europe and Latin America, they tend to be far more social and accepted than bathhouses here (they are congregating points for the locals, with full on bars, and on weekends they are the place to be - going through the wee hours of Fri-Sun).

We just came back from living for two months in Mexico City and the bathhouse there is a BLAST. Lots of stylish hot Latinos, many eager to share an experience with foreigners. Also tons of Americans :)

Go back and let loose a little, don't be too cerebral about it. We expect a full report Sunday.

We R195?

R196 LOL. Partner and I.

Infamous last words often heard "Let's leave before 4am..."

Walked out usually around sunrise as the birds were chirping in the AM (as some other Americans leaving at the same time commented once).

R188 knows his st

^stuff!

Is that how you and the Misster bond?

R195 Yeah, from what I've heard US bathhouse culture got killed off by AIDS and in most places never really recovered. It's much better in Europe and you get a much better and broader range of guys to play with (in medium-sized as well as large cities). This is what keeps London ahead of NYC for me as a gay mecca, though apps and chemsex culture seems to be putting big pressure on the baths just as with other gay venues.

R195- Sunday is Easter and I'm my friends want me ( and the Easter Bunny Chocolate Moose Cake) there by 11 am so I'm going to hold off on any bathhouse adventures until at least a week from Saturday. Part of the fun of going to the bathhouse is not knowing what type of guys are going to show up- it really is an adventure.

Was at the Troy, NY bathhouse yesterday early afternoon - rather fun. Surprised. Gonna head back on Friday ...

The Troy NY bathhouse has such odd hours and it's not 24/7 - I'm surprised they can remain open.

I was thinking of a Sunday visit, but it's Easter and the childhood Catholic got the better of me, thinking, "really? You're gonna spend a Hold Day of Obligation looking to spend time on your knees and get your cock sucked?"

(r204) I'll join you. Meet you there!

Who has to clean these places?

Concerned European are you the same person as UK Guy?

Hilarious how people are overthinking bathhouses here.

“Your story isn’t true!! That would never happen!”

One place to never overthink is the bathhouse.

It’s a nice, safe place where everyone is gay and there for pretty much the same thing. Find someone you’re attracted to and attractive to and go at it. 15 mins later, do it again…and again…and again.

Over thinking it ruins the experience.

[Quote] Who has to clean these places?

Poor minorities

Safe? R208, I don't think I'd go that far. And R209 Yeah, Probably.

R206 how do you get your cock sucked when you are on your knees? Sounds technically challenging to me.

I’ve never been to a bathhouse, just a few sex parties. Are there any here in New York…worth visiting?

DOes the odler guy with the gigantic cock still go to the Troy NY bathouse? Asking for a friend.

R213- I find ODLER guys hot too

Troy has a bathhouse ?? Pam Hupp Troy?

Can I have your things?

Had a GREAT time at the Troy bathhouse. Well worth it.

A friend of mine went to a bear event in a sauna and they all got little visitors from the seaside. No thanks.

R217, when did you go to Troy? I drove out last Sunday (Easter) and it was closed. No signs saying they were closed for the day, nothing on their facebook page or website. I called and all I got was a busy signal.

A bathhouse on Easter Sunday?! Have you no shame?!

R43 Nailed it. And Bathhouses is not the best place to find hot men, quite the opposite.

You will find only gross pussy chasers.

R207 No.

R3 BINGO!

OP is bitching that nobody hot wants to fuck him but of course he doesn't want to fuck anyone who's not hot either. But the hot people are the "problem".

I have not gone to the bathhouse in three weeks which makes me practically a bathhouse VIRGIN.

Heading to the Troy, NY bathhouse today

R225- Good luck. Let us know at this thread what adventures or MIS- adventures you experience.

How's the bathhouses in Providence like??

so is the older guy with the huge cock still haning out at Troy?

The same people screeching about COVID and how they're going to wear a mask until their dying day are also whoring it up at bathhouses. You couldn't make this shit up if you tried.

R229- That's because -

They're WHORES darlin.

The bathhouses in Providence are old and each need to close and remodel. Honestly, Mega-Plexi is just depressing to be in and Club Body Center, while better has a decrepit entry from the street up a flight of stairs and along a hallway.

Mega's remodel should bein with cleaning the ceiling which looks like a scary biology project for mold.

[quote] The same people screeching about COVID and how they're going to wear a mask until their dying day are also whoring it up at bathhouses.

I don't think they are the same people

[quote] Mega-Plexi is just depressing to be in and Club Body Center, while better has a decrepit entry from the street up a flight of stairs and along a hallway.

That's sad. I remember when Mega Plex opened 20 years ago. I never went but heard it was really nice.

I went to one recently and it was overrun with senior citizens who wouldn’t be there if not for Viagra. I know it is my inevitable future, but the saggy, wrinkled butts, weird behavior and cockblocking/not taking no for an answer was too much. I will definitely not be doing bathhouses or sex parties at that age. It’s definitely an example of just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.

It's Sunday morning.......can I have your stuff???

Anybody been to the bath in Rochester, NY, an hour out of Buffalo? I read the reviews on Google and I think it's open 24 hours several days again? Seems small but hey, it's a small city. Impressive they even have one, plus colleges there.

Rochester is a few hours by car to Troy, so one could make a weekend of it.

Or even Rochester one day, then to the baths in Toronto, Canada the next might be 2.5 hours by car? How many baths in Toronto nowadays? I assume Steamworks is still in business there?

(r228) yes, I am.

[quote] I will definitely not be doing bathhouses or sex parties at that age.

Don't make promises you can't keep

[quote] Or even Rochester one day, then to the baths in Toronto, Canada the next might be 2.5 hours by car?

Is you life that pathetic?

Syracuse has a bath too. Syracuse is 2.5 hours from Troy.

Rochester to Troy is 3.5 hours.

R240- I don't measure distance by hours. I measure distance by miles.

Um, Rochester is farther away from Troy than Syracuse.

That means it takes longer to get there.

Ground zero.

I might be going back to the bathhouse tonight for the first time since April 2. Unfortunately I've gained about 8 pounds since then so I guess I can't expect too much. I will report back any action or lack of any action tomorrow.

The baths can be brutal. I only go for cleanliness purposes, but one weekend some entertainer in a sequined towel was spotlighting all the out of shape losers and wallflowers while singing ‘Saturday Night is the Loneliest Night of the Week’.

DL people I went to the bathhouse last night. I was in my room for 1 1/2 hours before I had any action but it was probably mostly my fault because I was not rubbing or giving any indication that I was ready for action. This slim Asian guy in a mask stood in front of my room a couple of times but I did not respond. Later a hot Latino guy slowed down a few times then later he actually entered- this time I did not fuck up but I FUCKED HIM after he sucked me briefly. He seemed to be enjoying it. Then we stopped after several minutes and he left. Later this hot black guy was walking by room slowly and looking my way at times- later he stopped and said to me - Howz it going or similar I said ok- he entered my room I did not take off my towel I just rubbed a bit- he turned around and walked out. I guess I pulled the same thing as I did with that HOT guy in 2018 R98. I had some other action too. I did nicely last night except for the hot black guy which felt like Deja Vu.

Sorry to hear you were ignored....you fat whore!

And now, the continuing story of a five that won't settle for anything less than a nine or ten

R248- GOL

GOL means giggling out loud

Incredible that I type this... I've been tempted to go to the Troy, NY or just suck it up and head down to Providence, RI, but gas prices have kept me home. Providence is about 90 minutes away and Troy almost 2 hours.

Damn...

Busy afternoon in Troy today. Watched some hairy verbal dad fuck the shit out of an cute Asian kid while another dad was getting some primo head from a hot as fuck black guy who was deepthroating dadto the root. Quite sure the dad dumped his seed in the Asian kid's ass. Lotsa bears and dads - and a few twinks that were in heavy rotation ...

It's amazing that some shithole like Troy has such a vibrant bathhouse.

Bring an industrial sized bodle of hand sanitizer and a black light.

The Troy Chamber of Commerce obviously has a DL liaison now.

R252, well, the bathhouse in Troy is not typical... it's not open 24 hours, it's actually quite nice inside, it's small so it must be easy to maintain and they actually try to enforce the rules of the house.

I've been told that the men there are, by and large, married guys who step on the wife and family for a few hours, get off, get out, get back in the closet.

(r255) nailed it. There are a lot of married guys who are stepping out as well as RPI guys - mostly owlish nerds (still hot). And I too, was there yesterday and did see that dad fucking the shit outta the Asian boy on the couch. Big cock. Hot

The bathhouse in Troy, New York sounds happening. Maybe I should go there next time instead of my usual place.

With all the talk happening here, I decided to stop into the Troy bathhouse. Damn. It was noon when I got there (the hours there are fucked up - they close at 8pm. WTF?) but by 1pm, 4 guys that had mounted and rode my cock - three of them damn cute!. On a WEEKDAY afternoon! Low key, but some nice 35 year old (and up) cock. Recommended. May swing by again this Sunday. Troy? Who knew?

A pox on all your bathhouses!

Has no one been heading off to Troy, NY for dick (giving or receiving)? We need tales of your fucking and sucking guys... do tell us sex-starved compatriots... if you have a sweat-drenched, cumshot experience from else where you too are welcome to post!

Finally ran into the older guy with the huge. cock. Damn people were not lying. Must have been a foot long and thick. I sucked his cock the he told me he wanted to fuck me. I was a bit nervous but he ate my ass till I begged for it. Fuck of my life. Never felt so much dick in me and he flooded my basement like no one else. Damn old man I hope I am that horny when I am his age.

[quote] he flooded my basement like no one else.

Your insurance company must have dropped you a long time ago with so many floodings.

This is Troy... Wonder if any crew or cast drop by when the Gilded Age shoots on location?

(r260) Was there on Sunday. Actually fairly busy for such a nice day outside. A couple of hot dads - one very hot top (late 50s maybe?). Plenty there to keep one entertained ...

OP just be grateful that you didn't go on Christmas day like I did, many years ago. 1985 to be exact. A few hours prior, my obsession-crush "love of my life" showed up at my apartment wearing something that clearly indicated he was getting more and more into another guy, and I just lost it. He said "You look like you wanna hit me. Go ahead." So I slapped him, and he felt the sting; that's when he got a real sense of just how devastated I was. He looked at me, stunned, and left, to go to the other guy's place.

Shortly after that I was at the 1350 Club with my friend Alan, and all it did was make a bad day even worse.

Eh, It sounds too cold and impersonal.

Oh OP, how sad. Get a mirror. You are 60, fat, not attractive. Little wonder guys in the bathouse do not see you, or do look at you, and no thanks, pass you by. Of course it hurts. Someone notices you, your ego is soothed. But is all this read true? You type so prissily I am sute you are the typist who types as Greg.

Could be worse OP, you could be Asian.

R267- I'm not FAT ( right now) and I'm not 60 yet - it's still a few years away

I admit that at least half the reason I go to the bathhouse is in the hope that some good looking guy will express an interest in me which boosts my ego and also lets me know that guys are still interested in me and perhaps I can still meet someone for a relationship. I know what you're going to say- A bathhouse is the WORST place to meet someone for a relationship. Not there but somewhere out in the great wide world. I'm going on a hike with a gay hiking group on Saturday. I would say that is a more productive way to spend a Saturday than sitting in my room at my local bathhouse- though that can be fun too.

Do you carry cash on you Op, I hear that helps a lot.

Nothing screams quality like a guy going to a bathhouse. Give your head a shake.

R271- I have no idea what you mean.

[quote] Oh OP, how sad. Get a mirror. You are 60, fat, not attractive. Little wonder guys in the bathouse do not see you, or do look at you, and no thanks, pass you by. Of course it hurts. Someone notices you, your ego is soothed. But is all this read true? You type so prissily I am sute you are the typist who types as Greg.

Sorry, R267, but I did not post this. I don't go to bathhouses. And, more importantly, I know how to spell 'necklace.'

R141: [quote] Before I fooled around with the attractive Latino and about Fifteen minutes after I was in my room a good looking HUNKY Latino stood at my door ( he wore a neckless too) and smiling asked if I was having a good time, how long had I been here etc.

So stop being such a jerk.

Have cash or drugs, Op, and you'll be beating them off with a meth pipe.

Why put yourself into a situation like that anyway. Communal sex is gross anyway.

R275- I'm not into orgies or threesomes. I only have sex with one gay at a time.

While in a room full of other guys.

R277- I always get a room when I go there. So when I'm having sex with someone the door is closed and it's just me and another guy in my room.

Much less weird and transactional.

Are they trans friendly? As a Maverique, I hope they are not hung up on gender, and I am welcome with my bio breasts and vagina.

Watched a hot, built dad fuck the shit out of a hairy dad in the sling at Troy yesterday afternoon. Happy Father's day.

Exhibitionists are obnoxious and needy.

R281, is this or are these the same hot built and/or hot hairy Dad others have posted about here? If so, does the bathhouse have just two hot and built and hairy Dads who fuck and get fuck? What's the rest of the clientele like at this steamy little place outside Albany?

I've been pondering the drive for a Sunday... but stopped when I calculated gas... incredible. Price hit $5 a gallon and it's almost two hours each way...

I have to say that everytime time I have been there - a half dozen times - its been a different mix of guys. A good number are quite fine, and then there are a few of the walking dead. If you are going for the first time, Sunday afternoons are the busiest.

I might be going back to my local bathhouse on Saturday night for the first time in a while. I will report back here any sexual adventures or lack of them.

Are they man from the orient there? I am only interested in oriental men, so not sure if this is a good option.

R287 now there is a cologne that smells like them.

R286- Are you referring to Chinese guys?

I don't know where you are but here in the USA no one says ORIENTAL anymore. Not since at least the 1980's.

What's the negative connotation of Oriental? Is the Monopoly game canceled?

We can hardly wait R285.

[Quote] What's the negative connotation of Oriental?

Are you writing from the 1980’s?

bump

Its Thursday. I need a trip to the bathhouse. Who wants to come along for the ride?

All this bathhouse talk is making me horny

Before the pandemic, I’d be up in Albany somewhat frequently for work. Loved the Troy bathhouse—It’s small but nicely layed out—it’s often active with a mix of older and young college guys, almost no attitude. the Albany area has some of the biggest cocks I’ve ever encountered—whether in the bathhouse or through the apps. There must be something in the water.

Most white guys in my neighborhood of LA stopped going to the baths because they were filled, filled, FILLED! with Filipinos. I don't know what it is, but they LOVE trolling the bath houses in LA.

It was a great Thursday at the bathhouse. ....woof

Are you all dead from monkeypox and meningitis yet?

R297, where did you go

Do Filipinos count as orientals?

R300- Filipinos would count overall as ASIANS not Orientals.

r295 you are officially The Albany Has Big Cocks Troll. As soon as I read "Albany," I remembered previous posts about large verificatia of size meat in the town...ALL by you, surely.

Nothing better than a Japanese “banana”! Yum! 🍌

(r297) Troy. Gonna go again on Sunday - great time

R296 Maybe some are Mexican. it’s hard to tell sometimes. Unless they were eating balut?

LA still has bathhouses? Is The Zone still around?

...pox

And they say romance is dead!

R302, yes, I posted about it before but then others chimed in and verified it was their experience too.

Cocks in the Albany, NY are weirdly large. I’ve had sex with a number of the guys there, while they weren’t all large, a huge proportion of them were hugely portioned.

Bathhouses in the US are disgusting. The West Side Club was the worst. Glad it is gone. I sometimes wonder whether the new office tenants on W 2Oth know what was going on there.

Steamworks in Chicago is nice but I’ve heard it fails next to bathhouses in Europe

R311- The bathhouses in Europe are irrelevant to me. I'm not going to travel to Europe just to GET LAID.

[quote]Maybe some are Mexican. it’s hard to tell sometimes.

Mexicans don't go to bath houses in LA, travel in small packs giggling like little girls while speaking Tagalog. ROSE!

[quote]Bathhouses in the US are disgusting.

Because they are a thing of the past, like buggy whips or churning butter. Just wait for all the old, old, old Trolls attack me now for saying that. "Oh, you are wrong, they full of young gay men, they are very popular in Europe, it's the only place where I can relax, you just uptight about sex, bla, bla, bla.

Yeah, Sure Jan, Whatever.

Giggly twinks of all races should be ejected from bathhouses.

So is it no longer a truly oriental massage? A truly Asian massage sounds weird.

Move along, toots!

I prefer oriental bussy

The Oriental is the decor, the Asian is the massage done by the lady boys.

I prefer the oriental bussy of Asian men. I think I said it right.

Are you telling me bath houses in the US were clean, well lit, and joyful, as opposed to dark, depressing, and creepy before AIDS?

Taking a steam in Troy today. Who'll join us?

...pox...still spreading.

Doubt bath houses are locations for much pox spread. Eldergays go and they had their smallpox vaccines. Studies show small pox vaccination, even in childhood, offers strong protection against monkeypox

Who the heck would remember such a non eventful story from 2018? It really must have scarred you OP.

It's not always just geezers R324, it's also younger guys into daddies...or granddaddies, young guys managing to find younger guys, and let's not forget the whores trolling for customers.

R326 see R314 You are a little late to the party.

I was responding to R324's post, that's all.

R306, LA still has two bathhouses; I am not sure about the Zone.

What are the names?

Midtowne Spa and Flexx. The former is much more fun.

We're all older than we used to be. Why do you think time hasn't done a curtsy on your face? Get over it.

...pox...mutating...spreading.

I went to my bathhouse establishment on Saturday. I had sex with this portly guy who must have been 76 years old or older. He actually wanted me to suck his 4 incher after he finished sucking me. I had sex with someone who could be best described as a white Latino. He was attractive and I was fucking him with a condom but the condom was too tight so the sex act became a chore even though he was attractive and I was attracted to him. The under 30 crowd did not seem to notice me and that bothered me- I know you dl bitches are going to attack me for mentioning this again but have at it.

Why do you keep going Op the experience seems to always let you down?

R335- I'm always hoping my experience will improve the next time. I do see a few so called regulars there but there are people I see once and don't see again. There was a guy walking around wearing a cap- he was so interesting looking ( not just because he wore a cap- I do like a man in a cap for some reason). I wanted to know his story and I wanted to see him naked- oh well.

R334 Let us know when you're ready to admit that you're a sex addict who has hit rock bottom. The rest of us are already seeing it.

[quote]Midtowne Spa and Flexx. The former is much more fun.

Fun? Isn't Midtown Spa downtown LA right next to the real skid row? That area is hyper dangerous. Mostly old trolls, black dudes and homeless guys who dont shower go there from what I have heard.

Dont park your car on the street. Also, Uber may not want to pickup at that part of town, especially at night. Just be warned.

^ frequents Midtown Spa and sucks off the druggies.

Why does anyone keep fucking people they find disgusting or undeserving? Especially in circumstances that lead to disease? With no thought about anything but the next cum.

It's loneliness, I suppose.

^ Having a conversation with herself, not realizing we can hear her.

Midtown Spa - World Famous Sling Room.

And who said glamour is dead?

R337- Hardly. The last time I went there- three weeks before I didn’t bother having any sex. Perhaps 🤔 you’re jealous because you haven’t had sex since the Carter administration and you’ve been living through my sexual adventures vicariously.

Is there much oriental bussy to be had there?

I hope they re-record this as “Asian Gate” or they are getting CANCELLED!

Even when I am 76 I don't think I would let a 76 year old fat guy suck my dick. Jesus OP how big is your dick that the condom was too tight?

R347- 7x6

r348 that is not that big. My husband has a baby arm and before we went full bare he never had an issue. Were they the cheapy free condoms at the bathhouse?

R349- They give you condoms and lube- free.

I haven't been to a bathhouse/gay sauna since pre-covid. I can imagine the gloryholes are even more popular now?

Especially for the pox-faced sluts.

R351- My local bathhouse does not have gloryholes- as far as I know.

Just stay home and jerk off Op, maybe you'll be less mopey afterward.

R354- I hardly ever have an orgasm at the bathhouse. I usually have to masturbate to something on my computer when I get home.

That sounds sad and pointless Op.

OP🐒🙉🐒🙈🐒🐵🐒🙊🐒

R357- Please translate.

OP hasn't heard about Monkey Pox, I'm sure....or condoms.

I wouldn't mind seeing someone like that Frat Boy from the Bronx who doesn't like Bodegas- at the Bathhouse and having some HOT , SWEATY action with him.

Not really. I just said that to get attention. The frat boy in Chicago who shoved the trainer- he was HOT to me. Much more my type- slim and good looking.

I went to The Fair Theatre in Queens about 6 or 7 years ago on the advice of an acquaintance. He said it had a definite hustler/trade vibe. Out of my lifelong circle of friends, i've always been the most sexually curious/adventurous, with my compass, map and machete on-hand as I clear a path through boroughs unexplored, boldly forging ahead while the more sensible ones trail behind me, sometimes a bit reluctantly. So I just had to check it out.

I went in with expectations lowered as a coping mechanism. From the street it appeared deserted and past its prime, but once inside it was lively and crowded. I stayed for an hour, but it just wan't for me. It caters to an entire subset of gays that is just as gay as I am, but the commonalities end right there. Just checked on line via yelp and it is still up and running.

A big part of the visit that tainted my mood was this: the theatre was built in 1939 as an offshoot of the 1939 NY World's Fair in Flushing Meadows, Queens. Hence the name. Having attended the 1964 NY World's Fair, I appreciate NY WF trivia of all kinds. It saddened me to see a tawdry porn palace (there are three movie screens running non-stop, some with legit movies) in what could have been historically preserved as an art deco treasure .

R362- A lot of the theatres in Times Square were beautiful Art Deco palaces that by 1968 had been reduced to PORN palaces.

Do you have Monkey Pox in your urethra or anus yet, Op?

R364- I'm not a bottom. I never get fucked and the only thing I ever GOT was Crabs.

OP, you have problems?

Miss Sorvino you were FABULOUS in The Bucaneers.

So just your urethra then R365?

OP - Very curious. In your late 30's, how many guys did you hook up with that were 55 or over?

Also, the comment here is telling: "I've gone to rentmen.com several times. I find the men there generally VERY average looking. The guys walking around the bathhouse were a lot better looking then the escorts at rentmen.com." They are not "very average looking". The average American man is 5'9 and over 190 lbs. The average escort on rentmen is in very good shape, most are under 35, the tops tend to be average to very well endowed and the bottoms tend to have great asses.

The idea of hiring a sex worker so you can fuck a 10 (whatever that means to you) will probably result in disappointment on your end. First, nobody looks like the 10s in real life modeling photos. Instead, find the escorts in your cities and see if any you like have onlyfans. Or twitter accounts. See if they're open to a variety of guys (or older guys in your case). Also if you go in through the .eu portal on main page, you can click on reviews...and you can then click on the men reviewing the escorts. Some have pictures and stats. If a 300lb guy gave the escort 5 stars, you dont have to worry if that extra 25-40 lbs you're carrying around will bother him. if you see photos of guys in their 70s giving him great reviews, he's willing to fuck a 50 something and have a good time.

Anyone headed to the bathhouse in Troy this week?

What kind of guys tend to go there?

Gift pox ??

Got pox?

Mostly guys over 35yrs. Laid back place.

Guys without pox go there.

Datalounge people- I do go to the bathhouse for sex- of course, but more important. I go there to be desired. I went to my bathhouse on Saturday. A REALLY good looking guy ( white, with a moderate build about 37 years old) was walking around the place - ignoring me- which bugged me of course but even if he had stopped at my door and said - How's it going? I would have rejected him. I just like knowing he was interested in me. I need a shrink sometimes. I used to do that back in the mid to late 1990's . A good looking guy would be cruising me at a bar and I would walk out of the bar as said good looking guys was cruising me- it gave me more of a high when I did that. I only did that occasionally.

I wasn't ignoring you r376, I was just waiting for something better. As were you.

R377- You were definitely the HOTTEST guy at the bathhouse Saturday night.

We met our gorgeous horse-hung and fishfucking fourth husband on Christmas Eve at the 8709 bath house!

Hello- why would anyone go to the baths (they distill exist?) and think character counts? It’s all about instant attraction, lust, physical attraction.

R3 Brilliant! I had a friend who would invariably, when we were out, hit on the hottest guy in the bar, who invariably said no. My friend would get really angry and rant about how looks-ist and shallow gay men were. Once he threw a glass at the head of a guy who'd rejected him. It never seemed to occur to him that his coming on to ONLY the hottest guys in the bar was looks-ist and shallow itself.

Why not set up a networking party at the bathhouse for guys over 40. put it on Grindr or where ever, and see what kind of response you get. You can hype it for a few weeks ahead of time and even say that the first 10 guys will be eligible for a fifth of rum or something. it might catch on. You can always raffle off Metamucil.

OP - you sound like a very rejectful kind of guy. You are very clear that you would "reject" this guy and that guy, and you consider yourself above this one and that one and the other one. And why would you condescend to allow those other ones, etc. etc.

It's all coming back to haunt you. The same contempt you have for others is coming back to make you feel like shit. You earned it.

R381- It sounds like your friend needs to get back on his meds.

Are they bringing back bathhouses in San Francisco? They've been banned there since 1984.

Um... This isn't exactly a great time to be fucking a building full of strangers.

R386- When is a good time?

There is a bath house in Barcelona where one can charge for one's 'time'!

Maybe when there isn't a highly contagious virus spreading through the gay slut community.

That's not likely to happen, R389. So, fuck Luke there's no tomorrow.

I need another dose of validation so tomorrow night I'm planning on going back to the bathhouse to have attractive guys express an interest in me and I will reject them then go home feeling validated.

r391 Meet you there!

Going to the Troy, NY bathhouse on Sunday.

R393- Why not on Saturday? It should be a lot busier on Saturday.

We know an ancient eldersister with 10 inches who used to go to the baths.

She said that the 10 inches were "the only thing that saved me at the baths"

R395- Because most are BOTTOMS and SIZE QUEENS.

r394 Sunday is usually busier in Troy

R397- 0h, okay. Have fun and report back your adventures here.

The weather here in the Northeast is just too nice to be indoors cruising for cock on a Sunday... of course we really need rain, but that's a different story. So I'm not driving to Troy.

I'll be at an outdoor bathhouse on Sunday... here in western MA, there's a nude beach, very gay, can be very cruisy. Two weeks ago I shot a load for a hungry cocksucker... face, chest, mouth. Fingers crossed I do that again.

And others in this region will head to VT and hang their cocks in the sun (and get in some fucking and sucking) at Rock River.

With all the dumb sluts spreading the pox R390 there may not be.

Bath houses are for old trolls, they probably remember this commercial.

R401- I used to go there ALL the time when I was in my 40's back in ca. 1977.

Maybe in the US R401 but in Europe the age is much lower and the men are much hotter.

R403- I'll have you know I'm hot. My ass is high and tight!

When I was at the bathhouse a week ago Saturday ( though I was there last Saturday too) something occurred that was FAR MORE annoying than hearing a guy moaning who's being fucked - which is annoying.

Someone in the room next to mine was sleeping and SNORING!

I was climbing the walls being forced to endure his snoring.

R401 My cousin grew up on that block between 5th and 6th. My uncle worked for the Shubert organization. Where was that commercial aired?

R406- On a Manhattan public access channel.

Sometime in 2000 I went to one in Toledo Ohio of all places. I was there overnight on business and figured what the fuck. I got a room and as I walked to the room this collegel age kid in a towel cruised me. He asked me if I got a room and I say yes, he wants to come with me. He is not bad looking, some what in shape kind of average. I figure sure why not thikning I can fuck him and get the hell out of dodge. We get in the room, I close the door and we start making out before I am undressed. then I feel it against my leg. Fucking baseball bat sized cock. Prettiest thing I ever saw. Like a model of what a cock should look like. Long, thick, veiny, smooth shiney head. I changed plans fast. I kept that kid for two hours in my room, then took him back to my hotel. God love 20 year olds with dicks that don;'t go down. He must have came 5 time befoe I was done.. I blew him at he bathhouse and deep throated him. He went "whoa, do that again," lol. He said no one could ever do that to him, that he never enjoyed head until now. He wanted to fuck me and I told him he could but we would have to go back to my hotel because I was not expecting to find porn star dick in toledo. Poor kid. He told me he was not out, only came to the bathhouse for sex so his experience was limited.

Has anyone been to the Troy, NY bathhouse lately?

Has OP gotten the 🐒 pox yet?

[quote] He wanted to fuck me and I told him he could but we would have to go back to my hotel because I was not expecting to find porn star dick in toledo.

Did you go back to the hotel to clean out or because you're too good to get fucked in a bathhouse? If so, what did the poor kid do while you while you were giving yourself an enema?

R409, I'm with you... anyone have anything to report from Troy, NY bathhouse?

Outdoor nudity by a river season is coming to an end here here in New England... finding more nudity/cock for the fall/winter would be nice.

R393 I hear Oneonta has a great one, too.

I'm fully vaxxed for the MP - and apparently so are a lot of others as the Troy bathhouse was hopping last Wednesday at lunch.

Oneonta? WTF?

R415 I was going on the assumption that there's no gay bathhouse in Troy.

eldergays already have a monkey pox vaccine, since childhood.

(r415) riverstreetclub.com

I haven’t gone to a bathhouse in four and a half weeks. I feel like a bathhouse virgin again.

Anyone headed to River St this week?

OP is a whiny, pathetic asshole.

First he complains about better looking men not paying attention to him, but he himself obviously has some standards.

He refuses to go on apps where his chances of finding a younger guy into older guys increase due to the huge number of guys there compared to the bathhouse.

Then he says he goes to the bathhouse 'cause he likes to feel validated and that he likes to reject guys into him even if he finds them attractive.

I'm sure there's more to the story that I missed in this long, long thread, but come on.

Bathhouse was hopping today - lots of hots dads!

Did you hook up with any of them?

Bring back the bathhouse. I hate online hook-up bullshit.

I went to Troy, NY bathhouse Sunday. As others have noted, it has a lot of older, overweight men, but there were a could of guys who were good looking, in better shape... I got to fuck one (used the sling) and ended up fooling around with another - nicely built, graying daddy-type in his room. Definitely a good time.

Kicker is, it's a 90-minute drive each way, and if I've shot my load in the first hour, well, I'm done and think I should leave.

But I'm glad I went and got off with the daddy-type guy Maybe I should have asked for his number so we could hook-up again, even if at River Street.

(r425) Glad you had a swell time in Troy. Tell us more about the daddy you met up with - but maybe he wasnt all that since you didn't ask him for his number! I may go check this place out - sounds promising.

I was there too on Sunday. I have an idea who you hooked up with - he was hot. I think I gave him some head in the video room. Beautiful cock

R426, I didn't ask for his number because I found out he has a partner.

R427, he did have a great dick. Guy was late 50s, tall, hairy-chested. he had a beautiful, thick (and very soft) mustache.

Honestly, if I knew when he would be there again I'd make the trip.

(r428) On a whim I check the DL this morning and suddenly find I've been cast in the bathhouse remake of SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE. ... No one has ever said that about my mustache before. Next time I get to dump my load on YOUR chest. Thanks.

R429, you're welcome... and yes, if you want to cum on my chest, you're welcome to do that...

Any fun in Troy lately?

I hope you're not watching this season of American Horror Story, OP.

R429 - I've been thinking about another visit to Troy... if only there were a way to know if you'd be there as well.

** sigh **

See you in November?

r433 I bet you'll find someone hotter.

Women can still pull men when they are 56 yo.

r433 Probably stop in this Sunday. And the first Sunday in Nov.

R433 - October not possible, but November has possibilities.

Datalounge people- I went to a bathhouse for the first time in NINE weeks on Saturday but I did not have any sex. Oh well.

god dam bathhouses....super spreaders of all viruses known to man. ALL

R439- Maybe I should be glad that I had no action there the other night.

[quote] Datalounge people- I went to a bathhouse for the first time in NINE weeks on Saturday but I did not have any sex. Oh well.

Why?

R441- I guess I wasn't in the mood and it's been a bit over two months- I'm a bit rusty interacting with people in that setting. I was looking forward to it to. I had some expressions of interest but I did not respond to them. Oh well.

You're of a mature age and feel invisible?

Gonna try the Troy place - finally - tomorrow.

Did a crowd surround you and mock you puny cocklet?

welcome to the place most likely to spread covid, monkeypox and every kind of virus/flu.....nice.

^Who are these Carrie Nation Christianist intolerant sex-phobic jerks who jump on every thread where sex is mentioned?

Theyr the ones who escaped hiv and covid by avoiding bath houses...

I hope you washed your pits, feet and ass

OP, a bathhouse is a brutal leveler. Only your body matters. Without a great one, fewer to none will approach you. Go without expectations, so you won't be disappointed.

Maybe someone should open a fat whore bathhouse. You must be at 30 pounds overweight and love junk food. Caftans required, tiaras optional.

R450, I find men of all ages and shapes can have lots of fun at bathhouses. Jacked hot men tend to be the minority actually.

You definitely don’t need a perfect or even great body to enjoy yourself

R452- You sound like a nice person.

R450- It had been a bit over two months since I had last been there so for me it was a clean slate. I had no expectations.

R451- Your description sounds like a typical datalounger.

The question to be answered, is this: "R444, did you enjoy your visit to Troy's bathhouse? I enjoyed me visit earlier this fall. I'm busy right now, wish I could find a Sunday to drive out...

"I enjoyed me visit."

Popeye, did you leave Olive Oyl at home, let's hope?

Good god. cannot believe those caverns of disease are open again.

R457 - poor proof-reading on my part. Mea culpa. But it's true - I enjoyed my visit to Troy's bathhouse.

Monkeypox,HIV,Hep B and C are still around but let's get tawdogged at the bathhouse! Unreal I tell you the more things change the more they stay the same......

No shit, its like asking for some illness....for what, a fuk or suk?

Cold outside. Time for a sauna. Who's going to Troy this weekend?

R457- Contrary to popular belief, Brutus is not a top he's a TOTAL BOTTOM.

Shocking. Isn't it?

I LOVE massive hairy bottoms.

There's a hot member video on Squirt, I believe, where a hunky, hairy daddy is getting fucked from behind. So fucking amazing

Headed there tomorrow

I wish I had the time to visit on Sunday...

I haven't been to a bathhouse since just before the pandemic. I'm getting the itch.

Are there ever many guys there anymore like in the past or are people still wary of Covid, monkeypox, the flu, etc?

R467- I went to a bathhouse three weeks ago today and I arrived kinda early. It was only 9:30 pm and it was quite busy already.

You are old and ugly, OP. Just give it up.

Young guys want other hot young guys. Only ugly and fat people want you because you are old and ugly. People did not notice you because you are ugly and fat, not because you are are old.

R469- Au contraire , I am sometimes able to get the young, slim , good looking guys. I can even be attracted to guys considerably older than me but I'm NEVER attracted to the OBESE.

I’m the guy who comes in knowing he’s Poz. I don’t wear condoms. Tomorrow, I’ll go to my slaa (sex addicts) group and tell everyone I was taking and giving loads and remember nothing. It was a blur. I say I hope I didn’t infect anyone.

Big voyeur so I go to watch and jerk off. It's safe, especially these days with Covid and the 'Pox

fun time today ... wow

R473- Do tell

yes, R473... dish on the 'fun' you had or watched in Troy. And, hey... do you know why the hot tub's been out of commission?

Hot tub is back. A couple of big dick dads and eager cubs. A tall, hairy cute thrirtysomething was passed around most of the afternoon. Great cock sucker, but loved taking up the butt. Watched him getting plowed in the sling, in the back room ... He ended up in the VIP room with three dads plowing him with some size meat. Watched thru the blinds. The kid shot with one of that dads cock shoved all the way down his throat. HOT Great mix - young and old, furry and massive and jocks. There was a smooth tatted muscle guy that was VERY eager. Great Sun afternoon.

Nice to read man... especially the hot tub being back.

I go to the baths in Europe and don't get much action...they don't like my darker skin.

r471, if your medical provider were even slightly competent, you'd be on medications and undetectable and incapable of passing along HIV. However, it's obvious you're just a troll, apparently posting from the year 2000. An updated version *2022) would be that you had a strange circular open sore AND your penis was constantly dripping a white mucus-like substance, making urination painful - because at least those would indicate diseases that must be fully cured before you'd be safe to have sex with without a condom. I'm sure the vast majority of people visiting bathhouses today are either on PREP or already taking HIV medications for their own health. Condoms are always a good idea for insertive sex, but anyway, lots of people at the bathhouse are mainly into JO and oral, and/or voyeurism, like r472

^OP are you Muriel, drumming up content on a quiet DL day? I’ve never laughed so much!

I'm thinking Troy's bathhouse will be busy this weekend. Could be worth a drive... maybe R429's planning another visit as well...

R478- Are you Indian? I like Indian guys.

r481 What day are you going?

R483, I'm thinking Sunday... close T'giving weekend cruising for cock. Get to club around before 1:00. You?

R471 you need to be in jail for knowingly spreading an STD. Stop being a slut and wear a body condom when you have sex. Or stay at home pumping your infected baloney pony.

Get on a plane and go to the bathhouses in Kuala Lumper Lots of Arab guys there. You will be the toast of the town.

R486, U= U + PrEP stops the spread of HIV. If you bareback, HIV is the risk you take. So, I can only hope everyone is protecting himself

Sunday is a good day to go ...

Really? I thought Friday or Saturday night would be the busiest at a bathhouse.

R489 - bathhouse in Troy's unusual... it's not 24/7. It's closed 2 days a week... they don't want a lot of public play going on common spaces.

Saturday and Sunday late morning and afternoons are busiest times. I was told that's because many of the men are married and they're sucking dick and getting fucked when the wife thinks he's out running errands or playing golf, etc...

Sunday's a good day to go. I'm heading there today.

R490- Have fun and report back your adventures here on the datalounge.

Jupiter forbid.

Oh, sure. You had to pick the biggest planet?

... if the condom fits. Which it did barely.

Sunday in Troy was fun... I crossed paths (again) with an attractive man who's about my age. He's an excellent kisser, has a furry chest (which I love) and very nice dick I got suck multiple times. Bonus, he'll talk dirty (loudly) and he's good with taking a facial.

Club itself was busy, many of thee other guys were not my type (besides the hairy chested cock sucker was in the house). We did participate in one group scene, two younger guys were open to having guys watch them fuck and suck and I joined in a for some additional fun.

I left totally satisfied, having spent time with that hairy-chested man, shooting a load...

I feel like I am in a porn version of a Nora Ephron movie ... "Sleepless in the steam room"

or "You Got Railed"

or "Mixed Nuts"

R497 - perhaps you meant, "You Got Nailed" because there was a very hungry bottom who I fucked while he had cock in his mouth. And I was not first dick to fill his hole.

...nor likely the last ...

r495 - did the guy you were playing with look like a daddy bald Bo Burnham? I think I know who you are talking about?

I have not had any sex since August.

Does this make me a virgin again?

R501, I don't know who Bo Burnham is, so I can't make a comparison. And it's my place to identify someone I met at a bathhouse online.

Hey, I do kinda look like Bo. Well ... I did.

R504- If you look like Bo Duke from the Dukes Of Hazzard I would definitely want to do you.

One of the most beautifully hairy men I’ve ever had sex with was at the Troy Bathhouse. Very sexy bottom—maybe in his 40’s. So handsome and sucked like a champ.

The problem is he kept getting texts during sex and he would stop to answer them. I saw him later on some hookup site but couldn’t hookup at the time. I only go to the Albany area every now and again for work and haven’t been there in a while. The Troy bathhouse has always been fun but so hit or miss.

I would never have guessed in a million years that a bathhouse is Troy, NY would be a hotbed for such fun times.

R507, heed the words of R506 - it's hit or miss. I feel the same way, lucky I crossed paths with one guy while there who really got me going.

At the Troy bathhouse, sometimes it’s filled with college students and hot daddies. Other times there are literally two trolls.

Totally the luck of the draw

today? Definately troll time ...

Good. Take the time to brush up on your spelling.

You need to have your ESTs in tip top shape next time you go. Those boys are dying to hear all your cool stories bro…

Here's a song to cheer you.

R513- The Bay City Rollers never seemed particularly heterosexual to me. I could easily most of them spending Saturday Night at a gay bathhouse.

I could easily PICTURE most of them spending Saturday Night at a gay bathhouse.

R512, what are you referring to?

And what could R513 have typed that got the post deleted?

Got some tail yesterday at River St ... nice time

Good for you R517. Was River St busy? I often wonder if crappy weather on the weekend brings more men to the club.

Crappy weather usually keeps people away. I went on a snowy day a few years ago and it was only me and one other guy. We fucked our brains out but it would have been nice to see other guys

I might go to the bathhouse again on Saturday night for the first time in seven weeks. I did not have any sex the last time I was there. The last time I had sex was August 27th. Sometimes I go there just to be desired and leave there completely satisfied because attractive guys expressed an interest in me even though I left having had no sex.

R520, that sounds really strange. You have such low self esteem that you feel elated just because you were desired in a bathhouse.

Um, sorry to break it to you...but, considering what bathhouse are for, people desire all sorts of other people for the moment.

R521- If I weighed 400 pounds I doubt anyone would be interested in me except for the super morbidly obese chasers.

I have seen guys there who don't get any action and just leave after an 1 1/2 hours. They can't find anyone interested in having sex with them. These people are not considered HOT by any means.

R522, I’m not talking about the 400 pounder (who have their own admirers) but the average guy. There are many at bathhouses and everyone is having sex. That’s what you’re there for. You lower your “standards” and just have fun.

R523- I don't think people generally have sex with people they are not attracted to unless they're a prostitute. The place was busy the last time I was there. It it was slim pickins I could see guys having sex with whomever was there but when it's busy there is plenty to choose from.

May go to Troy tomorrow. Are Sundays usually busy?

r525 meet you there!

Okay did anyone have a good time in Troy on 12/18? Wish I had been able to make the drive...

Nice crowd yesterday in Troy - very full, rooms were gone by the time I got there!. Played with a could of hot dads - one with a beard and furry chest and smooth chested hottie with a beautiful butt. The staff put together a bbq buffet from Dinosaur BBQ which was free and very tasty. left satisfied ... in many ways.

Has anyone had any bathhouse house adventures lately? I have not been to my bathhouse in over two months. I'm out of the habit of going there. Which is a good thing because I was going there too often for a while. My entire gay social life nowadays is right here on the datalounge which I'm not sure is a good thing.

everyone i knew that went to bathhouses died of aids. so dam sad. be careful u guys

R530- I never have sex without a condom.

A drag that this thread's dying a slow death... has anyone visited "The Best Little Bathhouse in Troy" recently?

I haven't, which is a drag, but I have to build a day around the drive to and fro.

I like to do a little bathhouse in-person research periodically. I was sad to learn that Midtowne Spa in LA closed suddenly at New Years this year. It was a strange place, plopped in the middle of the very worst part of skid row in LA, but it was very large, the layout was well-organized, and there were good opportunities for voyeurism or participation. The clientele was extremely diverse - Latino, Asian, White, Black - some very good-looking. I checked out Flex on Melrose after I learned that midtowne was closed. The clientele was almost entirely Latino (not a problem for me), but I thought it felt dirty (a dubious rug lined all the hallways), with a confusing layout and I didn't enjoy it. However, the gym there was very large and pretty complete for a bathhouse gym. I didn't try the pool or any of the wet areas. To me, those are petri dishes. I think Flex is the LA area's last remaining gay bathhouse, although I see there is something called North Hollywood Spa that might bear checking out.

Actually, landed at the Troy bathhouse last Friday around lunchtime. Active, with most guys older than me (I'm 58), but many still in good shape. Plowed and eager bear in the back room three times over the course of my visit. Very nice hole, and very vocal - big turn on for me. About an hour after I got there a compact "pocket cub" showed up who glomed onto me and chest. Genius with my nips. Gave him my seed on his full silky beard. Just before I left, a bear with a big ginger beard (and great smile) jumped on my cock and pumped out his load all over my chest - great kid. Fewer trolls that had been reported here, but enough to keep me moving round the hallways. This place is hit or miss - days that you think would be active (Rain and clouds) are often light and days where the sun is shining and its in the 50s are packed. On a beautiful sunny Saturday I saw the lot was full at NOON - not a room to be had ... grabbed one of the last lockers and stayed for three hours. Staff is mostly a friends crew as well - doesn't interfere.

^^^ "Staff is mostly a friendLY crew as well"

Lucky, lucky you R534... wish I had been there to see you shoot a load into a man's face/beard. Pig - gives me a stiffy thinking about it.

Stopped into the Troy bathhouse yesterday afternoon to check it out after the buzz on here. Wasn't in the place 10 minutes and I had a attractive bearded African American man on my junk - who swallowed it whole and then spun around and took it up the butt. Not a huge crowd in number but very diverse in age and race, More bottom boys than tops so i was in demand for a bit. Not my favorite place, but I'll be back - might pick a different time of day though. There was a very handsome, built, 50something bald bearded dad that I was after but he wouldn't give me a tumble, just made out a bit. He was very verbal which turned me on .... Hooked up with a couple of others before I had to leave. I'll be back.

Headed to the Troy bathhouse today - this place may need its own thread!

I haven't been in ages... did anyone else strip down, get wrapped in towel and hang out at Troy's BH on Super Bowl Sunday?

Yup. Laid back crowd. Many dads and a few boys.

[quote]Headed to the Troy bathhouse today

Say 'hi' to Achilles for me!

Is Troy like "North?"

Bathhouse this weekend?

Anyone been to any of the gay saunas/bathhouses in Paris and has recommendations?

I went to Troy today... very, very busy. Lucky me I crossed paths with a guy I've met with before, another guy who was fun and got to watch a burly guy who actually used the weights - nude, of course. Shot a good load...

I went to the bathhouse for the first time since October. This one guy kept stopping at my room. I kept saying no. He was young and attractive but at first I wasn't ready for sex then later he was just annoying because he wouldn't take no for an answer. He probably stopped at my door 10 times. The last time he said my time is almost up- I said to myself- GOOD and good riddance.

One of the many times he stopped at my door he said he wouldn't touch me but just wanted to give me a message- I said no. He asked how tall I was. It would have been flattering if he wasn't so annoyingly persistent.

I'm sorry but my spelling sucks nowadays. I meant to to say MASSAGE not message.

Thanks, R547, we never would have figured that out.

R548- If I didn't point that out the OH DEAR troll would have appeared to point it out.

You were right to turn him down R547, I remember one time being in a sauna and a guy that was reasonably attractive but just not my type kept hitting on me and I turned him down a few times, he then found me again in the porn room and asked if he could just give me a foot massage, I agreed because I thought that was fairly harmless but the moment I took my eyes away from what he was doing he tried to suck my toes and I jerked so violently I nearly kicked him in the face. That was a lesson to me when it comes to bathhouses/saunas - if you give an inch, they will take a mile. I also once had to tell an overly persistent guy that if he touched me again I would knock him the fuck out, it's so weird to me that a lot of guys think if they keep asking, eventually you'll give in. So creepy.

R550- I've had guys that were persistent before that night but usually they were on drugs. This guy a week ago Saturday was not on drugs- he seemed quite sober. I don't like to be too confrontational with guys I'm not interested in but maybe in hindsight I should have bee more firm with him.

Wow. That's sick.

Today is exactly one year since I started this thread. Time goes fast.

Feels like a Troy NY day... make the drive hoping to get my cock sucked, go down on a couple of guys... thinking I should get there for 12noon before the place is full and there's a wait to enter.

So did you go to River Street?

R553 here, yep I did. Busy, but the guys there really were not my type, except for a guy I've met before.. a good time (I think) was had the two of us.

Anyone been to the bathhouse lately?

A week ago Saturday.

Was your visit on Saturday as disappointing as the the visit you made to start this thread of lament and cock sucking?

R558- I had a nice time with this cute/good looking guy of indeterminate age- 38 to 43 ish.

Lucky man. I had some premium slap and tickle with a hot bearded African American man with THE most beautiful ass. Unfortunately he is not local - was visiting from Western MA . So want to tap that again. And again. And again ... Damn

Hey R560 - your :premium "slap and tickle" was in Troy? Good, For. You. You should have gotten his digits - then you could have scheduled a repeat! The scene in Troy's small, others would dig hearing the two of you going at it again.

I ventured out to Troy for a rainy Sunday afternoon. Lucked out that a guy I've played with before was also there. Had a 3-some with him and a hungry cocksucker. Fucked the cocksucker too - ding, ding, ding, jackpot!

Was surprised to see a very good looking guy arrive... definitely a tight little gym bod (he wasn't very tall. He started his visit parading around in a very sexy blue jock (he had a fine ass. But he switched to the towel look, which was a drag. He was definitely several notches above anyone else at the club... think he decided to just hang out and watch the guys walk about.

R562 - He probably decided there was no one there of his caliber.

Wouldn't surprise me at all R563. And since I was there, he was right.

[quote] as I mentioned before the prostitutes at rentmen.com are mostly very average looking.

In your area. Where are you living?

r565 Oh, so you were not his caliber?

Nope. The man had fine, gym tight build, nice head of brown hair. I'm years older, gray-haired... the body's definitely good (esp for my age), but he was f-i-n-e.

Anybody gotten any hot ass at the bathhouse in Troy lately? Thinking of headed there tomorrow ...

I'm headed there tomorrow for lunch

R569... lunch? You're going Saturday afternoon on Memorial Day Weekend? Are Saturdays a good time to visit RSC? I've spent a number of Sundays there, left after shooting a load, so it was worthwhile.

BTW, i went to Providence for an early Saturday evening... got to fuck and suck, which was the goal, so good on me. But man, Mega Plex is a dump. Damn that place needs to shut down for a fucking month (or one week each month for a year) and do some clean-up, construction and plumbing repair. If I head to Providence again, I'll try the bathhouse near The Eagle.

Holiday weekend? May not be many people, but then again ... who knows always a crap shoot

Got some ass in Troy yesterday - nice crowd ...

R572... on a Thursday? Cool and good for you. Is Troy's bathhouse busy mid-week? At what time?

Wed and Thur are cheaper if you get in before noon - if its cloudy or rainy, there tends to be more activity

Headed to Troy tomorrow. Stopping at the bathhouse - anyone been lately? Worth it?

No can do this weekend R575... I'm out of town. Do many guys hang out indoors during the afternoon at RSC?

It's the summertime, there's a gay/nude/cruisy beach in Cummington MA that I can drive to. Being outdoors with your cock hanging out is pretty sweet. So is seeing some of the other men who visit. And some cock sucking in the woods ain't bad either.

Good luck with you visit to RSC, hope you get what you want/need.

And I couldn’t have liked it more!!!

I went to a bathhouse once and there was nobody there. So, could be worse.

Anybody get any lately?

I remember when I heard of the first club bath in Ohio. I was taken by the fact that a place like that could even operate.

Maybe 2-3 years later I met Jack Campbell the founder of the club bath chain, we were working on a joint project. The club bath chain had exploded. It seemed to be everywhere. Today I would guess there are almost no where.

I mess the 70s.

R28 Yes, a shrink and a writing coach.

R579, I did and yea, it was in Troy, NY. Hadn't made the trip for several months, but a rainy Sunday, so why not, right? Arrived, crossed paths with a man I've met and played with previously, so lucky me.

Periods of making out, cock play, body contact ensued, culminated with me shooting a load...

anyone been to the bathhouse lately?

I went to a bathhouse Saturday night for the firs time in quite a while. It was busy there. I had some nice encounters with a couple of different guys- just blow jobs- but I like blowjobs. There was a so called HOT 🥵 guy walking around basically naked- he was covering his privates with his hands a bit. He was about 35 years old bearded - I do like the fact that a lot of younger guys ( under 40) nowadays are sporting beards- he had a great looking ass. He did slow down a bit in front of my room but did not stop there. I'm not sure I was in the mood to fuck anyway. Any guy in a bathhouse who's walking around Naked is a bottom and wants to be fucked- that's my interpretation anyway. A lot of guys walking around in jockstraps- who I presume were also bottoms. Jockstraps just look tacky to me. But it was fun to be there again after being away for a while.

I’d rather get drunk and pass out on my kitchen floor.

R585- That sounds rather sad.

Are you an alcoholic?

Probably r586. I know I have a problem.

So, it's post-Labor Day, the days are cooler and the sun sets earlier and earlier. I'm thinking a trip to Providence is in order, but both the city's bathhouses are dingy... and yet, it's not cold enough for men to fill up the River Street in Troy, NY. Conumdrum!

Still the cock wants what the cock wants, so I may be making a drive this weekend.

R587- My addiction is to sweets 🍭🍡🧁.

When I go into a bakery I'm like an alcoholic in a Liquor shop. I was in Costco today. I don't eat breakfast on Tuesdays and I had not eaten lunch yet. I was HUNGRY so amongst the other numerous other non food items I purchased I bought a large container of these butter cookie filled with something like nutella, a LARGE , very LARGE Toblerone bar, a large package of these French Butter Cookies.

I guess this also makes me a FAT WHORE

R588- Good luck. Report your adventures back here.

r588 Let us know how the Providence bathhouse is. I'll be at River Street on 9/30 or 10/1 and I'll report back

Hang yourself Teacake

R591, sorry you have to wait so long to get over to River Street... definitely report back. I'll do the same if I make to Providence this weekend.

Drove out to Providence Sat night, 09/23. Yea definitely not much happening at Mega-Plex (I did get to play with a gorgeous guy early in the visit). Overall though, it was a big case of the overweight (including the VERY overweight), the elderly and some things new...

a guy dressed as a woman (not very well or convincingly), another guy who I think had transitioned above the waist - hairy cock and balls with tits (Christ that was weird to look at) above, and another slim, hairy, guy with tats who walked around in what I think was some kind of woman's teddy.

Yea, two hours, one bit of fun. I left around 10pm.

Not mgmt's fault, they can't control who arrives and pays to visit, but man - ick in a number of ways (and, yes, that's judgmental, blah, blah, blah).

Now wishing I had decided to get to Troy for a mid-day Sunday visit.

I find it strange, being older, that guys go to a bathhouse and wear clothes at all, seriously

I we went to the bathhouse Saturday night. I had a nice time with a French guy but he had some noticeable

B O

Sunday's weather is going to be wonderful, cruising indoors seems wrong and no fun. Could be a day to get to a nude, river beach in Vermont. Especially because the season's cumming to an end.

OP, I would take notice of your body language and how you present yourself. It sounds like you are entering with a Debbie downer mentality and already predicting that you will not get hit on. Sometimes our thoughts can be reflected in our body language. Change from feeling victims like to a victor. Know and believe that you are hot and I bet your experience will change. Self confidence is shown through our body. Use eye contact! You got this!

I went to the bathhouse again last night. I youngster HIGH AS A KITE entered my room. He could barely suck my cock because it kept slipping out of his mouth because he was so high. He had blond ( bleached?) hair, slim with some tattoos- he was young and really good looking so I was flattered he was interested to begin with. He wanted me to fuck him. I told him three times I never fuck without a condom. He ignored me and took the position on his knees then switched positions to his back with his legs in the air - as if that would make it more likely that I would fuck him raw.

R598- He just barged in so I guess my frown did not deter him.

They give you condoms, R599. Why didn't you just put one on and fuck him?