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My Cleaning Woman Threw My $200 Tom Ford Silk Socks in the Wahing Machine!!!!!

Then she put them in the dryer! Other than firing her, should I dock her the cost? You can't get them anymore you know.

by Anonymousreply 123February 16, 2022 3:15 PM

*Washing machine, obviously.

by Anonymousreply 1February 14, 2022 8:39 PM

Shoot yourself. Now. You don't deserve to live.

by Anonymousreply 2February 14, 2022 8:40 PM

Hope you like reincarnation, Op

by Anonymousreply 3February 14, 2022 8:40 PM

Like you will “fire” your mom..

by Anonymousreply 4February 14, 2022 8:41 PM

Learn to wash your own panties OP.

by Anonymousreply 5February 14, 2022 8:41 PM

During times like these,OP, I often wonder what I'd do under the same circumstances.

by Anonymousreply 6February 14, 2022 8:42 PM

Call ICE and have her deported. Or take her passport and make her work for a year without payment.

by Anonymousreply 7February 14, 2022 8:43 PM

Fire her.

by Anonymousreply 8February 14, 2022 8:45 PM

Show her early 80s gay porn. She will learn more about proper sock care.

by Anonymousreply 9February 14, 2022 8:45 PM

So glad this popped up because I gave a friend of mine shit for a similar reason.

Hiring a person to come and clean your home is going to result in breakage. You don't get to pick what they break by accident. You don't get to dock their pay when it happens. And in thsi case, you should be more responsible with dry clean only items like that because most people would never think not to wash a pair of socks. That's definitely on you.

Sorry to give an actual response so quickly while the top 20 datalounge crew will be cracking their awful jokes

by Anonymousreply 10February 14, 2022 8:45 PM

I co-sign what r10 said.

by Anonymousreply 11February 14, 2022 8:47 PM

You seem oddly desperate for attention, OP

by Anonymousreply 12February 14, 2022 8:48 PM

I let a cleaning person go once for breaking my things around my house. I let it go the first time but drew my line when she broke an antique hakata doll that I asked her not to touch.

So, yeah, I get where you're coming from, Op.

by Anonymousreply 13February 14, 2022 8:48 PM

Is she your cleaning woman or your maid?

by Anonymousreply 14February 14, 2022 8:55 PM

Why don’t you have a Dry Clean Only bag? It sucks, especially when it’s irreplaceable, but they are your things and your responsibility when you invite someone to clean and wash things in your home. Not all cleaners are good at every aspect of cleaning, they also get interrupted, distracted and make human mistakes. Not to mention that some don’t own the same fabrics and don’t understand. Special things need special handling and that means setting rules and giving instructions beforehand. Their failure to meet those requirements after being educated is then a fireable offense either because they don’t get it or they don’t care.

by Anonymousreply 15February 14, 2022 8:56 PM

So much dishonesty today, I mean ugh.

by Anonymousreply 16February 14, 2022 8:56 PM

Where’s that -100/100 person.

by Anonymousreply 17February 14, 2022 8:56 PM

OP types Hawaiian.

by Anonymousreply 18February 14, 2022 8:57 PM

What R15 says. Its YOUR responsibility to protect your fancy things from the ignorance and carelessness of the hoi polloi.

by Anonymousreply 19February 14, 2022 8:57 PM

Anyone - even a millionaire - who pays $200 for silk socks is an asshole who deserves whatever Voodoo curse this cleaning woman is about to place on them.

Mother always said money can't buy good taste or good sense. And she was right. God rest her zombie bones!

by Anonymousreply 20February 14, 2022 8:59 PM

I am an island born man. This is what we say.

Silk Sox = No Sex.

by Anonymousreply 21February 14, 2022 8:59 PM

$20 say OP got them at some Premium Outlets 90% off bin.

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by Anonymousreply 22February 14, 2022 9:03 PM

I wouldn't push it too far. Concepción might just hit ya with a POT!

by Anonymousreply 23February 14, 2022 9:04 PM

I wish I had the.OP's problems.

by Anonymousreply 24February 14, 2022 9:05 PM

^ Darfur?

by Anonymousreply 25February 14, 2022 9:06 PM

If you use your $200 Tom Ford Silk Socks as a cum rag this is what you get OP.

by Anonymousreply 26February 14, 2022 9:08 PM

Watch out OP, Rosario might put ground glass in tonight's martini.

by Anonymousreply 27February 14, 2022 9:08 PM

Anyone who would pay $200 for a pair of socks deserves what they get.

by Anonymousreply 28February 14, 2022 9:10 PM

R28 wears black sweat socks with his tuxedo. You wouldn't get past my doorman!

by Anonymousreply 29February 14, 2022 9:32 PM

R29 Enough about your disgusting foot-fetishist doorman, already! This is what you get when you hire your help outside a prison!

by Anonymousreply 30February 14, 2022 9:34 PM

No sympathy. I'm more of the Italian Cashmere Argyle kind of posh. Those can still be washed. I also never, never, ever made a maid or cleaner wash my socks or my other more "personal" items.

by Anonymousreply 31February 14, 2022 9:35 PM

What sort of fool pays $200 for a pair of socks? OP you have more money than brains.

by Anonymousreply 32February 14, 2022 9:41 PM

OP, if you can afford $200 socks you can afford a lady’s maid. Plebeian.

by Anonymousreply 33February 14, 2022 9:43 PM

The real problem is I only have 2 more pair and you can't get them anymore. Where is the sympathy? WHERE?!!

by Anonymousreply 34February 14, 2022 9:54 PM

Plebeian, Schlemiel, Schlemazzle, Hasenpfeffer Inc.!

by Anonymousreply 35February 14, 2022 9:54 PM

OP: What was she supposed to do with them?

by Anonymousreply 36February 14, 2022 9:55 PM

R6, I actually know someone who employed Ethel’s cleaning lady. She did a good job.

by Anonymousreply 37February 14, 2022 10:01 PM

Hazel can do better.

by Anonymousreply 38February 14, 2022 10:03 PM

Miss OP's actual footwear:

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by Anonymousreply 39February 14, 2022 10:07 PM

R24 OP doesn't have OP's problems

by Anonymousreply 40February 14, 2022 10:09 PM

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by Anonymousreply 41February 14, 2022 10:13 PM

$200 for a pair of socks?

by Anonymousreply 42February 14, 2022 10:30 PM

Try the Kirkland 8 pack of socks, OP. I buy these for Mitt and he loves them! And they're very affordable!

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by Anonymousreply 43February 14, 2022 10:33 PM

This gauche thread is giving me THE VAPORS!

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by Anonymousreply 44February 14, 2022 10:36 PM

Oh no, not the waaahhhing machine!

by Anonymousreply 45February 14, 2022 10:38 PM
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by Anonymousreply 46February 14, 2022 10:39 PM

If you do decide to take action against her OP, don’t be surprised if a rock turns up under your bed.

by Anonymousreply 47February 14, 2022 11:04 PM

I’m just back from picking up my ties from the dry cleaners R17.

by Anonymousreply 48February 14, 2022 11:16 PM

OP is cheap and dresses poor.

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by Anonymousreply 49February 15, 2022 1:24 AM

Secretly giving "Maria " a high 5 and a gift card to Walmart !!!

by Anonymousreply 50February 15, 2022 1:30 AM

Joan Crawford could've handled the socks.

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by Anonymousreply 51February 15, 2022 1:38 AM

OP, your heartbreaking and unprecedented story has inspired me to write a novel based on my life story. Yes my life story. It will be 300 pages at the minimum.

by Anonymousreply 52February 15, 2022 1:49 AM

OP, if you’re poor enough to miss those socks, the last few years must have been rough.

Send me your stats and a few pics.

by Anonymousreply 53February 15, 2022 1:51 AM

Im not poor enough to miss them -they are no longer available and I am down to my last 2 pair. With spring gala season approaching, I don't know if I'll want to be seen.

by Anonymousreply 54February 15, 2022 1:59 AM

OP, please post the link to your sock replacement GoFundMe campaign.

TIA

by Anonymousreply 55February 15, 2022 2:00 AM

Here you go R54. A steal at $190.

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by Anonymousreply 56February 15, 2022 2:06 AM

Did the sox come with a matching pair of Tom Ford panties?

by Anonymousreply 57February 15, 2022 2:12 AM

Clothbase is not a store, R56. Are you a poor?

by Anonymousreply 58February 15, 2022 2:14 AM

OP is common trash. Who would spend that amount of money on something so tacky?

by Anonymousreply 59February 15, 2022 2:16 AM

Socks are tacky? Good to know!

by Anonymousreply 60February 15, 2022 2:21 AM

First, OP, you're a fool for spending $200 on a pair of socks.

If you are going to have help, here are a few lessons I earned from my Mom: 1. Most important is to have honest and dependable people. 2. Don't expect too much. You want the place clean. It does not have to be spotless. 3. If you don't want something ruined in the wash, do not put it in the hamper with the rest of your dirty clothes. 4. If you really like the job the person does, pay a little extra. That way she/he will come back. 5. However, if your cleaning lady/gent goes to several people you know or are your neighbors, you don't want to price them out of her/his services. 6. DO NOT CRITICIZE!

by Anonymousreply 61February 15, 2022 2:23 AM

Let it go. It's just STUFF

by Anonymousreply 62February 15, 2022 2:41 AM

Wear your dark pantyhose. No one will be the wiser.

by Anonymousreply 63February 15, 2022 2:48 AM

Next time hire someone who speaks English OP.

by Anonymousreply 64February 15, 2022 3:00 AM

I dream of one day being able to wear a burlap sack. Is silk similar?

by Anonymousreply 65February 15, 2022 3:23 AM

OP How did she get her hands on your socks? You didn't put them with the laundry, did you?

by Anonymousreply 66February 15, 2022 3:26 AM

[quote] Sorry to give an actual response so quickly while the top 20 datalounge crew will be cracking their awful jokes

Apology NOT accepted, CUNT!

by Anonymousreply 67February 15, 2022 3:27 AM

They were in the laundry room laying on their drying towel. I had already hand washed them.

by Anonymousreply 68February 15, 2022 3:28 AM

R68 be careful with things rare and expensive and make sure you put them out of harm's way before the 'help' arrives

by Anonymousreply 69February 15, 2022 5:14 AM

Socks to be you.

by Anonymousreply 70February 15, 2022 7:50 AM

What actually happens when you throw $200 Tom Ford Silk Socks in the washing machine and then in the dryer? Can somebody please explain for the un-socked?

by Anonymousreply 71February 15, 2022 2:46 PM

[quote]Sorry to give an actual response so quickly while the top 20 datalounge crew will be cracking their awful jokes

The jokes are awful, but I submit to you that such an obvious trollbait EST doesn't deserve either good jokes or serious answers.

by Anonymousreply 72February 15, 2022 2:49 PM

^ the un-silk-socked, I mean

by Anonymousreply 73February 15, 2022 2:51 PM

She couldn't handle the socks.

by Anonymousreply 74February 15, 2022 2:54 PM

[quoe] My Cleaning Woman Threw My $200 Tom Ford Silk Socks in the Wahing Machine!!!!!

You should see what she did to your Tina Turner wall clock!

by Anonymousreply 75February 15, 2022 2:55 PM

As fun as it might be to pile on, I’d be livid if a cleaning woman threw my $200 socks in the washing machine. She’s supposed to be a professional, and that requires paying attention to care instructions on clothing if washing is a part of your duties. OP actually hits on a general problem without a lot of occupations these days—people do a mediocre job, get paid as agreed, and then get offended when they’re called out for doing something wrong.

Ruining a pair of expensive socks might not be a fireable offense, but OP has a right to be pissed.

by Anonymousreply 76February 15, 2022 3:24 PM

I spent £23 on cashmere socks once, and I thought THAT was spendy. You put me to shame, OP, but I still don't have any sympathy for you. Hide your valuables from the help, until you trust them with your life! Only then can they handle your precious sock collection.

by Anonymousreply 77February 15, 2022 3:24 PM

[quote]I’d be livid if a cleaning woman threw my $200 socks in the washing machine. She’s supposed to be a professional, and that requires paying attention to care instructions on clothing if washing is a part of your duties.

Maybe I'm shopping in all the wrong places, but I have never seen a sock with care instructions.

by Anonymousreply 78February 15, 2022 3:27 PM

OP You shouldn't buy $200 socks unless you can afford a whole drawer full of them. They're not the type of thing you should waste time agonizing over.

by Anonymousreply 79February 15, 2022 3:32 PM

Only goes to prove that some people (OP) have more money then brains

by Anonymousreply 80February 15, 2022 4:27 PM

We heard you the first time at R32, R80. But why actually read a thread when what you have to say is so insightful?

by Anonymousreply 81February 15, 2022 4:44 PM

Were they cashmere, OP?

OOOOH--CASH-MERE!!!

by Anonymousreply 82February 15, 2022 4:56 PM

[quote]Wahing Machine

Is there an "Oh, dear" on this already?

by Anonymousreply 83February 15, 2022 5:13 PM

"have more money then brains"

Think before you type. Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 84February 15, 2022 5:43 PM

I guess you couldn't make it all the way to R1, could you R83?

by Anonymousreply 85February 15, 2022 5:46 PM

I am certainly not poor and I had no idea that people would spend $200 on socks that couldn't be washed, I wouldn't expect a cleaning woman to know this either. If you did then that is on you.

by Anonymousreply 86February 15, 2022 6:06 PM

I wore silk socks back in the 80s. I thought I was so chic. Of course they went with my silk shirts and silk slacks. God I must have looked so very try hard ! I could see letting a cleaning woman wash sheets or towels,but I dont want anyone washing my clothing. Im very particular about that.

by Anonymousreply 87February 15, 2022 6:07 PM

When I had a maid years ago, I did not let her operate my washer and dryer.

The night before she came, I washed and dried everything the proper way and dumped the laundry on the bed in another bedroom. She folded everything and put its away.

Look into doing this, OP. It'll save you both a lot of grief.

by Anonymousreply 88February 15, 2022 6:11 PM

[quote] When I had a maid years ago, I did not let her operate my washer and dryer.

Nor did I let her use the indoor toilet.

by Anonymousreply 89February 15, 2022 6:27 PM

R87 = elegance personified

by Anonymousreply 90February 15, 2022 6:28 PM

I don’t let the housekeeper touch my clothing because I’m very particular about my things. She does the bedding and towels only. However, my partner’s mother visited us 15 years ago (when we first moved in together) and washed our entire dry clean only basket with warm or hot water. My $700 Dolce & Gabbana wool sweater shrunk to the size of a toddlers. She had the nerve to hang it in the closet, like nothing happened. Several other items were ruined, but they weren’t as expensive. I didn’t ask her to reimburse me, because it would’ve caused a lot of drama and partner said she would dislike me if she knew how much I spent on a sweater, lol. She broke our Dyson vacuum cleaner a year later (she gets bored when she sits at our house while we are working). We have now told her not to touch or clean anything. I would let your housekeeper know what happened, and make sure she doesn’t touch your clothing again. You can’t really make her reimburse you. It’s the cost of having help.

by Anonymousreply 91February 15, 2022 6:34 PM

Dry clean only items should not be put in the hamper. And just where were you recently to wear those grotesque sockettes?

Are you a mob boss or Carson Kressley?

by Anonymousreply 92February 15, 2022 8:34 PM

1. They weren't in the hamper, as already has been established.

2. Silk socks are worn with a tuxedo, but you already know that .

by Anonymousreply 93February 15, 2022 8:53 PM

Silk sox are tacky as fuck. Gross.

You already know that.

by Anonymousreply 94February 15, 2022 10:32 PM

OP, please strangle yourself with your silk stockings. But first have a slice of my shit pie.

by Anonymousreply 95February 15, 2022 10:44 PM

I much prefer Silk Stalkings!

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by Anonymousreply 96February 15, 2022 10:47 PM

To be fair, OP only wears her silk stockings with her finest Moroccan silk caftan:

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by Anonymousreply 97February 15, 2022 10:48 PM

Hiring a cleaning person is so tacky / lazy unless you’re physically unable to do the job yourself. Take care of yourself gals it’s not somebody else’s job to do your washing ffs.

by Anonymousreply 98February 15, 2022 11:14 PM

Such hypocrites! Always spouting about actions having consequences! But when I teach my cleaning woman that actions have consequences, I'm a monster!!

by Anonymousreply 99February 15, 2022 11:30 PM

I'm giving someone a job, r98. That's a good thing.

by Anonymousreply 100February 15, 2022 11:34 PM

In what world is having a cleaning lady tacky? Some of you are insane.

by Anonymousreply 101February 16, 2022 12:41 AM

I'm wearing silk- and there's snow in the wind...

by Anonymousreply 102February 16, 2022 12:57 AM

According to DL, anything they can't afford is tacky.

by Anonymousreply 103February 16, 2022 1:04 AM

The only ones who can't clean up after themselves are toddlers and invalids. Which one are you?

by Anonymousreply 104February 16, 2022 1:05 AM

The only ones who can't read a whole thread before posting are self absorbed dipshits. That is you.

by Anonymousreply 105February 16, 2022 1:11 AM

Are you in high school?

by Anonymousreply 106February 16, 2022 1:12 AM

Don't you DARE do anything punitive to her! WTF were you $200 socks doing in the wash? You should have laundered them yourself by hand if they're so fucking special. You know, If I had $200 to splurge with, the last thing on my mind would be $200 socks. Jesus fucking Christ.

by Anonymousreply 107February 16, 2022 1:18 AM

Do NOT mess with the help. They will cut a bitch. And save your ass.

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by Anonymousreply 108February 16, 2022 1:21 AM

TL;DR

No you cannot dock her the cost. Did you ever tell her not to do that? Did you leave specific instructions how to wash your socks?

Seriously, what did you think you were hiring? A precious material specialist?

by Anonymousreply 109February 16, 2022 1:21 AM

That’s what you get for paying her with a check OP.

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by Anonymousreply 110February 16, 2022 1:27 AM

OP, you've been told several times that calling them "socks" doesn't lessen the impact of what's really happening here.

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by Anonymousreply 111February 16, 2022 1:28 AM

With all your $$$ OP, i an sure you can find more outrageously priced sock on the internet. Next time wash them yourself.

by Anonymousreply 112February 16, 2022 1:39 AM

R101 in 2022. That world. It’s tacky. Clean up after yourself.

by Anonymousreply 113February 16, 2022 1:59 AM

My tuxedo and silky socks are washable. But I'm expensive.

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by Anonymousreply 114February 16, 2022 2:16 AM

Next time read threads before you feel the need to comment on them, R107. The fact that you don't makes you look slow.

by Anonymousreply 115February 16, 2022 2:19 AM

Red costs extra. Please don't mix with colors.

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by Anonymousreply 116February 16, 2022 2:19 AM

He found him standing in the section marked if you have to ask you can't afford it lingerie!

by Anonymousreply 117February 16, 2022 2:24 AM

[quote]I guess you couldn't make it all the way to [R1], could you [R83]?

Fails on not being a bitchy reply and an Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 118February 16, 2022 2:46 AM

I don't now, R83.

It seems like the wahing machine pretty much sums up OP.

by Anonymousreply 119February 16, 2022 2:49 AM

My washing machine is named "Sylvia".

by Anonymousreply 120February 16, 2022 2:54 AM

That's funny, OP, the town bike is named Your Mom.

by Anonymousreply 121February 16, 2022 3:10 AM

OP I I am embarrassed for you because you spent $200 on a pair of socks.

I am embarrassed for your parents because they are your parents.

by Anonymousreply 122February 16, 2022 3:50 AM

Jealousy is an ugly thing, R122. And so are you in anything backless.

by Anonymousreply 123February 16, 2022 3:15 PM
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