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Aren't many people who decide to be trans really unhappy before transitioning to have to go to that extreme?

No offense meant, but they must really have been suffering. I knew a very cute guy who I later found out had transitioned to being a woman. I asked a mutual friend how she was doing, and was told that her life's problems hadn't disappeared. In fact, she now had new ones from now being trans from her new appearance. I wonder if she had considered all this. Years ago, there were famous trans like Christine Jorgenson and Dr. Renee Richards, but it seems in the last few years, quite a lot of people have embraced transitioning. I'm sympathetic, as they must have been in a lot of pain emotionally to have to go through all the physical changes. The guy I knew was pretty hairy; I'm imagining the electrolysis alone would have been tortuous (unless estrogen helps get rid of chest hair, etc. without having to do all that).

by Anonymousreply 13June 8, 2021 12:21 PM

Yes it can be simple self-hatred, internalized homophobia, Munchausen's, or all of the above. Christine Jorgensen was the first person to have a sex change and he was the quintessential self-hating gay man. It's too bad he never made it as an entertainer. He would have been a fabulous drag queen.

[quote]For George Jorgensen, a committed Lutheran, homosexuality came under the sign of multiple stigmas: medical, legal, social and religious. Jorgensen records: “During the months in service, I had seen a few practicing homo-sexuals, those whom the other men called ‘queer.’ I couldn’t condemn them, but I also knew that I certainly couldn’t become like them. It was a thing deeply alien to my religious attitudes and the highly magnified and immature moralistic views that I entertained at the time. Furthermore, I had seen enough to know that homosexuality brought with it social segregation and ostracism that I couldn’t add to my own deep feeling of not belonging”. (38)

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by Anonymousreply 1June 8, 2021 8:27 AM

Co-morbidity between transgender identity/gender dysphoria and various mental illness is well documented; the most dominant co-morbidity emerging so far is Autism.

by Anonymousreply 2June 8, 2021 8:44 AM

There is co-morbidity between trans and narcissism too - what a surprise!

by Anonymousreply 3June 8, 2021 9:11 AM

Grrl, please. Don't you have twitter?

Trans make no mistakes. Ever. If their/his/her life isn't great - either before or after transitioning?

It's all cis white men's fault. And some rad fem terfs.

by Anonymousreply 4June 8, 2021 9:35 AM

Yes and no, OP. A lot of the trans-identified today do very little actual transitioning, mostly low-level hormones and "top surgery". So, women get their tits chopped off and take enough T to get some facial fuzz, but they keep their female reproductive anatomy. Men may get breast implants but will keep their dicks. In many cases, they won't go through any actual physical transitioning at all, just dress creepily. The old school, full "sex change" is a thing of the past. The truth is most trans today don't want to change that much about their bodies, they just want to be special.

by Anonymousreply 5June 8, 2021 9:44 AM

I guess the anti trans trolls were getting too much real feedback from actual Dataloungers when they were posting during normal hours, so they're back to posting at 3:00 AM again.

by Anonymousreply 6June 8, 2021 10:06 AM

R6 doesn't understand the concept of time zones. Then again, trans cultists do think that everything is a conspiracy against penised women and so will try to get dissent or even genuine questions shut down. No discussion allowed!

by Anonymousreply 7June 8, 2021 10:25 AM

There has always been a sliding scale of gender dysphoria. At lower levels just "cross dressing" or maybe hormones and other feminization (or masculine) treatments are enough. For others like Bruce Jenner it's a bit more, then you have those for who only the full chop will do.

Problem for trans in the past is nearly all western and eastern societies define sex as gender; that is what lies between a person's legs. To be too much of one and not enough of the other meant living a life legally as a "man" or "woman. Pre-op or non-op trans thing was hard to pull off because no government or anyone else would issue identification documents that stated someone was "female" when they had a dick swinging between their legs.

It began to become clear even to places that pioneered gender reassignment surgery that medicine's answer to transgender just wasn't working. That is to get trans to have the chop, feminize them to extent possible then let them loose in world as "women". In large measure those post op trans were equally unhappy as they were pre-op. Worse they found themselves still facing same issues as pre-op. World largely still considered a post op trans a "man", if that is what he/she still looked like (see K. Jenner without makeup...). Straight men didn't want much if anything to do with a post-op trans either. And guys who were into trans largely want a chick with a dick.

Trans in numbers stopped playing the game. That is going along with how "miserable' their lives were with a dick in order to get sex change operations. Yes, you still see even young trans hopping up on that table. But good majority today are non-op, and don't have any plans on having the chop.

Ironically it is the six-foot-two line backers who look like Rosie Grier in a dress that turn out to be the most successful (as in content with outcome) post op trans who have the chop. Knowing from start they never would pass as female, but just wanted desperately to violently be rid of their dick.

by Anonymousreply 8June 8, 2021 10:27 AM

What is the point of going through all the pain and trouble when you can just do what I did.

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by Anonymousreply 9June 8, 2021 10:29 AM

Trans right now has become a joke. Worse it is amazing how these individuals (some of who one has serious doubts about mental stability) have been allowed to suck all the air out of gay movement.

Gays have nothing to do with trans, never had nor never will. We kept them out of our bars and clubs (aside from entertainment) because gay men like other *MEN*.

It's getting so bad now you've got to set up elaborate screens for searching smut on your favorite site of choice otherwise these random MTF or FTM videos keep popping up.

by Anonymousreply 10June 8, 2021 10:40 AM

[quote]I guess the anti trans trolls were getting too much real feedback from actual Dataloungers when they were posting during normal hours, so they're back to posting at 3:00 AM again.

Hello!!?!!! The world is not America, sweetheart.

by Anonymousreply 11June 8, 2021 10:40 AM

Christine Jorgensen was also for the most part accepted as a woman. Many people were sympathetic to this idea that one can be born in the wrong body, and surgery can fix that. Perhaps if that was stressed, sex changes would be viewed like they are in Iran, as a treatment to a medical issue.

Instead they all aligned with the LGB which was worse for all.

by Anonymousreply 12June 8, 2021 11:46 AM

I for one enjoy having a big cock and no tits!

by Anonymousreply 13June 8, 2021 12:21 PM
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