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My heart is breaking for Ben Affleck!

WTF is happening to him?

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by Anonymousreply 241January 8, 2021 2:27 AM

He’s transforming into a hobo. So Anna DeArmis has taken a hobo lover.

by Anonymousreply 1January 4, 2021 5:43 AM

I'm really worried.

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by Anonymousreply 2January 4, 2021 5:43 AM

Is that really him?

by Anonymousreply 3January 4, 2021 5:45 AM

He takes himself way too seriously—that’s his problem. I personally don’t get him. Or Matt Damion.

by Anonymousreply 4January 4, 2021 5:46 AM

Looks like he switched to the heroin

by Anonymousreply 5January 4, 2021 5:46 AM

Never liked him. He is one of those untalented people who got lucky (met Harvey Wienstein in his case) and thinks he is something special and above others. His acting career is also miserable.

by Anonymousreply 6January 4, 2021 5:46 AM

I don't think it's only the drinking. I think he has some health issue. The wight loss is alarming.

by Anonymousreply 7January 4, 2021 5:47 AM

He’s getting ready for the sequel to High on Crack Street

by Anonymousreply 8January 4, 2021 5:47 AM

[quote] He is one of those untalented people

But he has a most beautiful jaw line.

by Anonymousreply 9January 4, 2021 5:49 AM

Holy shit he looks ill.

by Anonymousreply 10January 4, 2021 5:49 AM

Here's the recent Dunkin' Donuts pic that was all over the internet. Is that really him at OP's post? It looks like he's been darkening his beard and hair (or hairpiece), and it's a bad look for him: it makes him look much older and haggard.

I hope he's staying off the booze, but I also suspect it's not his only drug of choice.

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by Anonymousreply 11January 4, 2021 5:50 AM

He just spilled his Dunkin order here a few days ago and didn't look so bad.

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by Anonymousreply 12January 4, 2021 5:50 AM

He’s morphing into Mr. Peppers.

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by Anonymousreply 13January 4, 2021 5:51 AM

I'm not sure that's him at OP.

by Anonymousreply 14January 4, 2021 5:51 AM

Damn. R11 beat me to it...

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by Anonymousreply 15January 4, 2021 5:51 AM

The pictures at R11/R12 are from 3 days ago. That's not him at OP. Are you all morons?

by Anonymousreply 16January 4, 2021 5:52 AM

He looks like a Tolkien dwarf at OP's pic.

by Anonymousreply 17January 4, 2021 5:52 AM

Good lord.

Is Ben on the Donuts payroll?

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by Anonymousreply 18January 4, 2021 5:52 AM

... and still more DD.

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by Anonymousreply 19January 4, 2021 5:53 AM

R9 I just realised he has a Turkish man jawline.

by Anonymousreply 20January 4, 2021 5:53 AM

The point is that it's not him in OP's posts.

by Anonymousreply 21January 4, 2021 5:54 AM

Yup R4, takes himself way too seriously. Obviously cares way, WAY too much about his public image, too. If i was that rich there's definitely a certain point (probably around 35) where I would just say fuck it and a)stop reading all my press and then b)do what the fuck I want. Remember when he had that genealogy show yanked because it was going to reveal slave owning in his family's past? he cares too much, he's too precious about himself.

by Anonymousreply 22January 4, 2021 5:54 AM

[quote]That's not him at OP. Are you all morons?

It's the same fucking address, dude. The gate's open. Who else would it be?

by Anonymousreply 23January 4, 2021 5:54 AM

R21 NO, It's him in the OP. Here's more photos

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by Anonymousreply 24January 4, 2021 5:55 AM

In op's photo it looks like he's been crying.

by Anonymousreply 25January 4, 2021 5:55 AM

His girlfriend is young and mind blowingly hot, he's rich enough to be set for life and his kids have a good frau mom to make sure they don't set themselves on fire. Affleck needs to count his blessings tbh.

by Anonymousreply 26January 4, 2021 5:55 AM

" he cares too much, he's too precious about himself."

Who gives a fuck, R24?

It's not him, you fucking idiot R25.

by Anonymousreply 27January 4, 2021 5:55 AM

Crack is whack

by Anonymousreply 28January 4, 2021 5:55 AM

The beard looks different from the DD photos.

by Anonymousreply 29January 4, 2021 5:56 AM

BECAUSE IT'S NOT HIM AT OP.

by Anonymousreply 30January 4, 2021 5:57 AM

If my home dye job turned out that badly, I'd be flashing paparazzi the double finger too.

by Anonymousreply 31January 4, 2021 5:57 AM

r27, you are rude...put down the bottle and go to bed.

by Anonymousreply 32January 4, 2021 5:57 AM

R27 FUCK OFF, "It's not him" Troll

by Anonymousreply 33January 4, 2021 5:57 AM

Is he white?

by Anonymousreply 34January 4, 2021 5:57 AM

Consider that he's been a alkie for 30 years, he looks fab.

by Anonymousreply 35January 4, 2021 5:59 AM

[quote]Is he white?

WTF else would he be?

by Anonymousreply 36January 4, 2021 5:59 AM

Who gives a fuck about what R27? Affleck? I mean, he's the subject of the discussion so I was discussing him. Are you one of those "no one must dislike the celeb i love!" weirdos? And if so, please let me know what flavor of bigot I am for mildly criticizing your fave.

by Anonymousreply 37January 4, 2021 6:00 AM

Guys this is him. Do y'all have no eyes or something?

by Anonymousreply 38January 4, 2021 6:00 AM

I think he’s Ryan Phillipe’s race, R34.

by Anonymousreply 39January 4, 2021 6:00 AM

R32/R33 clearly are fucking blind as well as stupid.

R37, he's not my "fave." You're the one who sounds invested in him. Get a fucking life.

by Anonymousreply 40January 4, 2021 6:01 AM

More photos of Ben (from different days)

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by Anonymousreply 41January 4, 2021 6:03 AM

R40's gotta be trolling, or maybe it's Ana.

That you, Ana?

by Anonymousreply 42January 4, 2021 6:04 AM
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by Anonymousreply 43January 4, 2021 6:05 AM

R38 It's him without lighting and make up. He's 48 and looks 10 years older. My brother turned 61 last July and in comparison looks younger and far healthier and he had his prostate removed in October! I saw him at Christmas and he's doing and looking fine.

by Anonymousreply 44January 4, 2021 6:05 AM

How can he possibly look 20 years older and 30 lbs. lighter in just three days?

Affleck lives at 1172 Napoli Dr and the number on the gate is 1172, and the gate looks like the one you can see in pics of the house on Napoli Dr, so it must be him, but good lord he does not look even remotely the same as he did just a couple days ago.

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by Anonymousreply 45January 4, 2021 6:05 AM

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by Anonymousreply 46January 4, 2021 6:05 AM

At R41/R43 he reminds me of John Mulaney.

by Anonymousreply 47January 4, 2021 6:07 AM

Sadly, I think he's ill, I hope he will get better soon.

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by Anonymousreply 48January 4, 2021 6:08 AM

Of COURSE it’s him in OP’s picture. The fuck is wrong with you? It’s the same house number, and he has the same circular patch of missing or gray hair in his beard on the left side of his jawline in the middle finger pictures and the Dunkin Donuts pictures. Jesus Christ.

As for his alarming appearance, when guys his age decide to get ripped — and you can see he is indeed ripped in the Dunkin photos: look at his arms — they lose fat in their faces which ages them.

I know a 44-year-old guy who was pudgy for most of the last 20 years but recently got absolutely shredded. His face looks like HELL, he looks at least 10 years older than he is. But his body is amazing.

by Anonymousreply 49January 4, 2021 6:09 AM

Yes i'm serious (and for the record I'm the one who agreed that he takes himself way too seriously - I'm no Affleck fan). Ana De Armas is an incredibly attractive human being and there is a 0% chance he would be fucking her if he wasn't rich and famous. Like I said, he's lucky and he can't seem to accept that or take comfort from it. he seems tormented and I agree that he looks like shit in these photos. Like, worryingly bad.

by Anonymousreply 50January 4, 2021 6:09 AM

I prefer to remember him at his peak hotness. Looking like fine, dumb trade in “The Town.”

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by Anonymousreply 51January 4, 2021 6:09 AM

He seems very troubled and possibly ill, breaks my heart. I hate to see anyone suffer, sure he has millions and lives on Napoli Drive, but it doesn't assure happiness or good health. Stay strong Ben.

by Anonymousreply 52January 4, 2021 6:10 AM

That was Blake Lively's peak hotness too. Age, man.

by Anonymousreply 53January 4, 2021 6:11 AM

He misses Matt.

by Anonymousreply 54January 4, 2021 6:11 AM

There is talk things are not well with Ana.

She is in Cuba.

Could this explain it? (His angry response and appearance.)

Wishes to Ben that things are okay.

by Anonymousreply 55January 4, 2021 6:12 AM

[quote] Looking like fine, dumb trade in “The Town.”

I wanna see Da Town!

by Anonymousreply 56January 4, 2021 6:12 AM

Why is r46 posting pictures of my cleaning lady?

by Anonymousreply 57January 4, 2021 6:13 AM

He won’t stay on his lithium, is also partial to bad wiglets, and is an aging alcoholic. Considering all that, I think he still looks pretty good.

by Anonymousreply 58January 4, 2021 6:13 AM

Ana de Armas seems like a nice, stable girl.

But without heavy makeup and glam lighting, she has a face like a baked potato.

by Anonymousreply 59January 4, 2021 6:13 AM

I don't believe it's him in OP's pic either, because he would never flip off to the cameras like that.

by Anonymousreply 60January 4, 2021 6:14 AM

[quote]The wight loss is alarming.

Oh dear.

by Anonymousreply 61January 4, 2021 6:14 AM

weight loss = AIDS

by Anonymousreply 62January 4, 2021 6:14 AM

LOL, R57

by Anonymousreply 63January 4, 2021 6:15 AM

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by Anonymousreply 64January 4, 2021 6:15 AM

It's that damn Dunkin' Donuts' shit he consumes!

by Anonymousreply 65January 4, 2021 6:19 AM

I think the poster who thought he had been crying is onto it. There’s no other explanation for those suitcases. He looks positively *haggard*.

by Anonymousreply 66January 4, 2021 6:22 AM

[quote]I don't believe it's him in OP's pic either, because he would never flip off to the cameras like that.

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by Anonymousreply 67January 4, 2021 6:23 AM
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by Anonymousreply 68January 4, 2021 6:23 AM

WHY CAN'T PEOPLE FLIP OFF THE RIGHT WAY????? NOT JUST THE MIDDLE FINGER!!!! HELLO!!!! SHEEEEESH!!!!

by Anonymousreply 69January 4, 2021 6:23 AM

Wait, Ana's in Cuba right now? Has he been eating all this Dunkin for himself?

by Anonymousreply 70January 4, 2021 6:24 AM

Few months ago, Ben and Matt reunion

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by Anonymousreply 71January 4, 2021 6:27 AM

[quote]It's the same fucking address, dude. The gate's open. Who else would it be?

Young Casey?

by Anonymousreply 72January 4, 2021 6:28 AM

I think R71's picture is from a charity video they did; donate or register on this site and you can win a lunch with matt and ben and bring a pal.

I signed up; I'd love to meet them, rather who I think they are. and we become pals and work on a movie together.

Of course, celebs are never who you think they are.

But I'd still like to win. I envision winning. I think visualizing CAN work; doesn't always.

I know I sound pathetic. but I'm only as half as sad as I sound.

by Anonymousreply 73January 4, 2021 6:29 AM

They both look cute at R71.

And people--these boys have both invested in the best hair replacement systems money can buy. Damon's in particular is very convincing.

by Anonymousreply 74January 4, 2021 6:30 AM

What does he take lithium for?

by Anonymousreply 75January 4, 2021 6:34 AM

R66 Those suitcases are from heavy imbibing. My friend who's been a heavy drinker and smoking all his life has matching luggage. Those folds and creases like a shar-pei puppy.

by Anonymousreply 76January 4, 2021 6:35 AM

Wig Whisperer @ R74, does Jon Ossoff wear a hairpiece?

by Anonymousreply 77January 4, 2021 6:35 AM

[quote]But I'd still like to win. I envision winning. I think visualizing CAN work; doesn't always.

Awww, I hope you win! If you do, please send them DL's regards.

by Anonymousreply 78January 4, 2021 6:38 AM

I vote yes on R77’s informal poll.

by Anonymousreply 79January 4, 2021 6:40 AM

R78, that's very kind of you. Thanks.

by Anonymousreply 80January 4, 2021 6:41 AM

I think Ben looks handsome clean-shaven, but much older. Matt is actually 2 years older but I would guess Ben is 5 years his senior based on this photo.

A wise elder queen told me years ago to avoid rapid weight loss/gain, especially in middle age: it prematurely ages men. And she was right.

PS: no idea about Ossoff's hair status. But I shall look into it.

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by Anonymousreply 81January 4, 2021 6:42 AM

R75 Probably for the same reason most people take Lithium: Bi-polar disorder. That would also explain the drastic change in facial expression and appearance. When not on meds people's faces look tense and angry and they look noticeably different,

by Anonymousreply 82January 4, 2021 6:50 AM

op =

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by Anonymousreply 83January 4, 2021 6:54 AM

He’s a male leo...

by Anonymousreply 84January 4, 2021 6:55 AM

Lol @ R83. Omfg

by Anonymousreply 85January 4, 2021 6:56 AM

Literally LMFAO at R83 too! That’s the perfect way to describe Frau posters.

by Anonymousreply 86January 4, 2021 6:58 AM

Holy! OMG, R83!

Please, dear God, does anyone have any tips you can share to help me unsee that? Much appreciated.

by Anonymousreply 87January 4, 2021 7:01 AM

Yay we can see gifs again.

by Anonymousreply 88January 4, 2021 7:12 AM

Hate him, his sex pest little brother and Matt. Also, Anna is only with him because she’s dumb enough to believe the name Affleck carries weight in Hollywood. Anna is as awful as Ben.

by Anonymousreply 89January 4, 2021 7:13 AM

You can't keep an old drunk down. He'll be back to his normal self once the bars open back up.

by Anonymousreply 90January 4, 2021 7:16 AM

I don’t think Affleck will live long. He just seems so deeply damaged and broken.

by Anonymousreply 91January 4, 2021 7:18 AM

I wonder what happened re: deeply damaged and broken. He's never said a word (nor has anyone else) about anything off in his childhood, which is almost always where adulthood deep damage and brokenness comes from. Because yes, he does seem that way. Sort of inherently melancholy/trying to escape from himself and from the outside he looks like he has a pretty good life...

by Anonymousreply 92January 4, 2021 7:19 AM

I can't see r83's link

by Anonymousreply 93January 4, 2021 7:22 AM

R92, I’ve been here a long time, maybe 8 years, or 10, idk. Your post profoundly touched me, especially the phrase “inherently melancholy”. Since 2016, my depression has come with such force that I’m a different person. I’m not well. And I think that’s what I am too, “inherently melancholy “. Ben, if you read this — it’s just how you’re wired, it’s not your fault. Don’t give up, no matter what. Keep fighting for your happiness.

by Anonymousreply 94January 4, 2021 7:24 AM

Sorry to hear that R94. You're not alone, for what that's worth.

by Anonymousreply 95January 4, 2021 7:32 AM

[quote]He’s a male leo...

So is Matthew Perry.

by Anonymousreply 96January 4, 2021 7:32 AM

Hugs, R94. And please: Keep fighting for your happiness!

by Anonymousreply 97January 4, 2021 7:33 AM

He's a talent free old drunk who can't keep his dick in his pants.

by Anonymousreply 98January 4, 2021 7:35 AM

[quote]Is he white?

Are you white?

by Anonymousreply 99January 4, 2021 7:51 AM

All the eldergay stand losing their shit because their douchebro fantasy guy, Ben, looks like a crack addict now.

lmao

by Anonymousreply 100January 4, 2021 7:53 AM

r100 Affleck has never been popular around here.

by Anonymousreply 101January 4, 2021 7:56 AM

This is one of the more sympathetic threads I've seen about him... all things considered.

by Anonymousreply 102January 4, 2021 8:24 AM

[Quote]What does he take lithium for?

For his phone, Rose.

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by Anonymousreply 103January 4, 2021 8:36 AM

Man, he looks like shit!

by Anonymousreply 104January 4, 2021 8:37 AM

r94 pull yourself away from your computer and take a walk around the block. Breath in deep for some fresh air. Or, as Ruth Gordon said in Harold and Maude, "Start each day with a breath of fire," aka about 15-30 seconds a of deep inhales/exhales. I'm not saying this will fix your depression, but you have to start where you are.

Oh, and make a Gratitude List. And keep it simple. For example, I'm grateful that I have a roof over my head. etc.

by Anonymousreply 105January 4, 2021 8:37 AM

Man, he looks like shit!

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by Anonymousreply 106January 4, 2021 8:39 AM

Shit! That's Goldberg? Wow, just wow.

by Anonymousreply 107January 4, 2021 8:53 AM

Yeah, Affleck was never a DL Favorite. At least not in the "lust after" sense.

Maybe in the "rag on" sense.

I mean, he's awful.

by Anonymousreply 108January 4, 2021 8:55 AM

There’s two of him. Look at the chins.

by Anonymousreply 109January 4, 2021 9:06 AM

Holyfucking shit!

I thought this was another Paul Ryan thread at first!

by Anonymousreply 110January 4, 2021 9:08 AM

The thread we had when frau ex-wife Jen Garner drove his drunk ass to rehab was totally inappropriate and hilariously funny.

by Anonymousreply 111January 4, 2021 9:22 AM

Large, pendulous breasts.

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by Anonymousreply 112January 4, 2021 9:23 AM

That back tat is tragic.

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by Anonymousreply 113January 4, 2021 9:37 AM

He’s a mess. He has never been just an alcoholic but a massive coke head but they never report it. Also dabbled in heroin for a while and probably meth. Have a friend who used to fly out on a private jet to his poker parties in Vegas. Said he was out of his mind and it was all very sad. This is just a couple of years ago too. Wonder if he will actually ever be clean and sober.

by Anonymousreply 114January 4, 2021 9:37 AM

The fillers and botox are wearing off, those added to his alcoholic bloat during Justice League stretched his aging skin. The guy can't act, is a mediocre director, aging severely and is now ugly. He's done.

by Anonymousreply 115January 4, 2021 9:42 AM

The face of meth

by Anonymousreply 116January 4, 2021 9:52 AM

If he got into the booze and drugs early on and then was hit with emotional problems in middle age, which is somewhat common apparently, he's going to be an absolute mess. Add in the toll that constant weight loss and gain cycles cause on the body and I guess these recent photos aren't surprising.

It's just that in the first Dunkin photo, he looks definitely like Ben Affleck. In the second at the gate, he looks like a totally different person with a few similar features to Affleck.

by Anonymousreply 117January 4, 2021 10:00 AM

Has this been published anywhere aside from by some random person on imgur?

Because it could be photoshopped. He was photographed very recently looking reasonably normal.

by Anonymousreply 118January 4, 2021 10:07 AM

This is what he looked like last week:

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by Anonymousreply 119January 4, 2021 10:10 AM

I agree that he’s letting the fillers wear off. And doing so because of the contra-indication with the vaccines.

by Anonymousreply 120January 4, 2021 10:17 AM

R118 R119 "It's not him" Troll is Back!

by Anonymousreply 121January 4, 2021 10:19 AM

He looks like my dad who just died of alcoholism and stuff at 74.

by Anonymousreply 122January 4, 2021 10:20 AM

Maybe he's hired a body double to do his DD runs since it's clear the paps lie in wait for him there.

by Anonymousreply 123January 4, 2021 10:40 AM

Link to the original photo & site Op. it obviously came from a webpage that you copied and posted to Imgur.

by Anonymousreply 124January 4, 2021 10:45 AM

People are really deying that the pictires of him looking like an old time alcoholic in a long time Glasgow pub are Ben Affleck? It's him and the deniers will deal.

by Anonymousreply 125January 4, 2021 10:58 AM

It was on the @BstOfAffleck Twitter account but deleted, and on Reddit but the images came from imgur, no idea what the original source for them was.

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by Anonymousreply 126January 4, 2021 11:02 AM

R6

I did not know that. Weinstein definitely fucked him.

by Anonymousreply 127January 4, 2021 11:07 AM

He looks more like himself in this, also by the same paps - but he still looks awful.

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by Anonymousreply 128January 4, 2021 11:14 AM

I am guessing meth.

by Anonymousreply 129January 4, 2021 11:35 AM

Coke/meth for sure. He binges. Just an all around addict. Sad.

by Anonymousreply 130January 4, 2021 11:47 AM

Could Matt's big cock save him?

by Anonymousreply 131January 4, 2021 11:52 AM

I saw OP's pic of Ben on an IG feed and didn't open it, I figured it was a fake. After looking at the other pics and the spilling the coffee etc. I wonder if the OP pic is real. If it is real, it looks like Ben is not doing well at all. Fear not! Jennifer will make sure that he is cleaned up and goes for a covid safe walk with the kids and a dog or two looking immaculate.

Praise be.

by Anonymousreply 132January 4, 2021 11:58 AM

The closet kills.

by Anonymousreply 133January 4, 2021 12:02 PM

There's someone with him already though, r132, you can see a woman's leg behind him, in between his own legs. Maybe Ana is back?

by Anonymousreply 134January 4, 2021 12:07 PM

It's not him. You can tell they spliced the column with the address on it onto the photo of the stranger on OP's post. But still, 133 posts for Drunk Ben is pretty impressive. Once a star . . .

by Anonymousreply 135January 4, 2021 12:08 PM

R135, an unflattering pic of someone known to have substance abuse issues is part of some grand conspiracy!!! Hopefully, the next Attorney General appoints a special counsel to find out who would go through such lengths to imply Ben might not be in the best place, physically or mentally.

I'm willing to bet the metadata of the photo will lead back to a state actor, or perhaps a bitter ex-wife negotiating for full custody!!!

by Anonymousreply 136January 4, 2021 12:16 PM

There's a series of pics, R135, not just the one.

by Anonymousreply 137January 4, 2021 12:18 PM

The man, the meth, the legend.

by Anonymousreply 138January 4, 2021 12:24 PM

At least his wig still looks good.

by Anonymousreply 139January 4, 2021 12:35 PM

Time is a cruel bitch, and so is alcoholism.

by Anonymousreply 140January 4, 2021 12:38 PM

It’s not him. I have never seen him doing an aggressive double bird flip. Him and Jen Garner get more paparazzi action than anyone and are amazingly well behaved in the circumstances.

by Anonymousreply 141January 4, 2021 12:45 PM

Remember when he wore a prosthetic penis for Gone Girl? A tiny dick, meth addict and smells of booze. That Ana girl really got him at his peak.

by Anonymousreply 142January 4, 2021 12:59 PM

OP is always photoshopping celebrity photos to make them look old and like shit. Notice he doesn't post photos from actual websites. Just imgur which is where he uploads his photoshopped pics.

by Anonymousreply 143January 4, 2021 1:02 PM

Is he trying to get his dad bod back with all the DD runs?

He looks better thin≥

by Anonymousreply 144January 4, 2021 1:11 PM

I don't think it is Ben Affleck in OP. I cannot find the same picture of him online.

by Anonymousreply 145January 4, 2021 1:12 PM

I liked Ben when he was a big fat messy bitch who forgot to zip up his pants before running to the red carpet. I have a type. "Beefy hot mess" is a type.

by Anonymousreply 146January 4, 2021 1:15 PM

R146 I think that is called dad bod

by Anonymousreply 147January 4, 2021 1:16 PM

[Quote] There is talk things are not well with Ana. She is in Cuba. Could this explain it? (His angry response and appearance.) Wishes to Ben that things are okay.

Uhh no because they're not actually dating.

by Anonymousreply 148January 4, 2021 1:24 PM

I see nothing wrong with the guy.

What's the problem?

by Anonymousreply 149January 4, 2021 1:28 PM

It’s a series of photos and the other ones look like him. Perhaps it’s photoshopped, but doesn’t have to be. He’s an addict. They don’t always look good. Sheesh.

by Anonymousreply 150January 4, 2021 1:42 PM

R15, I think I beat you to it at R3, 8 posts before R11 did.

by Anonymousreply 151January 4, 2021 1:56 PM

Maybe that CLOSET QUEEN is stressed out from all his marital problems with his husband Matt Damon.

by Anonymousreply 152January 4, 2021 2:00 PM

He's prepping for that big-budget Gabby Hayes biopic.

by Anonymousreply 153January 4, 2021 2:03 PM

Compare the chins. Look at the 90s Bens. There are two Bens.

by Anonymousreply 154January 4, 2021 3:07 PM

That's how they age.

by Anonymousreply 155January 4, 2021 3:18 PM

He's merely preparing for his role as Gus the Fireman in the newest Leave It to Beaver reboot.

by Anonymousreply 156January 4, 2021 3:39 PM

[quote] Uhh no because they're not actually dating.

Uhh no, R148, Ben and Ana are - or were - a real deal.

Don’t know where you source your info, but try coming to LA and being adjacent to Jen Garner (friend-wise.)

And yes, it is Ben in the photos. And yes, Jen is VERY concerned.

It’s been a tough holiday.

by Anonymousreply 157January 4, 2021 4:15 PM

Denture mouth.

by Anonymousreply 158January 4, 2021 5:04 PM

Sad last days.

He's no Mark Wahlberg, that's for sure.

by Anonymousreply 159January 4, 2021 5:11 PM

I hope this means that Ana dumped his ass.

by Anonymousreply 160January 4, 2021 5:14 PM

I'd still do him.

by Anonymousreply 161January 4, 2021 5:15 PM

Thank you to the posters who replied to me about continuing to fight for happiness — I agree with your thoughts, you’re a good person for being kind.

Back to Ben.....yes, this thread is garnering huge sympathy for him. Why? Because he’s so clearly so unhappy — that’s just sad to see in any human being. He just looks BROKE.

by Anonymousreply 162January 4, 2021 5:16 PM

Ben's dad was a severe alcoholic and didn't get sober until Ben was 19. Drunk and abusive he was actually homeless for two years due to his drinking. That is a lot of trauma...

by Anonymousreply 163January 4, 2021 5:17 PM

Boo hoo. His brother has been sober for years. Let's stop making excuses for this rich, narcissistic white man.

by Anonymousreply 164January 4, 2021 5:19 PM

[quote]Drunk and abusive he was actually homeless for two years due to his drinking. That is a lot of trauma...

Their father was not abusive.

by Anonymousreply 165January 4, 2021 5:22 PM

He's trying to follow the downward spiral path laid before him by Alec Baldwin.

If Ana de Armas starts posting yoga pictures, watch out!

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by Anonymousreply 166January 4, 2021 5:23 PM

Ben's beard has a lot of grey in it. The OP's guy's beard is jet black. Nope, not Ben.

by Anonymousreply 167January 4, 2021 5:23 PM

[quote] Ben's beard has a lot of grey in it. The OP's guy's beard is jet black. Nope, not Ben

R167 has never heard of something called hair dye.

by Anonymousreply 168January 4, 2021 5:28 PM

He's fine.

He sends Cocaine👄Kisses 2 U.

by Anonymousreply 169January 4, 2021 5:30 PM

He look like Salvation Army bellringer.

by Anonymousreply 170January 4, 2021 5:32 PM

I just can't imagine having all the breaks that Affleck has had and ending up miserable like he is.

by Anonymousreply 171January 4, 2021 5:33 PM

[quote]Where do some of these posters come from?

Frauen from Celebitchy, Lipstick Alley and the Daily Fail

by Anonymousreply 172January 4, 2021 5:34 PM

Are they taco flavored cocaine kisses, R169?

by Anonymousreply 173January 4, 2021 5:41 PM

[quote]He’s a mess. He has never been just an alcoholic but a massive coke head but they never report it. Also dabbled in heroin for a while and probably meth. Have a friend who used to fly out on a private jet to his poker parties in Vegas. Said he was out of his mind and it was all very sad. This is just a couple of years ago too. Wonder if he will actually ever be clean and sober.

Pills, too. Production on Batman v Superman got pushed back due to his opiate addiction. At the time, they said that he hurt his leg skiing but that was an obvious lie. He went to rehab for the 243rd time, secretly. He's never been honest about his substance abuse issues, never will. Has never hit rock bottom, never will.

by Anonymousreply 174January 4, 2021 5:59 PM

If he's still doing coke at nearly 50, it's a ticking time bomb. Of course coke is dangerous at any age, but people who still do it in middle age are at huge risk for serious problems, i.e. Carrie Fisher.

by Anonymousreply 175January 4, 2021 6:02 PM

💃 Si senor @ r173 !

by Anonymousreply 176January 4, 2021 6:02 PM

I've done coke for decades and all is well!

by Anonymousreply 177January 4, 2021 6:08 PM

Ben is on my 2021 Celebrity Death List. Let’s hope!!! I think we’ll find out a lot more of the juicy, tawdry details of his personal life when he’s dead.

by Anonymousreply 178January 4, 2021 6:10 PM

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by Anonymousreply 179January 4, 2021 6:12 PM

That's what he naturally looks like in the morning before he has his coffee and a dozen donuts.

by Anonymousreply 180January 4, 2021 6:16 PM

He’s pissed off at the paps because they took those pictures of him dropping all his damn coffee. He is too thin, he looks awful. I agree, I’m getting dum ass Kevin Smith vibes.

by Anonymousreply 181January 4, 2021 6:17 PM

We need to start dating our posts so there is reference in time. Was this recent? When did it happen?

Still would rim him deep!

by Anonymousreply 182January 4, 2021 6:22 PM

poz face

by Anonymousreply 183January 4, 2021 6:23 PM

Not cool to post his address here. I say it is him, but photoshopped. The Dunkin' Donuts photos were just three or four days ago and he doesn't look that skinny.

by Anonymousreply 184January 4, 2021 6:39 PM

So for reference in time, F184 says this happened around 01/01/21. Thanks R184

by Anonymousreply 185January 4, 2021 7:01 PM

I can’t update imagine him becoming a manorexic. I don’t think he got that skinny just from quitting booze. Maybe he’s bulimic. He has inner pain. Just taking the substances away doesn’t heal the pain, so then you are still left with pain, and the only options left for self-harming, to modulate the pain, are the food-related disorders. He seems like he might be binging and purging on the Dunkins. He’s from Boston. Dunkins has symbolism for Bostonians. Binging and purging his childhood, perhaps?

I am going to hazard a guess that he was molested as a child actor. That, or his dad’s alcoholism fucked him up hard. He needs intensive therapy.

by Anonymousreply 186January 4, 2021 7:49 PM

^^^Sorry for typos. “ I can easily imagine”

by Anonymousreply 187January 4, 2021 7:49 PM

R114 I do remember the National Enquirer talking about his coke issues years ago - but because it was the Enquirer, nobody took it seriously.

I'm wondering about Adderall myself. Heroin actually makes you crave sweets and sugary things - poor heroin addicts ate skinny because they save all their money for heroin. It can distract you from hunger pangs, hence why the models like it, but I don't see any tell tale injection dots in his photos.

by Anonymousreply 188January 4, 2021 7:58 PM

For R94: Bane, there are things you can do, meds you can take. Tests you can take. Don’t suffer needlessly. Maybe your thyroid is off? Maybe your testosterone dipped? Maybe you are lonely? Maybe you have unresolved issues from childhood? Get on it! Figure it out. Go see someone. Get support. I hate seeing good people suffer. Meditate. Get out of the house. Shower every day, even if it feels like a chore. But GET OUTSIDE SUPPORT. There are answers out there. If you are in your 40s or older, there maybe be hormone flux or childhood issues coming up for examination. Don’t just sit there hurting. Please?

by Anonymousreply 189January 4, 2021 8:03 PM

Faces of meth

by Anonymousreply 190January 4, 2021 8:06 PM

R33 Check the ears. They're one feature that doesn't change unless someone had plastic surgery.

by Anonymousreply 191January 4, 2021 9:17 PM

I wonder how man times Jennifer Garner has had to practice her, "Kids, daddy died from ____" speech.

by Anonymousreply 192January 4, 2021 9:33 PM

R192 or Uncle Casey has gone to heaven.

by Anonymousreply 193January 4, 2021 9:36 PM

[R164] Racist SJW shitbag. If you're capacity for compassion is contingent on a person's race then you're not a compassionate person. You're evil-minded.

by Anonymousreply 194January 4, 2021 9:54 PM

Poor Ben.

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by Anonymousreply 195January 4, 2021 10:05 PM

^^Die in a grease fire you fucking freak..

by Anonymousreply 196January 4, 2021 10:09 PM

He looks strung out AF.

by Anonymousreply 197January 4, 2021 10:14 PM

He has the AIDS you know.

by Anonymousreply 198January 4, 2021 10:28 PM

Is this the photo you're all talking about?

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by Anonymousreply 199January 4, 2021 10:30 PM

I honestly think he is eating-disordered. Because remember, the most recent time he really bottomed out, he was quite fat, and the world called him out on his bloated, shapeless, back-tatted, alcoholic dad-bod. And now he's gonna show us all! "Wow...Ben is sooooo fit and handsome now," he thinks we're all saying.

"You think I lack self-control? Huh? I'll show ya self-control!"

by Anonymousreply 200January 4, 2021 10:32 PM

I’d eat his ass.

by Anonymousreply 201January 4, 2021 10:33 PM

Can’t Matt throw him a bone(r)

by Anonymousreply 202January 4, 2021 10:37 PM

Dudes, Op's photo is of Casey Affleck.

by Anonymousreply 203January 4, 2021 10:45 PM

No it isn't. That's not Casey.

by Anonymousreply 204January 4, 2021 10:49 PM

Nothing more pathetic than an old drunk that does not act his age. Perhaps his sullen personality due to the fact his agent is receiving scripts casting Ben in a father/ grandfather role...

by Anonymousreply 205January 4, 2021 10:51 PM

[quote]r186 I am going to hazard a guess that he was molested as a child actor.

I think this is a reasonable explanation. He was sexually abused as a kid. He's just unable to heal and mend himself.

I wonder if Jen knows, if he told her. Or maybe he once accidentally let it slip. This could be why she's so patient with him.

by Anonymousreply 206January 4, 2021 10:53 PM

Deep Fake

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by Anonymousreply 207January 4, 2021 10:54 PM

Slightly off-topic but I recently saw some doc/tabloid show about JLo and it really seemed like he was in love with her and wanted to marry her but she was too fame-hungry and courted the press. He allegedly cheated on her days before the wedding and then called it off when she caught him. I wonder if part of his problem isn't that he considers her the one that got away? P.S. they also said that he and Jennifer Garner "fell in love" on the set of their movie "Daredevil" and I think he was still engaged to JLo during the filming so who knows?

by Anonymousreply 208January 4, 2021 11:01 PM

He really needs to keep the dentures in.

by Anonymousreply 209January 4, 2021 11:03 PM

Where’s Jennifer and her bible?

by Anonymousreply 210January 4, 2021 11:05 PM

I think that IS him. Look at r12 - he has that same bald patch in his beard.

by Anonymousreply 211January 4, 2021 11:05 PM

Gone are the days.

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by Anonymousreply 212January 4, 2021 11:09 PM

You would think Matt would show some mercy, and throw him a juicy meaty bone 🍖

by Anonymousreply 213January 4, 2021 11:11 PM

Blowmance*

by Anonymousreply 214January 4, 2021 11:12 PM

Well, I agree with Ko-Ko, Katisha and the Gothic Romantics—

'There's a fascination frantic In a ruin that's romantic' and I think Ben is fascinatingly 'decayed'.

by Anonymousreply 215January 4, 2021 11:14 PM

Photoshop

by Anonymousreply 216January 4, 2021 11:16 PM

If that were him TMZ would be all over it. I posted upthread I think it was photoshopped. He didn't look like that 3 or 4 days ago.

by Anonymousreply 217January 4, 2021 11:49 PM

[quote]Where’s Jennifer and her bible?

On the phone with photo agencies, arranging the upcoming "furrowed brow, very concerned!" pap strolls that she'll do with their kids.

by Anonymousreply 218January 4, 2021 11:57 PM

Jennifer is going to have a spontaneous Annunciation right up into the clouds ⛅️

by Anonymousreply 219January 5, 2021 12:27 AM

[quote]Nothing more pathetic than an old drunk that does not act his age. Perhaps his sullen personality due to the fact his agent is receiving scripts casting Ben in a father/ grandfather role...

This happens all the time in Hollywood. Actors and actresses start getting scripts pitched to them where they play the parent of an adult child and they have a fucking nervous breakdown. They can't accept the fact that they're old enough to have grown children and conversely old enough to be grandparents.

Hell, Brad Pitt will be playing the father of small children until he's 80 years old.

by Anonymousreply 220January 5, 2021 12:43 AM

He looks ravaged in that pic. Damn.

by Anonymousreply 221January 5, 2021 12:44 AM

R189, I am currently doing several of the things on your list, but I don’t want to derail a fun thread. It’s been decades of struggle with much devotion to trying to fix it. I will take your post to heart though because I am just discouraged after so much time and effort while still not finding the magic formula that fits my body and brain.

On Matt!! Another reason he looks so shocking is his teeth are almost popping out because of the weight loss. What’s really strange and points to drugs is....if he’s purposefully losing weight, would you be drinking all that DD? I wondered if he has COVID, but he wouldn’t dare leave the house for fear it leaked. Also, sick people don’t have DD. The most likely explanation is that he has one/both/combo of being on a serious bender, crying, possible illness, an eating disorder and he is on a bender with food.

by Anonymousreply 222January 5, 2021 2:18 AM

[quote]The most likely explanation is that he has one/both/combo of being on a serious bender, crying, possible illness, an eating disorder and he is on a bender with food.

He's an alcoholic and a drug user. THAT'S why he looks like shit.

by Anonymousreply 223January 5, 2021 2:36 AM

I’m sure you’re right r223.

by Anonymousreply 224January 5, 2021 3:26 AM

[quote] Back to Ben.....yes, this thread is garnering huge sympathy for him.

“Garnering”. Tehe.

by Anonymousreply 225January 5, 2021 3:37 AM

Best thing for him really. His therapy was going nowhere.

by Anonymousreply 226January 5, 2021 3:37 AM

The Geza plateaued and the fell off the brink.

by Anonymousreply 227January 5, 2021 3:38 AM

The Geza plateaued and then fell off the brink.

by Anonymousreply 228January 5, 2021 3:38 AM

He's one of those guys who never should've gotten married and had kids. Some men are much better off just having some no-strings-attached girlfriends and partying all the time, they're much too irresponsible for any other kind of life. That way nobody else gets hurt by their behavior.

by Anonymousreply 229January 5, 2021 3:47 AM

I liked him better when he had moobs.

by Anonymousreply 230January 5, 2021 3:53 AM

[quote] That back tat is tragic.

Reminds me of this:

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by Anonymousreply 231January 5, 2021 3:54 AM

Crack is whack! Crack is cheap!

by Anonymousreply 232January 5, 2021 3:58 AM

He's like Charlie Sheen now, just without HIV.

by Anonymousreply 233January 5, 2021 4:31 AM

That we know of.

by Anonymousreply 234January 5, 2021 6:01 AM

Liver disease.

by Anonymousreply 235January 5, 2021 6:35 AM

[quote]I liked him better when he had moobs.

Wait six months

by Anonymousreply 236January 5, 2021 4:06 PM

His child acting gig was an educational show on PBS that we were all forced to watch in 6th grade science. I don't think he's medicating some tragedy, I think he just likes to get fucked up. You can tell by his appearances on Bill Maher that he's not lacking in the self esteem department either. He's just kind of every obnoxious, coked up, self important dick at the end of every bar.

by Anonymousreply 237January 5, 2021 4:17 PM

R237, I resemble that remark.

by Anonymousreply 238January 5, 2021 4:24 PM

r237

When you're that good-looking you're allowed.

by Anonymousreply 239January 6, 2021 1:00 PM

What’s his skin color?

by Anonymousreply 240January 8, 2021 1:41 AM

[quote]How can he possibly look 20 years older and 30 lbs. lighter in just three days?

Before and after a binge.

[quote]Denture mouth.

by Anonymousreply 241January 8, 2021 2:27 AM
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