Gay men who look masculine, but have feminine voices.

Don't know any.

John Duff.

These endless fucking homophobic threads are really fucking exhausting.

Patrick Mahomes

Loads of times.

Yes, but I've also known the opposite - guys who were fey-looking but didn't have queens voices

I know a masculine voiced gay guy with BDF and he has a tiny little dick and he's a top.

Yes, an obese hairdresser my roommate and I met in the mall. Totally macho looking guy, no care at all for his clothes and hair and suddenly, when he started talking to her about what he would order from the store...I almost died. Worse, he is from a family of Evangelicals who got converted by the religious nuts that came to Romania after the Revolution. He is constantly talking about having 7 kids and has the most gay-voice and mannerisms I ever saw. I saw him later leaving with a bucket of hot wings from KFC with another obese guy (you cannot make this stuff up).

Yeth.... so what.

A lot of guys with beards in DC sound like that. A bunch of Brian Simms walking around. Still hot as fuck.

Also, no racism intended, but most men in LA with Asian wives. I have no problem with the women at all....whatever, but man, c'mon, tone it down in Trader Joe's ffs because I am not gonna ask you to hook up anytime soon buddy.

Doesn’t bother me much unless he is a not nice person. For some reason, men that I have known with more feminine affectations have been mean and catty.

Some of the fem-hate probably stems from this stereotype.

If he’s a nice and intelligent guy — no problem here.

Patrick Mahomes has a soft mousy voice, but not effeminate voice. Nobody thinks he is “gay” based on his voice.

Years ago, I called the IT desk at the company I worked at and the woman who was helping me wasn’t able to solve my problem over the phone: So she said she was going to come up to my office. 10 minutes later, a short muscular guy shows up. I was about to get upset and ask why someone else was sent when the woman I spoke to said that she’d come up herself, when I realized that the short guy was the “woman” I had been helping me over the phone! This wasn’t a purse falling out of a mouth, i. e. a fem affect. This was the voice of a woman coming out of a guy who looked like a midget Mr. Universe. I was completely unsurprised when I saw pocket Hercules dancing shirtless on a pride parade float a few months later.

Brian Sims

OP, there is a name for this. "See Tarzan, hear Jane."

Axl Rose & Matt Sorum must have got the wrong voices at birth, at least in their youth. Axl has a deep, drawled, truck-drivin' Good Ol' Country Fagbasher straight speaking voice, and he used to look so pretty he was mistaken daily for a T or a legit woman. Matt Sorum has the speaking voice of an aggressively queeny hairdresser or a dog-groomer, and yet he looks like the tatted punk who used to beat up little gay nerds in high-school using karate.

Slash also has a very soft and girly voice for a menacing looking rocker. That might be the effect of the dopey upspoken L.A. accent.

Nikki Sixx & Vince Neil are another great example from the world of rock & heavy metal music. Back in the day, teeny-tiny beautiful bombshell Vince sounded like a horny butch idiot working as a gas station attendant, while strapping tough-guy demonic emissary Nikki sounded like a femme poseur barista.

Greg Louganis

Brian Sims

OMG, Mary OP, this the first time anyone has ever thought of this!!

I was in the King’s Arms, a bear pub in Soho in London. A gigantic hairy brute of a man walked in. He was the most handsome and masculine man you can imagine. Everyone’s eyes swivelled towards him, he oozed sex. Then he opened his mouth to order a drink. He sounded exactly like Julie Andrews.

R21. Well, in all fairness, Julie Andrews is pretty butch.

R22, This guy was a lady and a half.

R23 did you go ask him how Maria has strayed so far from the convent?

Did you ask him out?

Yes. Me.

I'm more intrigued by gay guys who sound normal when they're still in the closet but the moment they come out suddenly they talk forever more like Paul Lynde.

For realz OP?

This has been a stereotype for decades: the muscle WeHo/Chelsea guy in his A&F "jock" gear and backwards baseball cap, tribal armband tattoo and instead of a gruff "yo dude!" you get "Heeyyy Miss Thang!!!"

^^^ Agree. My nephew went through this. My very gay-friendly brother (nephew's dad) said young Andrew was "really gayin' it up."

Whatever do you mean, Suh?

david muir!

Richard Simmons

This reminds me of that episode of The Flintstones when Fred replaces the lead actor in The Frog Mouth.