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When did Americans stop asking 'How do you do' as a formal greeting?

And what triggered it?

I am watching a lot of old movies and people in these movies ask that all the time when meeting someone. Why aren't Americans saying that anymore?

And how would a typical American react when I would greet someone like that?

by Anonymousreply 72December 7, 2020 4:52 AM

I doubt anyone would notice or care if you said that, OP. It's too similar to "How are you" etc.

However, if you said it in a German accent, they'd probably think you were Hitler.

by Anonymousreply 1December 5, 2020 5:51 PM

The expression is gibberish to modern ears. It’s actually made fun of, so it’s not hard to understand why people don’t use it any longer.

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by Anonymousreply 2December 5, 2020 5:59 PM

Ps: please stop with the role playing. It’s truly vile.

by Anonymousreply 3December 5, 2020 5:59 PM

I still use it when being introduced to people older than me.

by Anonymousreply 4December 5, 2020 6:00 PM

People still say that. Where do you live, OP?

by Anonymousreply 5December 5, 2020 6:00 PM

It's been ridiculed for nearly a century and likely beyond, GGG. Your old movie repertoire needs work.

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by Anonymousreply 6December 5, 2020 6:13 PM

It's not ridiculed unless people say it in an old style way. "How do you do?" is fine.

by Anonymousreply 7December 5, 2020 6:23 PM

Pleased tameecha

by Anonymousreply 8December 5, 2020 6:26 PM

I meant relating to first being introduced to someone. So not being used as an everyday greeting.

by Anonymousreply 9December 5, 2020 6:26 PM

[quote] It's not ridiculed unless people say it in an old style way.

What is an old-style way of saying it?

by Anonymousreply 10December 5, 2020 6:35 PM

I like it.

by Anonymousreply 11December 5, 2020 6:37 PM

When they were more interested to figure out who's the alpha in the room, so they went straight to showing off in weak-sauce pissing contests.

by Anonymousreply 12December 5, 2020 6:48 PM

[quote] And what triggered it?

F. Scott Fitzgerald mocking it in This Side of Paradise.

by Anonymousreply 13December 5, 2020 6:51 PM

Howdy

by Anonymousreply 14December 5, 2020 7:19 PM

I answer, 'I'm not really sure, but somehow I manage."

by Anonymousreply 15December 5, 2020 7:25 PM

Poorly thank you.

by Anonymousreply 16December 5, 2020 7:26 PM

We don't even use that phrase in the UK these days, GGG, you tedious, fake cunt.

by Anonymousreply 17December 5, 2020 7:28 PM

I use that phrase in the UK when on diplomatic business.

by Anonymousreply 18December 5, 2020 7:31 PM

[quote] What is an old-style way of saying it?

How... do you do? How DO you do? Hoooow do you... do?

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by Anonymousreply 19December 5, 2020 7:48 PM

GGG's making typical German grammar mistakes here--maybe he's German after all?

by Anonymousreply 20December 5, 2020 7:58 PM

As some posters have said, no one has stopped saying "how do you do" upon meeting other people. It's perfectly common, like "nice to meet you" or the like. As other posters have said, it can be mocked with an exaggerated delivery ("How DO you DO???"), augmented by a lorgnette or the like, but spoken normally it's not uncommon.

by Anonymousreply 21December 5, 2020 8:21 PM

Vinnie Barbarino changed it to "How you doing?"

by Anonymousreply 22December 5, 2020 9:07 PM

I shall write the editors of Dowager Quarterly for an informed response.

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by Anonymousreply 23December 5, 2020 9:22 PM

Question: How do you do?

Response: As I'm told.

by Anonymousreply 24December 5, 2020 9:23 PM

This was actually a big hit in 1972.

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by Anonymousreply 25December 5, 2020 9:29 PM

WHAT?

SAY WHAT?

HUH?

by Anonymousreply 26December 5, 2020 9:31 PM

I think it's marvie-poo!

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by Anonymousreply 27December 5, 2020 9:35 PM

Forget the Americans. When did the British stop speaking like this?

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by Anonymousreply 28December 5, 2020 9:37 PM

These days its only use seems limited to introductions at business and social events that require a certain level of frigidity.

by Anonymousreply 29December 5, 2020 10:43 PM

Slovenly manners triggered the change in our formal exchanges. Formal manners are still practiced in other classes.

by Anonymousreply 30December 5, 2020 11:09 PM

Harya?

by Anonymousreply 31December 5, 2020 11:16 PM

[quote] The expression is gibberish to modern ears.

No, it's not. As r1 pointed out, it's essentially the same as asking something like "how are you?" or "how's it going?"and the "typical American" probably wouldn't even notice unless you decided to use a fake British accent or otherwise attempt to sound pompous or silly.

by Anonymousreply 32December 5, 2020 11:26 PM

"how do you do"?

That's so corny. And it's fake. No one who says that really cares how the other person is doing

by Anonymousreply 33December 5, 2020 11:44 PM

I think people should stop saying that and how are you?

I strongly suggest all business transactions and meetings should start with hey yo, what’s up

by Anonymousreply 34December 5, 2020 11:49 PM

WASSUP MAH N*&&&A

by Anonymousreply 35December 5, 2020 11:57 PM

"How do I do what?"

by Anonymousreply 36December 6, 2020 12:46 AM

It's de rigueur.

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by Anonymousreply 37December 6, 2020 1:57 AM

[quote] People still say that. Where do you live, OP?

I’m going to guess she’s in New Jersey or New Hampshire.

by Anonymousreply 38December 6, 2020 2:01 AM

This thread shows once again why I always want to put Bootsie-Gumdrops on "ignore."

What a prissy controlling cunt.

by Anonymousreply 39December 6, 2020 2:01 AM

[quote] Vinnie Barbarino changed it to "How you doing?"

Oh, [italic]hon...[/italic]

by Anonymousreply 40December 6, 2020 2:03 AM

When the person they were addressing started telling them, OP.

by Anonymousreply 41December 6, 2020 2:21 AM

Back in the 60s and 70s, I remember most people over 60 years old used "How do you do?" and were sincere about it.

My grandmother used "All my stars!" when someone shared something that surprised her. I still love that expression...

by Anonymousreply 42December 6, 2020 2:27 AM

How yur durin? Says Madea

by Anonymousreply 43December 6, 2020 2:36 AM
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by Anonymousreply 44December 6, 2020 2:38 AM

My name is Sue

How do you do?

Now you're gonna die!

by Anonymousreply 45December 6, 2020 3:21 AM

More importantly, when will Australians stop asking "How are you going?" instead of "How are you?" or "How's it going?"?

by Anonymousreply 46December 6, 2020 3:37 AM

‘Sup?

by Anonymousreply 47December 6, 2020 3:42 AM

I cahn't TELL you how pleased I am to make your acquaintanceship!

You too, Miss Boswell!

by Anonymousreply 48December 6, 2020 3:50 AM

People still say "how do you do?" Honestly, where? I have NEVER heard this expression in real life. I like hearing it in old movies. But never heard it in reality. Even my parents and grandparents never said it. Usually people say "How are you?" or "Nice to meet you." Don't give the German Gay Guy bad advice, he'll look like a fool. Besides, he's young, so he'll look like an even bigger fool when he talks like this to other Youngs.

by Anonymousreply 49December 6, 2020 3:51 AM

GGG's making typical German grammar mistakes here--maybe he's German after all?

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by Anonymousreply 50December 6, 2020 3:58 AM

I’m 53 and I’ve heard it at most twice in my entire life by real people.

by Anonymousreply 51December 6, 2020 4:01 AM

GermanGayGuy may I suggest,

What's good

Yo

Waddup

Sup, B

What's poppin

What it be

by Anonymousreply 52December 6, 2020 4:01 AM

It was replaced by "Ha ya doin?' So uncivilized.

by Anonymousreply 53December 6, 2020 4:22 AM

Howderer?

by Anonymousreply 54December 6, 2020 4:29 AM

My grandparents said "How do you do all the time."

Very genteel and sophisticated greeting.

by Anonymousreply 55December 6, 2020 4:34 AM

Times change

by Anonymousreply 56December 6, 2020 4:42 AM

When they finally realized how idiotic it was. Thankfully, I haven't heard anyone say it in decades.

by Anonymousreply 57December 6, 2020 4:51 AM

The phrase sounds a little too formal in these casual times. But if someone said it to me I don't think it would stand out as strange.

by Anonymousreply 58December 6, 2020 5:05 AM

What people should be asking is if I'm OK!

by Anonymousreply 59December 6, 2020 5:19 AM

How you do-win OP?

by Anonymousreply 60December 6, 2020 5:23 AM

The response to “How do you do?” is to say “How do you do?”. It is not the same as “How are you?”, which is a rhetorical question in any event.

I caught myself ending an awkward phone conversation the other day by saying , “Very well, good day”, *click*.

by Anonymousreply 61December 6, 2020 5:27 AM

"It's Howdy Doody Time" killed it dead.

by Anonymousreply 62December 6, 2020 5:40 AM

I love your blue eyed voice, like Tiny Tim, shines through, how do you do?

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by Anonymousreply 63December 6, 2020 6:27 AM

I prefer the more formal “How dee do”.

by Anonymousreply 64December 6, 2020 6:35 AM

How-DEEE!

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by Anonymousreply 65December 6, 2020 1:02 PM

"How ah ya"

by Anonymousreply 66December 6, 2020 8:09 PM

"Howdy" is an informal contraction of "how do you do". I use "how do you do" when I'm formally introduced to someone, as in, "Blank, this is Mr. Smith. Mr. Smith, this is Blank". Whereupon, I hold out my hand and say, "how do you do"? This is the ONLY context for using this phrase. No one, present or past would ever use it in greeting someone you already know. "How's it going" is perfectly acceptable in greeting an acquaintance. It's the normal way you greet someone in other languages. (Como estai, Como estas, Wie geht's, etc). If someone says "Hi, I'm Alex" on Scruff, I'll respond, "howdy, Alex, I'm Blank". But "how are you?" implies a slightly higher degree of interest in the answer.

by Anonymousreply 67December 6, 2020 9:23 PM

Meant to say que pasa, and come va for Spanish and Italian "how goes it? " ^^^

by Anonymousreply 68December 6, 2020 9:27 PM

It's a relic, like air travel was so special you dressed up for it.

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by Anonymousreply 69December 7, 2020 2:35 AM

Here's a How-D'you-Do.

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by Anonymousreply 70December 7, 2020 4:25 AM

What's wrong with, "I'm pleased to meet you", or "Pleased to meet you"?

by Anonymousreply 71December 7, 2020 4:44 AM

R25 Love that!

by Anonymousreply 72December 7, 2020 4:52 AM
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