And what triggered it?
I am watching a lot of old movies and people in these movies ask that all the time when meeting someone. Why aren't Americans saying that anymore?
And how would a typical American react when I would greet someone like that?
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And what triggered it?
I am watching a lot of old movies and people in these movies ask that all the time when meeting someone. Why aren't Americans saying that anymore?
And how would a typical American react when I would greet someone like that?
by Anonymous | reply 72 | December 7, 2020 4:52 AM |
I doubt anyone would notice or care if you said that, OP. It's too similar to "How are you" etc.
However, if you said it in a German accent, they'd probably think you were Hitler.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | December 5, 2020 5:51 PM |
The expression is gibberish to modern ears. It’s actually made fun of, so it’s not hard to understand why people don’t use it any longer.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | December 5, 2020 5:59 PM |
Ps: please stop with the role playing. It’s truly vile.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | December 5, 2020 5:59 PM |
I still use it when being introduced to people older than me.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | December 5, 2020 6:00 PM |
People still say that. Where do you live, OP?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | December 5, 2020 6:00 PM |
It's been ridiculed for nearly a century and likely beyond, GGG. Your old movie repertoire needs work.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | December 5, 2020 6:13 PM |
It's not ridiculed unless people say it in an old style way. "How do you do?" is fine.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | December 5, 2020 6:23 PM |
Pleased tameecha
by Anonymous | reply 8 | December 5, 2020 6:26 PM |
I meant relating to first being introduced to someone. So not being used as an everyday greeting.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | December 5, 2020 6:26 PM |
[quote] It's not ridiculed unless people say it in an old style way.
What is an old-style way of saying it?
by Anonymous | reply 10 | December 5, 2020 6:35 PM |
I like it.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | December 5, 2020 6:37 PM |
When they were more interested to figure out who's the alpha in the room, so they went straight to showing off in weak-sauce pissing contests.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | December 5, 2020 6:48 PM |
[quote] And what triggered it?
F. Scott Fitzgerald mocking it in This Side of Paradise.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | December 5, 2020 6:51 PM |
Howdy
by Anonymous | reply 14 | December 5, 2020 7:19 PM |
I answer, 'I'm not really sure, but somehow I manage."
by Anonymous | reply 15 | December 5, 2020 7:25 PM |
Poorly thank you.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | December 5, 2020 7:26 PM |
We don't even use that phrase in the UK these days, GGG, you tedious, fake cunt.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | December 5, 2020 7:28 PM |
I use that phrase in the UK when on diplomatic business.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | December 5, 2020 7:31 PM |
[quote] What is an old-style way of saying it?
How... do you do? How DO you do? Hoooow do you... do?
by Anonymous | reply 19 | December 5, 2020 7:48 PM |
GGG's making typical German grammar mistakes here--maybe he's German after all?
by Anonymous | reply 20 | December 5, 2020 7:58 PM |
As some posters have said, no one has stopped saying "how do you do" upon meeting other people. It's perfectly common, like "nice to meet you" or the like. As other posters have said, it can be mocked with an exaggerated delivery ("How DO you DO???"), augmented by a lorgnette or the like, but spoken normally it's not uncommon.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | December 5, 2020 8:21 PM |
Vinnie Barbarino changed it to "How you doing?"
by Anonymous | reply 22 | December 5, 2020 9:07 PM |
I shall write the editors of Dowager Quarterly for an informed response.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | December 5, 2020 9:22 PM |
Question: How do you do?
Response: As I'm told.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | December 5, 2020 9:23 PM |
WHAT?
SAY WHAT?
HUH?
by Anonymous | reply 26 | December 5, 2020 9:31 PM |
Forget the Americans. When did the British stop speaking like this?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | December 5, 2020 9:37 PM |
These days its only use seems limited to introductions at business and social events that require a certain level of frigidity.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | December 5, 2020 10:43 PM |
Slovenly manners triggered the change in our formal exchanges. Formal manners are still practiced in other classes.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | December 5, 2020 11:09 PM |
Harya?
by Anonymous | reply 31 | December 5, 2020 11:16 PM |
[quote] The expression is gibberish to modern ears.
No, it's not. As r1 pointed out, it's essentially the same as asking something like "how are you?" or "how's it going?"and the "typical American" probably wouldn't even notice unless you decided to use a fake British accent or otherwise attempt to sound pompous or silly.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | December 5, 2020 11:26 PM |
"how do you do"?
That's so corny. And it's fake. No one who says that really cares how the other person is doing
by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 5, 2020 11:44 PM |
I think people should stop saying that and how are you?
I strongly suggest all business transactions and meetings should start with hey yo, what’s up
by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 5, 2020 11:49 PM |
WASSUP MAH N*&&&A
by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 5, 2020 11:57 PM |
"How do I do what?"
by Anonymous | reply 36 | December 6, 2020 12:46 AM |
[quote] People still say that. Where do you live, OP?
I’m going to guess she’s in New Jersey or New Hampshire.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | December 6, 2020 2:01 AM |
This thread shows once again why I always want to put Bootsie-Gumdrops on "ignore."
What a prissy controlling cunt.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | December 6, 2020 2:01 AM |
[quote] Vinnie Barbarino changed it to "How you doing?"
Oh, [italic]hon...[/italic]
by Anonymous | reply 40 | December 6, 2020 2:03 AM |
When the person they were addressing started telling them, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | December 6, 2020 2:21 AM |
Back in the 60s and 70s, I remember most people over 60 years old used "How do you do?" and were sincere about it.
My grandmother used "All my stars!" when someone shared something that surprised her. I still love that expression...
by Anonymous | reply 42 | December 6, 2020 2:27 AM |
How yur durin? Says Madea
by Anonymous | reply 43 | December 6, 2020 2:36 AM |
by Anonymous | reply 44 | December 6, 2020 2:38 AM |
My name is Sue
How do you do?
Now you're gonna die!
by Anonymous | reply 45 | December 6, 2020 3:21 AM |
More importantly, when will Australians stop asking "How are you going?" instead of "How are you?" or "How's it going?"?
by Anonymous | reply 46 | December 6, 2020 3:37 AM |
‘Sup?
by Anonymous | reply 47 | December 6, 2020 3:42 AM |
I cahn't TELL you how pleased I am to make your acquaintanceship!
You too, Miss Boswell!
by Anonymous | reply 48 | December 6, 2020 3:50 AM |
People still say "how do you do?" Honestly, where? I have NEVER heard this expression in real life. I like hearing it in old movies. But never heard it in reality. Even my parents and grandparents never said it. Usually people say "How are you?" or "Nice to meet you." Don't give the German Gay Guy bad advice, he'll look like a fool. Besides, he's young, so he'll look like an even bigger fool when he talks like this to other Youngs.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | December 6, 2020 3:51 AM |
GGG's making typical German grammar mistakes here--maybe he's German after all?
by Anonymous | reply 50 | December 6, 2020 3:58 AM |
I’m 53 and I’ve heard it at most twice in my entire life by real people.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | December 6, 2020 4:01 AM |
GermanGayGuy may I suggest,
What's good
Yo
Waddup
Sup, B
What's poppin
What it be
by Anonymous | reply 52 | December 6, 2020 4:01 AM |
It was replaced by "Ha ya doin?' So uncivilized.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | December 6, 2020 4:22 AM |
Howderer?
by Anonymous | reply 54 | December 6, 2020 4:29 AM |
My grandparents said "How do you do all the time."
Very genteel and sophisticated greeting.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | December 6, 2020 4:34 AM |
Times change
by Anonymous | reply 56 | December 6, 2020 4:42 AM |
When they finally realized how idiotic it was. Thankfully, I haven't heard anyone say it in decades.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | December 6, 2020 4:51 AM |
The phrase sounds a little too formal in these casual times. But if someone said it to me I don't think it would stand out as strange.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | December 6, 2020 5:05 AM |
What people should be asking is if I'm OK!
by Anonymous | reply 59 | December 6, 2020 5:19 AM |
How you do-win OP?
by Anonymous | reply 60 | December 6, 2020 5:23 AM |
The response to “How do you do?” is to say “How do you do?”. It is not the same as “How are you?”, which is a rhetorical question in any event.
I caught myself ending an awkward phone conversation the other day by saying , “Very well, good day”, *click*.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | December 6, 2020 5:27 AM |
"It's Howdy Doody Time" killed it dead.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | December 6, 2020 5:40 AM |
I love your blue eyed voice, like Tiny Tim, shines through, how do you do?
by Anonymous | reply 63 | December 6, 2020 6:27 AM |
I prefer the more formal “How dee do”.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | December 6, 2020 6:35 AM |
"How ah ya"
by Anonymous | reply 66 | December 6, 2020 8:09 PM |
"Howdy" is an informal contraction of "how do you do". I use "how do you do" when I'm formally introduced to someone, as in, "Blank, this is Mr. Smith. Mr. Smith, this is Blank". Whereupon, I hold out my hand and say, "how do you do"? This is the ONLY context for using this phrase. No one, present or past would ever use it in greeting someone you already know. "How's it going" is perfectly acceptable in greeting an acquaintance. It's the normal way you greet someone in other languages. (Como estai, Como estas, Wie geht's, etc). If someone says "Hi, I'm Alex" on Scruff, I'll respond, "howdy, Alex, I'm Blank". But "how are you?" implies a slightly higher degree of interest in the answer.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | December 6, 2020 9:23 PM |
Meant to say que pasa, and come va for Spanish and Italian "how goes it? " ^^^
by Anonymous | reply 68 | December 6, 2020 9:27 PM |
It's a relic, like air travel was so special you dressed up for it.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | December 7, 2020 2:35 AM |
What's wrong with, "I'm pleased to meet you", or "Pleased to meet you"?
by Anonymous | reply 71 | December 7, 2020 4:44 AM |
R25 Love that!
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