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The Look Of an Alpha 💪🏽

Confident, dominant, masculine, strong. This is what attracts me!

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by Anonymousreply 148August 9, 2022 1:15 PM

He looks like he'd block my toilet and not flush.

Cute though.

by Anonymousreply 1November 27, 2020 1:46 PM

And use your hand towels to wipe with.

by Anonymousreply 2November 27, 2020 1:49 PM

Who he?

by Anonymousreply 3November 27, 2020 1:51 PM

it is the look of a muscle slut

by Anonymousreply 4November 27, 2020 1:52 PM

My type bro

by Anonymousreply 5November 27, 2020 2:18 PM

Hot bro.

by Anonymousreply 6November 27, 2020 2:20 PM

This is what attracts me! (Random guy I found on some gay site).

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by Anonymousreply 7November 27, 2020 2:27 PM

Now we are talking, R7!!!

by Anonymousreply 8November 27, 2020 2:29 PM

Disgusting neck mole. Pass.

by Anonymousreply 9November 27, 2020 2:35 PM

R7...fit-fat?

by Anonymousreply 10November 27, 2020 2:36 PM

Don't you know that alpha male toxicity is the reason why society has so many problems? DON'T YOUUUUUUU!?

If most men acted like that crossdressing priss from that boy band or rat faced boy from that gay movie, problems like rape would be a thing of the past.

by Anonymousreply 11November 27, 2020 2:38 PM

That doesn’t change what I’m Innately attracted to

by Anonymousreply 12November 27, 2020 2:41 PM

Looks are deceiving.

by Anonymousreply 13November 27, 2020 2:56 PM

Looks matter

by Anonymousreply 14November 27, 2020 3:01 PM

I love that alpha look too. If only more were openly gay that Look like that.

by Anonymousreply 15November 27, 2020 3:03 PM

I want the guy at R7 inside me quite deeply

by Anonymousreply 16November 27, 2020 3:04 PM

Alpha males.

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by Anonymousreply 17November 27, 2020 3:16 PM

R17 Ugh. Those aren't alpha males, just muscle-bound guys.

by Anonymousreply 18November 27, 2020 3:22 PM

^^ If they were confident, they wouldn't have to exploit their bodies. Muscle dudes have no confidence; that's why they're muscle dudes.

by Anonymousreply 19November 27, 2020 3:24 PM

One botched and mostly-retracted study really did some damage.

by Anonymousreply 20November 27, 2020 3:46 PM
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by Anonymousreply 21November 27, 2020 3:52 PM

“alphas” are no longer alphas if you ignore them

by Anonymousreply 22November 27, 2020 3:53 PM

Funny... the *alpha* in OP's pic is the kind that will secretly turn around, surrender, and secretly admit that he needs to receive the gift...

But then that *switch* has always been what most moves me most emotionally and physically.....

by Anonymousreply 23November 27, 2020 3:57 PM

Good for you, OP. You have a type though he does nothing for me. I'd take beefy Darren Goldstein (Damages, Ozark) over a pretty boy like Brad Pitt any day.

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by Anonymousreply 24November 27, 2020 3:59 PM

Not to be fucked with.

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by Anonymousreply 25November 27, 2020 4:01 PM

Yum. I agree, OP.

by Anonymousreply 26November 27, 2020 4:04 PM

Who is the hot OP bro?

by Anonymousreply 27November 27, 2020 4:07 PM

R17 a willingness to take copious amounts of steroids and spend all your leisure time in the gym doesn’t make you an “alpha”. Getting shit done does.

by Anonymousreply 28November 27, 2020 4:22 PM

R17 I agree, some of the most muscular men who spend a lot of time sculpting their bodies and creating a masculine image are really weak and insecure people or “fake alphas.” When confronted with a situation where they need to step up to the plate and face a challenge they disappoint.

by Anonymousreply 29November 27, 2020 4:30 PM

Confident, dominant, masculine, strong, developmentally disabled.

by Anonymousreply 30November 27, 2020 4:33 PM

Nice full lips, OP.

Strange garment. If he can look good in that he can look good in anything.

by Anonymousreply 31November 27, 2020 4:52 PM

"Getting shit done" makes you an alpha? What??

Please explain. You're saying you're an alpha if you take out the garbage and paint the house regularly??

by Anonymousreply 32November 27, 2020 5:10 PM

“The Look Of an Alpha”

But can he handle the Alphabet?

by Anonymousreply 33November 27, 2020 5:19 PM

OP, great pic and I see exactly what you mean.

Approaching elder gay status here, but I can't help but feel that if I upped my exercise and had a better diet and slept more I could were clothes better and be more fit.

I'd never look like an older version of your guy but there's nothing stopping me from trying to be the best I can be.

by Anonymousreply 34November 27, 2020 5:25 PM

[quote]"Getting shit done" makes you an alpha? What??

The business owner is the alpha, the "workers" would be betas

by Anonymousreply 35November 27, 2020 5:52 PM

The op guy doesn’t look prematurely aged as do most bodybuilders.

by Anonymousreply 36November 27, 2020 5:59 PM

[quote]there's nothing stopping me from trying to be the best I can be.

Great! Pick up a grammar book.

[quote] I could were clothes better and be more fit.

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 37November 27, 2020 6:06 PM

Personally I seldom look at a body builder and think "alpha". Usually I'm thinking about his motivation and wondering what he's lacking elsewhere (inferiority complex? not too bright? small meat? etc.)

by Anonymousreply 38November 27, 2020 6:56 PM

R32 you seem triggered.

by Anonymousreply 39November 27, 2020 6:59 PM

So, I thought this guy was super alpha, but reading through this thread, he isn't because of the muscles?

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by Anonymousreply 40November 27, 2020 7:09 PM

Before clicking on OP’s link, I was expecting to see a handsome, confident man in an expensive suit.

What I saw instead was someone who looks like a halfwit who’d work on a loading dock somewhere.

NOT an alpha.

by Anonymousreply 41November 27, 2020 7:10 PM

OP's pic looks like a stud, not an alpha.

I'd have to tell him how to think.

by Anonymousreply 42November 27, 2020 7:21 PM

[quote] I'd have to tell him how to think.

I'd have to tell him how to breathe.

Fixded.

by Anonymousreply 43November 27, 2020 7:51 PM

Aww, r42, it’s cute that you think he thinks.

Dumb as hell.

by Anonymousreply 44November 27, 2020 7:51 PM

Aren’t most studs and hunks considered Alphas?

by Anonymousreply 45November 27, 2020 8:00 PM

By the average idiot who doesn't know what "alpha" actually means.

by Anonymousreply 46November 27, 2020 8:41 PM

R46, you realize words evolve? In modern popular usage, Alpha simply means a hot masculine dude with a muscled, fit physique

by Anonymousreply 47November 27, 2020 8:55 PM

Uh, no. It doesn’t.

It really doesn’t.

by Anonymousreply 48November 27, 2020 9:16 PM

No, words don't evolve for most people quite so quickly — but ignorami who misuse words are constant.

Educated people still need the word that means "leader of a pack," which requires brains and herd trust in zoological and social terms.

So r47 is going to keep confusing people with examples of hot, stupid omega males who nobody follows except to the bedroom individually.

by Anonymousreply 49November 27, 2020 9:19 PM

R40 He has moobs and doesn't look alpha. He looks sweet and that's nice, but not alpha.

by Anonymousreply 50November 28, 2020 12:56 AM

Yep

by Anonymousreply 51November 28, 2020 1:32 AM

My new gym

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by Anonymousreply 52November 28, 2020 1:34 AM

....

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by Anonymousreply 53November 28, 2020 2:56 AM

R50 - I'm so out-of-touch with the modern look. What I consider huge pecs, you (and others) consider moobs!

by Anonymousreply 54November 28, 2020 1:08 PM

These are large pecs (in a good way)

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by Anonymousreply 55November 28, 2020 1:10 PM

Those are fantastic pecs.

by Anonymousreply 56November 28, 2020 1:14 PM

Jordan Torres is renowned for his pecs

by Anonymousreply 57November 28, 2020 1:18 PM

Am I an alpha because I boss my partner around and I pay the bills and make all of the decisions?

by Anonymousreply 58November 28, 2020 1:27 PM

I would risk It all for this dude

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by Anonymousreply 59November 28, 2020 1:36 PM

My Type Alpha

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by Anonymousreply 60November 28, 2020 2:33 PM

Muscle slots are great, but I screwed around with a guy for a number of years who was well-built, hairy in all the right places, and mostly masculine. But I found his more feminine traits adorable: such as talking with his hands when he got excited.

by Anonymousreply 61November 28, 2020 2:37 PM

*Muscle sluts

Mind you, muscle slots are great too.

by Anonymousreply 62November 28, 2020 2:38 PM

Why is DL fixated on hairiness like it’s 1978? Just weird

by Anonymousreply 63November 28, 2020 2:38 PM

Because most of today’s “models” look like plucked chickens who spent hours on their eyebrows.

A little body hair is a good thing.

by Anonymousreply 64November 28, 2020 2:53 PM

If you think. Do you, man.

by Anonymousreply 65November 28, 2020 2:57 PM

R55 - too flat for my taste. I guess I'll just stick to moobs, then. The moobs on R40 definitely don't look like the moobs on old men. Guess I'll refer to them as muscle-moobs.

by Anonymousreply 66November 28, 2020 3:34 PM

Flat? All That muscle?

by Anonymousreply 67November 28, 2020 3:40 PM

Send him shopping for window treatments. Then we'll see.

by Anonymousreply 68November 28, 2020 4:15 PM

This is an alpha.

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by Anonymousreply 69November 28, 2020 4:25 PM

Not Jon Hamm, mind you.

Don Draper.

by Anonymousreply 70November 28, 2020 4:25 PM

You call those guys alpa? Pfff....

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by Anonymousreply 71November 28, 2020 4:29 PM

To me being alpha is a behavioral trait not physical just like butch looking guys can be submissive.

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by Anonymousreply 72November 28, 2020 5:05 PM

Some of you are confusing “trash” with “alpha.”

by Anonymousreply 73November 28, 2020 5:14 PM

R72 looks so sleazy and trashy

by Anonymousreply 74November 28, 2020 5:26 PM

R74 - you're gay and you don't know Francois Sagat?

by Anonymousreply 75November 28, 2020 5:47 PM

I know who Pierre Francois de la Brioschi was.

by Anonymousreply 76November 28, 2020 6:51 PM

Sigma males

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by Anonymousreply 77November 28, 2020 8:44 PM

The gender fluid and trans movement have sparked a strong backlash among both women and men who celebrate raw masculinity

by Anonymousreply 78November 28, 2020 8:55 PM

Alphas i link with:

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by Anonymousreply 79November 28, 2020 10:10 PM

....

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by Anonymousreply 80November 28, 2020 10:14 PM

R7 and R25 are my idea of hot ! Beat me ,bite me ,fuck me and make me write bad checks daddy !

by Anonymousreply 81November 28, 2020 10:23 PM

isn’t into black bros.

by Anonymousreply 82November 28, 2020 10:23 PM

Dang yo. was hot!!!

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by Anonymousreply 83November 28, 2020 10:24 PM

R82 He pretends he is..... if they are straight and muscular of course. R80 is one of his accounts 100 percent.

by Anonymousreply 84November 28, 2020 10:25 PM

Alpha Alpha

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by Anonymousreply 85November 28, 2020 10:28 PM

....

by Anonymousreply 86November 28, 2020 10:35 PM

Alpha versus Beta

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by Anonymousreply 87November 29, 2020 4:13 AM

Is this an alpha man?

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by Anonymousreply 88November 29, 2020 4:18 AM

I'd say this is an alpha male.

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by Anonymousreply 89November 29, 2020 1:22 PM

Certainly bruh

by Anonymousreply 90November 29, 2020 1:26 PM

Alpha Beta

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by Anonymousreply 91November 29, 2020 1:41 PM

Blood on my knife or shit on my dick ,kinda look.

by Anonymousreply 92November 29, 2020 2:42 PM

Jake

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by Anonymousreply 93November 29, 2020 3:34 PM

You think that’s alpha, ?!

BWA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA.

by Anonymousreply 94November 29, 2020 4:33 PM

That sad little snake. Britney > r93

by Anonymousreply 95November 29, 2020 5:21 PM

# alounge: where the white trade is rough, and the tiktok twinks are legal (barely). And, where neither want to be anywhere close to their host.

by Anonymousreply 96November 29, 2020 5:48 PM

He could wreck my guts

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by Anonymousreply 97November 29, 2020 11:09 PM

But is he a good man in a fist fight?

by Anonymousreply 98November 29, 2020 11:16 PM

What kind of fool would fight him?

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by Anonymousreply 99November 29, 2020 11:48 PM

Alfalfa male.

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by Anonymousreply 100November 29, 2020 11:54 PM

R100, are you also r85?

by Anonymousreply 101November 30, 2020 12:01 AM

R89 = zeta

by Anonymousreply 102November 30, 2020 12:06 AM

R97 Oh yeah? How much would it cost DL denizens? I’d be willing to make up the diff, but only if it’s a complete demolition of the guts in question. You could be rebuilt.

by Anonymousreply 103November 30, 2020 12:37 AM

Nope, 101. I’m not about posting pics of little kids in a alpha male thread. LOL

That’s why I searched for him as an adult.

I really need to start reading all the comments before posting.

by Anonymousreply 104November 30, 2020 12:48 AM

This dude snagged an Alpha

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by Anonymousreply 105December 1, 2020 3:57 PM

Fuck off , you tragic imbecile.

by Anonymousreply 106December 1, 2020 4:01 PM

I think what the OP means is rough trade. He wants to be manhandled by rough trade.

Alpha isn’t a muscle thing, there are tons of muscle queen bottoms.

But then again, some people here think porn is reality...

by Anonymousreply 107December 1, 2020 4:10 PM

R107, everyone knows muscle doesn’t necessarily mean a guy is an Alpha, but muscles or tallness are associated with being an Alpha. Physical attributes don’t always determine if someone is an Alpha, but they are a very visible component of society’s perceptions about who is Alpha. The guy at OP is not extremely muscular, but he has a nice physique and cocky demeanor associated with Alphas. While demeanor and personality are more important, physical attributes also Matter. The fact there are effeminate muscular men doesn’t mean that muscularity isn’t overall a factor in Alpha status.

by Anonymousreply 108December 1, 2020 4:20 PM

You seemed over obsessed with the idea of Alpha. Also you do not know that pic in OP “has a cocky demeanor.” This is projection of your fantasy, which may or may not be true. Are you a submissive with a straight guy fantasy? If so, I’ve fucked guys like you who projected Alpha or Straight/married fantasies on to me. I’m not an Alpha at all, but I let these guys believe it so they got their fantasy.

Incels are very concerned with Alpha/Beta too. Must be getting picked on or something that creates this.

by Anonymousreply 109December 1, 2020 4:26 PM

Why do people think you’re an Alpha r109? Do you look like The Rock or Aaron Donald?

by Anonymousreply 110December 1, 2020 4:28 PM

Internet and social media + Insta, Twitter, Onlyfans, TikTok, etc have created a form of INCEL gay basement dwelling troll. I hope you guys don't turn violent

by Anonymousreply 111December 1, 2020 4:30 PM

No R110. But that didn’t matter, the boys wrote their own story about me to suit their desire. Military, married, whatever. I was relatively average looking, a few lbs overweight. It was more they wanted it so bad they just made it true in their heads, and I didn’t correct them.

by Anonymousreply 112December 1, 2020 5:00 PM

Wow, OP is so unique in his tastes.

by Anonymousreply 113December 1, 2020 5:03 PM

Cole Hauser - for some reason this guy hits every button on my lovemap.

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by Anonymousreply 114December 1, 2020 5:28 PM

Please. You can't tell from appearance alone if a man is an alpha. Many times he opens his mouth and glittering purses fall out. Fuck your alpha shit, bitch.

by Anonymousreply 115December 1, 2020 5:36 PM

No, OP. Confident men do not look arrogant. Confident men are usually some of the nicest men you will meet. They do not have to prove anything to others by striking some silly macho pose. They are also unafraid to be kind and gracious toward others. That young pup looks like a cocky douche. That is not confidence and IMO that translates into not as masculine as he thinks he is.

by Anonymousreply 116December 1, 2020 6:20 PM

How does someone look like a douche? It seems some people here think every guy that is widely thought of as hot looks douchey.

by Anonymousreply 117December 1, 2020 6:25 PM

is he your Alpha Romeo, op?

by Anonymousreply 118December 1, 2020 6:36 PM

Alphas have waterboys

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by Anonymousreply 119December 2, 2020 6:28 PM

His lips are too full to be alpha. But I bet his dad is.

by Anonymousreply 120December 2, 2020 9:39 PM

Huh?

by Anonymousreply 121December 2, 2020 10:22 PM

King

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by Anonymousreply 122December 5, 2020 3:43 PM

My type

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by Anonymousreply 123December 7, 2020 6:46 PM

Morons like alphas because they need to be told what to do. Just like religious zealots.

by Anonymousreply 124December 7, 2020 7:04 PM

That’s more like it, R25. OP’s pretty boy, so-called alpha is a mere trifle in comparison.

by Anonymousreply 125December 7, 2020 7:16 PM

Real Alphas

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by Anonymousreply 126December 7, 2020 7:17 PM

Real Alphas

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by Anonymousreply 127December 7, 2020 7:17 PM

Ooh, found another one in the wild...

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by Anonymousreply 128December 30, 2020 8:44 PM

These threads are so tedious. There is no such thing as alphas, not in humans or wolves. It has been debunked. There are dominant men vs non-dominant men. Tall men have actual not perceived power over short men. Most leaders, Presidents, powerful men, etc, are usually tall.

by Anonymousreply 129December 30, 2020 9:27 PM

Bumped for yall that like that kinda thing

by Anonymousreply 130January 4, 2021 9:05 PM

Doesn’t the guy in OP’s pic do gay porn? He looks familiar.

by Anonymousreply 131January 4, 2021 9:59 PM

Mine

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by Anonymousreply 132February 5, 2021 10:00 PM

R127 Damn, just imagine getting plowed by these rough beasts!

by Anonymousreply 133February 5, 2021 10:04 PM

R133, I always think about the moment when a rough beast has his arms wrapped around me from behind; and it's clear I'm not getting away; he pulls me in just a bit tighter and nibbles on my ear

by Anonymousreply 134February 7, 2021 8:43 PM

R129 It’s and his creepy, middle aged fan girl thirst for a “king” to overpower him. Dude is close to 40 and over 200 lbs, but still thinks an “alpha” will rescue him from the sad nothing that is his life. It is ponderous.

by Anonymousreply 135February 7, 2021 8:53 PM

HOT r134

by Anonymousreply 136February 7, 2021 11:18 PM

Sexy

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by Anonymousreply 137March 27, 2021 12:07 PM

From the pictures, It looks like there are a lot of people who mistakenly believe that an alpha male is someone who is bulky fugly.

by Anonymousreply 138March 27, 2021 12:13 PM

Scary

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by Anonymousreply 139April 22, 2021 12:56 AM

Yes, I don’t know who keeps mistaking fat Delta pieces of shit for “Alpha.”

by Anonymousreply 140April 22, 2021 3:25 AM

True Alphas don’t need to be ripped, to be packing heat, or even to be outwardly aggressive. It’s all in the aura and the spirit, BDE. And they aren’t necessarily always the person in-charge, either, though if they’re a selfless caring Alpha, they should be in that role. Sometimes appearances can be deceiving.

But if you step to one, you’ll know it, just from the way they silently stare your soul into submission as a first fair warning. Threaten their territory, their packmates, or offend their values code after that, and you will get your throat torn out. Note that it’s usually only small-time bullies and goons who are actually dumb enough to walk up on an Alpha.

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by Anonymousreply 141October 19, 2021 12:31 AM

^^^^^

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by Anonymousreply 142October 19, 2021 12:34 AM

[quote] Tall men have actual not perceived power over short men. Most leaders, Presidents, powerful men, etc, are usually tall.

???

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by Anonymousreply 143October 19, 2021 12:44 AM

You people have limited experience in the world. Alphas work in finance, government, espionage, military contracting, organized crime. They are not muscled fairy boys cosplaying alpha on TikTok and the gym.

by Anonymousreply 144October 19, 2021 1:06 AM

R144 exactly. A real Alpha out in the world will inevitably either have a position of power, authority, leadership & responsibility, or they will be vying for one.

Performative outward shows of superficial strength or power actually indicate submissiveness, and a selfish insecurity. Remember, Narcissus was weak-willed and had no real power or authority, even over himself.

Real actual Alphas don’t care about what others think of them or how others see them, just that those others fall in line and do what they command—whether for good reasons or bad.

by Anonymousreply 145October 19, 2021 11:42 AM

Bark

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by Anonymousreply 146August 9, 2022 5:31 AM

My neighbor is the director of our university wrestling club. I see him and his wife walking their dog. He’s jacked but doesn’t flaunt it. He mows the lawn shirtless as a special favor, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 147August 9, 2022 10:37 AM

Ummm kay

by Anonymousreply 148August 9, 2022 1:15 PM
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