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Jonathan Rhys Meyers arrested for DUI amid long struggle with alcohol

Jonathan Rhys Meyers has been arrested for driving under the influence.

The Irish actor, 43, was in a minor single-car crash in Malibu, Calif., on Sunday at about 5 p.m. PT, Yahoo Entertainment can confirm. Officers on the scene administered a field sobriety test, which he failed, and the actor was arrested for misdemeanor DUI.

He has since been released from custody, a Los Angeles Sheriff’s Department spokesperson says.

Rhys Meyers — known for roles in The Tudors, Mission: Impossible III, Match Point and the title role in 2005’s Elvis — has long struggled with alcohol. He has been candid about spending time in rehab, beginning more than 13 years ago, and once going to three facilities in one year. In 2009, he was arrested during a drunken incident at Charles de Gaulle airport in Paris. The following year, he was was banned for life from United Airlines after being “belligerent” while intoxicated at NYC’s John F. Kennedy Airport. In 2018, he was detained again at Los Angeles International Airport for a mid-flight “verbal altercation” with his wife, Mara Lane, as they traveled home from him getting holistic treatment for anger issues.

Lane, also an actor, thanked fans for their “compassion on this ongoing battle with addiction we are in” at the time of the 2018 incident. This time, she’s filling her timeline with positive stories about her husband, whom she married in 2016 “‘since so many of our lowlights seem to find their way on the web” — and also so that their 3-year-old son, Wolf, doesn’t just find negative stories about his dad when he googles him one day.

Lane shared a video of Rhys Meyers doing yoga, saying he’s been doing it twice a week at Malibu Pacific Church and wrote about the importance to breathe “through the good and bad times.”

In the comments, she added, “To any out there struggling with addictions or mental health issues without in person meetings,” which has been a major issue during the pandemic, “stay strong and healthy and if not feeling so, ask a loved one for help. J has been playing soccer twice a week and we just recently started going to outdoor yoga.”

In another post, she solicited “good news” — and shared that Wolf learned how to swim over the summer, along with a video of the star swimming with his son.

“Thank you God for the happy times,” Lane wrote, adding, “Any recent milestones over there for you? Wolf and I want to hear some good news please.”

And along with another photo of Rhys Meyers in the pool with his son, she wrote, “More happy highlights. I feel since so many of our lowlights seem to find their way on the web, fair to share some happy moments so when Wolf is older, he can search/find/see/remember the happies.”

She ended by writing, “Each day is a gift. Tomorrow a new day. Count your many blessings, hold yourself accountable and grow, heal, recover in a way that works for you, thank God, angels, loved ones and carry on.”

Rhys Meyers has spoken openly about his struggles. In an interview with Event magazine in 2018, he said, “I’ve been to a lot of rehab centers in my life... I went to three in one year and I talked to my therapist. I would be known as somebody who relapses with problem drinking, not alcoholism. I don’t suffer from alcoholism – I suffer from an allergy to alcohol every time I drink it. But once I stop, I never think about it again.”

He continued, “That doesn’t mean that the problem is any less, it just means I have a different version of it. But when I drink, the consequences are so devastating that it is a problem. But I never need a drink. It’s not something that I crave.”

He explained that airport trouble can be challenging to him, saying, “People who go through this, they look for things in their life that trigger them. And airports are a trigger for me, because they make you sit there for three hours, you can’t smoke and you’re surrounded by alcohol. That is not an excuse however... There’s never an excuse for me to drink. But sometimes there are triggers that make you more vulnerable.”

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by Anonymousreply 33November 14, 2020 6:51 PM

That same year, he spoke about the incident at LAX, admitting he broke eight months of sobriety.

“My wife and I had been traveling since 3 o’clock in the morning from Peru back to Los Angeles. And they gave away our tickets — it was just a problem with the airline,” he said. “We had our baby, who was teething at the time, and it was all kind of frustrating. We eventually got on the flight and my wife went to sleep and I very stupidly decided to order a drink.”

When Lane awoke, she was “very, very angry with me because I shouldn't drink.” He said he “learned a lesson” from the incident and, “As soon as I got off the airplane I went and spoke to somebody and I got back on track immediately.”

by Anonymousreply 1November 10, 2020 6:07 PM

Married an oriental = totally gay closet case.

He will never find peace until he comes out.

And dump the bitch.

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by Anonymousreply 2November 10, 2020 6:08 PM

R2 Don’t be racist

by Anonymousreply 3November 10, 2020 6:12 PM

How can he say he isn’t an alcoholic?

by Anonymousreply 4November 10, 2020 6:12 PM

To Mara: Girl, RUN. Take your kid away from that mess. Amd get some therapy.

by Anonymousreply 5November 10, 2020 6:13 PM

R2

"married an oriental"

The mid-20th century called and wants its old-timey racism back.

by Anonymousreply 6November 10, 2020 6:14 PM

OP, Mein Führer!

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by Anonymousreply 7November 10, 2020 6:17 PM

Once again proving that the closet kills!

by Anonymousreply 8November 10, 2020 6:19 PM

Damn. Beautiful pic OP.

by Anonymousreply 9November 10, 2020 6:31 PM

LOL and just a month or so ago all the fraus in the comments section of the Daily Fail were talking about how “healthy” and happy sober he looked frolicking on the beach with with his family. I remember thinking they were delusional if they actually thought he was sober. This guy will always be an alcoholic.

by Anonymousreply 10November 10, 2020 6:37 PM

Poor guy. I feel sorry for him.

by Anonymousreply 11November 10, 2020 6:39 PM

So do I, R11.

He needs to come out of the closet and deal with the addiction.

The old photo of him in London, with the cheap bottle of vodka and his pants falling down, just broke my heart.

He must be so incredibly sad.

Jonathan is just a train wreck.

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by Anonymousreply 12November 10, 2020 6:44 PM

“. . . they traveled home from him getting holistic treatment for anger issues.“.

Huh. How does that work, exactly? And maybe they should find someone nearby, or willing to come to them, then travel elsewhere, which can be stressful, especially with a young child.

by Anonymousreply 13November 10, 2020 6:45 PM

I gave up on him a long time ago but still am sad for him when these episodes inevitably pop up every year or two. I used to think the one saving grace was the lack of a DUI but nope, he's now hit that bottom. Should have stayed in London and out of car crazy LA.

by Anonymousreply 14November 10, 2020 6:48 PM

I’m not one of those people who thinks everyone is gay, but I actually do think this guy is closeted and that it’s part of the reason he has issues.

by Anonymousreply 15November 10, 2020 7:46 PM

Oriental is not a racist term.

by Anonymousreply 16November 10, 2020 7:51 PM

R16, yes, it is. Join the 21st century with the rest of us.

by Anonymousreply 17November 10, 2020 7:53 PM

Naltrexone Jonathan. Stop with the abstinence and binging roller coaster.

by Anonymousreply 18November 10, 2020 8:18 PM

"Oriental" is very dated but it's not racist. It means "from the East" or "Eastern". Just like "Occidental" means "Western" or "from the West". It's about geography, not race, albeit it from a Western point of view, which is not inherently racist.

by Anonymousreply 19November 10, 2020 8:29 PM

R19 and Negro just means black in Spanish, but it's dated and offensive now to call black people by that term. It's considered racist because it denotes an era where blacks were given little rights or respect.

Just shut the fuck up. You know exactly what you're doing by pretending Oriental isn't racist.

by Anonymousreply 20November 11, 2020 3:53 PM

Oriental is pejorative, not racist.

by Anonymousreply 21November 11, 2020 4:53 PM

I realized about a year ago that I was over drinking. I wasn’t drinking for fun anymore, but for escape. So I decided to take a break from it, and still haven’t returned to it.

I’ve been lucky because it was relatively easy for me. Except for the occasional desire for a beer, I don’t miss it and really glad I haven’t been drinking during the pandemic because I can see how that could spiral out of control.

Don’t know if I’ll ever drink again. While I don’t think I was an alcoholic, the thought of returning to over drinking has kept me from opening a beer. And it’s given me so much empathy for people who struggle with addiction. It’s such a terrible disease and so hard for so many to kick. Hope he gets the help he needs.

by Anonymousreply 22November 11, 2020 5:02 PM

R20 You're equating two terms and contexts that aren't the same.

I know your type, cunt. They yell "racism" even if something has nothing to do with race, and they have their heads up their asses.

Was it racist to call a part of the world "the Orient"? (the East). I seem to recall a little airline called "Northwest Orient".

Don't imply that I'm racist, loser. You're just ignorant.

Incidentally, I don't use the term "oriental".

by Anonymousreply 23November 11, 2020 6:59 PM

Jessica Christ, I'm calling her a gook so the peal clutcher has something to cry about.

by Anonymousreply 24November 11, 2020 7:03 PM

R20 Oh, and another thing. Thurgood Marshall used the term "Negro" when Clarence Thomas was nominated to the Supreme Court (1990, long after it was out of general accepted usage), so call him a racist. Look it up if you don't believe me.

That said, I don't use or advocate the use of such a dated term.

by Anonymousreply 25November 11, 2020 7:06 PM

Imagine how fucking old R19/R23 is. I'm guessing 70+

by Anonymousreply 26November 14, 2020 6:28 PM

[quote]Oriental is not a racist term.

If you use "Oriental" in the US you'll get your fucking ass kicked. It is not an acceptable word.

by Anonymousreply 27November 14, 2020 6:32 PM

[quote] If you use "Oriental" in the US you'll get your fucking ass kicked. It is not an acceptable word.

Sure, Jan.

By the way, does anyone know where I can find a good oriental rug?

And damn, I'm in the mood for some oriental food. Any suggestions?

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by Anonymousreply 28November 14, 2020 6:36 PM

r28, using the term "oriental rug" is not the same thing as describing people as "oriental"

No one except old people uses that term to describe people anymore

by Anonymousreply 29November 14, 2020 6:40 PM

"Oriental food" will get sideways glances and people will think you're racist.

Honestly, some of you eldergays need to get out of the house and interact with modern society.

by Anonymousreply 30November 14, 2020 6:43 PM

Even Nissan changed their Top Ramen flavor from "Oriental" to "Soy Sauce".

by Anonymousreply 31November 14, 2020 6:45 PM

Fun fact: at 43, he's lived longer than Elvis did.

(Elvis must have really had an unhealthy lifestyle).

by Anonymousreply 32November 14, 2020 6:50 PM

[quote] Even Nissan changed their Top Ramen flavor from "Oriental" to "Soy Sauce".

I wonder if Nissin changed the name of their ramen, as well?

And when did the car company start making ramen?

by Anonymousreply 33November 14, 2020 6:51 PM
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