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The new dangle earring trend on men

I saw this on a cute boy I watch in TikTok and was baffled. How and why does anything this is masculine? I hate it.

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by Anonymousreply 61November 9, 2020 1:16 PM

It's ok OP. They don't want to fuck you either.

by Anonymousreply 1November 6, 2020 2:00 PM

I will never fuck a guy with a dangle earring or a necklace made of pearls. Gross and feminine.

by Anonymousreply 2November 6, 2020 2:06 PM

I didn't like it in the 1980s, & I don't like it now.

by Anonymousreply 3November 6, 2020 2:15 PM

By "trend", the OP or whoever proclaimed this is some insulated idiot either in New York or Los Angeles.

It's like those morning news shows, always showing us the new "trends", which is merely what the reporter has picked-up on in their little enclave or Brooklyn or WeHo.

by Anonymousreply 4November 6, 2020 2:16 PM

I think it looks nice, and quite masculine, depending on the style.

by Anonymousreply 5November 6, 2020 2:17 PM

I hooked up with a guy on Grindr in DC. Im 50 and he was in his late 30s. From his pictures, it was clear he had a great body. Muscles but not overly large. I was so horned up to hook up with a 10!: I reach his place and didn't see his full face until a few seconds after. That dangling earring was so HOT!! He gave me one of the best bjs ever!!

by Anonymousreply 6November 6, 2020 2:18 PM

R6 - maybe you’re straight and thought “he” was a woman when you saw the long earring

by Anonymousreply 7November 6, 2020 2:19 PM

I kinda like it.

by Anonymousreply 8November 6, 2020 2:21 PM

I went through this in the 1980s, I can live through it a second time. It's never been a deal breaker.

by Anonymousreply 9November 6, 2020 2:21 PM

The earring is not a womanly accessory, just as rings and bracelets and necklaces aren’t, you boring man r7.

Unlike a woman’s hoop earring or a boring stud earring, this long dangling accessory actually flatters the male jaw and neckline.

by Anonymousreply 10November 6, 2020 2:23 PM

Whoever said it was meant to be masculine?

I'm not a fan but it's a little weird that you seem to think that a) you get to decide what is/isn't masculine and b) you don't seem to realise that people like different things

by Anonymousreply 11November 6, 2020 2:26 PM

It’s MY OPINION!

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by Anonymousreply 12November 6, 2020 2:28 PM

R12 - meant for R11

by Anonymousreply 13November 6, 2020 2:29 PM

I think it’s cute

by Anonymousreply 14November 6, 2020 2:30 PM

I love it. It's so Zsa Zsa!

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by Anonymousreply 15November 6, 2020 2:32 PM

Very delicate and feminine. I’m sure there’s lot of gay bottoms in big cities that will embrace this trend

by Anonymousreply 16November 6, 2020 2:34 PM

No no no

by Anonymousreply 17November 6, 2020 3:02 PM

I prefer a dangling dick.

by Anonymousreply 18November 6, 2020 3:07 PM

Attention-seeking whores? ThS is not a "thing" Certainly not Ivy League gay.

by Anonymousreply 19November 6, 2020 3:12 PM

People are so bored that they are grasping at anything..

by Anonymousreply 20November 6, 2020 3:17 PM

I think it looks really good on a man of color - Latino, Muslim, black or biracial.... - or a man who has dark features like the guy in OP.

by Anonymousreply 21November 6, 2020 3:21 PM

I don’t care. If he’s clean, gets hard for a substantial period of time, and squirts.... I’ll do him despite earrings and pearls.

by Anonymousreply 22November 6, 2020 3:48 PM

Why would you close off so many potential adventures?

This is why grownups won’t dine with you.

by Anonymousreply 23November 6, 2020 3:58 PM

Everything old is now New again.

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by Anonymousreply 24November 6, 2020 4:43 PM

I prefer a man in a small hoop or stud but I can get down with the dangle.

by Anonymousreply 25November 6, 2020 4:45 PM

That was so big in the early 80s because George Michael had a dangling earring.

by Anonymousreply 26November 6, 2020 5:10 PM

Rob Lowe and his dangly earring look good.

by Anonymousreply 27November 6, 2020 5:45 PM

When I say masculine, I mean that it flatters the male body.

by Anonymousreply 28November 6, 2020 6:04 PM

Drives me absolutely WILD with desire when I see it in porn...

by Anonymousreply 29November 6, 2020 6:10 PM

A truly hawt man can pull off a hoop or dangling earring, or a subtle bit of lipgloss. Or some subtle "guyliner."

But both is pushing it.

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by Anonymousreply 30November 6, 2020 6:11 PM

Kill it. Kill hipsters too.

Kill is too extreme, shun is more like it.

by Anonymousreply 31November 6, 2020 6:24 PM

R31 - nahhh, I’d agree with “kill.”

by Anonymousreply 32November 6, 2020 6:33 PM

[quote] A truly hawt man can pull off a hoop or dangling earring, or a subtle bit of lipgloss. Or some subtle "guyliner."

A truly hawt man can carry off just about anything as far as I'm concerned.

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by Anonymousreply 33November 6, 2020 6:37 PM

Even heels

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by Anonymousreply 34November 6, 2020 6:40 PM

I liike it. Even hotter if they have shaved pubes and asses but slim hairy chests. Maybe a painted nail or two.

by Anonymousreply 35November 6, 2020 6:41 PM

I posted this in another thread.

I have a friend who wears (wore) dangly earrings. She also wears (wore) ear loop face masks. A few weeks ago, she took off her mask quickly, without thinking, got the ear loop stuck on her earring, and ripped it right out. It was nasty.

by Anonymousreply 36November 6, 2020 6:50 PM

Agree R36. George Michael called, he wants his earring back.

by Anonymousreply 37November 6, 2020 6:55 PM

R36 - that just made me laugh out loud!

by Anonymousreply 38November 6, 2020 6:55 PM

FOX NFL Sunday has Eli Manning wearing this right now. Lmao.

by Anonymousreply 39November 8, 2020 5:49 PM

It's the same thing as the gay men who think wearing baseball caps, having tons of tattoos, having a mustache, having a pierced nose or (god forbid) a pierced septum will make them look "masc".

by Anonymousreply 40November 8, 2020 5:52 PM

OP says that, be thought a necklace of puka shells and a leather ankle bracelet for a non-existent surfboard were hot as hell.

by Anonymousreply 41November 8, 2020 5:53 PM

Eldergays this aint new, its been on trend for a year or two. Its cute on the right guy, but most queens just look like they are doing to much with it. Like someone said it looks better on dark skinned guys...thats why black men look good in most jewelry, earrings, etc. it contrasts with the skin and looks hot

by Anonymousreply 42November 8, 2020 6:17 PM

An earring works for men as long as it dangles a pearl.

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by Anonymousreply 43November 8, 2020 6:22 PM

Even Pete Burns had the good sense to not wear dangling earrings.

by Anonymousreply 44November 8, 2020 6:22 PM

R40 - Agree! God I hate a queen in a backward baseball cap that says words like “bro” and “dude.”

by Anonymousreply 45November 8, 2020 6:52 PM

R45, lol, it's hilarious when they say stuff like that but have a purse coming out of their mouth.

by Anonymousreply 46November 8, 2020 7:28 PM

"Anyone who chooses to casually display or adorn themselves thus, is clearly not a member of the true Proletariat." *Sniff*

by Anonymousreply 47November 8, 2020 8:01 PM

He better be 17 and cute as hell.

And not a 42 year old ugly mofo with a man bun wearing flip flops.

by Anonymousreply 48November 8, 2020 8:23 PM

I like slightly feminine men, but still have a bit of trouble accepting a dangle-y earring. Still, not the hugest deal.

by Anonymousreply 49November 8, 2020 8:31 PM
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by Anonymousreply 50November 8, 2020 10:59 PM
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by Anonymousreply 51November 8, 2020 11:00 PM

R51, they look as inbred as I thought they would.

by Anonymousreply 52November 8, 2020 11:13 PM

R51 you can sense the low intelligence in their dumb faces.

by Anonymousreply 53November 9, 2020 12:31 AM

There's nothing "feminine" about "dangle earrings" on men.

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by Anonymousreply 54November 9, 2020 2:18 AM

R54 is the tribe berdache. And it is feminine.

by Anonymousreply 55November 9, 2020 3:11 AM

I’m still too pissed about my circumcision to let anyone pierce, tattoo, or laminate my body but I find chokers and dangly earrings to be awesome - especially when the look goes Divine.

by Anonymousreply 56November 9, 2020 4:40 AM

He'll be laughing out the other side of his face when that little dangly fucker gets caught on a piece of clothing and his head yanks down until he untangles it. I speak from knowledge!

by Anonymousreply 57November 9, 2020 12:05 PM

I hope turbans come back too. They can really accent a nice caftan.

by Anonymousreply 58November 9, 2020 12:22 PM

I can deal with an earring, but the beard has got to go.

by Anonymousreply 59November 9, 2020 12:27 PM

It's not new OP. You're far too old to be commenting on what young people are wearing.

by Anonymousreply 60November 9, 2020 12:27 PM

It looks ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 61November 9, 2020 1:16 PM
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