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Alan Bates was my hero

Growing up in the 70's, he was the hottest man I had ever seen. I wanted to be like him. I felt darkly disturbed watching him.

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by Anonymousreply 101January 13, 2020 9:07 PM

Had to be a traumatic childhood. In England young men are routinely addressed as Master.

by Anonymousreply 1June 5, 2019 12:25 AM

I would routinely address Sir Alan as Master R1... Routinely

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by Anonymousreply 2June 5, 2019 12:33 AM

He was fabulous in An Englishman Abroad

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by Anonymousreply 3June 5, 2019 12:40 AM

I've still never been able to find The Fixer, the film, based on Malamud, with his only Oscar-nominated performance.

by Anonymousreply 4June 5, 2019 12:40 AM

His obituary read : a modest giant with fifty years of excellency. He was also apparently the first full frontal A-lister and the first male cover of vogue. I loved him in all of his 60's/70's movies. He was very hot in Ivory's "quartet" with the beautiful french actress Isabelle Adjani. The ultimate sugar daddy.

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by Anonymousreply 5June 5, 2019 12:51 AM

Daddy..

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by Anonymousreply 6June 5, 2019 1:06 AM

Beautiful homo

by Anonymousreply 7June 5, 2019 1:07 AM

Gorgeous man, great actor

by Anonymousreply 8June 5, 2019 1:39 AM

"I felt darkly disturbed watching him."

MARY OP!!!

by Anonymousreply 9June 5, 2019 1:48 AM

the butt shot in King of Hearts clinched it for me

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by Anonymousreply 10June 5, 2019 2:10 AM

He was a top R10. Give him points for showing butt in the 60's already.

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by Anonymousreply 11June 5, 2019 8:56 AM

Who had the bigger dick? Bates or Reed?

by Anonymousreply 12June 5, 2019 9:16 AM

Exact same size. A girthy 8+. But they were originally cast in the reverse parts. Bates should have played upper class and Reeves rugged Birkin. Reed refused to play ' bi' and demanded to switch parts. Bates didn' 't mind and obliged.

by Anonymousreply 13June 5, 2019 9:39 AM

So your hero was a closeted neglectful husband and father who even treated his male partners like shit.

okay

by Anonymousreply 14June 5, 2019 10:15 AM

[quote]Exact same size.

Erm............

A girthy 8+

Inches ???!?!?

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by Anonymousreply 15June 5, 2019 10:21 AM

R14 Nick Grace is that you ? I know first hand that he was none of that. Adorable generous man.

by Anonymousreply 16June 5, 2019 10:49 AM

Anyway, it's the screen persona that people,are responding to: deeply masculine, tender, sly, beautiful

by Anonymousreply 17June 5, 2019 11:19 AM

What R17 said....

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by Anonymousreply 18June 5, 2019 12:22 PM

I kinda liked him.

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by Anonymousreply 19June 5, 2019 12:50 PM

He plays gay in BUTLEY--it's a brilliant piece of acting. And the movie is very funny.

by Anonymousreply 20June 5, 2019 12:58 PM

Handsome face, gorgeous hair, and a beautiful, natural body that has thankfully been preserved in several films. Loved seeing his bum in ‘Georgy Girl.’

by Anonymousreply 21June 5, 2019 1:37 PM

I will always be in love with Alan Bates.

by Anonymousreply 22June 5, 2019 1:44 PM

I found Alan Bates a bit too dumpy/husky for my tastes.

by Anonymousreply 23June 5, 2019 1:49 PM

Fuck off, r14, you tiresome cunt.

by Anonymousreply 24June 5, 2019 1:51 PM

Mmmmmmh yes PLEASE....

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by Anonymousreply 25June 5, 2019 1:52 PM
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by Anonymousreply 26June 5, 2019 2:42 PM

Thanks R26. You're loved

by Anonymousreply 27June 5, 2019 2:47 PM

R27, I take it you'll like this as well . . .

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by Anonymousreply 28June 5, 2019 2:54 PM

Yes sir ! Could you imagine any male A-lister today talking that kind of risks ? Wow... They don't come hotter than that

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by Anonymousreply 29June 5, 2019 3:00 PM

Loved Alan Bates, one of the best actors every. I loved him in the 1975 film In Celebration. This film along with Return of a Solider are so underrated.

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by Anonymousreply 30June 5, 2019 3:11 PM

I think ' whistle down the wind ' is some kind of a cult classic in the U.K. anyone saw that one ?

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by Anonymousreply 31June 5, 2019 3:18 PM

In what world was he "dumpy"?

by Anonymousreply 32June 5, 2019 4:23 PM

Only on DL...

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by Anonymousreply 33June 5, 2019 5:29 PM

Nothing but the Best (1964) is worth tracking down: Bates has a good role as a real bastard, and is very well photographed in color by Nicolas Roeg.

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by Anonymousreply 34June 5, 2019 5:37 PM

Teach me to dance...will you?

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by Anonymousreply 35June 5, 2019 5:41 PM

Alan really was quite beautiful.

by Anonymousreply 36June 5, 2019 7:38 PM

Found this on Youtube - a fan put together a montage of clips of AB from youth to age 69.

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by Anonymousreply 37June 5, 2019 8:41 PM

He was the most beautiful man ever IMO

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by Anonymousreply 38June 5, 2019 8:42 PM

Hey R4, The Fixer is on Youtube for free.

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by Anonymousreply 39June 5, 2019 8:43 PM

I've been waiting for a decent DVD or Blu Ray release of 'Persecution' (1974).

by Anonymousreply 40June 5, 2019 8:45 PM

I always forget he was in 'The rose'. Damn he was hot !

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by Anonymousreply 41June 5, 2019 8:46 PM

His fig-eating scene in Women In Love! At the time I wished he had been cast opposite Glenda Jackson, since I also liked her a lot, but Reed was very good with her. R38 he was even beautiful enough to look good in that beard-only style, which I loathe. I think for me his beauty is augmented by my memory of his voice and seductive manner.

by Anonymousreply 42June 6, 2019 2:51 AM

R40 That was Ralph, not Alan. He was kind of cute too.

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by Anonymousreply 43June 6, 2019 2:58 AM

What's weird is that both Bateses died of pancreatic cancer.

by Anonymousreply 44June 6, 2019 3:09 AM

R39. Thanks! Wonder why it isn't available on DVD or streaming?

by Anonymousreply 45June 6, 2019 3:42 AM

Anyone read "Otherwise Engaged," the Spoto bio?

by Anonymousreply 46June 6, 2019 4:22 AM

Gabriel Oak in ‘Far From the Madding Crowd’ with Julie Christie.

I was smitten.

by Anonymousreply 47June 6, 2019 4:40 AM

Hot as hell in the magnificent "The Go-Between" and little Dominic Guard is starting to get "funny" feelings "down there," one can tell.

by Anonymousreply 48June 6, 2019 4:43 AM

Hot in everything. Even in The Rose.

Just all round beautiful and complex and a man to contemplate. Not many of those, straight or gay.

by Anonymousreply 49June 6, 2019 5:08 AM

I saw him onstage in Butley, very good, but playing a self-hating, unpleasant gay man. Had a line I still quote: “I’m a one-woman man, and I’ve had mine.”

My first view of him was probably Georgy Girl, but it was in Far From the Madding Crowd that I loved him, playing Gabriel Oak. Oak indeed. Husband material.

by Anonymousreply 50June 6, 2019 5:12 AM

R30 I adored IN CELEBRATION. Bate’s character’s attitude and childhood trauma reminded me very much of my father. I showed him the movie and he loved it too.

by Anonymousreply 51June 6, 2019 5:14 AM

An Unmarried Woman

He was in a lot of good movies.So handsome here.

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by Anonymousreply 52June 6, 2019 7:19 AM

R46 don't. It's a big stinking pile of BS. He was HAWT as a nasty controlling uber chic daddy in quartet

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by Anonymousreply 53June 6, 2019 8:32 AM

A critic once wrote that Bates' ass was the most exposed in cinematic annals.

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by Anonymousreply 54June 9, 2019 1:14 AM

He was shy and had a habit of clinching his ass when uncomfortable

by Anonymousreply 55June 9, 2019 1:15 AM

Do you think he and Oliver ever...

by Anonymousreply 56June 9, 2019 1:23 AM

Dear R46, I am writing to you as a friend.

I advise you to refrain from mentioning the name "Donald Spoto".

That person is a charlatan. They retail gossip-mongering of the very worst sort.

No intelligent person takes his ludicrous, constant scuttlebutt seriously. He was kicked out of a seminary for his grubby hearsay.

by Anonymousreply 57June 9, 2019 2:15 AM

[quote]He was kicked out of a seminary for his grubby hearsay.

Maybe someone should write a tell-all bio of Spoto.

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by Anonymousreply 58June 9, 2019 2:52 AM

Spoto is a leech.

A parasitic leech who makes money telling lies about people he's never met.

by Anonymousreply 59June 9, 2019 3:06 AM

Spoto is worse than Darwin Porter?

by Anonymousreply 60June 9, 2019 3:21 AM

That's not possible.

by Anonymousreply 61June 9, 2019 6:47 AM

I'd like ke to see an early film -- "A Kind of Loving." Kind of a kitchen-sink film about a young couple.

by Anonymousreply 62June 9, 2019 11:01 AM

Thanks R57, as it happens, I knew the man himself quite well, and the Spoto book is just complete distortion and fiction. And no R56 Oliv'I'er (or is it Oliver Reed ?) weren't Alan's lovers. Alan never had an affair with another movie star.

by Anonymousreply 63June 9, 2019 11:12 AM

If you knew Bates, can you give us some dirt?

by Anonymousreply 64June 9, 2019 4:47 PM

He was lovely.

by Anonymousreply 65June 9, 2019 4:49 PM

I can't trash him because he was completely adorable, but I can answer questions

by Anonymousreply 66June 9, 2019 5:01 PM

What kind of guys was he into?

by Anonymousreply 67June 9, 2019 5:11 PM

Cute white bottoms

by Anonymousreply 68June 9, 2019 5:23 PM

Heh heh, R54.

by Anonymousreply 69June 9, 2019 7:33 PM

Did you know Peter Wyngarde?

by Anonymousreply 70June 9, 2019 10:38 PM

Don't get me started on Wyngarde. He was... Never mind..

by Anonymousreply 71June 9, 2019 10:59 PM

Even I've heard...Scary in "The Innocents," without a word, IIRC.

Can you say if you're in "the business"?

R70

by Anonymousreply 72June 9, 2019 11:19 PM

R66 what did you think of Langella's chapter on him in "Dropped Names"?

If you can divulge, did he have a favourite female co-star?

by Anonymousreply 73June 9, 2019 11:24 PM

I didn't read the Langella book but they were great friends. Wyngarde was really a bad person and Alan didn't want any business with him at all. He had been very abused and manipulated by that man in his youth. Favourite female CO stars were France de la Tour, Maggie Smith, But he was friendly with most great stage actresses. No I am not in the business currently On film, Charlotte Rampling, Kristin Scott-Thomas

by Anonymousreply 74June 9, 2019 11:35 PM

I meant, on film his Favourite costars were Rampling and Scott-Thomas, and no I am not in the business

by Anonymousreply 75June 9, 2019 11:49 PM

R75 thanks. If you have any info on Susannah York, that would be most appreciated.

by Anonymousreply 76June 10, 2019 2:50 AM

No, not on Susannah, sorry. The only female CO-star who Alan really didn't like was (shocker) Faye Dunaway

by Anonymousreply 77June 10, 2019 9:22 AM

Well he was probably in good company with that!

What were some of his own films that he especially liked?

by Anonymousreply 78June 10, 2019 9:28 AM

Actors generally don't like to rate their own films or congratulate themselves. He would rather talk about his favourite directors, Schlesinger, Cacoyannis, De Broca, were among his fav, he was disappointed he lost the oscar to a largely forgotten performance, because he thought he had done a good job in a difficult and gruelling shooting. He was unhappy about Altman's editing of ' gosford park'. And one of his worst experience was' 'zorba the greek' ' he admired Signoret and she had a nervous breakdown and was replaced, and he himself was very depressed during the shooting. He was blackmailed emotionnally by Wyngarde at the time. Olivier he didn't like at all. One of hs favourite male co star was James Mason.

by Anonymousreply 79June 10, 2019 2:45 PM

Which other male co-stars did he like working with? What other stars did he dislike?

by Anonymousreply 80June 10, 2019 4:49 PM

He liked all actors. He had very intense frienships with various actors, and adored his friends. He spoke very highly of them, with the exception of Anthony Sher, Olivier, Burton and Alec Guiness. He remembered fondly Isabelle Adjani but said she was spoilt and really rude to his friend Maggie Smith. He loved Denholm Elliott. He liked working with Peter Finch, Bob Hoskins, Lee Remick, Julie Andrews, Ian McNeice, joan Plowright, Rachel Kempson, Frank Langella, Malcolm McDowell, Terence Stamp, he liked funny people , he loved a good laugh

by Anonymousreply 81June 10, 2019 5:17 PM

Why did he hate Olivier and Guiness?

by Anonymousreply 82June 10, 2019 8:45 PM

Did he give you any gossip about who else was gay in showbiz?

by Anonymousreply 83June 10, 2019 8:47 PM

Not anyone that we don't know about already

by Anonymousreply 84June 10, 2019 10:31 PM

He didn't like Olivier and Guiness because they were rude and unpleasant. Olivier was a tyrant. He loved to keep everyone on their toes. His sets were sad and full of fear

by Anonymousreply 85June 13, 2019 6:42 PM

I have just re-watched 'Georgy Girl' from 1965.

The four characters are a little bit likeable and a little bit awful.

I can see how 'Muriel's Wedding' stole ideas from it. But it's ultimately very sad—especially as how three of those four characters are dead.

by Anonymousreply 86October 6, 2019 1:16 PM

An Unmarried Woman. I think I'll watch it today.

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by Anonymousreply 87October 6, 2019 1:33 PM

^^ I might too. We can watch it together, in spirit.

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by Anonymousreply 88October 6, 2019 1:41 PM

and order some Paper Shrimp in.

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by Anonymousreply 89October 6, 2019 1:45 PM

Bates showed his buttocks in 'Georgy Girl' (1965) and King of Hearts (1966) as well as his penis in 'Women in Love' (1969).

by Anonymousreply 90October 7, 2019 3:33 AM

NOBODY seems to have liked Olivier. And the more I read about Guiness the more unlikeable he seems though I believe he got along very well with the cast of Star Wars. All the more remarkable as he ended up hating the film and the fans. And he went on record saying that Lucas cheated him out of .25% of the profits which is probably in the millions of dollars.

I saw Bates on stage with Eileen Atkins off Broadway in The Unexpected Man and it was one of the most memorable theater experiences of my life. I will never see their likes again. Nobody will.

by Anonymousreply 91October 7, 2019 3:50 AM

^ Codswallop!

Olivier was a Titan of the stage for half of a century!

Lots of little people seethed with jealousy over Olivier's beauty, name, wife and his Promethean energy. Alan Bates worked with him at least 3 times.

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by Anonymousreply 92October 7, 2019 4:04 AM

R91 You really shouldn't expose your small-minded American ignorance like this.

Read this thorough biography and get back to us—

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by Anonymousreply 93October 7, 2019 4:08 AM

[quote] The ultimate sugar daddy.

You use that term. I don't think it means what you think it means.

by Anonymousreply 94October 7, 2019 4:10 AM

Small minded American ignorance. How so? Guiness did hate the whole Star Wars phenomenon reducing children to tears by his own admission and did say Lucas cheated him out of .25% of the profits. And right here someone is saying Bates found him rude and unpleasant. And Glenn Ford was made uncomfortable by his predatory attentions and ended up trying to avoid him. He also was arrested for soliciting in a public men's room but lied his way out of the situation. So what did I get wrong?

And yes Olivier was a titan of the stage and he gives the best performance in English by a male actor ever on screen in Carrie but nobody liked him and everybody who worked with him has their stories about how ungenerous and downright nasty he was. Maggie Smith talks about him hitting her on stage in Othello and literally knocking her out after her glowing reviews. Not to mention intentionally overpraising a line reading in a comedy to the point where she lost the laugh and never got it back. Lots and lots of stories like that.

by Anonymousreply 95October 7, 2019 4:27 AM

I think Alan Bates was naked in even more films than were listed above.

I saw him on stage in "Fortune's Fool" for which he won a Tony, and he had one of the best drunk scenes ever. Just brilliant. Frank Langella won supporting Tony for that play, and he was great too.

by Anonymousreply 96October 7, 2019 4:31 AM

King of Hearts; ending of film is worth price of admission.

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by Anonymousreply 97January 13, 2020 7:56 AM

End:

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by Anonymousreply 98January 13, 2020 7:58 AM

[quote]Who had the bigger dick? Bates or Reed?

Well they were average, at least flaccid, as you can see in the film but it did concern Reed. There used to be a full interview that I posted here years ago with Oliver talking about the movie. Reed was nervous that Bates might show him up. They were both really nervous and had a few drinks first and Reed was relieved that when the time came he saw they were similar. Of course can't find the interview today but this is till up online.

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by Anonymousreply 99January 13, 2020 9:17 AM

So handsome. Made me realise I was gay when I was young. Went to see anything he was in. I only went to see Women in Love because of the fight scene. Years later, a few years before he died he passed me on the street in th West End of London. I recognised him and even at that age I still would have.

by Anonymousreply 100January 13, 2020 5:13 PM

[quote] he was disappointed he lost the oscar to a largely forgotten performance, because he thought he had done a good job in a difficult and gruelling shooting.

What an odd thing to say, considering his performance in The Fixer is even more forgotten than Robertson's in Charly. The Fixer has all but vanished off the face of the earth.

by Anonymousreply 101January 13, 2020 9:07 PM
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