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Unwanted Greetings Or Conversations

A stranger--woman in her 50's who looked like she just stepped out of a methadone clinic--said "good morning" to me as I passed by her on the street. I responded by saying "good morning" back to her, but I don't think she heard me. She promptly repeats herself, but this time in a loud voice with an annoyed tone: "GOOD MOOORNING!"

I began to tell her that I said "good morning" but she probably didn't hear me, but she cut me off in mid sentence with "WHAT?! YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK?!"

I continued on my way while giving her the finger.

Has anyone else experienced any "unwanted greetings" that they wish to share?

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by Anonymousreply 20May 23, 2019 6:14 PM

I hate sharing an elevator with one other person whom I see occasionally and who feels obligated to fill the silence.

by Anonymousreply 1May 23, 2019 3:54 PM

This is why I have my iPods in 90% of the time when I’m in public.

by Anonymousreply 2May 23, 2019 3:56 PM

No, never.

by Anonymousreply 3May 23, 2019 3:56 PM

Yes. A boy who seemed mildly retarded told me I needed a night light for my bike as we were leaving the gym yesterday. I thought it was kind of sweet. I've encountered people like the one you described OP. They are crazy people good for a laugh.

by Anonymousreply 4May 23, 2019 3:59 PM

[quote] This is why I have my iPods in 90% of the time when I’m in public.

Exactly. Wear them even when the music isn't playing. Who wants to be assaulted by a detoxing junkie early in the morning?!

by Anonymousreply 5May 23, 2019 3:59 PM

I condole you.

by Anonymousreply 6May 23, 2019 4:00 PM

I don't mind "greetings" in general, just not the ones said as an insincere question. "How are you?" They don't care. No one who says it cares.

by Anonymousreply 7May 23, 2019 4:01 PM

^^^So TRUE.

by Anonymousreply 8May 23, 2019 4:03 PM

Yes , all time. Most of the time it is harmless. Some of the time it is intrusive and annoying especially if I am enjoying going about my business in peace. I live in New York and not in what is considered the best neighborhood and also near several methadone clinics btw. I try to be pleasant some people are desperate for a human interaction.

by Anonymousreply 9May 23, 2019 4:03 PM

The only strangers who ever talk to me want something like money or smokes.

I always keep my earbuds in whether I’m using them or not.

by Anonymousreply 10May 23, 2019 4:06 PM

She’s just another schizophrenic homeless person on meth.

Until we bring back asylums and public assistance medical treatment, they’re just going to become a bigger nuisance and threat.

by Anonymousreply 11May 23, 2019 4:08 PM

Trader Joe's cashiers, "any plans for the weekend?" "what are you up to today?" I would rather they chat about the weather, or something in my basket..oh those beet chips are wonderful, have you tried the sweet potato ones?

by Anonymousreply 12May 23, 2019 4:14 PM

When i'm sitting by the pond and nearly every man that walks past tells me "their is rats in there" but does nothing about it i just ignore the creep. And another was when me and my mum were food shopping just chatting about why was gluten free everywhere and some teenager butt in about her gluten intolerant cousin!Bitch i never asked don't know you,and don't fucking care.

by Anonymousreply 13May 23, 2019 4:24 PM

I loathe earbuds people. It's indicative of self absorbtion at the expense of a better community and and an isolating practice thst contributes to the loneliness and sense of alienation emdemic to contemporary urban experience for so many people of all types.

R5 and R9 - urbanity needs more cool chilled decent people like you. 🙏

by Anonymousreply 14May 23, 2019 4:46 PM

Just say good morning, it's not a conversation nor is it an inappropriate intrusion.

Fucking snowflakes.

by Anonymousreply 15May 23, 2019 4:50 PM

No one wants to listen to your yammering r14. I’ve got better things to occupy my time.

by Anonymousreply 16May 23, 2019 4:57 PM

For such a pompous ass, you’d think r14 would know the spelling of endemic.

by Anonymousreply 17May 23, 2019 4:59 PM

I think that it wouldn't have been as annoying if she didn't wait for at least 10 people to pass her before, OF COURSE, saying "good morning" to me exclusively. I'm also a "fast walker" which one would think would be detrimental to receiving random greetings from strangers.

Senior person walking their dog for example : completely fine with this

Wrinkly old spinster sitting on a planter outside of what looks like an old movie theatre turned into a halfway house--based on the "gathering" near the door--smoking a joint while facing everyone walking by her and only alienating certain people : annoying

by Anonymousreply 18May 23, 2019 5:14 PM

R18 = OP

by Anonymousreply 19May 23, 2019 5:15 PM

Op, you encountered a bitch. You should have farted loudly as a response.

by Anonymousreply 20May 23, 2019 6:14 PM
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