Shelley told this story during a talk show interview in the 80s or 90s. I wish I could remember more details, since I’m sure there’s a YouTube video somewhere. I may have few embellished a bit, but here’s the gist of what I remember…
Shelley was invited to a benefit to raise money for the Actors Studio, the school where she had thrived as a method actress in the 1950s. Shelley was a major star at the time, with lots of movies and Oscar nominations, and her attendance at the benefit as a past graduate was a big deal. When she arrived, she went to a table to “sign in” and get her credentials and her itinerary. The table was manned by volunteers - past and present students from the Studio - and everyone at the table recognized her.
The older man who greeted her was handsome and sexy, and Shelley - older and heavier - immediately went into her flirtatious blonde bombshell act that had served her so well in the past.
“Shelley, so nice to see you!” the older man said as he looked for her press packet. Obviously, he knew her. Shelley reported that he looked familiar and assumed he was someone who had been in one of her acting classes. She didn’t want to seem aloof, but she could not place him. “So nice to see you too!” she replied extending her hand. He stood and shook her hand but seemed a bit annoyed and perplexed. It was as if he had expected bigger greeting, perhaps a hug and a kiss, not this formal handshake. Shelley continued “When was the last time we saw each other. I can’t quite remember. It seems like ages…”
The older man smiled and replied “Shelley, it’s me…Tony”.
“Tony, of course!” Shelley replied, although she had no idea who he was.
Again, the man smiled, this time with a bit of a sigh and a hint of irritation”. “Yes, Tony…. TONY… Tony Franciosa, YOUR EX-HUSBAND!!!!”
When Shelley finished telling the story during the TV interview, the host and the audience burst into such spontaneous laughter that Shelley looked at them and said sincerely “What…he looked different!”