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Dolly Parton tells Press that she is not gay.

While in London, Dolly told journalists that she is not gay. She and her travelling companion Judy Ogle are "best friends" and have known each other for 64 years. She also said that people say the same thing about Oprah and her friend Gayle King being gay but it's not true.

What do you think about Dolly and her constant companion Judy?

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by Anonymousreply 58May 13, 2019 6:50 PM

I'm bi, duh!

by Anonymousreply 1February 19, 2019 4:03 PM

I have a best friend of 28 years named Judy and we are not gay. We have taken countless trips together and spent the night in the same bed. Still not gay, not even a little.

by Anonymousreply 2February 19, 2019 4:03 PM

Thanks Dolly for defending us.

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by Anonymousreply 3February 19, 2019 4:07 PM

She prefers 'lady ham'

by Anonymousreply 4February 19, 2019 4:09 PM

I don't know, but I have wondered. If they were two guys I would say they were gay. But straight women can have really strong emotional bonds.

Did Judy ever marry?

by Anonymousreply 5February 19, 2019 4:11 PM

Sad she still has to say she's "not gay" whether she is or not. It's 2019 and I think if she ever did come out she would gain 3X the amount of fans as she would lose, if she even lost any because of it.

by Anonymousreply 6February 19, 2019 4:15 PM

r6 oh my

by Anonymousreply 7February 19, 2019 4:17 PM

Dolly grew up in Appalachia where there were five siblings to a bed. Dolly has said that she's so used to having someone next to her in bed that its why she shares it with Judy (her best friend) whenever they're out on the road.

Dolly's always been pro gay. She came out in support of gay marriage in the early 2000's before most democratic politicians even did so. She's never done a thing to harm the community, and by all accounts she's one of the nicest and most charitable celebrities in the business. Leave the woman alone. There are legitimate targets worthy of your scorn who hide in closets while wanting to take away gay rights.

by Anonymousreply 8February 19, 2019 4:20 PM

I don't see the scorn here, r8. Most people share your perception of Dolly being kind and generous. This is a gay board, I don't think it's bad to discuss whether someone is gay or not.

by Anonymousreply 9February 19, 2019 6:16 PM

I'm inclined to believe Dolly. For one thing, she's always been pro-gay, so why be in the closet? Maybe in the '70s or even the '80s, because of public sentiment, but now?

For another, 64 years is a looooooooong time if it's a romantic relationship. Most flame out long before then. Solid friendships, however, can last a lifetime.

by Anonymousreply 10February 19, 2019 6:23 PM

My best friend and I are going on 40 years and I couldnt imagine life without him. When youve loved someone for 64 years,the bond must be unbreakable. Dolly is one of the few people who I think is so beloved it really wouldnt matter to 90% of her fans wether she was or wasnt. A true american treasure and we dont have a lot of those anymore. Let her be on this subject. Besides,at her age does sexuality matter to anyone ?

by Anonymousreply 11February 19, 2019 6:28 PM

It is NOT her responsibility, BUT as mentioned above she is universally loved and if she was Gay and came out, it would probably do less damage to her, then to anyone, is exactly the reason why if she IS gay, it would be a very helpful thing for her to do.

by Anonymousreply 12February 19, 2019 6:34 PM

I really don't know. Dolly seems so forthright and pro-gay, I feel like she'd say so, and not make a big deal of it, if she were gay.

by Anonymousreply 13February 19, 2019 6:38 PM

[quote] 64 years is a looooooooong time if it's a romantic relationship. Most flame out long before then. Solid friendships, however, can last a lifetime.

Good point, and funny as well. On the other hand, Dolly Parton has been married to her husband, Carl Dean, since 1966. Thats approximately 52 years.

by Anonymousreply 14February 19, 2019 6:38 PM

Dolly and Judy have been best friends since they were small children. Dolly said one time, that she couldn't imagine having sex with Judy because it would be like having sex with one of her siblings. Dolly is so open, that I'm sure if they were gay, she would tell everyone.

by Anonymousreply 15February 19, 2019 6:41 PM

Yeah, I don't think so r15.

by Anonymousreply 16February 19, 2019 6:44 PM

I don't care. Does she even get moist anymore?

by Anonymousreply 17February 19, 2019 6:48 PM

[quote] Dolly is so open, that I'm sure if they were gay, she would tell everyone.

Yeah, I'm sure that would do wonders for her family friendly resort in the middle of nowhere in Tennessee.

Do you people ever leave the West or East Coast?

Regardless if it's true, Dolly coming out would be terrible for her brand.

by Anonymousreply 18February 19, 2019 6:54 PM

I really don't think Oprah is gay but I believe Dolly is a lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 19February 19, 2019 6:59 PM

Don't know if she's a dyke or not, but that guy is her husband on paper only.

by Anonymousreply 20February 19, 2019 7:02 PM

Looking at those recent photos of a Carl Dean I don't believe her. Judy is such a butch lesbian, and the fact that Dolly covers up all of her tattoos makes me wonders what else she covers up. Either way it doesn't matter. She's done a lot for the gay community and for her local community.

by Anonymousreply 21February 19, 2019 7:03 PM

R18 But Dolly has been outspoken about her support for gay people, and that hasn't hurt her brand. Not to mention how much all the housewives outside of the east and west coast loves Ellen.

by Anonymousreply 22February 19, 2019 7:06 PM

Why is dolly parton in London? They listen to country music in the UK?

by Anonymousreply 23February 19, 2019 7:28 PM

R23 - she's in London for the 9 to 5: The Musical.

by Anonymousreply 24February 19, 2019 7:31 PM

Also, I'm tired of people like R18 thinking that the South and Midwest are somehow encased in amber. The views of gay people have changed immensely in the heartland, just as race-relations in the South are not the same as they were in the 1960s.

by Anonymousreply 25February 19, 2019 7:31 PM

Lesbian bed death?

by Anonymousreply 26February 19, 2019 7:32 PM

R23 Dolly is a well known star in the UK, she headlined Glastonbury the other year, for goodness sakes. Also, remember when those Scottish scientists produced the first clone, Dolly the sheep? It was named for her because the cells came from the mammary glands.

by Anonymousreply 27February 19, 2019 7:34 PM

My sister traveled with another country star. He told her that Dolly was a lesbian and the nicest person in all of country music. He thought that at Dolly’s age she would never come out. He also said that his wife’s friend had a three way with Jane Fonda and she said Fonda was best oral sex of her entire life.

by Anonymousreply 28February 19, 2019 7:39 PM

[quote] Also, I'm tired of people like [R18] thinking that the South and Midwest are somehow encased in amber. The views of gay people have changed immensely in the heartland, just as race-relations in the South are not the same as they were in the 1960s.

Really? Maybe we should have a vote. We'll see if people in the South and Midwest prefer a race-baiting, moronic, idiot white guy or an accomplished smart woman. We'll see who prevails while the South and the Midwest are bombarded with absurd news about the two.

Who will win in your new progressive South?

I'm tired of people pretending that just because you rednecks aren't hanging blacks from trees anymore that most of you wouldn't in a heartbeat.

You can suck on my big Jewish cock.

by Anonymousreply 29February 19, 2019 7:45 PM

R29 Anyone as angry as you usually has a very small cock, so no I won't suck on it. Also, I am tired of people always bringing up Trump and Hillary. There were/are many reasons for the people in these states to have voted for Trump or against Hillary, that had nothing to do with race or gender. Also, I am tired of people saying Hillary was accomplished. She is famous because her husband was President, she used that to become a Senator, where she accomplished nothing, she then became Secretary of State, where likewise she accomplished nothing.

by Anonymousreply 30February 19, 2019 7:54 PM

I think she's can't come out because it would expose her as a liar for too long and that's what would damage her reputation. At her age, there's no need anymore. But I think she's lying alright.

by Anonymousreply 31February 19, 2019 7:58 PM

R30, you proved r29's point. You are a true Midwesterner.

Hillary not accomplished- !

Who did you vote for?

by Anonymousreply 32February 19, 2019 8:01 PM

Naw...I think Dolly is a man loving woman. Didn't she have affairs with several of her male costars?

by Anonymousreply 33February 19, 2019 8:03 PM

She knows it doesn't fit her brand. Sad to say, but I don't think her red state fans could stomach it and she knows it.

by Anonymousreply 34February 19, 2019 8:09 PM

Could someone post the dolly/Bonnie mace story again

by Anonymousreply 35February 19, 2019 8:12 PM

BTW can we pause for a moment and consider that she is 70+ and constantly working. Do you really think she has the energy or time for dick or pussy?

by Anonymousreply 36February 19, 2019 8:43 PM

What a stupid thing to say, r36.

by Anonymousreply 37February 19, 2019 8:47 PM

She'll admit it on her death-bed. Or in her will.

by Anonymousreply 38February 19, 2019 8:55 PM

R32 I'll tell you who I voted for, when you can tell me anything of importance that Hillary accomplished.

by Anonymousreply 39February 19, 2019 9:00 PM

If you didn't vote for Hillary then you helped put trump in office, r39.

by Anonymousreply 40February 19, 2019 9:26 PM

R40 You still haven't listed one accomplishment that this supposed smart accomplished Hillary has had.

by Anonymousreply 41February 19, 2019 9:29 PM

Guys this isn't about Hillary.

This is about how if Dolly liked snatch she'd come out and everyone in Pigeon Forge, TN would just be so happy because the South is welcoming now.

by Anonymousreply 42February 19, 2019 9:35 PM

If you read her statements on gay rights they're generally vague enough to appease both sides.

“I think everybody should be allowed to be who they are, and to love who they love. I don’t think we should be judgmental. Lord, I’ve got enough problems of my own to pass judgment on somebody else,” she said.

It's a nice sentiment, but what if "who you are" is someone that refuses to validate gay marriage certificates?

by Anonymousreply 43February 19, 2019 9:38 PM

Here is a good article from the NYT, explaining how Dollywood and Dolly, works to appeal to all regardless of sexual orientation and views. Personally, I have been to Dollywood numerous times, and I have seen a same sex couples kissing, right outside of the Chapel where church services are held in the park every Sunday, and no one batted an eye.

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by Anonymousreply 44February 19, 2019 9:45 PM

Some years back in her memoir "Backstage Pass" (a great read), Angela Bowie confirmed that Dolly Parton is indeed gay.

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by Anonymousreply 45February 19, 2019 10:04 PM

R29 spoke like someone who had never set foot in the South a day in his life.

by Anonymousreply 46February 19, 2019 10:27 PM

That should be,

[quote]National Treasure Dolly Parton

Get it right OP.

by Anonymousreply 47February 19, 2019 10:42 PM

Dolly is pulling a Queen Latifah - gay in private but not admitting it in public. Sad in a way.

by Anonymousreply 48February 20, 2019 1:44 AM

Dolly's comment about not wanting to look like a bulldyke confirmed it for me. LESBIAN!

by Anonymousreply 49May 13, 2019 5:45 PM

My personal opinion is that she’s bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 50May 13, 2019 5:59 PM

Women are more comfortable with physical intimacy without it overlapping (pun not intended) into sexuality. Women will hold hands with one another, pull each other close when sharing a secret, hug and kiss like it’s no big deal. Men, OTOH, are the opposite. As a rule.

by Anonymousreply 51May 13, 2019 6:07 PM

Best friend who spend all their free time in each others Sheds.

by Anonymousreply 52May 13, 2019 6:08 PM

I used to think that, R50. I am now convinced Dolly is a lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 53May 13, 2019 6:20 PM

She doesn't say anything about Judy not being gay.

by Anonymousreply 54May 13, 2019 6:21 PM

I tend to believe her......but Julie and Carol.......well THAT’S another story.....

by Anonymousreply 55May 13, 2019 6:25 PM

If Dolly really is straight, then she is a bigot.

by Anonymousreply 56May 13, 2019 6:37 PM

And I do not think she is a bigot.

by Anonymousreply 57May 13, 2019 6:38 PM

She and Oprah are both gay

by Anonymousreply 58May 13, 2019 6:50 PM
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