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Sophie B. Hawkins

You can't underestimate the influence Sophie B. Hawkins had using the pronoun "her" in Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover in 1992.

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by Anonymousreply 57December 22, 2018 2:33 AM

Does come inside my jungle book mean what I think it means?

by Anonymousreply 1December 17, 2018 2:46 AM

Yes, it does, r1.

by Anonymousreply 2December 17, 2018 2:57 AM

After listening to this song on a regular basis for the last 25 years, it still holds up.

by Anonymousreply 3December 17, 2018 3:02 AM

She had 2 big hit singles.

by Anonymousreply 4December 17, 2018 3:04 AM

I haven’t heard it much at all since it was first released, but I agree it’s still great. I love every section of the song.

She had a follow up hit that was even bigger, with “As I Lay Me Down”, but I thought that song was too pussy. I didn’t hate it, I thought it was okay, but it wasn’t nearly as fun as this first hit.

by Anonymousreply 5December 17, 2018 3:04 AM

R4 As I Lay Me Down.

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by Anonymousreply 6December 17, 2018 3:07 AM

"As I Lay Me Down" is a MAJOR adult contemporary hit that is still in heavy rotation in grocery stores, gas stations, office buildings.

by Anonymousreply 7December 17, 2018 3:08 AM

I remember this photo being on the cover of the As I Lay Me Down cassette single that I bought.

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by Anonymousreply 8December 17, 2018 3:09 AM

OP, why not link to the official video?

I hope she made money off of the song.

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by Anonymousreply 9December 17, 2018 3:09 AM

What is that backing vocal on “As I Lay”? The one that goes “Wah-da-da-d’oh!"

What are they actually saying there? Some tribal chant?

by Anonymousreply 10December 17, 2018 3:10 AM

Also, what are the lyrics to “Damn!”? 26 years ago I could only make out certain words, and the ones I didn’t know, I would just sing the non-word phonics as I heard them.

She’s saying “her” at one point? “Makin’ love to her with visions clear”? I always heard it as “makin’ love to who with visions clear”

by Anonymousreply 11December 17, 2018 3:21 AM

I liked the version she and Melissa Etheridge did together.

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by Anonymousreply 12December 17, 2018 3:25 AM

I wrote her off after seeing her perform this on David Letterman. She was writhing around on stage and was completely off key. She was horrible.

by Anonymousreply 13December 17, 2018 3:29 AM

IFC used to play her documentary "The Cream Will Rise"

by Anonymousreply 14December 17, 2018 3:32 AM

I assume Tongues and Tails is a rimming reference.

by Anonymousreply 15December 17, 2018 3:33 AM

Does she still identify as a Tea Party Republican?

by Anonymousreply 16December 17, 2018 3:35 AM

Ugh, really, R16?

I took a look at her IG page. It's rather normal and not as selfie-centered as most celebs' IGs. Her kids are cute. I must say she has amazing hair for 54.

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by Anonymousreply 17December 17, 2018 3:40 AM

She was a Hillary supporter in 2008, but she despised Obama and turned Republican once Obama got the nomination. She said she was a Tea Party libertarian.

Here she is at a Breitbart GOProud event in 2011. The interview with her starts at the 5:30 mark. She's batshit crazy.

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by Anonymousreply 18December 17, 2018 3:46 AM

Ugh, that's really annoying. I used to love her.

God damn it, Sophie!

by Anonymousreply 19December 17, 2018 3:47 AM

Don't you mean Damn, I Wish You Were a Democrat R19?

by Anonymousreply 20December 17, 2018 4:02 AM

[quote]I liked the version she and Melissa Etheridge did together.

Etheridge jokingly commented “damn, I wish I wrote this song!”

by Anonymousreply 21December 17, 2018 4:06 AM

I like Mr Tugboat Hello.

Raspberries & wine, boxing gloves, train stations, and valentines.

Makes no sense.

I didn't know she became a deplorable though, that sucks.

by Anonymousreply 22December 17, 2018 4:06 AM

[quote]What is that backing vocal on “As I Lay”? The one that goes “Wah-da-da-d’oh!"

“I like tacos”.

by Anonymousreply 23December 17, 2018 4:13 AM

Here’s the original banned video, featuring her writhing around in a diaper.

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by Anonymousreply 24December 17, 2018 4:28 AM

R24 Incontinence Chic?

by Anonymousreply 25December 17, 2018 4:30 AM

R12 thats some seriously goofy dancing.

by Anonymousreply 26December 17, 2018 4:44 AM

Sophie B hawking that record everywhere back in the day. She was on Team Vag if I remember correctly, before she sold her soul to the Tea Party.

by Anonymousreply 27December 17, 2018 5:51 AM

R25 Thanks. I've never seen it before.

by Anonymousreply 28December 17, 2018 6:05 AM

Someone modern should do a remake of this song. It wimoikd be perfect for Miss Shawn Mendes.

by Anonymousreply 29December 18, 2018 2:33 AM

R29

That’s actually brilliant.

Are there any good covers?

by Anonymousreply 30December 18, 2018 2:40 AM

A crazy lesbian. What a shocker.

by Anonymousreply 31December 18, 2018 2:52 AM

Don't forget about that weird song on her first album where she sings about incest with her brother.

by Anonymousreply 32December 18, 2018 3:22 AM

She dated someone from the Getty family, I saw it mentioned in one of her interviews. It means she didn't have to worry about money for quite a while.

by Anonymousreply 33December 18, 2018 5:35 AM

There was a scene in "The Cream Will Rise" where she gets manic and you see her mood swings.

by Anonymousreply 34December 18, 2018 5:39 AM

Correct grammar is: Damn, I Wish I WERE Your Lover. NOT "Was."

Good song. Bad grammar. It's bugged me for years.

by Anonymousreply 35December 18, 2018 6:10 AM

Give you everything you need to live inside a twisted cage Sleep beside an empty rage I had a dream I was your hero Damn I wish I was your lover I'll rock you till the daylight comes Make sure you are smiling and warm I am everything Tonight I'll be your mother I will Do such things to ease your pain Free your mind and you won't feel ashamed This monkey can't stand to see you black and blue Give you something sweet each time you Come inside my jungle book What is it just too good Don't say you'll stay 'Cause then you go away Damn I wish I was your lover I'll rock you till the daylight comes Make sure you are smiling and warm I am everything Tonight I'll be your mother I will Do such things to ease your pain Free your mind and you won't feel ashamed Shucks for me there is no other You're the only shoe that fits I can't imagine I'll grow out of it Damn I wish I was your lover If I was your girl believe me I'd turn on the Rolling Stones We could groove along and feel much better I could do it forever and ever Give me an hour to kiss you Walk through heaven's door I'm sure We don't need no doctor to feel much better Let me in Forever and ever and ever and ever I sat on the mountainside with peace of mind I lay by the ocean making love to her with visions clear Walked for days with no one near And I return as chained and bound to you Damn I wish I was your lover I'll rock you till the daylight comes Make sure you are smiling and warm I am everything Tonight I'll be your mother I will Do such things to ease your pain Free your mind and you won't feel ashamed Shucks for me there is no other You're the only shoe that fits I can't imagine I'll grow out of it Damn I wish I was your lover Open up gonna come inside I gonna fill you up I gonna Make you cry Damn I wish I was your lover

by Anonymousreply 36December 18, 2018 6:15 AM

I don’t understand the jungle book Reference

by Anonymousreply 37December 18, 2018 6:20 AM

Thank you, R36.

To the poster upthread who suggested a modern cover: NO. Just no.

And certainly not fucking Shawn Mendes. The world does not need anymore of his weird, trendy Justin Bieber-style, Hispanic-wannabe enunciations. Certainly not on a cover of this song, which is great just as it is.

by Anonymousreply 38December 18, 2018 8:40 AM

love this song and the whole album. still so catchy after 20+ yrs.

by Anonymousreply 39December 19, 2018 6:26 AM

I always wondered if 'Shucks' was a tame word replacing a censored one. It's the one moment of the song that seems inauthentic.

by Anonymousreply 40December 19, 2018 7:58 AM

There was a VH1 special pre-Lillith Fair with Sophie, Melissa, Paula Cole etc. Sophie was so manic and over the top, for the finale she was separated from the rest of the women because she was hogging the spotlight. They left her playing bangos off in a corner.

by Anonymousreply 41December 19, 2018 8:23 AM

I've been listening to this song a lot lately. It always reminds me of 90210.

by Anonymousreply 42December 19, 2018 8:25 AM

Damn I wish I was her diaper!

by Anonymousreply 43December 19, 2018 8:38 AM

[quote]There was a VH1 special pre-Lillith Fair with Sophie, Melissa, Paula Cole etc. Sophie was so manic and over the top, for the finale she was separated from the rest of the women because she was hogging the spotlight. They left her playing bangos off in a corner.

This visual made me LOL.

by Anonymousreply 44December 19, 2018 9:00 AM

[Quote] They left her playing bangos off in a corner.

I wish there was a gif of this lol

by Anonymousreply 45December 19, 2018 9:22 AM

When Joan Jett sang "Crimson and Clover:" she used "her" as well, before Hawkins, LONG BEFORE

by Anonymousreply 46December 19, 2018 9:24 AM

Back then it was edgy and cool to hear “Damn!” on the radio. That alone was the song’s appeal.

Terrible song. Not surprised that she’s a one-hit wonder.

by Anonymousreply 47December 19, 2018 9:51 AM

[quote]There was a VH1 special pre-Lillith Fair with Sophie, Melissa, Paula Cole etc. Sophie was so manic and over the top

That’s a lot of crazy to try to put on one stage.

by Anonymousreply 48December 19, 2018 2:15 PM

[quote]Terrible song. Not surprised that she’s a one-hit wonder.

The song is good. The reason she was a one-hit wonder was her mental instability.

by Anonymousreply 49December 19, 2018 2:16 PM

[quote]They left her playing bangos off in a corner.

[quote]I wish there was a gif of this lol

Go to 5:50 of this video for the final performance where she is positioned away from the rest of the group playing bongos.

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by Anonymousreply 50December 19, 2018 2:30 PM

I recall some Rock gossip lady went on ET and told the tale of the other ladies not wanting to sing with Sophie because she was acting like a jackass.

by Anonymousreply 51December 19, 2018 8:59 PM

R47 She wasn't a one hit wonder. Later she had another big Top 10 hit called "Now I Lay Me Down".

by Anonymousreply 52December 21, 2018 3:27 AM

I like that song but I'll bet she's a strict vegan, anti-man psychotic loon.

by Anonymousreply 53December 21, 2018 3:31 AM

Nothing wrong with being a strict vegan.

by Anonymousreply 54December 21, 2018 3:35 AM

Does she tour?

I know someone always asks this question, but how does this particular two-hit wonder make her cash?

by Anonymousreply 55December 21, 2018 3:39 AM

I never realized Mellisa Etheride was such a cheesy Jamon.

by Anonymousreply 56December 21, 2018 3:49 AM

If you trace back, "Damn I Wish I was Your Lover" was one of the first sparks to fuel the Lesbian Chic Inferno.

by Anonymousreply 57December 22, 2018 2:33 AM
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