'Time of My Life' gay wedding dance!

Hell no, cringe.

I'm not clicking on that link. I refuse

Divorce within 5 years

My god, that was embarrassing for all gays

Fuck no.

I’m not a huge fan of big PDAs and spectacles so no, the same way I feel about the herero ones. Take one less dance lesson and maybe rehearse your wedding vows so you don’t sound like a first grader learning to read.

We know the bottom.

Omg I loved it!

Thanks OP that was fun! What a handsome couple

mee too, R8

I'm the first to cringe a these sorts of things - but I thought it was excellent.

Fabulous!! - what bitches you are for not enjoying this.

Are they professional dancers?

Mommie, why do these gays have such bad taste in music?

They hired a tent for a reception for 10 people? Did they have a lot of no-shows? That's just sad.

That was fun. Get the stick out of your asses, naysayers, and watch the damn thing.

I like that big fat fag hag in the black dress recording the whole thing on her phone.

The taller, bearded guy was the better dancer. I, too, thought it would be cringe worthy, but I liked it.

They really pulled it off.

Must be friends of OP.

The gayest thing I have seen in ages

They were great. Link to NYT wedding announcement:

I like them. They are fun, cute and happy. I look forward to their sex tape leaking.

No opinion on the dance, but I just can't abide wearing sneakers in a wedding. You are not dressed up if you are wearing sneakers.

My wedding won't be like this wedding.

This is why they hate us.

My partner would slap my face clean off if I suggested we do something like this.

One of those guys is 51?? Wow, must be a DLer.

I'm divided between cringe and entertainment. I feel so conflicted.

Their registry if you want to send them a gift, like dance lessons.

The guys had fun, the guests had fun. What's not to like?

So much better than disgusting money dances.

I thought it was cute.

O puke! This is a frau's wet dream. Change the channel.

I loved it!

More fun than a traditional first dance.

[quote] They hired a tent for a reception for 10 people? Did they have a lot of no-shows? That's just sad.

I think the margarine fountain turned people off.

Are they in an open relationship

I cringed and couldn’t watch the whole thing. I am not fond of this at straight weddings. I also don’t think Gay weddings should be mimicking the ritual used at straight weddings, anyway.

I’m reminded of that stupid photo of Gio proposing to Tommy, where Tommy reacts like a child bride would, despite the photo being staged with a photographer. I imagine Tommy’s reaction as “Gosh! I’m the luckiest girl in the world!”

It’s heinous.

I loved it, OP!

It's their wedding and they can do what they want. I hope they spend the rest of their lives not giving a fuck what a bunch of tired old queens think about their choices.

Those who hated this are dead inside!

They dance about as clumsily and without rhythm as Madonna.

I wish he’d Ice Castles that bitch.

I’m sure they can get discounts on dance lessons.

[quote]Mr. Aberlin (left), 36, is the director of operations at the Paul Taylor Dance Foundation in Manhattan. He graduated from Syracuse University.

[quote]Mr. Simmons, 51, is a founder and chair of the Corporate Eco Forum, an invitation-only membership organization for large companies committed to sustainability. He graduated from Tufts and received a master’s degree in international affairs from Johns Hopkins.

They seem like highly accomplished A- Gays. Good for them for having fun and sharing it with the world.

It was amusing, however, i think if you want to put on a show for your friends, Judy and Mickey, find a barn and sell tickets. I think a wedding dance should reflect the love and adoration you have for each other - take some ballroom dance lessons, learn some flourishes and routines, and give them a Fred and Ginger to remember.

I enjoyed it. And clearly they had fun.

Of course you enjoyed it, shitstain. You probably think kittens in a basket are cute, too.

Why yes, we do, you sniveling cunt crumb pus-licking gnat.

Have a nice night!

The things brain dead cunts love, so lame.

Wishing them a long and very happy life. Beautiful performance made so much better by their obvious love for each other.

Braindead is one word, R46. You're no Rhodes Scholar yourself.

More media coverage:

Loved it. Beats the chicken dance. They wanted to entertain their guests and they succeeded. I've forgotten what occurred in 9/10s of the all the weddings I've attended. This I wouldn't forget.

I love the KC and The Sunshine Band song. Sounds better now than it did then I think.

Because it's their wedding and THEY NEED MORE ATTENTION !!!!!!

🤮🤮🤮

The older one looks “non binary.” This is foul. As bad as the Chris Brown, “double your pleasure” wedding dance one that made the rounds years ago. Surprised these two queens didn’t just Vogue the entire time.

Gay, straight, bi, trans whatever - get married if you want, but don’t turn it into another fucking Instagram moment.

Loved it. You guys are such fuckin bitches. Why don't you move to the planet misery where I know you will fit right in.

Glad they include some tap.

[quote]The taller, bearded guy was the better dancer.

We always like the dark haired guys with the beards.

How do they even think about having sex after that?

Or do they just put on facial masks and go all girlfriend on their wedding night?

R45 Most brain dead cunt around.

Keep it nice, R58 - for fuck's sake, this is a fucking wedding thread. A celebration of love.

They're both cute and sexy. My preference? The non-bearded guy. This may surprise you.

I can’t. I just can’t.

Well I liked it. No, they’re not pros, but they took ballroom classes, hired a choreographer and most definitely put quite a bit of effort into what ended up being a very entertaining presentation at their first dance. Much better than those wedding party entrances and production disasters that are so common now.

What did some of you queens want? Shirtless, meth-fueled, circuit party, go go boy moves?

So over this stupid, narcissistic trend. Didn't click. Don't care. Next. Hope they put at LEAST as much effort into the day-to-day humdrum that marriage (even the best ones) leads to.

This is going viral.

There are gifs.

and it's hit the presses in England - where they're impressed.

[quote]So over this stupid, narcissistic trend. Didn't click. Don't care. Next.

No one cares that you don't care.

All the struggle, the discrimination, the persecution, the dying just to end up as an embarrassing parody of the het mainstream.

Madness!

No this was total cringe from the 6 guests that attended their wedding, to the lite FM classic song selection, and the Fortnite dance, and it looked more like a wannabe performance and not a wedding dance.

Exactly, they were terrible dancers. As bad as Madonna.

Wtf my comments are being deleted

OP, most Dataloungers are elder gays (well) over 40, and a large number of them are self-loathing/homophobic types who never moved more than a few dozen miles from where they grew up, so I’m not sure what you were expecting here. Many also detest any behavior that deviates from extremely rigid gender roles, so a man sashaying around a dancefloor with another man and being lifted into the air sends them into apoplectic fits. I’m 50 and no coastal elite myself, but these types just make me sad.

Your video is very cute but don’t expect most DLers to be uplifting or positive about public gayness or same-sex PDAs. Many of them would sooner die than let their true orientation out in public like that.

This trend where they play a line or two from twenty different songs is just ridiculous. It's jarring and annoying. When the music industry tanked, it took the public taste with it.

Well done

I like this video too - but R71's little diatribe makes him sound like the sad fuck he's accusing everyone else of being.

There is seriously something wrong with you sad pathetic people. I LOVED THIS... and if that's what they wanted to do then more power to them. The nerve of you people to attack people for being free to be themselves...

Now I would NEVER do something like this in my life, for about a billion reasons the least of which are my two left feet and complete incoordination. But I love that they enjoyed it so much and to me, that there looks like true love. And that's probably why you people cant stand it.

And the wife looks pretty damn good for 51!

They wanted to do it and they did. It wasn't horrible although I'm not a fan of these dances at least after the first one 20 years ago. I hope they have a happy marriage. In this day and age, I'm not going to be the one who disparages hope and love.

-R65- I fucking don't care that you and no one else cares that I don't care. Now, go fall down some stairs.

And, most surprisingly, R77 got it grammatically correct!

Lucky she has that, R78 - she has nothing else in life.

[quote][R65]- I fucking don't care that you and no one else cares that I don't care. Now, go fall down some stairs.

R77 >

Whatever happened to weddings being elegant and tasteful affairs without all the narcissistic and shameless preening that obviously will result in divorce in 6 months.

No shit! And now, -R80- the bus to your sad little job assembling tampons at the sheltered workshop is honking outside your little apartment. Run along, now, and don't forget your sack-lunch. Ta ta! Happy day!

Gay marriages devolving to carnival acts to fulfill the straight guest's desire to laugh at the entire spectacle of two men getting married.

I've had pnp orgy sex with them and their friends.

Are they a circus act?

So, both bottoms then.

so much rancor from the single sad gayzzzz.

They've already been together ten years so I doubt they'll split after the next six months.

But how was their donut wall?

Loved it!

I can't.

It is the age of Instagram hoes. If you are not out there parading your stupid, untalented ass whoring for likes, well then. Might as well be dead. Hearing one line from that baritone singer on Time of Our Life makes me wanna puke. Frauiest song ever.

R70 you probably ignored yourself accidentally while scrolling. Go to the bars on the upper right and click on Ignored. Find one of your posts and click on the little x in the post’s upper right.

I'm not sure about the background of the bearded guy, but if the shorter guy worked for Paul Taylor (hard to tell from the title whether it was mostly an administrative job) that's one of the premier modern dance companies in the US. They both danced well and knew exactly what they were doing. I didn't love the somewhat sloppy transitions between styles, as the music was changed to another song, but to fault them on their dancing is a big stupid mistake by people who (I'm guessing) think that they are crosses between Baryshnikov and Gregory Hines, yet are very likely not all that on the dance floor if they ever stray there. I thought it was sweet. It's a trend right now to entertain your wedding guests this way, if you have a talent for dancing. I neither approve nor disapprove. In 10 years, they'll look back and cringe, but so what.

I don't think wedding couples ever sleep with each other anymore on their wedding days. A 20 hour day of fixing and arranging and greeting, etc. Fogetaboutit.

I guess just being the grooms wasn’t enough attention. A lot of people live for their wedding days because it’s baaically the one day where they are the indisputable stars of the show. It used to be enough to just be feted by toasts. But now mere sentiment isn’t enough. It needs to be dialed up to this?!?! And clearly their end game was to go viral because all this effort couldn’t be for the smattering of people in the tent. I hope they got what the validation they were so desperately seeking.

I thought this was cute. It was their day and they really prepared so why not?

I’ve known PJ for decades. They are a very cute and stable couple and thoroughly likable. Good grief, why can’t people be happy for them?

Ok I'll be honest. I would love the chance to dance like Fred & Ginger just once with my partner. Good for them.

PJ looks great for 51.

Noah looks better without the beard.

The sneakers were their idea. They wanted people to dress "Country Casual" and gave examples of what that means.

A couple of nice looking guys with great asses and they are good dancers.

Of course the DL hates them.

I condole them.