[quote]If we can't find a way to reach and persuade at least some of them (which may require some degree of compromise), we are destined to lose. And saying to them, "You're stupid, uneducated, and wrong. You need to believe what I believe because I'm smarter than you" is probably not an effective strategy for outreach and persuasion.
If my outreach to the deplorables was that, I can see why they would object, but that's not how I (or anyone who wants them to vote Democratic) speaks to them or treats them or asks for their vote. And I think you know this, as evidenced by your parenthetical suggestion of compromise. Now, let me be clear, I'm willing to compromise on a lot of issues, but oddly, no one every tells [italic]them[/italic] that they need to compromise, on anything. The right has built and incredibly good PR machine and a state media that tells people who don't know any better and lack the wherewithal to figure it out on their own that politics is the art of compromise; hence, the GOP purity tests, the tea party/alt-right, and ultimately, Trump (which is comical in its own right, as he was supposed to be the great deal maker, and that 's one of the points they make when defending their vote for the guy who is about to take away everything that the government does to help them.)
To whit, are conservatives willing to compromise on abortion? Gay rights? Immigration? ...Anything?
So, I'll ask again: why do I have to subordinate facts to their beliefs? Why is it that when facts support my position, and even gives them a lot of what they want, do they still refuse to concede an argument and come to the negotiating table? Remember when they excoriated John Boehner in his negotiations with Obama, and he came out swinging saying that if he got 95% of what he wanted it was a productive meeting with the President, but that wasn't good enough for the tea party?
Here's a good example: conservatives say that they are the part of "law and order" and yet, when it's pointed out to them that the massive decline in crime, specifically violent crime committed by blacks, in the 90s was a direct result of granting abortion access in the 70s, they still refuse to even consider the point that maybe it's better for a child not to be born than to force birth upon an unwilling and unprepared woman who lacks the means to raise a child or children. (Of course, don't tell that to R163, who wants to simplistically believe that blacks had it better when they had no choice.) Why, you'd almost think that it was a conspiracy to keep the black community in its place.
The bottom line is that we have vast swaths of the country that have been inundated with the specific message that no matter what, whatever the Democrats want, it must be resisted. It goes beyond logic and reason, and descends into mere tribalism. And we've been in this position before, but didn't take the steps necessary to make sure that it never happens again. In fact, we coddled them and gave them even more influence over the course of the nation in an effort to "compromise." And 150+ years later, they refuse to concede the point, that black people are people, let alone equal. And now that's come to include anyone who isn't Christian, male, white and straight (in descending order of importance, although that's subject to regional and tribal interpretation).