Why didn't Sandra Bullock have her live in boyfriend of 2 years, walk her on the red carpet at the Oscars?

Who is he? Any pics?

Maybe he was sick or something. Who knows?

Maybe he didn’t want to? Did you consider that?

Maybe he had a bund meeting that night, or she just didn't want to adopt another baby at this stage.

She is getting up there in years, you know.

Here he is

He looks like a queen...

I know it is very hard for most DataLoungers to imagine but some people would absolutely hate the idea of going to the Oscars. He is probably one of those.

I still think shes a big old lezbo.

He's good-looking, but there is also something slightly non-sophisticated about him. He seems to be a scrubbed up version of the Nazi she was married to previously.

Lots of celebrities do not want to expose who they are dating and/or living with. Last year's 'Internet Boyfriend' Riz Ahmed dated a woman for about six years, she was never proudly on his arm at any Red Carpet event. His GF was secretly brought into a few high profile events he attended, such at the NYC TIME Gala and the 2017 Golden Globes. The GF didn't attend the MET Gala, yet was secretly brought into the after party at the club 1OAK. Riz's entire set up was beyond odd. If the GF was in any casual photo with him, she was purposely placed next to someone else, such as his brother or a friend, she was never next to Riz in any photos. Six years is a very long time to hide a partner.

Riz was in more photos with one of his co-stars Kate Hudson than the woman he was living with. He's no longer with his GF. He likely hid her because he always goes on about being a proud MOC and a Muslim, yet his GF was white. That's enough of a reason to hid someone with a rabid fanbase, a fanbase who would question Riz's hypocrisy.

The GF was likely fed up with being hidden for so long, especially as she was trying to break into showbiz. This situation was surely not ideal for such a woman who craved the spotlight, which could explain their breakup. At her FB she was always posting half naked photos of herself taken at NYC sex parties. How the fuck did Riz end up with such a person?! A lot of his female fans wear the hijab, yet he was dating a woman who attended sex parties. No wonder he hid his ex GF.

Because he's not her boyfriend.

A lot of partners of celebrities don't like the public eye. How many times was Dolly seen with Carl Dean? He was just a country boy and homebody.

Carl Dean doesn't even exist. No one's ever met him. Have you met him?

She seems very needy. Like J. Anniston. Needy. Smothering.

So the merkin doesn't want to appear on the red carpet with her...Perhaps such functions aren't in his contract.

Allison Janney didn't bring her hot boyfriend and she won.

He looks semi gay.

You guys were right; Sandra has had cheek implants. I didn't really see them on my livestream of the show but looking at the red carpet stills, NO!

The too-long straightened hair w/ cheek implants. No. Just no. She doesn't haven't to go that route.

Word from Austin for ages is that she's a lesbian. I wish she felt free to be herself. Her silver-haired merkin is much better than the Nazi chopper guy.

I had to look up her red carpet Oscar appearance. She's starting to look a bit manly. A new hairdo would help.

FOR GODS SAKE SHE IS A KNOWN GAY

SO IS HE

He was hiding in a closet after getting a glimpse of Sandy's frightening plastic surgery

Lez

she and the Keanu reeves used to beard 4 each other a lot bak in da day

He looks shady as fuck.

LOL @ R12

Because Islam is a hypocritical mess to anybody who tries to practice it, [R10].

The new cheek implants are most apparent in the profile and 3/4 angle shots of Bullock.

This is painful to watch. Why did Sandra do this to her face?

^^^^ wrong link.

Here is Sandra's new face.

If that is a wig that Nicole Kidman is wearing, it's the worst wig since Phil Spector's 'fro.

Julia Roberts is rarely seen with Danny.

Ryan Gosling is rarely seen with Eva.

I'm really kind of amazed at what she did to her face. Cheek implants? I thought she looked like shit at the Oscars. Somebody needs to tell her NO with the ironed hair.

Julia and Danny aren't a couple anymore. They live in separate houses.

I think Eva just wants to stay home with her child.

Sandra did look different at the Academy Awards. At first I thought it was too much eye make-up., but then I realised her cheeks look different. I'm assuming it was done to take away lines or sags. As a big fan of Sandra I am a bit dissappointed. Nobody who does this ends up looking better in the long run.

DL official takes:

#1 - they both have POZ FACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#2a - He is gay #2b - they are bearding.

At R30 she looks like Madame. Except Madame had the taste to go grey.

Wow, I can't believe she did that. I bet she gets them taken out.

Everyone in Austin know she is a dyke=fake BF

Has Sandra ever even had high cheekbones? I assume actresses who were born with high cheekbones have a little advantage in the aging process?

this "she is a lesbian" nonsense is ridiculous. I've hung out with her a few times through one of her best friends and she is straight as they come. Sweet, too.

r41

It's funny how this seems to be a thing for actors who have had a lot of gay rumours about them. They totally have a partner of the opposite sex, but they never appear beside them at events because PRIVACY.

I've been trying to puzzle this out - are they trying to keep their partners quiet so everyone will think they MUST be hetero because look how they are protecting them. I don't get it, and it IS always the ones with a lot of gay rumours (Gosling and Mendes do go to events together, so I think they are the real deal). And if they are bi - which I think has tripped us up in the past - why does it matter? Presumably the relationship is real, so why act so bizarre about it?

R39 if all of Austin knows Sandra is a dyke then why aren’t more individuals from Austin sharing their knowledge? I’m sure she cannot be paying off all the people.

R44 I agree with you.

These events are boring AF, except for the parties.

R44 because it's not true. She moved her whole family to Austin when she was dating McBongo to try to get him to marry her. She was so possessive she drove him crazy. She definitely has issues. She was with Bob Schneider for years too. It seems like she's very needy and clingy which turns off a lot of men. But everybody says she's really, really nice. You won't hear a word against her in Austin.

R47 that relationship was a fake though, right?

Her lawyer forgot to put the red carpet rider onto the relationship contract. Silly mistake.

Sandy totally ignored Meryl, sitting right in front of her, as she presented. Yet, the year she won the Oscar, the running joke was how good a kisser Meryl is.

yes r50 she should have at least curtsied or bowed down to me.

her bf dresses like a straight man. we do not want him, he is straight.

He may be straight, but his girlfriend isn't.

She can't take her beard to industry events with her because he's a flamer who could never pass as straight. She's gay. He's gay. You PR bitches give it up already.

She should have gone to whoever did Cate Blanchett's cheeks.

She is definitely a lesbian who has a long history of dating gay men. Does that mean Jesse James is gay? Jesse is very emotionally troubled. I always found the guys behavior odd. Why would a young guy agree to date an older lesbian for publicity? Jesse's new girlfriend is quite the tomboy, as well.

R56 WTF? Jesse James is older than Bullock. Jesse's new girlfriend is the daughter of a billionaire. He obviously is a golddigger.

R47 what relationship are you saying was fake? McConaughey or Schneider? Bullock was totally nuts about McConaughey. She made a fool of herself over him. Schneider? I dunno. But they were together for several years. He's a player though and was screwing around on her.

She has the saddest eyes of all the Sweethearts.

R57, Sandra is 53. Way too old for even a poor guy.

I live in Austin and heard bad things about her from someone who worked at the airport who said she acted like a bitch and got someone fired. Everyone else on the thread practically tore my head off. At one point her girlfriend was her assistant. I have heard she has girlfriends in between the boyfriends. Mc Connoughy is also rumored to be gay. Maybe they are bi but for sex they lean toward their own sex.

Stupid to say "why doesn't some one make it public, you are lying". How many dozens of people we said were gay eventually came out after you fraus say the same thing? Wentworth, Bomer, Harris, .....

I love how R32 forgets that Ryan Gosling dated Sandy. Just sayin'

R61, you forgot that Jesse James dated Sandra. McConaughey was close close buddy of lance Armstrong. Lance is obviously gay. That kind of intensity doesn't come from nowhere. Ben stiller was also hanging with lance. Not very hard to identify gays if you pay attention. And no, a straight guy is nit going to hang with a gay guy in a close buddy type relationship.

R61, we know ryan is gay. We don't need to rehash The God blindingly obvious.

Hey, I'm this handsome, charismatic, jock, straight as arrow I think I will take up acting as a career. Lmao. It never happens.

How delusional you are, guys. He is straight, she is straight, they are dating. Let them be happy.

Lance Armstrong is so obviously gay. His two best buddies are known gays. I'm not even gay or do regular and I figured that one out.

The Oscar's are work and maybe he isn't getting paid that well?

R47, she dated Bob Schneider??? U think that proves she is straight???? R u that dopey???!!!!

"Fun" fact: Bullock and Bob Schneider are both children of opera singers with ties to Germany.

R64, You forgot how they took a drama class to meet girls. Cause that is where the hottest girls are. Not the cheerleaders or the dance team. The drama girls! As in lesbians.

Considering she humiliated herself in front of the entire world for the ages thanks to the internet, maybe she wants to be a little more cautious this time.

A gay man would NEVER let himself be papped in that, the guy is straight.

She should wear her hair short like the wig in Gravity.

She should never looked anything like she did in gravity. The close ups took second hand embarrassment to a whole new level.

Yeah, well, one, I know several straight as an arrow film stars who did start taking acting classes because of the pretty girls and, two, believe it or not, straight guys and gay guys actually can be friends, many are actively engaged in friendships at this very moment, sometimes they even hang out together, crazy I know. You're a homophobic flyover slag.

Zero evidence Lance is anything other than a craven narcissist. And you're naive to mistake arranged PR shots and business meetings for friendship.

Lance Armstrong isn't gay and for fuck's sake, we don't want him. He's a total asshole and a womanizer. He's got some pathetic long-term girlfriend now who has a couple of kids with him but he's still screwing around and it's with women, not men.

Lance Armstrong hangs with two gay guys. All the time. It's so obvious. Cheryl crowe is gay. It's like rob Lowe. Very gay. Dated Melissa Gilbert along with cruise. Married s troll. Has troll kids.

All of her relationships seem strange

R77 who are the two gay guys?

R77, Jake gyllenhaal and mathew McConaughey. He has been close with mathew along time. He intersects with a lot of gays in Hollywood. Of course, Hollywood is gay.

R80 McBongo may be bisexual but he isn't gay. And the only time Armstrong hung with Gyllenhaal was when Gyllenhaal was supposed to play him in a movie. And that was over 10 years ago. Armstong's a piece of shit and he's straight. And Armstrong's never in Hollywood. He divides his time between Texas and Aspen.

Your gossip is 10 years outta date.

R81 my hairstylist used to do his hair before he started to hit it big. McBongo was openly Gay.

Your hair stylist, right...

Armstrong pings on several levels. A simple search of candid pics shows how intimate he is with these gay men. Has he dated a straight woman? There are too many agents and publicists on DL It really sabotage's good threads.

Gays will Excel at certain sports. Pretty predictable that the top athletes in cycling would be gay. Tennis would be another one. Mac us gay.

Oleg @ r85, gays excel at ice dancing. Lesbians excel at the rest of the sports.

But back to Sandy B!!

I wish someone would diagnose her sadness.

Bullock is Jewish, is she not. To be both Jewish and gay is said to cause psychiatric agitation. I thought all gays were sad.

R84 Lance Armstrong has a publicist? LOL!

R83 I do not give a shit if you believe me or not... it’s very true!

R87, Bullock is not Jewish.

ya right.

known dyke for ages. she has dated a ton of gay men. wtf?

why cant these gays come the fuk out at their age and level of wealth????

she, llike kidman, goes for the Barbie look to look 'sstr8".....

She look like she got issues....

Who is the illiterate troll posting on here? Goodness gracious!

[quote] Why didn't Sandra Bullock have her live in boyfriend of 2 years, walk her on the red carpet at the Oscars?

She's a weirdo and doesn't seem to realize that no one really cares about her or who she's dating

Lol, yet there's a whole thread hunty.

Again, Austinite here. Always heard that Lance and Sheryl were bi back when they were dating. A friend here in Austin lived in Seattle when Sheryl was starting out on the East coast and said it was pretty well known she was at least bi. I think Sheryl might be one of those women who prefer sex with women but will fall into an emotional love with a man, like Whitney (I think it is pressure from social constructs to fit within a norm, but whatever). Actually had heard both were bi before they dated, so when they did date it sort of made sense. But Lance is a known asshole and probably just fucks anything for the power it gives him. He loved having Hollywood chase after him when they wanted to make a movie. His hooking up with McConaughey and Gyllenhaal (including sexually) made a lot of sense, too.

Lance was hanging out with Ben stiller. Pretty sure there was no sex. Ben stiller gives off a straight vibe. However, Ben stiller fascinates me because he is freakishly ugly yet has tons of confidence and had a pretty wife. He is believable as romantic lead. Too ugly to be gay, I think. This is raw unedited. I don't have a secretary.

R96, Lance will find you and kill you.

Matthew mac conaughy is one ATROCIOUS guy. Really ugly and unattractive + a cunt. I really do hope he is straight

McBongo's a jock groupie. If he fucked Lance Armstrong, he must also have fucked Drew Brees, Roger Clemens, Vince Young, Charles Barkley, etc. as he hangs round with them more than he does with Armstrong.

R100, he's half naked when he is with Lance and he is informal. The others are formal charity stuff.

Austin sounds like an interesting place!

I never thought she was a lesbian but when she made up that bullshit marriage with Jesse...I knew something weird was going on.

R101 you claim to be from Austin and yet you appear to be unaware that runners all run in Austin without their shirts on. It's fucking hot.

R104, Im not the Austin guy. I'm the common sense Guy. You can see how casual they are with each other. I'm straight and I would be fully clothed no matter the temperature.

If Austin guy is here please give us some ATX celeb gossip, in honor of SXSW week. Does McBongo still spend time there with the fam? what's Amber Heard's story (she's from there). what's up with the FNL gang, Kitsch, Chandler, Plemons - gay or straight? news re the auteurs: Linklater, Hawley, Jeff Nichols.

R105 don't come to Austin then. You will be shocked at all the guys running by Lady Bird Lake with their shirts off. Why is some straight guy hanging around on a gay website? Curious.

R107 I’m curious too!

R105, if I post something that is not PC on another site I'm banned. Gays have lively discussions.

Maybe the guy doesn't want to go to that bullshit? She goes because it's her job but it's not like asking your partner to go to a company Christmas party. I'd probably freak out in front of all those cameras.

R109 gays have lively discussions... ff

The funniest story I heard about Lance Armstrong is that some woman walked in on Lance while her friend (female) was eating his ass. Lance maintained his savoir faire and, ever the Good Samaritan, invited her to the buffet too.

Armstrong's long term girlfriend (they have a couple of kids) looks just like him - they both have the faces of goats. A couple of years ago he had a car accident in Aspen and said she'd been driving. He announced they were engaged a year ago and he still hasn't married her. Doormat.

The whole "Sandra Bullock is a closeted lesbian" is nothing but wishful thinking by a bunch of delusional L Chatters.

I think the guy she's dating now is hot af. Most men his age look like obese shit. Good for Sandy she found a hot piece of ass who seems to adore her. They probably have hot sex too.

[quote]maintained his savoir faire

I think you mean "sangfroid"

very known: Sandra's dykeness. thus her fake Barbie fem look. . . throw em off her trail.

Lesbians are posting on the DL? Masochists.

Why can't lesbians be slutty like gay men. I guess lesbians have a female side that wants to restrict sex to get power. Not nice!

No straight man would wear that sweater he’s wearing in r5. Not a single one.

Case closed.

He's smelling cookies in the photo at r5. PR working over time on this thread.

DYKE FOR YEARS. ... LOUSY HOW ALL THESE GAY MEN AND WOMEN STARS TREASURE $ MORE THAN HONESTY.

GEE THX

Well, maybe she doesn't want to end up embarrassing herself again.

GO TO 3:28

All the gays in the audience looking at the lesbian on stage. I guess they are all in denial. Must feel strange to be straight person in that audience.

Talk about Sandra's new cheek implants... what the hell has Meghan Markle done to her face? Does she have new cheek implants or did she just pump her face with fillers?

In the second picture, she looks more like Minnie Driver more than herself. I hate the beret.

Come out Sandra.....may as well, ev body but the kitty kats know u gay hun.

R60 is correct -- her girlfriend used to be her "assistant" (back in the day ~2003-2004?)

I grew up in Austin, went to middle school (Covington) and high school (Crockett HS) there. Everyone in Austin knows that Bullock is a lesbian.

She inadvertently outed herself back when she sued a local contractor for shoddy work on her McMansion (located inside a gated community near Lake Austin -- Lance Armstrong's house is about ~200 yards away from Bullock's)

anyone that lives in Austin should go dig up the paperwork, it should be public record by now: Sandra Annette Bullock and [her girlfriend/"assistant"] vs M.B Daneshjou

She’s gay.

My friend from HS went to her wedding with Jesse. Her fiancé worked with Jesse.

R60 My hairstylist used to live and work in LA. He pretty much stayed quiet, EXCEPT he did say. Matthew McConaughey Is known to be gay. He told me this information around the time Matthew was starting to become well known. Yes, I know he is married, but...

Her girlfriend is named "Et Al."

Is this her?

Please, what is the reason for a "live-in" merkin who never appears publicly? Why would she need a live in gay man who is identified as her "partner"?

So what's the point of having a beard if you don't march them out on the red carpet - isn't that the whole point of having one?

R133 exactly

R130 "Et Al #1" is her dad (John Bullock, now deceased) -- "Et Al #2" was her girlfriend/assistant (at the time)

[quote]I’m just curious about how this works.

You’re “just curious” about the private relationship between two people you don’t know and have never met, which you refer to as “this.” Okay. He’s a thought: maybe he didn’t want to? Maybe he’s a private guy who hates the spotlight and is happy to stay home and let his partner go solo.

[quote] He’s good enough to raise her kids... But no red carpet?

What exactly is wrong with you? Were you abandoned as a child? Seriously, who hurt you?

remember when lesbo Bullock "dated" Michael McDonald (YES!, Stuart Larkin) LOL

The Mardi Gras pic looks like two drunk friends goofing off. It's pretty popular in the South to go with friends to Mardi Gras parades. Definitely not a date night thing.

The home lawsuit involved multiple people and businesses as appellees, not just the Bullocks, so it's hard to say.