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Email and Letter Closings

What's the best way to close your emails (or letters, if you write them)? I go with "Regards" almost always for work-related emails, and "Love" if it's a family member, but even then I use that a lot more judiciously. I think "Thanks" seems passive-aggressive, ESPECIALLY if it has a period afterwards.

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by Anonymousreply 74January 8, 2018 2:28 PM

Forever and a day........... my boss to me to stop signing my emails this way.

by Anonymousreply 1January 5, 2018 3:57 PM

FANKS - and then my name

by Anonymousreply 2January 5, 2018 4:01 PM

before I retired last year, I started seeing much more "Have a Blessed Day" at the end of company related emails

by Anonymousreply 3January 5, 2018 4:03 PM

What's forever and a day from? :D

by Anonymousreply 4January 5, 2018 4:03 PM

r3 who was the culprit of that? Was it a Christian organization?

by Anonymousreply 5January 5, 2018 4:04 PM

I've always been partial to "cordially" for work related or professional correspondence.

by Anonymousreply 6January 5, 2018 4:07 PM

R5 I think we were starting to get infiltrated with more young recruits who identify as "Christians" and feeling more emboldened.

by Anonymousreply 7January 5, 2018 4:07 PM

^^^it was just an engineering firm which tends secular

by Anonymousreply 8January 5, 2018 4:08 PM

Up yours!

by Anonymousreply 9January 5, 2018 4:11 PM

"Tight Bindings and Feather Ticklers"

by Anonymousreply 10January 5, 2018 4:12 PM

"Lesbionically Yours,"

by Anonymousreply 11January 5, 2018 4:14 PM

"I think "Thanks" seems passive-aggressive, ESPECIALLY if it has a period afterwards."

How is the use of thanks as a sign off passive-aggressive? What anger is being passive aggressively expressed?

by Anonymousreply 12January 5, 2018 4:17 PM

To anyone I’d have a friendly drink with, I sign off with “Cheers”

And for everyone else, it’s “Best”.

by Anonymousreply 13January 5, 2018 4:19 PM

How old are you OP?

Would you also like us to compose the letter or email for you?

Whenever you ask your fellow DLers for advice, you are entering the danger zone.

by Anonymousreply 14January 5, 2018 4:21 PM

✌ PEACE OUT !

by Anonymousreply 15January 5, 2018 4:22 PM

I use thanks with colleagues I am familiar with, otherwise I use Best. I don't really like it, but I can't find something else I like better.

by Anonymousreply 16January 5, 2018 4:39 PM

"Thanks in advance" shows them how much you care and value them as a human being (with oh-so-delicate thoughts and feelings.)

And subtly let's them know that you expect their full swift cooperation regarding this matter.

by Anonymousreply 17January 5, 2018 4:46 PM

George Kingfish Stevens used "Hoping you are the same," as a complimentary close.

by Anonymousreply 18January 5, 2018 4:49 PM

Please do the needful

by Anonymousreply 19January 5, 2018 4:51 PM

r3 when people received the message, did think Blessed was bles-sed or blest?

by Anonymousreply 20January 5, 2018 4:53 PM

R20 I assumed Bles-sed , but can't speak for others.

by Anonymousreply 21January 5, 2018 4:56 PM

"Cordially"

by Anonymousreply 22January 5, 2018 4:59 PM

My moronic coworkers whose use that odious term pronounce it as "blest".

by Anonymousreply 23January 5, 2018 5:00 PM

Best/Cheers/Regards are all pretty standard.

Best is a little more current, Cheers a little more 00s

Thanks is for when you're asking for something fairly simple but a favor nonetheless from someone you know pretty well, e.g., "I can't find John's email address. Do you have it? Thanks!"

"Warmly" is shorthand for "I am a pretentious fuck who takes myself way too seriously"

by Anonymousreply 24January 5, 2018 5:01 PM

I absolutely detest seeing or hearing "Having a Blessed Day" - it truly reeks of righteousness and low-breeding.

by Anonymousreply 25January 5, 2018 5:02 PM

"Hurry up, Jew."

What? It tells him to get on the ball!

by Anonymousreply 26January 5, 2018 5:03 PM

[quote] and low-breeding.

Well smell you, Princess Margaret!

by Anonymousreply 27January 5, 2018 5:04 PM

"Best" what, though? Is it really that exhausting to type "wishes" (or "Mayonnaise") after it?

by Anonymousreply 28January 5, 2018 5:06 PM

I've always found "Don't forget, I know where you live," to be the most effective.

by Anonymousreply 29January 5, 2018 5:06 PM

I don't end with anything. Jeez, my e-mail address is on there, they know it's from me

by Anonymousreply 30January 5, 2018 5:26 PM

When I was recruited by "Feed The Children" I was told to look very sad for my photo op, and to sign my plea for donations with [italic] "Ravenously Yours"

by Anonymousreply 31January 5, 2018 11:57 PM

I never close a letter or email with “Best”. What the hell does it mean? “Best” what? Does it really mean “Best Wishes?” It just dangles there. I prefer “Sincerely”.

by Anonymousreply 32January 6, 2018 12:35 AM

[italic] " SIMPLY THE BEST"

by Anonymousreply 33January 6, 2018 12:45 AM

I like the way the British often do it: "Kind regards"

by Anonymousreply 34January 6, 2018 12:52 AM

Yes, R34, I like the closing “Kind regards”.

by Anonymousreply 35January 6, 2018 12:58 AM

Guess Who ?

by Anonymousreply 36January 6, 2018 12:58 AM

Ta-Ta's for now,

by Anonymousreply 37January 6, 2018 3:00 AM

Yours in eternal clutching,

by Anonymousreply 38January 6, 2018 3:03 AM

Our thoughts and prayers are with the dozens of victims,

by Anonymousreply 39January 6, 2018 3:05 AM

My cunty message will self destruct in 10 seconds,

by Anonymousreply 40January 6, 2018 3:09 AM

There is no need to include any closing in an email. Maybe a dash followed by your name at most. Add the signature block with your contact info if you must, but leave out the cutesy quotes. No one cares.

One girl where I work changes the quote in her signature every day. Today was something from Helen Steiner Rice. Bitch is getting fired in a couple of weeks, though she’ll be the last to know. I might feel sorry for her if she wasn’t so useless. She’s dumb as a box of hair, and this signature shit is a clear example of her priorities.

by Anonymousreply 41January 6, 2018 3:47 AM

I think best, cheers, regards, warmly are all horrible. Who talks like this? Just write your name at the bottom. Or write a closing sentence with a comma and then your name underneath.

The first three are always used by assholes at work who think they’re all that.

by Anonymousreply 42January 6, 2018 3:49 AM

Same assholes who goodbye you “take care” ^

by Anonymousreply 43January 6, 2018 3:52 AM

"Yikes. 'Best' is the worst." - Carrie Bradshaw, discussing this years ago

by Anonymousreply 44January 6, 2018 3:54 AM

“Yours In Christ” or just “In Christ”

by Anonymousreply 45January 6, 2018 3:57 AM

If you have an automatic email signature do you also type your name after you type your closing?

Regards, Butch

Butch Jones CEO

by Anonymousreply 46January 6, 2018 4:00 AM

If I hate the recipient, it’s “Best!” or “Cheers!”

For those I respect, no signature line, just a message followed by a dash and my name.

by Anonymousreply 47January 6, 2018 4:03 AM

“Fuck off, cunt” is my typical closing to emails.

by Anonymousreply 48January 6, 2018 4:08 AM

It would help if there were some context as to what kind of emails these are? Usually, just using your name is fine.

by Anonymousreply 49January 6, 2018 4:08 AM

I hate "Best, " too. I always think less of the people who use it.

I never use it , except a couple of times to idiots who used it

by Anonymousreply 50January 6, 2018 4:17 AM

If I'm writing hate mail, then I prefer:

"Die in a grease fire,"

by Anonymousreply 51January 6, 2018 5:13 AM

Captain Caftan wuvs woo!

by Anonymousreply 52January 6, 2018 5:18 AM

For work Emails, I typically sign off with, "Thanks". With my friends, I don't bother to even add a closing. If I'm asking someone to do something for me, it's 'Thanks in advance."

For written correspondence, it's usually "regards" or "sincerely".

I love the way our offshore staff usually begin their messages with "Good Day!": I picture some cute pinoy guy channeling some Monty Python twit.

R49, The Emails I typically receive are typically requests for my input: tracing checks, pulling EOBs, explaining how to bypass an error message on a claim, how to interpret a specific medical benefit, how to price a claim at the correct Medicare allowance. The ones where I'm asking for help are when I need to request that a business analyst investigate a system error, or ask someone in product development how they intended for a particular benefit to be interpreted.

by Anonymousreply 53January 6, 2018 5:32 AM

Why is there air?

by Anonymousreply 54January 6, 2018 12:19 PM

I have a coworker who closes everything on one line with “Thanks, Pat.” Drives me crazy! Stop thanking Pat, Pat!

by Anonymousreply 55January 6, 2018 4:34 PM

r53 do your outsourced Philippines guys also tell you they've completed a task by saying "I already finished that"? I hated that when I was managing them. It sounds in the same vein as "As I said before, I xxx" or "As I already mentioned, yyy", where it's a gentle (and passive-aggressive) reprimand.

by Anonymousreply 56January 6, 2018 11:32 PM

Are the people writing “Cheers”, above, from the UK? Is anyone writing such from the elsewhere?

I’m from the US and I can’t imagine writing “Cheers” to another American. Is it what the young people are writing now, if they can write?

Cheers!

by Anonymousreply 57January 6, 2018 11:43 PM

To family and close friends, I write: “Best wishes and Love”. The former is not intimate enough, and the latter is too brief by itself.

I tried “Sincerely” for a while, but it was too businesslike even for business. I also tried “Yours truly” but it oddly seems insincere.

by Anonymousreply 58January 6, 2018 11:50 PM

Champagne wishes and caviar dreams

by Anonymousreply 59January 8, 2018 12:37 AM

Presenting hole to you & your loved ones,

by Anonymousreply 60January 8, 2018 12:42 AM

For now, my sphincter ramblings must come to an end.

by Anonymousreply 61January 8, 2018 12:45 AM

Hi Mr. B

"Cheers" was big in the US about 10 years ago, probably because it did sound sort of British.

But all the people who used to end emails with "Cheers" now use "Best"

After seeing this thread, I looked through my work emails and at least 3/4 of them are signed "Best" regardless of age or gender of the sender

And the current rule of thumb is that you don't need to sign follow-up emails and/or you can just put your initials if you feel compelled to use some sort of signature.

So

[quote] Thanks Bob. 10:45 is perfect. Talk to you then.

[quote] --MB

by Anonymousreply 62January 8, 2018 12:46 AM

Very truly yours,

Keep Calm and Carry On,

Waitin’ and B8in’

by Anonymousreply 63January 8, 2018 12:50 AM

Smell ya later,

by Anonymousreply 64January 8, 2018 12:51 AM

99% of my emails are work emails. I'm either asking someone to supply information or do something for me, or providing information in response or indicating that I've done something requested. I sign them all "Thanks" for the first two and add nothing to the last. I then add my name and title (which is automatically generated. If somwone sends me an email with information I've requested or informs me of anything I always send a quick "Thanks" back.

by Anonymousreply 65January 8, 2018 12:57 AM

[quote] I'm either asking someone to supply information or do something for me

OK then “W8n & B8n”

by Anonymousreply 66January 8, 2018 12:59 AM

My boss use to sign off with “blessings to you all” but he stopped that thank god. Now it is “kind regards”

I usually use “cheers” or “with thanks”

by Anonymousreply 67January 8, 2018 1:01 AM

A lot of people at my work sign off with "Later".

by Anonymousreply 68January 8, 2018 2:12 AM

bis später!

by Anonymousreply 69January 8, 2018 2:14 AM

Obviously, I'd never use this in a professional message, but sometimes I sign e-mails to very close friends, mostly female, with 'xo, Chris' Is this way too feminine?

by Anonymousreply 70January 8, 2018 3:08 AM

Deez nutz

by Anonymousreply 71January 8, 2018 2:13 PM

xo, Chris is cute.

by Anonymousreply 72January 8, 2018 2:23 PM

You're a Seinfeldian "email responder" R65

It's what one of my friends calls people who reply to requests for information with "thanks" -- I had never thought of it before he brought it up, but the world does seem split 50/50 into people who do or don't

by Anonymousreply 73January 8, 2018 2:24 PM

I abhor thanks when it has a period after it. My ex boss used to toss it in after EVERY sentence and request, and it was so disingenuous. Then it was annoying when the millennials in the office started copying him. They're so impressionable.

by Anonymousreply 74January 8, 2018 2:28 PM
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