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Bird lovers of DL, I need some advice.

For years I have put out bird feeders with a variety of seeds and nuts. My yard is usually full of all kinds of birds; from sparrows to chickadees and nuthatches in colder months, woodpeckers, blue-jays, and grosbreaks. I enjoy feeding them and look forward to having my coffee every morning while watching them gather around the feeders.

In the last few days I noticed that there were less birds at the feeders but didn't think much of it until today when I noticed that they're all congregated at my neighbour's yard, chirping happily away.

What can I do to get them back? I already put out a wide variety of food for them so I'm at a loss as to why they've suddenly began to favour my neighbour's feeders over mine.

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by Anonymousreply 50December 19, 2019 8:45 PM

[quote] ... I noticed that there were less birds at the feeders ....

Maybe they're grammar nazi birds and are shunning you because you said "less" instead of "fewer".

by Anonymousreply 1December 15, 2019 8:31 PM

Hey, fellow bird nut! Sneak into the neighbor's yard and find out what is there.

Our parrots talk to the locals all the time...except the hawks.

by Anonymousreply 2December 15, 2019 8:41 PM

Try using mostly or all black oiler sunflower seeds. They are high in oil content and are best for cold weather. The birds seem to prefer them where I live.

by Anonymousreply 3December 16, 2019 1:00 AM

Maybe seeing you makes them uncomfortable?

by Anonymousreply 4December 16, 2019 1:02 AM

Get a birdbath with a water heater. They love the water even more than food during the winter.

by Anonymousreply 5December 16, 2019 1:08 AM

Put peanuts out for the blue jays. It seems like I get birds that don’t even like my food. They just come to hang out with the other birds.

by Anonymousreply 6December 16, 2019 1:55 AM

I do put out peanuts for the blue jays, R6. I also put out shelled peanuts for the chickadees and nuthatchs as well as lots of black oil sunflower seed, R3.

by Anonymousreply 7December 16, 2019 3:54 AM

Birds want three things in the winter.

1) Fresh food-get your food from a reputable dealer who sells a lot of bird food.

2) Water - A heated water feature is a big attraction as water can be scarce in the wnteri

3) shelter - The birds need to feel safe and bushes or trees where they can hide is a plus.

by Anonymousreply 8December 16, 2019 5:35 AM

They are just no longer that into you.

by Anonymousreply 9December 16, 2019 6:10 AM

Tomorrow night - after midnight - go tear down your neighbor’s bird feeder - pin the job on the neighborhood raccoons

by Anonymousreply 10December 16, 2019 6:16 AM

Have you tried suet feeders?

by Anonymousreply 11December 16, 2019 6:39 AM

Last year I had some suet they didn't like. Maybe you got a bad batch of seed.

by Anonymousreply 12December 16, 2019 6:56 AM

Your neighbor has better porn.

by Anonymousreply 13December 16, 2019 7:01 AM

Is there, perhaps, a stray cat hanging around your yard or something? Would probably also be in the neighbor's yard, too, but maybe they have more protection or something over there?

by Anonymousreply 14December 16, 2019 7:22 AM

Girl, it’s that huge feather boa you parade around in. The birds are afraid they’ll be snatched to keep it full.

by Anonymousreply 15December 16, 2019 8:15 AM

OP, show them pictures of your neighbor eating chicken. That should make the birds prefer you over your neighbor.

by Anonymousreply 16December 16, 2019 9:05 AM

R14 may be on your something. We don’t have feeders, but we do have lots of trees with food. We had blue jays living in our yard. My husband also used to feed a family of crows, on demand (they would call him and he’d chop up steak leftovers and put it out on the patio table). Then one year, they all disappeared. We couldn’t figure out why, until through the kitchen window, we saw a falcon perched on the water hose faucet. She was majestic. She’d also nested in our next door neighbour’s spruce tree. That was why the birds disappeared.

The falcon nested next door for two years. Then the neighbour started keeping bees, and that activity meant the falcon moved. Our birds, save for the crows, are back.

by Anonymousreply 17December 16, 2019 9:32 AM

^on to something. Sorry for that stupid autocorrect.

by Anonymousreply 18December 16, 2019 9:34 AM

The neighbor offers them free Wi-Fi.

by Anonymousreply 19December 16, 2019 9:43 AM

R19 Actually, it’s the free HBO that the neighbors have that attract them, counter with Netflix and Disney+ might just work and perhaps a gaming platform that has Angry Birds.

by Anonymousreply 20December 16, 2019 10:15 AM

Wasn’t this in a John Waters’ film? Where everybody dies at the end? OP, you know what you’re in!

Here’s my friend, Jay.

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by Anonymousreply 21December 16, 2019 4:20 PM

Your pussy stinks, Cheryl.

by Anonymousreply 22December 16, 2019 5:44 PM

For you, OP. If you like data.

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by Anonymousreply 23December 16, 2019 5:57 PM

I get lots of birds and squirrels. Black oil sunflower seeds, suet and unsalted peanuts in the shell attracts them. I use squirrel proof bird feeders but put some seeds and peanuts on the ground.

by Anonymousreply 24December 16, 2019 6:06 PM

I don’t feed birds. I am convinced that squirrels and chipmunks would eat it all.

I have a birdbath and it seems as if every bird in a 1/4 mile knows this. I will fill it up and look out and they are waiting their turn (or the bullies are running others off) and within an hour or 2 it will be EMPTY. I make sure it is filled during the summer and during droughts at all times - I can’t stand the thought that they can’t find water. I don’t begrudge the squirrels and occasional stray cat that I see drinking, mainly because the birds aren’t scared enough to quit using it.

I love seeing all the birds bathe and enjoying themselves. I always notice when the seasonal flocks come back my way - even though I live in the south and most birds stay all year long.

by Anonymousreply 25December 16, 2019 10:13 PM

Thistle seed and sunflower seeds

by Anonymousreply 26December 16, 2019 10:19 PM

Chickadee!!!

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by Anonymousreply 27December 16, 2019 10:21 PM

Did you try fat or maybe some oranges?

by Anonymousreply 28December 16, 2019 10:22 PM

One cannot go wrong upping one's feeding game.

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by Anonymousreply 29December 16, 2019 11:02 PM

I have a birdcam and found that the bird feeder I built is completely coincidentally squirrel proof. It’s just a sawed-off flag staff at a 45° angle, but the squirrels haven’t mastered it yet. It’s slippery, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 30December 17, 2019 1:17 AM

OP back to report that as of this morning the birds are back!

by Anonymousreply 31December 17, 2019 2:40 PM

Fickle bitches!

by Anonymousreply 32December 17, 2019 3:03 PM

But, OP, what did you do? Nothing?

by Anonymousreply 33December 17, 2019 3:39 PM

Some years my birds will disappear for weeks at a time in the fall when the cones and berries ripen in the woods around here, but then they always return to the feeders by December.

by Anonymousreply 34December 17, 2019 3:53 PM

Correct, R33. I didn't change their food since I already offer a variety of good quality seed and nuts for them. They just suddenly reappeared this morning!

by Anonymousreply 35December 17, 2019 3:56 PM

I put seed out on my balcony and these tiny little porker birds spend all day eating. They’re so roly poly and cute. Stellar jays and woodpeckers visit too and if I put peanuts out crows come. They scare all the other birds away though.

by Anonymousreply 36December 17, 2019 6:07 PM

This is a starling, right? Sorry the picture is bad, it’s the best I could get.

It’s my first starling so, despite their commonness, I’m excited to have got his photo. I’ve probably captured 10 or 12 varieties over about 3 years, including a banded parakeet.

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by Anonymousreply 37December 18, 2019 5:42 PM

Squirrels and chipmunks like nuts and blue jays tend to crowd out other species, so I'd skip the peanuts.

by Anonymousreply 38December 18, 2019 7:42 PM

Put sunflower seeds in your kids hair.

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by Anonymousreply 39December 18, 2019 8:00 PM

Sure looks like a starling to me, R37.

Do you have other photos you could post here?

by Anonymousreply 40December 18, 2019 8:38 PM

Blue Jays are gorgeous but insanely ratchet. Not a fan.

Ditto for mockingbirds, plus during nesting season they divebomb all cats in their vicinity, especially the timid, non-predatory cats. Hell, they divebombed ME one spring when I was delivering my sister's dissertation to her committee. And I didn't have a phone booth to take refuge in. Which is why I don't fuss at my young cat who loves taking out mockingbirds (and ONLY mockingbirds).

But grackles are THE worst, bar none. We had to take down our bird bath when they invaded one year, and they are unbelievably gross and problematic at cat T/N/R feeding stations, because they nasty up any water they have access to. I mean raccoon-level nasty, with the added bonus of crackle shit in the water bowls. PLUS they're relentlessly aggressive and loud.

But aside from those three, watching birds feed and dip their wings toward you in greeting/gratitude, is an unbounded delight. I especially love the cardinals who seem very family oriented. They're so gorgeous and just make me feel happy and content. In my experience they're also the very first birds (followed by the sweet, gentle mourning-doves) to emerge after a hurricane has blown through -- how life-affirming!

So glad your friends are back, OP, seriously.

by Anonymousreply 41December 18, 2019 9:15 PM

No R40, he was camera shy. (I’m not OP, if it matters)

by Anonymousreply 42December 18, 2019 9:16 PM

I know, R42, I'm the OP. Any pics of other birds you'd care to share here?

by Anonymousreply 43December 18, 2019 9:23 PM

Of course, OP. Here is Jay. All my birds are common birds, but I like them.

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by Anonymousreply 44December 19, 2019 5:03 AM

Here’s a grackle. They come in a group. Mean.

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by Anonymousreply 45December 19, 2019 5:06 AM

Here’s a pretty bird. I don’t get cardinals much.

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by Anonymousreply 46December 19, 2019 5:08 AM

This is my favorite. Give it one second. This is Chauncey. He’s such a spaz.

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by Anonymousreply 47December 19, 2019 5:10 AM

Just take all the money you spend on bird food and buy a camera and put it in your neighbor's yard.

Then you can watch the birds all you like and let him worry about the mess

by Anonymousreply 48December 19, 2019 6:01 AM

I have a feeder on my fire escape in Manhattan, and I put peanuts on the ledge for the blue jays, who are drawn to them instantly, like they have radar.

I get all kinds — it's fun to watch the jays rule the roost for a few minutes (they'll scare the other birds away and sit there cracking open the peanuts and wiping their beaks) but then vanish and let other birds take over.

I had a male and female pair of mourning doves coming around daily for a while. He was totally whipped and would feed her while she sat back, waiting. The house finches are pretty. I've never seen a cardinal in NYC and wonder why.

by Anonymousreply 49December 19, 2019 6:15 AM

My blue jays have me trained. When there’s no food, they call for me, and I put peanuts out to shut them up.

I had a feeder on my fire escape, too, and my mean neighbor below demanded I take it down. I don’t blame him. He used to have a bush underneath, so the mess, below, was hidden. After he removed the bush, the mess was visible, so, ok, I just removed my feeder.

When I removed the feeder, I had a blue jay that came to the window and kept tapping on it! I moved the feeder and I have another complaining neighbor, but not to my face. He just gossips about me. Criminy!

by Anonymousreply 50December 19, 2019 8:45 PM
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